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what's the secret for a successful marriage?

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By *akedninja OP   Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

keep my stomach full and my ball's empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

COMMUNICATION

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem to have the answer OP. Didn't work for me though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust and taking time to listen to what your partner is saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"keep my stomach full and my ball's empty"
This is actually spot-on ha ha. And lots of separate interests/communication

Sarah x

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By *y2funMan
over a year ago

DUDLEY

no idea here......... other than don't get married!

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Communication and honesty. Doesn't work if either are only 1 way though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty and trust..simple has that...

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

A good pre-nup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What worked for my mum was being brought up in a time where it was unacceptable to not be married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One half work nights while the other does days.

Well it's worked for us anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A basement with a good lock works well lol so iv heard

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"keep my stomach full and my ball's empty"

no, that's the way to keeping one half happy.

There isn't actually a secret its just that some people think there is and go off looking for it...when quite often its in front of them all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty, trust & the ability to talk to each other about anything no matter what the topic is.

Never go to bed on an argument & always let the other half know you love them.

Might sound soppy but it has worked for us over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One work days other work night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For hubby and i, i think that it helps that we met while swinging so obviously have that as a joint interest.

We also have a joint love of other things such as family, football, speedway, live music, films, books and a general happy way of living.

We talk and share things and we love each other very much, we care about each other and help each other lots in every way.

He is very tolerant of my moods to which helps lol

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For hubby and i, i think that it helps that we met while swinging so obviously have that as a joint interest.

We also have a joint love of other things such as family, football, speedway, live music, films, books and a general happy way of living.

We talk and share things and we love each other very much, we care about each other and help each other lots in every way.

He is very tolerant of my moods to which helps lol

x"

Sarah xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One work days other work night "

Shel works a lot of night shifts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To have grown up in a different era...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do it,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been together for 18 years and to be honest i still couldn't tell you what the secret was, mutual respect goes along way trust and still being in love helps

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We aren't married and have no intention of doing so, but have been together over 20 years now and still going strong....

Don't have a secret and couldn't really tell you why or how we work, we just do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We aren't married and have no intention of doing so, but have been together over 20 years now and still going strong....

Don't have a secret and couldn't really tell you why or how we work, we just do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby and I shouldnt work but it does.

We have very little in common and as much as we love eachother there are times we dont 'like' one another.

But after 7years we still wouldnt be without eachother and still madly in love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have kids, then you'll still have all the time for your partner. Of the 15 or so weddings we've been to, all the ones who had kids have split up - all those without kids are still together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a seven year old still going strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A basement with a good lock works well lol so iv heard "

I found that an easily deconstructed patio worked well.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Don't have kids, then you'll still have all the time for your partner. Of the 15 or so weddings we've been to, all the ones who had kids have split up - all those without kids are still together."

You can have kids and still make time for each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ability to be you as a person with your partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do it in the first place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just smile and say yes,,,,,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Money"

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Stay away from sites like this..lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Honesty, trust & the ability to talk to each other about anything no matter what the topic is.

Never go to bed on an argument & always let the other half know you love them.

Might sound soppy but it has worked for us over the years.

"

Sounds about right to me!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The ability to be you as a person with your partner. "

yep!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Don't marry a plonka

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been married as don't believe in it just for a piece of paper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't marry a plonka "

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

(Mutual respect and understanding of each other and needs). Communications. (Unselfish sex on both sides). Good listener..no hidden agenda.at least shower together once a week.

if can adhere strictly to this few tips. I believe that your marriage can last longer.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Respect

and a poor memory

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