FabSwingers.com forum: Very serious people on here

By *eerob OP Couple
over a year ago

solihull

There seem to be a lot of emotive threads at the moment. If someone want to chat about public nudity, rape scenarios and other potentially taboo or illegal subjects should we not allow this as long as it is done within the guidelines of the site. If someone does not agree then simply dont join in and allow others their few minutes of fantasy/fun without the party poopers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So basically people aren't allowed to disagree under your new rules. How boring!

Personally I have no problem with people having fun (like I said on the driving topless thread that is probably the inspiration for this one), it should be appropriate, legal and consentual for EVERYONE though and not put anyone's well being at risk. Otherwise 'fun' could end in tragedy.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

The site has to work within the law so certain subjects are frowned upon and threads deleted.

If you want people with a different opinion to your own to not give their opinion then it would not be a forum.

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

"There seem to be a lot of emotive threads at the moment. If someone want to chat about public nudity, rape scenarios and other potentially taboo or illegal subjects should we not allow this as long as it is done within the guidelines of the site. If someone does not agree then simply dont join in and allow others their few minutes of fantasy/fun without the party poopers. "

couldn't agree more, we regularly get told our dogging fun is illegal will get us put on the sex offenders register and harm families with children who might see us or bareback sex with strangers will give us aids .. lighten up we are careful who sees don't involve others in penetration and therefore Don't discard condoms .. ..Rant over!

Thanks OP ...let's have fun and chat on here without the knockers.(fnar fnar)

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

" rape scenarios and other potentially taboo or illegal subjects should we not allow this as long as it is done within the guidelines of the site. "

Sorry to say but both of these are strictly against site rules, so there will be no discussion on them Im afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The site has to work within the law so certain subjects are frowned upon and threads deleted.

If you want people with a different opinion to your own to not give their opinion then it would not be a forum."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing wrong with the threads, think the OP is to vanilla for some of it lol.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think it all works better when people add countering opinions. I've learnt a lot more in life from peeps who have disagreed with me than from people who just nod and agree with what I say. Naturally I then destroy them using voodoo for disagreeing with me, but one step at a time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

So basically if you have a different opinion to the original poster you shouldn't post?

Or just if you have a different opinion on public nudity and the other subjects you mentioned?

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By *eerob OP Couple
over a year ago

solihull

No i think if someone wants to discuss a subject with others they should be able to without getting loads of abuse. If someone ask for opinions then contrary _iews are welcome. Just think people should be judgemental under the appropriate circumstances. Oh by the way im not trying to impose new rules, just open the subject up for discussion, so contrary _iews welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No i think if someone wants to discuss a subject with others they should be able to without getting loads of abuse. If someone ask for opinions then contrary _iews are welcome. Just think people should be judgemental under the appropriate circumstances. Oh by the way im not trying to impose new rules, just open the subject up for discussion, so contrary _iews welcome. "

I rarely see anything I'd consider 'abuse' posted, just differing opinions and valid points....

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

to be fair, same topic, different night or gender of the OP.........

different reaction..

the recent Ebola one was a classic

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

what do you term abuse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The top 2 famous topics on discussion's are:

Married

Bareback

lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"The top 2 famous topics on discussion's are:

Married

Bareback

lol

closely followed by hairy or shaved

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By *eerob OP Couple
over a year ago

solihull

Subjects sometimes get so involved with moral arguments and opinions that they are soon lost. Dont think you have to look too far that things can get very heated and personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The top 2 famous topics on discussion's are:

Married

Bareback

lol

closely followed by hairy or shaved

Trimmed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The top 2 famous topics on discussion's are:

Married

Bareback

lol

closely followed by hairy or shaved

Yes that as well lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

" If someone want to chat about rape scenarios and other potentially taboo or illegal subjects should we not allow this as long as it is done within the guidelines of the site. .

None of those are allowed on the site though

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"The top 2 famous topics on discussion's are:

Married

Bareback

lol

closely followed by hairy or shaved

Trimmed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If everyone agreed life would be boring. The worst threads for me are the ones where everyone agrees. I like it when people put their hand up to disagree. I don't like fighting or childishness though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Subjects sometimes get so involved with moral arguments and opinions that they are soon lost. Dont think you have to look too far that things can get very heated and personal. "

Agree. No need to be personal. Adult debate is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seem to be a lot of emotive threads at the moment. If someone want to chat about public nudity, rape scenarios and other potentially taboo or illegal subjects should we not allow this as long as it is done within the guidelines of the site. If someone does not agree then simply dont join in and allow othetheir few minutes of fantasy/fun without the party poopers.

here here

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I think the OP meant he doesn't like boring people pointing out certain things are illegal or immoral or disturbing to other innocent bystanders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with this.

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By *eerob OP Couple
over a year ago

solihull

A hypothetical example. If i post a thread asking for peoples enjoyment or preference in eating baked beans, thats what i want to hear about. If i ask do you like, or tell me your experiences about baked beans then that opens up the discussion. I like a healthy debate, but it has to be relevant or asked for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A hypothetical example. If i post a thread asking for peoples enjoyment or preference in eating baked beans, thats what i want to hear about. If i ask do you like, or tell me your experiences about baked beans then that opens up the discussion. I like a healthy debate, but it has to be relevant or asked for. "

I only like Heinz. But they go straight through me so I don't have the often. I sometimes have haricot beans just on their own without the sauce. They still make you trump though.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Adult debate includes disagreement on the points raised, not the person raising the points.

Topics develop though and if the OP really wants to keep the thread on track then they need to take responsibility for guiding the subject back. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't.

Abuse on the thread, or in private messages (as happens), is not to be condoned.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yup...... I am a serious fucker

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I like a healthy debate, but it has to be relevant or asked for. "

But thats not how open forums work even though you personally might want them to....

As long as they stay within forum rules people can post whatever they want. The OP doesnt own the thread.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I wouldn't say I'm serious

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

That is your opinion, however not every one will agree with it and will post as they prefer...just as you do. There is no "has to be" about it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"yup...... I am a serious fucker

Yes View, do you have a new dentist? I think he or she might have given you the wrong dentures?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People throw rhe word abuse around way too quickly. Disagreeing with someone or offering opposing _iewpoint is not 'abuse'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So nobody could say they prefer not to eat baked beans?

I'm not sure whether it's the analogy that's flawed or I'm just missing the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Debate is good. Patronising and stating the obvious over and over isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

completely agree

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Debate is good. Patronising and stating the obvious over and over isn't "

are you absolutely sure about that banana dear, absolutely sure? Bless your little cotton, banana socks.

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

"I think it all works better when people add countering opinions. I've learnt a lot more in life from peeps who have disagreed with me than from people who just nod and agree with what I say. Naturally I then destroy them using voodoo for disagreeing with me, but one step at a time.

Wotcha Tina

Thing is there is disagreeing with someone which im cool with and am used to bigoted people (including surprisingly, some fellow fabsters) but some of the threads are quite frankly pissed on. Quite astounding replies that take the kink right out of the thread.

Im not into rape play or scat or a number of other things, but if someone wanted to discuss as an adult aspects of the subject then so be it.

To piss on a thread where someone mentions perhaps driving topless, or undressing in front of an uncurtained window is (please excuse the language but this really gets my goat) bloody trolling.

What you going to achieve? piss on someone fireworks? does it give you a sense of satisfaction? "oooh, job well done, put them in their place". Tossers, sod off and find a religious website where you can peddle your miserable diatribe where everybody will rally behind you. Leave this place to the real fabulous furry kinksters

Unbiased, unashamed, open minded, accepting, fabulous fun kinksters

THIS MESSAGE WAS BROUGHT TO YOU COURTESY OF THE FAMOUS FABULOUS FURRY KINK KREW

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

Actually that reads like im having a go at Tina, omg, please dont take it that way Tina, i was just quoting your message

love u really

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Debate is good. Patronising and stating the obvious over and over isn't

are you absolutely sure about that banana dear, absolutely sure? Bless your little cotton, banana socks.

I really want some sock that look like bananas now. What an awesome idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Debate is good. Patronising and stating the obvious over and over isn't

are you absolutely sure about that banana dear, absolutely sure? Bless your little cotton, banana socks.

I really want some sock that look like bananas now. What an awesome idea.

They are available...have a google

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wotcha Tina

Im not into rape play or scat or a number of other things, but if someone wanted to discuss as an adult aspects of the subject then so be it.

To piss on a thread where someone mentions perhaps driving topless, or undressing in front of an uncurtained window is (please excuse the language but this really gets my goat) bloody trolling.

Unbiased, unashamed, open minded, accepting, fabulous fun kinksters

THIS MESSAGE WAS BROUGHT TO YOU COURTESY OF THE FAMOUS FABULOUS FURRY KINK KREW

Amen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TUC.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anything is not taboo...unless it involves my mum/dad/children

thats it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So nobody could say they prefer not to eat baked beans?

I'm not sure whether it's the analogy that's flawed or I'm just missing the point

In the context of the question , there is absolutely no point whatsoever in saying you prefer not to eat baked beans is there ?

It's a bit like looking through posts to see which you don't like the subject matter and deliberately posting on each and every one that you don't like it .

Childish and unnecessary at best , and pointless and futile on another day .

Unless of course you want to play the devils advocate for your own personal satisfaction , in which case , enjoy

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

I like the political debates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"to be fair, same topic, different night or gender of the OP.........

different reaction..

the recent Ebola one was a classic"

That was horrible to read. All those people ganging up on the op. Yet nothing but laughs on the other thread. I am glad to say, I stood up for him. I have never been one to follow the rest of the sheep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YOU WHAT

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

I made a comment on the 2nd Ebola thread but didn't read the other one because I didn't see it until I had seen the 2nd. So I didn't laugh on one and not the other. I was giving my opinion.

To the OP - thread discussions are like real discussions, they digress and go off on tangents. It would be near impossible to keep a thread both active and 100% on topic all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like pie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like pie. "

I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like pie.

I don't

I ate them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like pie.

I don't

I ate them all

You ruddy bastard!

*shakes fist menacingly*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yup...... I am a serious fucker

Yes View, do you have a new dentist? I think he or she might have given you the wrong dentures?

was wondering how to say this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like pie.

I don't

I ate them all

You ruddy bastard!

*shakes fist menacingly*"

I'll leave a couple on the sofa for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like pie.

I don't

I ate them all

You ruddy bastard!

*shakes fist menacingly*"

well that sounded like a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like pie.

I don't

I ate them all

You ruddy bastard!

*shakes fist menacingly*

well that sounded like a wank"

All my wanks are kind of angry. I talk dirty to myself too while I'm doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like pie.

I don't

I ate them all

You ruddy bastard!

*shakes fist menacingly*

well that sounded like a wank

All my wanks are kind of angry. I talk dirty to myself too while I'm doing it. "

bet its a womans voice u put on too

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The site sets its own rules, as any business or service provider does and we all rightly oblige them. We should also respect others.

Common sense tells me when I have nothing to add, so I don't.

It's good to have a range of topics but worth not hijacking them for the sake of making a point - a bit like some strange outburst by a ranting stranger or d*unkard in the street.

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