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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?"

no, they wink back,,,then you msg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?

no, they wink back,,,then you msg"

Have to agree with paddy for once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?

no, they wink back,,,then you msg"

This is what we do, I don't see the point in writing out long messages if they have no interest in us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?

no, they wink back,,,then you msg"

this....it isn't rocket science....

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By *urple72Woman
over a year ago

southport

I never pay attention to winks.

Or to friend invites from people who have never chatted to me.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I've never looked at who winks at me. That would mean opening every bloody profile to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its ironic that the op asks if winks are lazy, if he had used the search feature he would have seen the other wink threads currently running

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?

no, they wink back,,,then you msg"

This is the correct winking etiquette for fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?

no, they wink back,,,then you msg"

This must be some unwritten code that everyone else knows except me. I always just delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?

no, they wink back,,,then you msg

this....it isn't rocket science...."

Depends on who does the winking first! If it's a guy then many people WILL see it as lazy and a lot will block you!

So whilst the 'wink, wink, message' scenario seems great in an ideal world, use this approach cautiously to avoid a 'wink, block' outcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?

no, they wink back,,,then you msg

this....it isn't rocket science....

Depends on who does the winking first! If it's a guy then many people WILL see it as lazy and a lot will block you!

So whilst the 'wink, wink, message' scenario seems great in an ideal world, use this approach cautiously to avoid a 'wink, block' outcome!

"

Its only seen as lazy by the up their own arses crew....anyone else appreciates a good wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?

no, they wink back,,,then you msg

this....it isn't rocket science....

Depends on who does the winking first! If it's a guy then many people WILL see it as lazy and a lot will block you!

So whilst the 'wink, wink, message' scenario seems great in an ideal world, use this approach cautiously to avoid a 'wink, block' outcome!

"

We aren't meeting singles at the moment but when we do they are treated the same, if they wink us and we interested then we'll send 1 back just like we would with couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?

no, they wink back,,,then you msg

this....it isn't rocket science....

Depends on who does the winking first! If it's a guy then many people WILL see it as lazy and a lot will block you!

So whilst the 'wink, wink, message' scenario seems great in an ideal world, use this approach cautiously to avoid a 'wink, block' outcome!

We aren't meeting singles at the moment but when we do they are treated the same, if they wink us and we interested then we'll send 1 back just like we would with couples "

That's good to hear

There are a lot of profiles on here that say 'winks (and in some cases friend requests etc) will be blocked' though. I guess it all comes down to reading the profile properly first!

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

I've recently started to wink at people I'm interested in... Sometimes they wink back so I message them, or sometimes they message me. Sometimes they even ignore my wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God this site is just full of winkers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?

no, they wink back,,,then you msg

this....it isn't rocket science....

Depends on who does the winking first! If it's a guy then many people WILL see it as lazy and a lot will block you!

So whilst the 'wink, wink, message' scenario seems great in an ideal world, use this approach cautiously to avoid a 'wink, block' outcome!

We aren't meeting singles at the moment but when we do they are treated the same, if they wink us and we interested then we'll send 1 back just like we would with couples

That's good to hear

There are a lot of profiles on here that say 'winks (and in some cases friend requests etc) will be blocked' though. I guess it all comes down to reading the profile properly first! "

That it does

If people don't read profiles then it's there own fault

Everyone uses this site differently and for different things and they have the right to do what they want, if there wishes aren't followed then fair play to them for blocking people, whether it be a single or a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?"

They are better than cut and paste messages from people I don't think they are lazy just an indication of interest and far less hassle and easier to skip over if that is what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?

They are better than cut and paste messages from people I don't think they are lazy just an indication of interest and far less hassle and easier to skip over if that is what you want. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?

no, they wink back,,,then you msg"

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

@ Jim

Is that how you do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" @ Jim

Is that how you do it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?

no, they wink back,,,then you msg"

I do the first move on this profile and if I get a wink back I'll then message. If not...move on to the next

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