FabSwingers.com forum: how to change peoples opinions

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just curious as a single bloke find it hard to get meets genrally though timewasters and blokes who pester.

I like to chat make friends before meets but its gettin harder any advice people (positive please)

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Just curious as a single bloke find it hard to get meets genrally though timewasters and blokes who pester.

I like to chat make friends before meets but its gettin harder any advice people (positive please)

Stop blaming others.

You don't affect them in any way - and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious as a single bloke find it hard to get meets genrally though timewasters and blokes who pester.

I like to chat make friends before meets but its gettin harder any advice people (positive please)

Stop blaming others.

You don't affect them in any way - and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious as a single bloke find it hard to get meets genrally though timewasters and blokes who pester.

I like to chat make friends before meets but its gettin harder any advice people (positive please)

I get whhere youre coming. It's down to them really. But do you wanna hear something funny... The shallow will meet without any verification even though they say to others that they won't.

Today you might not meet tomorrow you might get a threesome. See it as Russian Roulette

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Just be yourself.....people will either like you or they won't.

Too many people seem to blame others for their lack of success. Us and a fair few others take people on an individual basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just be yourself.....people will either like you or they won't.

Too many people seem to blame others for their lack of success. Us and a fair few others take people on an individual basis."

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

Someone will put forward their opinion then I;ll put forward mine.

We'll talk about it for 20 minutes then we decide I was right.

*Thank you Brian Clough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your thread title reads to us that you would try to change peoples opinions to work in your favour, we might have read it wrong but it comes across as you wanting to manipulate folk to meet??

no always means no in this game!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious as a single bloke find it hard to get meets genrally though timewasters and blokes who pester.

I like to chat make friends before meets but its gettin harder any advice people (positive please)

Be visible on the forums, then drop a polite message on Face Pic Friday.

Good way to start a discussion (with some) then it's up to the two of you where it goes from there.

I've got a very small number of people I speak to, but all are lovely (definitely quality over quantity) Will I meet them? I hope so one day for a coffee and social but if that doesn't happen then at least I've chatted with a few amazing people

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