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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any male feel like objects to some women? Like they speak to you with command and control rather than mutual respect?

In my experience... If a woman refuse sex, it's cool. If a man does the same back, it's WW3.

Don't you just hate double standards sometimes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always hate double standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any male feel like objects to some women? Like they speak to you with command and control rather than mutual respect?

In my experience... If a woman refuse sex, it's cool. If a man does the same back, it's WW3.

Don't you just hate double standards sometimes?"

Its all a game nowadays but I forgot the rules. So therefore I forfeit

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Give 'em an inch......

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines


"Give 'em an inch......"

They'll ask where the other 7.5 are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give 'em an inch......

They'll ask where the other 7.5 are"

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Any male feel like objects to some women? Like they speak to you with command and control rather than mutual respect?

In my experience... If a woman refuse sex, it's cool. If a man does the same back, it's WW3.

Don't you just hate double standards sometimes?"
Some people take rejection badly, I don't think its gender specific in all honesty but I agree there are a lot of double standards.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Give 'em an inch......

They'll ask where the other 7.5 are"
Hhahahaha luv it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any male feel like objects to some women? Like they speak to you with command and control rather than mutual respect?

In my experience... If a woman refuse sex, it's cool. If a man does the same back, it's WW3.

Don't you just hate double standards sometimes?"

can't work out if this posts for real or tongue in cheek

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any male feel like objects to some women? Like they speak to you with command and control rather than mutual respect?

In my experience... If a woman refuse sex, it's cool. If a man does the same back, it's WW3.

Don't you just hate double standards sometimes?

can't work out if this posts for real or tongue in cheek "

I think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any male feel like objects to some women? Like they speak to you with command and control rather than mutual respect?

In my experience... If a woman refuse sex, it's cool. If a man does the same back, it's WW3.

Don't you just hate double standards sometimes?"

I don't get worked up enough to hate double standards. The moment any women remotely behaves in that way towards me the interaction stops. I'm not desperate enough for sex to put up with that nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive yet to meet a man who refuses sex so wouldn't know

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Any male feel like objects to some women? Like they speak to you with command and control rather than mutual respect?

In my experience... If a woman refuse sex, it's cool. If a man does the same back, it's WW3.

Don't you just hate double standards sometimes?

I don't get worked up enough to hate double standards. The moment any women remotely behaves in that way towards me the interaction stops. I'm not desperate enough for sex to put up with that nonsense. "
Well said that man!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any male feel like objects to some women? Like they speak to you with command and control rather than mutual respect?

In my experience... If a woman refuse sex, it's cool. If a man does the same back, it's WW3.

Don't you just hate double standards sometimes?

I don't get worked up enough to hate double standards. The moment any women remotely behaves in that way towards me the interaction stops. I'm not desperate enough for sex to put up with that nonsense. "

I do wonder if those actions reflect on their past choice in men... So they act out that exact behaviour towards men as a way to avenge the innocence they have now lost

Lol or they are just mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any male feel like objects to some women? Like they speak to you with command and control rather than mutual respect?

In my experience... If a woman refuse sex, it's cool. If a man does the same back, it's WW3.

Don't you just hate double standards sometimes?

I don't get worked up enough to hate double standards. The moment any women remotely behaves in that way towards me the interaction stops. I'm not desperate enough for sex to put up with that nonsense.

I do wonder if those actions reflect on their past choice in men... So they act out that exact behaviour towards men as a way to avenge the innocence they have now lost

Lol or they are just mean"

they are just unbalanced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

they are just unbalanced."

Theoretically yes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any male feel like objects to some women? Like they speak to you with command and control rather than mutual respect?

In my experience... If a woman refuse sex, it's cool. If a man does the same back, it's WW3.

Don't you just hate double standards sometimes?"

You could deem that as sexist, or small minded or the demographic group of women you interact with because in general there are a lot of intellect forthright women out there who have no problem with a no thanks. However its all a matter of how you interact with them in the first place that is the template for the reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realistically it's because this site is loaded heavily in favour of women due to the sheer numbers of available men! Therefore an unpleasant minority of women feel that it's ok to treat fab like a 'male order' catalogue - so to speak - objectifying men in the way that men were traditionally accused of objectifying women! However - It's not big and it's not clever - and it shouldn't happen!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why so serious? do as your told, and give it to them then

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said paula

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Realistically it's because this site is loaded heavily in favour of women due to the sheer numbers of available men! Therefore an unpleasant minority of women feel that it's ok to treat fab like a 'male order' catalogue - so to speak - objectifying men in the way that men were traditionally accused of objectifying women! However - It's not big and it's not clever - and it shouldn't happen!! xx"

I wasn't basing it on this site... Just in general.

But I get what you mean

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Realistically it's because this site is loaded heavily in favour of women due to the sheer numbers of available men! Therefore an unpleasant minority of women feel that it's ok to treat fab like a 'male order' catalogue - so to speak - objectifying men in the way that men were traditionally accused of objectifying women! However - It's not big and it's not clever - and it shouldn't happen!! xx"

very good post

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Give 'em an inch......

They'll ask where the other 7.5 are"

I'm gonna use this joke at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Realistically it's because this site is loaded heavily in favour of women due to the sheer numbers of available men! Therefore an unpleasant minority of women feel that it's ok to treat fab like a 'male order' catalogue - so to speak - objectifying men in the way that men were traditionally accused of objectifying women! However - It's not big and it's not clever - and it shouldn't happen!! xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha yea, about a month ago I experienced a pushy lady on here, neither of us could accom, she made all the moves, got arsey when I told her a meet wasn't ideal at the time. Swiftly removed me from friends list, apologised a couple of weeks later, sent me a friend request yesterday. But I'm not interested after that, I know how some of you girls feel now with regards to pushyness

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

A lot of ladies...not just on here...have issues caused by bad experiences when younger.

I am always patient and try to be understanding at the message stage.

Prose is flat and misleading and too easily taken to heart. I just wait and see...

I also do the same on a meet. I try to be as open and understanding as possible...it may only be sex, but it is with a person and I like to engage the whole....not just their hole

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Ive yet to meet a man who refuses sex so wouldn't know "

It sounds like one of those hyperthetical situations..... "But just IMAGINE he did"

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Double standards are passé. I go for triple standards. It leads to more confusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regularly get touched innapropriately by women,I have been kissed when I don't fancy them and felt up and groped when helping them out of the place I work,if I was one of them dour faced moo's that like seeing people ruined the fuzz would get fed up of me reporting it. Its all wrong how men can't complain yet women can easily IMO.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I do feel like I am treat like an object on here at times.

I am a real person with real feelings and it can be so demeaning when all I am to some is a bottom or a cock.

Just once I would like a message to start with something about my personality or an attempt to get to know me, maybe a question about my favourite colour or if I have pets instead of 'nice arse, fancy a fuck?'

*sigh*

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Give 'em an inch......

They'll ask where the other 7.5 are"

Indeed. So where are they?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'd say women are regarded as and treated as objects far more often than men are on here.

I frequently get messages from men stating what they want and expecting me to be delighted to provide it.

I get messages along the lines of 'I am parked up near you and my cock needs draining/I want a blow job' and they genuinely seem to think I am going to rush out to do this for the sheer joy.

I've also been met with disbelief and confusion when I've suggested to men with no pics and no profile that I'd like to know more about them before deciding I'd like to fuck them with a strap-on. But you posted that you enjoy strap-on play, they say. Yes, I do, but with people I fancy. I don't enjoy anything sexual enough that I'd do it with just anyone. Some seem absolutely unable to understand that.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I do feel like I am treat like an object on here at times.

I am a real person with real feelings and it can be so demeaning when all I am to some is a bottom or a cock.

Just once I would like a message to start with something about my personality or an attempt to get to know me, maybe a question about my favourite colour or if I have pets instead of 'nice arse, fancy a fuck?'

*sigh* "

Nice arse, fancy a fuck?

PS what's your favourite colour?

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines


"Give 'em an inch......

They'll ask where the other 7.5 are

I'm gonna use this joke at work "

Er, hang on, where's my thingy..... ©

There, hands off Steve you tea leaf

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines


"Give 'em an inch......

They'll ask where the other 7.5 are

Indeed. So where are they? "

I've been asking myself the same thing all my life

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Give 'em an inch......

They'll ask where the other 7.5 are

Indeed. So where are they?

I've been asking myself the same thing all my life"

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I do feel like I am treat like an object on here at times.

I am a real person with real feelings and it can be so demeaning when all I am to some is a bottom or a cock.

Just once I would like a message to start with something about my personality or an attempt to get to know me, maybe a question about my favourite colour or if I have pets instead of 'nice arse, fancy a fuck?'

*sigh*

Nice arse, fancy a fuck?

PS what's your favourite colour?"

hehehehehehehe

Yes, yes and mauve hehehehehee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite simple psychology really, a man gets rejected for sex thinks ok SHE isn't feeling horny but a woman who gets rejected thinks what is wrong with ME.

corner stone of the Mars Venus theory.

If you are inundated with offers what does it matter,

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I do feel like I am treat like an object on here at times.

I am a real person with real feelings and it can be so demeaning when all I am to some is a bottom or a cock.

Just once I would like a message to start with something about my personality or an attempt to get to know me, maybe a question about my favourite colour or if I have pets instead of 'nice arse, fancy a fuck?'

*sigh*

Nice arse, fancy a fuck?

PS what's your favourite colour?

hehehehehehehe

Yes, yes and mauve hehehehehee"

I'll hammer out the sheets a bit and scrape off the worst of the crusty patches.

How soon can you be here?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I do feel like I am treat like an object on here at times.

I am a real person with real feelings and it can be so demeaning when all I am to some is a bottom or a cock.

Just once I would like a message to start with something about my personality or an attempt to get to know me, maybe a question about my favourite colour or if I have pets instead of 'nice arse, fancy a fuck?'

*sigh*

Nice arse, fancy a fuck?

PS what's your favourite colour?

hehehehehehehe

Yes, yes and mauve hehehehehee

I'll hammer out the sheets a bit and scrape off the worst of the crusty patches.

How soon can you be here? "

If Vic hasn't took the TM out I can be there yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give 'em an inch......

They'll ask where the other 7.5 are

I'm gonna use this joke at work

Er, hang on, where's my thingy..... ©

There, hands off Steve you tea leaf"

Your reward is the delight you'll take in (finally!) originating a really funny quip Chip my love! Who needs copyright??

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I do feel like I am treat like an object on here at times.

I am a real person with real feelings and it can be so demeaning when all I am to some is a bottom or a cock.

Just once I would like a message to start with something about my personality or an attempt to get to know me, maybe a question about my favourite colour or if I have pets instead of 'nice arse, fancy a fuck?'

*sigh*

Nice arse, fancy a fuck?

PS what's your favourite colour?

hehehehehehehe

Yes, yes and mauve hehehehehee

I'll hammer out the sheets a bit and scrape off the worst of the crusty patches.

How soon can you be here?

If Vic hasn't took the TM out I can be there yesterday."

Give me time to hammer the sheets for goodness sake!

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Bleh it's bad enough with so many women, now banging on about objectification.. without men starting to join the band waggon.

If a woman wants to treat me like a toy, good on her, if that's what turns her on, I'm up for a bit of fun, I get plenty of loving emotional sex elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtyqMTbv6tE

Not all in German, says all that matters really

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