FabSwingers.com forum: Silence !!

By *oxy lady 1 OP Couple
over a year ago

oxford

Why do couples chat a bit to you , then when you mention a date for a social ,they Disapear??!! Please peeps be honest and just say if we are not for you, its only polite. !!

. XxXx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am going to come off this shit site pointless. every message i send never gets a replay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"am going to come off this shit site pointless. every message i send never gets a replay. "

Best thing to do if you have that view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Why do couples chat a bit to you , then when you mention a date for a social ,they Disapear??!! "

When you say "Chat a bit"..how long do you mean?...

Because it matters...

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By *oxy lady 1 OP Couple
over a year ago

oxford

I mean chatting for a couple Of weeks, finding out about each other, then they just Disapear, its just rude !! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean chatting for a couple Of weeks, finding out about each other, then they just Disapear, its just rude !! Xx

It MIGHT not have had anything to do with you though...

You just **think** it had something to do with you because of the suggestion.

It might not have. At the same time..it could have.

Do you know either way?...nope!

Don't jump to conclusions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP a couple of weeks chatting isn't really that long. They may have just changed their minds! It does happen

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"OP a couple of weeks chatting isn't really that long. They may have just changed their minds! It does happen

Or something has happened in their lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"am going to come off this shit site pointless. every message i send never gets a replay. "

Proper Bo I tell thee

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Is it something you said?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"OP a couple of weeks chatting isn't really that long. They may have just changed their minds! It does happen

Any meet I have ever had has been within a few days of mailing.

Either you get along and have the horn for each other, or you can tell, they are either not for you or stringing you along.

For myself, if there is an overly long dialogue, I entertain the chatter, but pretty much know they will disappear.

I think people can sometimes put too much emphasis on having to like 100% of you. I pretty much always either put my foot in it or become bored with 20 questions type conversations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatting a while before meeting can lead to an amazing build up and a really good meet. Or either couple might actually realise that you or they are not really what was looked for originally. It's always easier to disappear or say nothing than to send the slightly embarrassing 'not really for us after all' message.

Plus, if someone had changed their mind about you would you really want to know? Chin up, their loss and move forward

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