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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long!" Match dot com? Good luck, I hope you find what you're looking for  | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long! Match dot com? Good luck, I hope you find what you're looking for "£25 for a pile of shite I think not!! | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long! Match dot com? Good luck, I hope you find what you're looking for
£25 for a pile of shite I think not!! " | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long!" I'll admit it too (well, except that it's Mrs Right). Gets harder as you get older, no doubt about it. You have to keep the faith though | |||
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"8 years for me. Just can't honestly see it happening for me. "That's exactly how I feel. It doesn't help that I have the social life of an agrophobic hermit! | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long! Match dot com? Good luck, I hope you find what you're looking for
£25 for a pile of shite I think not!! "The reason I suggested that was because I attended a wedding of 2 people who met on Match back in April 
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long!" Try 27! | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long! Try 27!" Is that by choice? | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long!" Its not that bad. watch what you like, listen to what you want, eat what you like, drink what you like, fart when you want not when you can, shit when you like, swear when you like, go where you want to, see who you want to, say what you want to, no in-laws, no of their friends who you dont like, who don't like you, more money, more sofa, more bed. Think of it as fate and Micheal Buble, they havent met you yet. I dont like him much. | |||
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"Does he have to be called mr right, i think your chances would greatly improve if you broadened your name spectrum "As long as he isn't Mr Wrong (again)!! | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long! Match dot com? Good luck, I hope you find what you're looking for
£25 for a pile of shite I think not!!
The reason I suggested that was because I attended a wedding of 2 people who met on Match back in April
I take it you're not a fan then? (Never been on it myself)"I just found that the site didn't match what I was paying and £25 is a lot of money...I've had more dates off fab than Match. There is no disbuting that people do actually meet on there and find love. My friend is engaged after meeting her bloke on there. It's just pot luck I guess | |||
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"That's exactly how I feel. It doesn't help that I have the social life of an agrophobic hermit!" Sounds like me x | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long! Its not that bad. watch what you like, listen to what you want, eat what you like, drink what you like, fart when you want not when you can, shit when you like, swear when you like, go where you want to, see who you want to, say what you want to, no in-laws, no of their friends who you dont like, who don't like you, more money, more sofa, more bed. Think of it as fate and Micheal Buble, they havent met you yet. I dont like him much." It was going well up until you mentioned the Buble! He always looks like he's smelt his own shit to me!! | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long!" You'll meet them on here I reckon | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long! You'll meet them on here I reckon " Are you being sarcastic? | |||
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"It happens when you least expect it, good luck "That's what I've told myself for years. Finding it harder to keep believing in that. Must. Keep. The. Faith. | |||
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"Get out and about,you won't meet a man holed up in your living room " Easier said than done for some, I'm kid free and can pretty much go out most weekends but when friends are loved up and their idea of a night out is with their otherhalf you tend to feel like a lemon. Single parents might find it difficult to find babysitters and might find a night out expensive. More and more people are meeting online due to how hectic life is. | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long! Its not that bad. watch what you like, listen to what you want, eat what you like, drink what you like, fart when you want not when you can, shit when you like, swear when you like, go where you want to, see who you want to, say what you want to, no in-laws, no of their friends who you dont like, who don't like you, more money, more sofa, more bed. Think of it as fate and Micheal Buble, they havent met you yet. I dont like him much." Being part of a couple shouldnt restrict much of the above  | |||
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"Get out and about,you won't meet a man holed up in your living room " Sorry, this is going to sound really arsey but I really am sick of hearing that line. You dont get to go out much when your a single parent unfortunately xx | |||
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"Get out and about,you won't meet a man holed up in your living room Easier said than done for some, I'm kid free and can pretty much go out most weekends but when friends are loved up and their idea of a night out is with their otherhalf you tend to feel like a lemon. Single parents might find it difficult to find babysitters and might find a night out expensive. More and more people are meeting online due to how hectic life is. " Well said miss cheeky!!! | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long! You'll meet them on here I reckon Are you being sarcastic?" no he's probably right tbh...you'd have at least one thing in common and you'd both know you like swinging and potentially that wouldn't need to change...it's not a bad idea | |||
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"Get out and about,you won't meet a man holed up in your living room Sorry, this is going to sound really arsey but I really am sick of hearing that line. You dont get to go out much when your a single parent unfortunately xx" That is true,if you don't have someone like me to babysit for you. Having children means a lot more consideration before getting to the serious stage too. You can't introduce a man to them until you're sure he's a stayed x | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long! Its not that bad. watch what you like, listen to what you want, eat what you like, drink what you like, fart when you want not when you can, shit when you like, swear when you like, go where you want to, see who you want to, say what you want to, no in-laws, no of their friends who you dont like, who don't like you, more money, more sofa, more bed. Think of it as fate and Micheal Buble, they havent met you yet. I dont like him much. Being part of a couple shouldnt restrict much of the above "haha! Was thinking the same. It doesnt, we just compromise lol Sarah x | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long! Try 27! Is that by choice? " It just never happened after my divorce. Don't know why and I'm not going to analyse it. It is what it is. I'm happier about it now than I was in my thirties and forties. It may happen, who knows? | |||
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"Get out and about,you won't meet a man holed up in your living room Sorry, this is going to sound really arsey but I really am sick of hearing that line. You dont get to go out much when your a single parent unfortunately xx That is true,if you don't have someone like me to babysit for you. Having children means a lot more consideration before getting to the serious stage too. You can't introduce a man to them until you're sure he's a stayed x" Exactly x | |||
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"You are a lovely ladyband doing yourself no favours by staying in. A little more proactive and you may meet a......single father for example. "Thank you but its not by choice that I stay in, there are many reasons and issues involved x | |||
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"Get out and about,you won't meet a man holed up in your living room Sorry, this is going to sound really arsey but I really am sick of hearing that line. You dont get to go out much when your a single parent unfortunately xx" It doesn't necessarily work even if you're kid-free, have a very active social life and sociable/confident at meeting people. I'm living proof of that . Years of "---, you're a lovely guy, but....".
Just have to keep getting out there and trying to be as be as good a person as I possibly can.
I wish I had more suggestions for a single parent - are there any groups/organisations that are targetted at them (sorry, I know "targetted" sounds a bit brutal)? | |||
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"Get out and about,you won't meet a man holed up in your living room Sorry, this is going to sound really arsey but I really am sick of hearing that line. You dont get to go out much when your a single parent unfortunately xx" I agree. I have my kids about 28/29 days a month. Makes it tricky. | |||
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"Dating is difficult and can be hard work...I've kind of come to the conclusion that my down fall is I've been looking to hard and I think this scares men off...I am now more going with the flow and just trying to live life to the full...it will happen if it's meant to "wear a wedding dress on the second date, never the first | |||
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"Dating is difficult and can be hard work...I've kind of come to the conclusion that my down fall is I've been looking to hard and I think this scares men off...I am now more going with the flow and just trying to live life to the full...it will happen if it's meant to
wear a wedding dress on the second date, never the first"Damn that's where I've been going wrong | |||
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"I guess it matters as much as you want it too, and you can address the areas that hamper your chances of meeting someone, if you really want to. I guess don't use excuses for anything, and stay positive, and look at why you aren't doing what you want. I know every person is different, but people in very poor circumstance / situations can still meet people, so stay optimistic. Good luck "I understand what you are saying but honestly, they aren't excuses. | |||
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"Dating is difficult and can be hard work...I've kind of come to the conclusion that my down fall is I've been looking to hard and I think this scares men off...I am now more going with the flow and just trying to live life to the full...it will happen if it's meant to "I genuinely think that's the best way. It's hard to maintain that when you do think you fall for someone and it's not reciprocated though. It definitely tests your resolved. I just feel I'm playing the same game of falling for lovely women who feel nothing for me that I was 25 years ago. I'm like a scratched bloody record me | |||
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"I know it's a cliche but it really does happen when you don't expect it to. When I met with Paul I was determined I didn't want a relationship.... Almost 7 yrs later I think we have to call it one now. I was a single parent when i met him and you really do have to make the effort to get out there. Cheeky, you don't need to feel like a lemon on a night out you know I'll happily ditch paul for a girly night out - even a vanilla one "I actually didn't mean when I go out with you and Paul that I feel like a lemon... Far from it with you pair | |||
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"My problem is I try and keep people at a distance and when I do that they seem to make all the effort but as soon as I start liking them I turn into a fucking lunatic and scare them off by suffocating them and being really full on. I know when I'm doing it as well which is the worst part but at the time I can't help it! " Yeah, that's what I do too. I think it's worse as I get older, partly because there's less opportunities and partly because the stakes feel higher. I have enormously strong feelings for someone who will never be with me at the moment and it's so, so hard to shake off. I propose a group hug for all us forlorn singles......and then we must dust ourselves down. I'm off to a gig in a bit - maybe I'll meet someone special there (says the mam who thinks that before each of the scores of gigs and festivals he goes to each year ). | |||
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"I am now more going with the flow and just trying to live life to the full...it will happen if it's meant to "I follow this kind of mantra too. Dating and using dating site's are good, but it can wear you down a lot more than this place! Good luck BB | |||
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" All you single lovelies (guys and dolls), come down to Sunny Herts and let's go in to town and have some mad fun!!!!! " Sounds great - I'll have a couple of halves of lager at least (that's mad enough for me). In the Wales forum they now have a Single-only social fairly regularly. Seems to be going well l-just wondered if any other areas did it (I'm sure the odd attached person creeps slips through the net of course)! It's not really aimed at finding partners, but it might work as a way of interacting with people in similar situations e.g. single parents. | |||
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"@_ost sock, where's this single social held? I'm only by bridgend. " Newport I think and I have a feeling there's one coming up in November. I was thinking of going in August, but chickened out before I put my name down! Have a look in the Wales forum - there should be a thread on it. | |||
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If i did meet the right girl would settle down but enjoy being single while you can. | |||
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"I know it's a cliche but it really does happen when you don't expect it to. When I met with Paul I was determined I didn't want a relationship.... Almost 7 yrs later I think we have to call it one now. I was a single parent when i met him and you really do have to make the effort to get out there. Cheeky, you don't need to feel like a lemon on a night out you know I'll happily ditch paul for a girly night out - even a vanilla one
I actually didn't mean when I go out with you and Paul that I feel like a lemon... Far from it with you pair "I'm glad to hear it (although still happy to ditch him occasionally ) | |||
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"After my last couple of relationships I've come to the conclusion that my dating radar is broken. I seem to find the absolute worst bunny boiling, fantasist liars and cheats possible. I think I'll be staying single for a very long time to come...." Ermmm excuse me husband!!! Lol | |||
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"Get out and about,you won't meet a man holed up in your living room Sorry, this is going to sound really arsey but I really am sick of hearing that line. You dont get to go out much when your a single parent unfortunately xx I agree. I have my kids about 28/29 days a month. Makes it tricky." I had mine every day of the month. You never know when you'll meet the right person. I met my wife in the playground as I waited for my girls. We became friends then lovers. We kept it secret for months from our respective kids until we were sure we were really serious. Love sneaks up when you least expect it  | |||
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"After my last couple of relationships I've come to the conclusion that my dating radar is broken. I seem to find the absolute worst bunny boiling, fantasist liars and cheats possible. I think I'll be staying single for a very long time to come.... Ermmm excuse me husband!!! Lol "Hahaha....  | |||
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"After my last couple of relationships I've come to the conclusion that my dating radar is broken. I seem to find the absolute worst bunny boiling, fantasist liars and cheats possible. I think I'll be staying single for a very long time to come...." I meet the male versions of who you have described | |||
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"I am child free and all that malarky but my friends have kiss and or other halves so now and again I get thrown a scrap from them and we go to the pub..... for lunch!!!!! All you single lovelies (guys and dolls), come down to Sunny Herts and let's go in to town and have some mad fun!!!!! "Sounds good to me | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long!" I think since I've stopped looking for dates I've actually had more offers. It's all nice in theory for me but re reality of living with someone again and having to stop doing everything my way worries me. Plus I snore like a Boeing 747 so the chances of living with a man is slim to fuck all! | |||
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"Don't think I'll find anyone mental enough to put up with me. " Some of us are quite happy to admit we're mental | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long! I think since I've stopped looking for dates I've actually had more offers. It's all nice in theory for me but re reality of living with someone again and having to stop doing everything my way worries me. Plus I snore like a Boeing 747 so the chances of living with a man is slim to fuck all! " I snore too. We can cancel each other out
I'm back from the gig I went to. I didn't meet that special person.
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long! I think since I've stopped looking for dates I've actually had more offers. It's all nice in theory for me but re reality of living with someone again and having to stop doing everything my way worries me. Plus I snore like a Boeing 747 so the chances of living with a man is slim to fuck all! I snore too. We can cancel each other out
I'm back from the gig I went to. I didn't meet that special person.
I'll keep on keeping on, but I do wonder sometimes. "Ha ha the house would get subsidence! | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long! I think since I've stopped looking for dates I've actually had more offers. It's all nice in theory for me but re reality of living with someone again and having to stop doing everything my way worries me. Plus I snore like a Boeing 747 so the chances of living with a man is slim to fuck all! I snore too. We can cancel each other out
I'm back from the gig I went to. I didn't meet that special person.
I'll keep on keeping on, but I do wonder sometimes.
Ha ha the house would get subsidence! "Don't care - it would be a very visible expression of our incomparable love for each other. Yes, I have had a beer. | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long! I think since I've stopped looking for dates I've actually had more offers. It's all nice in theory for me but re reality of living with someone again and qhaving to stop doing everything my way worries me. Plus I snore like a Boeing 747 so the chances of living with a man is slim to fuck all! I snore too. We can cancel each other out
I'm back from the gig I went to. I didn't meet that special person.
I'll keep on keeping on, but I do wonder sometimes.
Ha ha the house would get subsidence!
Don't care - it would be a very visible expression of our incomparable love for each other.
Yes, I have had a beer.
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"8 years for me. Just can't honestly see it happening for me.
That's exactly how I feel. It doesn't help that I have the social life of an agrophobic hermit!". This plus work night plus been old lol can't see it happening to me either  | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long! I think since I've stopped looking for dates I've actually had more offers. It's all nice in theory for me but re reality of living with someone again and qhaving to stop doing everything my way worries me. Plus I snore like a Boeing 747 so the chances of living with a man is slim to fuck all! I snore too. We can cancel each other out
I'm back from the gig I went to. I didn't meet that special person.
I'll keep on keeping on, but I do wonder sometimes.
Ha ha the house would get subsidence!
Don't care - it would be a very visible expression of our incomparable love for each other.
Yes, I have had a beer.
You might regret that beer tomorrow "Nope, no regrets - I accept that spouting drivel is a big part of me
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long! I think since I've stopped looking for dates I've actually had more offers. It's all nice in theory for me but re reality of living with someone again and qhaving to stop doing everything my way worries me. Plus I snore like a Boeing 747 so the chances of living with a man is slim to fuck all! I snore too. We can cancel each other out
I'm back from the gig I went to. I didn't meet that special person.
I'll keep on keeping on, but I do wonder sometimes.
Ha ha the house would get subsidence!
Don't care - it would be a very visible expression of our incomparable love for each other.
Yes, I have had a beer.
You might regret that beer tomorrow
Nope, no regrets - I accept that spouting drivel is a big part of me
Slight headache though."Good. Always be true to yourself.... And get yourself some paracetamol  | |||
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"I am fed up of being single and want to find mr right. 10 years single is way too long!" Im only in my 5th year single and still loving it. I've no doubt there will come a time when I will, like you, get fed up with single life. Good luck in your search for mr right. Xx | |||
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