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Am I being too polite..??

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Simply put,

Is it better to be direct, along with being smutty on here..

Or is it on initial communication to be nice / polite??

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

You can be nice/polite and direct at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simply put,

Is it better to be direct, along with being smutty on here..

Or is it on initial communication to be nice / polite??"

I don't think you can go far wrong being polite to start with, but that's just my opinion, don't know what the ladies think?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Surely it depends on who you talk to? Everyone is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely it depends on who you talk to? Everyone is different. "

This!

We are all different so one approach isn't going to be right for everyone!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Surely it depends on who you talk to? Everyone is different. "

Really? On here? But it's a sex site and we're all here for the same thing.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Simply put,

Is it better to be direct, along with being smutty on here..

Or is it on initial communication to be nice / polite??"

Combine the both, eg. "good morning, what a wonderful profile you have. Fancy a fuck? Doggy with hair pulling, ya slutty wench"

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Surely it depends on who you talk to? Everyone is different.

Really? On here? But it's a sex site and we're all here for the same thing. "

Shurrup and put ya cardi on. Bloody floozy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over familiarity breeds contempt..... Pinches OPs bottom on way out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show the same respect to people as they show me, a polite message will get the same in return.....get the picture

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Surely it depends on who you talk to? Everyone is different.

Really? On here? But it's a sex site and we're all here for the same thing.

Shurrup and put ya cardi on. Bloody floozy "

Cardi and clogs, what a look! Are you trying to completely destroy my sex life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be respectful with some added banter. Tis not hard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely it depends on who you talk to? Everyone is different.

Really? On here? But it's a sex site and we're all here for the same thing.

Shurrup and put ya cardi on. Bloody floozy

Cardi and clogs, what a look! Are you trying to completely destroy my sex life? "

You wear lederhosen!!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Be respectful with some added banter. Tis not hard! "

Au contraire. They're often hard. That's the issue with some of the messages sent. Insufficient blood for the brain.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

We might all be here for the same thing, but different people like to receive offers in different ways. The clues are usually in their profile. I've certainly had success with both types of message.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Surely it depends on who you talk to? Everyone is different.

Really? On here? But it's a sex site and we're all here for the same thing.

Shurrup and put ya cardi on. Bloody floozy

Cardi and clogs, what a look! Are you trying to completely destroy my sex life?

You wear lederhosen!! "

I do? Why am I not aware of this? How are you aware of this?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Simply put,

Is it better to be direct, along with being smutty on here..

Or is it on initial communication to be nice / polite??"

It's well known that 'wanna fuck' messages yield the best results.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally HATE smutty messages. Wont even entertain them, especially if its a first message! Be polite, introduce yourself, state what you are looking for, attach a face pic and go from there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simply put,

Is it better to be direct, along with being smutty on here..

Or is it on initial communication to be nice / polite??"

I always attempt to be polite but a question I have asked myself too.... This is a swinging site so do I be a bit more smutty..... Some profiles do state they don't want one liners saying wanna fuck some ask for you to message telling them what you wanna do so will do as read.... My attitude if in doubt be polite..

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

polite but cheeky i d guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely it depends on who you talk to? Everyone is different.

Really? On here? But it's a sex site and we're all here for the same thing.

Shurrup and put ya cardi on. Bloody floozy

Cardi and clogs, what a look! Are you trying to completely destroy my sex life?

You wear lederhosen!!

I do? Why am I not aware of this? How are you aware of this? "

I dress you in your sleep

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Surely it depends on who you talk to? Everyone is different.

Really? On here? But it's a sex site and we're all here for the same thing.

Shurrup and put ya cardi on. Bloody floozy

Cardi and clogs, what a look! Are you trying to completely destroy my sex life?

You wear lederhosen!!

I do? Why am I not aware of this? How are you aware of this?

I dress you in your sleep "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simply put,

Is it better to be direct, along with being smutty on here..

Or is it on initial communication to be nice / polite??"

I prefer polite to start with, rarely answer smutty messages unless I know you already

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