FabSwingers.com forum: Do Lesbians use vibrators?

By *izzy Rascall OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Kind of serious, kind of not. Im not meaning to offend and I suppose I am a bit nieve.

I was watching that sex toy programme last night and Im sure the woman there said their toys cover a wide range, she included lesbians in the list.

My brain made a funny noise and I thought 'Why', they dont like willies'. Then I thought 'no, its the the rest of the man they don't like'. A later thought was 'They cant have the best of both worlds, you either like willies or don't'.

I really dont wish to offend and remember my communication skills are terrible but can a real Lesbian explain this to me please how it works.

You dont like cock but you like cock shaped objects. I suppose you can't orgasm fully if you dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones I have known have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For lots of women an orgasm hasn't nothing to do with penetration of any sort

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

You dont like cock but you like cock shaped objects. I suppose you can't orgasm fully if you dont.

Actually...... Many women will tell you that they don't orgasm through penetration at all, certainly it's not the only way to make a lady cum..... I've found dozens of ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy isn't gay or bi if he likes to be fucked up the arse with a female wearing a strap on,its the sensation not the cock

Ill shut up now

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

A lezza friend of mine wont buy vibrators that look like real cocks because she doesn't like cocks or men sexually, it puts her off her vinegar strokes.

Despite me trying to cure her several times.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"A guy isn't gay or bi if he likes to be fucked up the arse with a female wearing a strap on,its the sensation not the cock

Ill shut up now"

You took the words right out of my mouth...

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By *izzy Rascall OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Ok so what we are saying is:

A clitoral orgasm is just the same as a penetration orgasm?

Ie, they are both 100% full and proper orgasms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Answer to your question is yes. When I managed a sex shop they did anyway

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By *inkalottieWoman
over a year ago

BURNLEY

Penetration feels good and a vagina is designed to take a penis shaped object, u can't stick another vagina in there unfortunately! Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all toys are penis shaped!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so what we are saying is:

A clitoral orgasm is just the same as a penetration orgasm?

Ie, they are both 100% full and proper orgasms"

For me a clitoral orgasm is the best and most intense orgasm

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By *izzy Rascall OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Answer to your question is yes. When I managed a sex shop they did anyway

Which question please?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Penetration feels good and a vagina is designed to take a penis shaped object, u can't stick another vagina in there unfortunately! Haha. "
lol..... Now there's a mental image

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've used a vibrator on a lesbian friend. We were very very d*unk and she hated me the next day lol.

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By *izzy Rascall OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Not all toys are penis shaped!"

Yes I know, you get eggs and that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fingers, toys, cocks, all feel good up there whether youre gay , bi or straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lezza friend of mine wont buy vibrators that look like real cocks because she doesn't like cocks or men sexually, it puts her off her vinegar strokes.

Despite me trying to cure her several times.

I've frequently told a lesbian friend of mine that I could "turn her!" To which she always replies "all you'd turn is my stomach!" Good job I'm thick skinned haha!! She is hot tho!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

My gay lodger has a strap on, double ender, mini wand and a couple of other things.

Just because a brain doesnt like men...doesn't mean the pussy changes shape. Men are built to dock with women. Both sexes have erogenous areas that make this rewarding and enjoyable.

Why would you try and squeeze a rubiks cube in there when a nice tube with a round end will do the job perfectly ?

Its just biology.

However, those ugly, veiny replicants of an actual penis are, indeed, less popular amongst the girls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am straight. But am pretty sure if i was a lesbian i would be keen to use a strapon with my lady friend. But i actually prefer clitoral orgasm anyway so it doesnt matter xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, for goodness sake!!!!

Look, I'm a Lesbian with just a slightly bi interest.

I've only had full relationships with other women for over 20 years, and I know how Lesbians think and what we like!!!

We are a very varied bunch - all kinds.

Very few of us are men-haters - most of us like men, we just don't feel romantically towards them.

But we do have vaginas that are built for penetration, and we damn well like having them used.

You bet that we use vibrators, dildos, stonking great strap-ons , bedposts, cucumbers - you name it!

And sometimes - just like there are lots of self-defined Straight men on here who suck cock, or screw TV's or just plain have sex with other men - sometimes we dabble....

Please don't put your definition on us - if you want to know about us - then just please ask before making assumptions....!!!

Ok - rant over - I'm off to dildo myself senseless, dreaming about my ideal woman...

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By *izzy Rascall OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Oh, for goodness sake!!!!

Look, I'm a Lesbian with just a slightly bi interest.

I've only had full relationships with other women for over 20 years, and I know how Lesbians think and what we like!!!

We are a very varied bunch - all kinds.

Very few of us are men-haters - most of us like men, we just don't feel romantically towards them.

But we do have vaginas that are built for penetration, and we damn well like having them used.

You bet that we use vibrators, dildos, stonking great strap-ons , bedposts, cucumbers - you name it!

And sometimes - just like there are lots of self-defined Straight men on here who suck cock, or screw TV's or just plain have sex with other men - sometimes we dabble....

Please don't put your definition on us - if you want to know about us - then just please ask before making assumptions....!!!

Ok - rant over - I'm off to dildo myself senseless, dreaming about my ideal woman...

Annie it seems you did take offence, you shouldnt have as I wasnt giving any, or least, as mentioned wasnt my intention.

I created this thread so I could ask.

This thread was purely for my sake as I had questions I couldnt answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh, for goodness sake!!!!

Look, I'm a Lesbian with just a slightly bi interest.

I've only had full relationships with other women for over 20 years, and I know how Lesbians think and what we like!!!

We are a very varied bunch - all kinds.

Very few of us are men-haters - most of us like men, we just don't feel romantically towards them.

But we do have vaginas that are built for penetration, and we damn well like having them used.

You bet that we use vibrators, dildos, stonking great strap-ons , bedposts, cucumbers - you name it!

And sometimes - just like there are lots of self-defined Straight men on here who suck cock, or screw TV's or just plain have sex with other men - sometimes we dabble....

Please don't put your definition on us - if you want to know about us - then just please ask before making assumptions....!!!

Ok - rant over - I'm off to dildo myself senseless, dreaming about my ideal woman...

Well said girlie!!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Oh, for goodness sake!!!!

Look, I'm a Lesbian with just a slightly bi interest.

I've only had full relationships with other women for over 20 years, and I know how Lesbians think and what we like!!!

We are a very varied bunch - all kinds.

Very few of us are men-haters - most of us like men, we just don't feel romantically towards them.

But we do have vaginas that are built for penetration, and we damn well like having them used.

You bet that we use vibrators, dildos, stonking great strap-ons , bedposts, cucumbers - you name it!

And sometimes - just like there are lots of self-defined Straight men on here who suck cock, or screw TV's or just plain have sex with other men - sometimes we dabble....

Please don't put your definition on us - if you want to know about us - then just please ask before making assumptions....!!!

Ok - rant over - I'm off to dildo myself senseless, dreaming about my ideal woman...

*faps*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey it was only a simple question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Answer to your question is yes. When I managed a sex shop they did anyway

Which question please?"

The question you asked of course

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By *izzy Rascall OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Answer to your question is yes. When I managed a sex shop they did anyway

Which question please?

The question you asked of course

I was half way through a reply and had to hit the frigging X.

I found my question, the one in the heading - duhh. Its no wonder my brain works weirdly. I read my original post three times aswell haha.

Ok so when you had your shop did you find that a straight woman and a Lesbian would both buy the same product.

Someone mentioned above that his Lesbian friend dosen't want a vibe that resembles a penis, but still wants the sensation.

Was there/is there a range for straight and a range for Lesbian?

A few products I saw last night didnt look like a willy, for eg, a butt plug. That Christmas tree that went up in France recently resemlbed a butt plug but nothing like a penis. They had vibes out in a non willy shape, butt plug being an example of shape only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Answer to your question is yes. When I managed a sex shop they did anyway

Which question please?

The question you asked of course

I was half way through a reply and had to hit the frigging X.

I found my question, the one in the heading - duhh. Its no wonder my brain works weirdly. I read my original post three times aswell haha.

Ok so when you had your shop did you find that a straight woman and a Lesbian would both buy the same product.

Someone mentioned above that his Lesbian friend dosen't want a vibe that resembles a penis, but still wants the sensation.

Was there/is there a range for straight and a range for Lesbian?

Mostly non phallic shaped vibrators.But they did buy lots of realistic strap ons.

It makes no difference what sexual preference people are I found. Toys are toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I think the life choices that make a Lesbian tick are a little more involved than the shape of objects they enjoy in their vagina.

This is also hopefully true of other women, I would be a little put out to find that L was having difficulty in choosing her life partner between me and a carrot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey it was only a simple question"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so what we are saying is:

A clitoral orgasm is just the same as a penetration orgasm?

Ie, they are both 100% full and proper orgasms

For me a clitoral orgasm is the best and most intense orgasm"

^^^ ir is for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not all toys are penis shaped!"

And not all penises are toy shaped.....although I was born with a cute ickle bunny on top of mine Awwwwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For lots of women an orgasm hasn't nothing to do with penetration of any sort "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kind of serious, kind of not. Im not meaning to offend and I suppose I am a bit nieve.

I was watching that sex toy programme last night and Im sure the woman there said their toys cover a wide range, she included lesbians in the list.

I really dont wish to offend and remember my communication skills are terrible but can a real Lesbian explain this to me please how it works.

You dont like cock but you like cock shaped objects. I suppose you can't orgasm fully if you dont.

is it any different to a straight guy who likes a strap on up his are?

All because you like penetration don't mean you want it from a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so what we are saying is:

A clitoral orgasm is just the same as a penetration orgasm?

Ie, they are both 100% full and proper orgasms

For me a clitoral orgasm is the best and most intense orgasm

^^^ ir is for me too

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so what we are saying is:

A clitoral orgasm is just the same as a penetration orgasm?

Ie, they are both 100% full and proper orgasms

For me a clitoral orgasm is the best and most intense orgasm

^^^ ir is for me too

Me too "

I have never cum through penetrative sex

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

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when I had a lesbian relationship a few years back, the person i was with would not allow any form of phallic shaped objects into the relationship at all, her saying if i wanted a cock i would find one but i dont so dont need a substitute.

well i needed somthing cock shaped in me now and again and found it frustrating not to get it.

i think this is where the relationship started to fizzle out and i decided a full blown lesbian was not my thing, i then met my current partner and am loving the best of both worlds

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By *izzy Rascall OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

"OP I think the life choices that make a Lesbian tick are a little more involved than the shape of objects they enjoy in their vagina.

This is also hopefully true of other women, I would be a little put out to find that L was having difficulty in choosing her life partner between me and a carrot

Well thats a bit obvious (first paragraph), I already know that and agree with you

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By *izzy Rascall OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Kind of serious, kind of not. Im not meaning to offend and I suppose I am a bit nieve.

I was watching that sex toy programme last night and Im sure the woman there said their toys cover a wide range, she included lesbians in the list.

I really dont wish to offend and remember my communication skills are terrible but can a real Lesbian explain this to me please how it works.

You dont like cock but you like cock shaped objects. I suppose you can't orgasm fully if you dont.

is it any different to a straight guy who likes a strap on up his are?

All because you like penetration don't mean you want it from a man "

I dont know and can't answer you sorry but hopefully another member can

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By *izzy Rascall OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Blimey it was only a simple question

By a simple boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simplest answer is yes

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