FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked??

By *ipster8 OP Man
over a year ago

South Lincs

Been speaking to a lady on and off for a few weeks. Today looked and she has blocked me??

Could understand it if I was pestering her for sexual acts or annoying her with endless messages but I hadn't.

Would have been happier if she just messaged me and said sorry but no thanks please lets not talk anymore. Or I'm not interested. Blocking just seems bad manners. Do people agree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just put the kettle on and find another pretty lady to talk too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time on here mate. Chatting then ignore ya. Guess they got a better offer. Still plenty more fish in the sea

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By *CoastFunMan
over a year ago

Southampron

It's her choice. Maybe she has had bad messages after trying the polite method before? who knows.

I'm sure you won't lose any sleep over it though, plenty of more fish in the see and all that. No point letting it get to you to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been speaking to a lady on and off for a few weeks. Today looked and she has blocked me??

Could understand it if I was pestering her for sexual acts or annoying her with endless messages but I hadn't.

Would have been happier if she just messaged me and said sorry but no thanks please lets not talk anymore. Or I'm not interested. Blocking just seems bad manners. Do people agree?"

No. It's just another type of filter.

Just move on and don't let it bother you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its an easy way out of having to explain why they want no more contact,its not very mature but thats cyber world for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been speaking to a lady on and off for a few weeks. Today looked and she has blocked me??

Could understand it if I was pestering her for sexual acts or annoying her with endless messages but I hadn't.

Would have been happier if she just messaged me and said sorry but no thanks please lets not talk anymore. Or I'm not interested. Blocking just seems bad manners. Do people agree?"

No. I cannot understand why blocking is seen as rude. It is a tool. It means that they want no more contact with you. Why consider it rude? Are you hurt by rejection? Grow up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at least she/he hasn't strung you along any longer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps her old man didn't like the look of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been speaking to a lady on and off for a few weeks. Today looked and she has blocked me??

Could understand it if I was pestering her for sexual acts or annoying her with endless messages but I hadn't.

Would have been happier if she just messaged me and said sorry but no thanks please lets not talk anymore. Or I'm not interested. Blocking just seems bad manners. Do people agree?

No. I cannot understand why blocking is seen as rude. It is a tool. It means that they want no more contact with you. Why consider it rude? Are you hurt by rejection? Grow up."

That's pretty harsh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been speaking to a lady on and off for a few weeks. Today looked and she has blocked me??

Could understand it if I was pestering her for sexual acts or annoying her with endless messages but I hadn't.

Would have been happier if she just messaged me and said sorry but no thanks please lets not talk anymore. Or I'm not interested. Blocking just seems bad manners. Do people agree?"

Sorry to hear that OP, it happens and it's all a bit perplexing if you think you've been getting on well. But it's a quirk of this site I think, things can change in an instant.

As others had said, move on. Plenty more people to talk to

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Usually people understand that relationships on sites such as this are not conventional ..........move on and don't give it a moments thought.

Incidentally ......if you've been messaging someone on n off for a few weeks and you are miffed that she doesn't want you to .......maybe you are looking for something with a few more strings than none......

You've never even met the woman ..... just move on.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the day that I start to worry about the people I block or who block me, I will press delete....

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

No, I don't agree.

Some seem to _iew blocking as some sort of weapon and being blocked as some kind of insult.

They didn't want to talk any more, (or they blocked by accident). You can't do anything about it. Move on.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Been speaking to a lady on and off for a few weeks. Today looked and she has blocked me??

Could understand it if I was pestering her for sexual acts or annoying her with endless messages but I hadn't.

Would have been happier if she just messaged me and said sorry but no thanks please lets not talk anymore. Or I'm not interested. Blocking just seems bad manners. Do people agree?

No. I cannot understand why blocking is seen as rude. It is a tool. It means that they want no more contact with you. Why consider it rude? Are you hurt by rejection? Grow up.

That's pretty harsh!"

Nope ...tisn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been speaking to a lady on and off for a few weeks. Today looked and she has blocked me??

Could understand it if I was pestering her for sexual acts or annoying her with endless messages but I hadn't.

Would have been happier if she just messaged me and said sorry but no thanks please lets not talk anymore. Or I'm not interested. Blocking just seems bad manners. Do people agree?"
We constantly block people that visit our profile time after time and say nothing

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

She could have blocked you for anything, really:

too many messages, so not going anywhere.

met someone else.

had a panic attack.

his wife found the account.

realised you were her son and went off to do impressions of Luke and Darth on Cloud City.

I shouldn't worry about it.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Perhaps 'She' did it by mistake? When she see's this thread though she might not rectify that.

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By *ipster8 OP Man
over a year ago

South Lincs

Not hurt by rejection?? Just blocking felt I'd done something wrong.

Like I said if I felt I'd done something wrong and deserved it I could understand. That was all.

And like people have said there are still plenty of other good people on here to talk too.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Not hurt by rejection?? Just blocking felt I'd done something wrong.

Like I said if I felt I'd done something wrong and deserved it I could understand. That was all.

And like people have said there are still plenty of other good people on here to talk too. "

If it cheers you up I like the flashy pink waist band on your skiddies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps 'she' was a 'he' who didn't want to fess up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not hurt by rejection?? Just blocking felt I'd done something wrong.

Like I said if I felt I'd done something wrong and deserved it I could understand. That was all.

And like people have said there are still plenty of other good people on here to talk too. "
At least she blocked you. Its worse when they stop talking and dont block you.

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By *ipster8 OP Man
over a year ago

South Lincs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's rude. Yes it's childish. *shrug*

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By *ipster8 OP Man
over a year ago

South Lincs

"Not hurt by rejection?? Just blocking felt I'd done something wrong.

Like I said if I felt I'd done something wrong and deserved it I could understand. That was all.

And like people have said there are still plenty of other good people on here to talk too.

If it cheers you up I like the flashy pink waist band on your skiddies."

Thanks. Lol !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have just blocked someone as we asked for a pic of the husband and she said would a cock pic do ?

Oh yes please ....not ....BLOCKKKKKKKK

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Not hurt by rejection?? Just blocking felt I'd done something wrong.

Like I said if I felt I'd done something wrong and deserved it I could understand. That was all.

And like people have said there are still plenty of other good people on here to talk too. "

Perhaps you did do something wrong in her eyes. We're only getting one side of the story.

Unless she blocked by accident, she probably had a reason.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"We have just blocked someone as we asked for a pic of the husband and she said would a cock pic do ?

Oh yes please ....not ....BLOCKKKKKKKK

Maybe he had swollen eyes and a nose like an elephant.

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By *CoastFunMan
over a year ago

Southampron

"?We constantly block people that visit our profile time after time and say nothing"

Genuinely interested in why you choose to do this? I appreciate it is your choice but curious why, for no real reason. I do tend to find I end up looking at some of the same profiles a few times. I'll randomly click on people in the chatrooms or in here and I can never remember who I've clicked on until I see the pics. I guess there are those on here that are almost stalker-ish however? Can't say I get the problem with myself

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Sometimes when something isn't going anywhere and you message the other person to say as much and draw a line under it... they just don't fucking give up.

The sort that just don't give up tend to be the ones who also just don't accept being blocked and start a thread about it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We'll never know why others stop their interest and block. It doesn't matter if we don't count our chickens before they've hatched.

They have miriad of options and demands in their lives, new meet partners are a tiny fragment.

Have tenacity and spread your net wider. Keep your self belief high and overcome the hurdles that you will almost certainly find here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just put the kettle on and find another pretty lady to talk too."
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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"?We constantly block people that visit our profile time after time and say nothing

We've blocked people before after seeing them on our 'who's looked at me' list. It's not something we look at regularly - but if they're not what we'll ever be looking for, they've been on site over a year with a virtually blank profile, no pics (or the sort that make us go

rather than

) and no verifications - why not?

It frees up their time to go and _iew someone else who may be interested in them.

It's kind of a public service really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes 'chatting for weeks' means having a message appear every single time you log on, instantly.... It gets quite tedious...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes 'chatting for weeks' means having a message appear every single time you log on, instantly.... It gets quite tedious..."

Just dont open it

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

No, its not rude..

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

It doesn't happen often, but I have occasionally blocked someone I've been talking to without saying why if something in a message seemed a bit hinky to me...granted, "hinky" is pretty undefinable but I'd say, it's just one of those things and I'd recommend moving on as no-one can ever discern exactly what a person on t'interweb might take as "odd"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been speaking to a lady on and off for a few weeks. Today looked and she has blocked me??

Could understand it if I was pestering her for sexual acts or annoying her with endless messages but I hadn't.

Would have been happier if she just messaged me and said sorry but no thanks please lets not talk anymore. Or I'm not interested. Blocking just seems bad manners. Do people agree?

No. I cannot understand why blocking is seen as rude. It is a tool. It means that they want no more contact with you. Why consider it rude? Are you hurt by rejection? Grow up.

That's pretty harsh!"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget her op and move on to the net profile, you always get them that blocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been speaking to a lady on and off for a few weeks. Today looked and she has blocked me??

Could understand it if I was pestering her for sexual acts or annoying her with endless messages but I hadn't.

Would have been happier if she just messaged me and said sorry but no thanks please lets not talk anymore. Or I'm not interested. Blocking just seems bad manners. Do people agree?

No. I cannot understand why blocking is seen as rude. It is a tool. It means that they want no more contact with you. Why consider it rude? Are you hurt by rejection? Grow up.

That's pretty harsh!

Agreed"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i block people after speaking to um if they piss me off. Can just be me being moody, something they say etc

almost seems like ur looking for someone to tell u its alright in replacement pmsl.... as said move on... plenty more fanny in the sea lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes 'chatting for weeks' means having a message appear every single time you log on, instantly.... It gets quite tedious..."

I get this quite often from a few guys. Or if you dont reply back to a message straight away they send another one then another. I tell them politely i answer my messages when i have time. If they dont accept thst then i block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been speaking to a lady on and off for a few weeks. Today looked and she has blocked me??

Could understand it if I was pestering her for sexual acts or annoying her with endless messages but I hadn't.

Would have been happier if she just messaged me and said sorry but no thanks please lets not talk anymore. Or I'm not interested. Blocking just seems bad manners. Do people agree?

No. I cannot understand why blocking is seen as rude. It is a tool. It means that they want no more contact with you. Why consider it rude? Are you hurt by rejection? Grow up."

Thats a bit mean. The op was mearly asking a question. There was no need for that response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been speaking to a lady on and off for a few weeks. Today looked and she has blocked me??

Could understand it if I was pestering her for sexual acts or annoying her with endless messages but I hadn't.

Would have been happier if she just messaged me and said sorry but no thanks please lets not talk anymore. Or I'm not interested. Blocking just seems bad manners. Do people agree?"

I block people if they aren't my type. saves hassle with messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's her choice. Maybe she has had bad messages after trying the polite method before? who knows.

I'm sure you won't lose any sleep over it though, plenty of more fish in the see and all that. No point letting it get to you to be honest."

Nice pictures

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

No blocking works for me well. It's decisive and saves all the awww don't be like that and why don't you want to keep talking to me...

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