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By *anger mouse and Emma OP   Couple
over a year ago

Honiton

Why do people get so upset when they receive a friends request out of the blue, if its to do with pics just don't send them!

Just to say I haven't done it, but just want to know why people just get so annoyed?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I don't get upset, I just bulk delete at the same time I do my winks.

I get upset at very little that happens on this site.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Think about what motivates people to send out friend requests to people they have had no contact with.

Though personally I wouldn't get upset by it. I just ignore all of them and delete the list from time to time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always seem to get them off peeps with no pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it is very rude. We only accept friend requests from people who we are talking to so always delete and ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for us its cos we state on our profile that we don't want them! until we have messaged to ensure that everyone is happy with each others boundaries or if we have previously spoken at a club etc

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

I find it rude......would you randomly drop around to someone's house and look through all their private photo albums? I see my profile and private pics in the same manner.

If you want to add me as a friend then talk to me first and actually become a friend

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Think about what motivates people to send out friend requests to people they have had no contact with.

Though personally I wouldn't get upset by it. I just ignore all of them and delete the list from time to time."

This.

Except we don't delete as they can then resend.

We just leave them to go mouldy.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get upset about it, I leave them there for 30days unexcepted its not a problem, anybody asks in a message I politely say I dont except till met.its not worth getting upset about nobody is special everybody gets random requests here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It bothers me not a jot. I just simply ignore them.

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

We're livid........ Oh no...my mistake....we don't give a carrot....

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Think about what motivates people to send out friend requests to people they have had no contact with.

Though personally I wouldn't get upset by it. I just ignore all of them and delete the list from time to time.

This.

Except we don't delete as they can then resend.

We just leave them to go mouldy.

A"

I had one random friend request before, no contact of any other kind, deleted it, and then they re sent another one a few days later. Like you i just leave them there pending now to avoid them re-sending.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really that bothered about random friend requests they just sit in the friend request section of our profile rotting away, who knows come spring time I may be able to use it to mulch the garden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont get upset, just think its rude, most of the time its so they can see friend only pics and never send a message after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I wait till they're offline and accept the request. Then I'll fab all their private pics then unfriend them.

I don't know why but it amuses me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people genuinely think it means it's a 'request to be friends'. Though why they can't send a mail I don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I wait till they're offline and accept the request. Then I'll fab all their private pics then unfriend them.

I don't know why but it amuses me. "

I do that sometimes too.

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By *anger mouse and Emma OP   Couple
over a year ago

Honiton

Thanks everyone for your views.

So basically they are just trying to reach your private pics and if you didn't have private pics they wouldn't want to be friends! Ok thankyou

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

What's a friend request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I wait till they're offline and accept the request. Then I'll fab all their private pics then unfriend them.

I don't know why but it amuses me. "

i do it all the time hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really that bothered about random friend requests they just sit in the friend request section of our profile rotting away, who knows come spring time I may be able to use it to mulch the garden "
save a Fortune in compost bills...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like it when you stumble across a guys profile who has a couple of nice public pictures but lots more private, I click send friend request and I'm instantly friends cos they've already sent me one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just means I hit the block button. They are only pic collectors.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Think about what motivates people to send out friend requests to people they have had no contact with.

Though personally I wouldn't get upset by it. I just ignore all of them and delete the list from time to time.

This.

Except we don't delete as they can then resend.

We just leave them to go mouldy.

A"

Same here. If I want to friend someone on here I will send the request. Doesn't bother me them just sitting there.

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