FabSwingers.com forum: Really pee off

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well guess been said once if not a thousand times on here.

Rudeness were is people's Manners.

You right a email to a lady or couple.

You do everything right and you don't get a thank you or nothing.

People are you like that in real life.

If you saw some one or some one gave you something.

You would say thanks cheers etc.

The people who run this site really need to get there finger out and make the Rudeness on here a thing of the past.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

You reply to all the junk mail you get through your letterbox then I take it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear........

Read the FAQ's where it does say that to not have a reply is not rude.

Just take it as a 'I or we're not interested'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Quote] The people who run this site really need to get there finger out and make the Rudeness on here a thing of the past. [Unquote]

WTF ?? You serious man ? It's a free world in which nobody has any obligation to give you, me or anyone else any acknowledgment of a message sent via the site.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Am I reading this right?

The OP sent a couple a message.

They didn't reply.

It's the site/admins fault.

Wtf?????

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

Couples and women get hundreds, if not thousands of messages per day. They can't reply to everyone.

I see that this site attracts a lot of lonely people (or people just desperate for a shag?) but lashing out won't make things better...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples and women get hundreds, if not thousands of messages per day. They can't reply to everyone.

I see that this site attracts a lot of lonely people (or people just desperate for a shag?) but lashing out won't make things better..."

It will make things better you know .... it takes him out of the equation so far as getting a meet is concerned, so it's one less competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think many consider their inbox messages gifts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im very rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear oh dear.

OP I suggest you read the FAQs.

As someone else has said, do you reply to all the messages in your spam or junk folder?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BAZINGA to that OP

How do you suppose the admins will get their finger out to solve this? Should everyone who doesn't reply get kicked off the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here you go

This had been taken from the FAQs

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

The majority of messages I receive are from people who have evidently not read any single part of my profile. Since they do not have the manners to read what took me time and quite some consideration to craft, I feel no obligation to say 'no thanks'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to reply with a polite thanks but no thsnks to all messages, but some replies are really rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've written on my profile - if I don't reply it's not out of rudeness. I will often write a response if I'd had a message and I don't think that person is someone I'd get on with. However , by doing that , I have had a rude response back then on occasion. So I do delete without replying sometimes too. Don't take it personally if you don't get a reply. There are many more single guys on here than single females and couples.

Maybe go to some socials as a way of meeting people as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BAZINGA to that OP

How do you suppose the admins will get their finger out to solve this? Should everyone who doesn't reply get kicked off the site? "

They could go round to the peoples houses and beat them up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" If you saw some one or some one gave you something.

You would say thanks cheers etc.

The people who run this site really need to get there finger out and make the Rudeness on here a thing of the past."

Actually OP if a random came up to me in the street and give me something I'd probably slap his face

But maybe you could make a suggestion as to how you think Admin can make rudeness a thing of the past....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh bog off!!!!

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Well guess been said once if not a thousand times on here.

Rudeness were is people's Manners.

You right a email to a lady or couple.

You do everything right and you don't get a thank you or nothing.

People are you like that in real life.

If you saw some one or some one gave you something.

You would say thanks cheers etc.

The people who run this site really need to get there finger out and make the Rudeness on here a thing of the past."
. Cannot see why there is any obligation to reply. To make a very obvious statement , if there is no reply it means no interest . How would a reply help you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally reply to all messages even if its a polite no thanks. sometimes I do see why people choose to just ignore as some people can become persistent or worse ask why and then give abuse.. I wouldn't class it as rude just not interested. admin wouldn't have the time and I'm sure alot of people would not be pleased at messages getting monitored

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Well guess been said once if not a thousand times on here."

1. Did it change anything any of those thousand times?

2. If it's been said before so many times, why did you not take on board the answers and reasons given on those occasions? There are several good reasons people choose not to reply.

3. You consider it reasonable not to send messages to people who don't interest you, (I'm sure you've never messaged anyone to tell them you're not interested). I feel the same. If I'm not interested it's entirely reasonable not to message or reply.

4. You think you are giving people something by messaging them and you deserve something in return? Perhaps you aren't the gift you think you are. Perhaps they don't think you fit what they are looking for as well as you do. Perhaps you shouldn't give expecting anything in return.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"BAZINGA to that OP

How do you suppose the admins will get their finger out to solve this? Should everyone who doesn't reply get kicked off the site?

They could go round to the peoples houses and beat them up

Have you been wronged by another site member?

Has someone spurned your unwanted advances?

Has someone deleted your "Hi!" message, blocked you and really pissed on your cornflakes?

Well no need to resort to abuse, rants and a potential spell on the naughty step any more!!

If you have a problem... if no one else can help... and if you can find them... maybe you can hire... The A(dmin) Team!!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Well guess been said once if not a thousand times on here.

Rudeness were is people's Manners.

You right a email to a lady or couple.

You do everything right and you don't get a thank you or nothing.

People are you like that in real life.

If you saw some one or some one gave you something.

You would say thanks cheers etc.

The people who run this site really need to get there finger out and make the Rudeness on here a thing of the past."

So is a stranger came up to you in the street and started asking you questions about your sexual likes and dislikes you'd enter into conversation with them? Or would you move away from them?

Grow up and accept that people do not have to respond to your interest in them. Nobody is entitled to anything.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

im confused ..in your profile you say your straight, not bi...and the you go on to list trannys in your looking for box !! ...so your a bit confused i think ..and your profile is rather lame so make it a bit more interesting and im sure your get a few more responses

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

This again! Did the person ask you to message them? No they bloody didn't, therefore if not interested I wont bother to reply, quite simple really!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/323033#last

You'll enjoy the site more if you take no reply as "no thanks"

Admin x

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