FabSwingers.com forum: How much do you pay for sex?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Swinging can be pretty expensive when you think about it. Women's lingerie, £100 for a basque. Club prices, £70 for single guys. Meals and drinks out for socials. Weekends away for couples. Hotels, parties, alcohol, condoms.

How much do you spend on swinging each month?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't go to one so my spendings is = £0 lol

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

about 1.5 million pounds for my divorce she kept everything and it was her fault love from mr bitter

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

On average...fuck all!! Lol.

But then if I'm attending an event like our birthday social in June I don't even want to add it up! Dress, underwear, shoes, petrol, 2 new mac lipsticks, drink etc etc.. Which is why I can only do one or two a year!! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our last meet just cost us a round of drinks. So not expensive at all. Oh and a cab home so add £7:50 to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, can't afford it just now :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lingerie is for me..

I get gifts, treats.. Pay my way sometimes if needed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you need a calculator?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good question!

Depending whether I have an overnight stay it could be:

Hotel £50

Hair: £30

Waxing various bits: £20

Club entry: zero or £5 ish

lingerie: have enough at moment but about £60 a throw

Hold ups: £5

Drinks: £10

So around £180 ish tho not every month (wish I could!) Swinging ain't cheap for anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swinging can be pretty expensive when you think about it. Women's lingerie, £100 for a basque. Club prices, £70 for single guys. Meals and drinks out for socials. Weekends away for couples. Hotels, parties, alcohol, condoms.

How much do you spend on swinging each month?"

So far not much.

Visiting a club soon though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is not cheap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what we are doing, Mo spends about £40 a month on average on sexy outfits, we can spend on social meets up to £80 to £100 a month when we have the time. Finally a visit to a club with cost us £120 up.

This is all money that we wouldn't ordinarily spend and obviously not something we do often.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It depends on the event, obviously the one in June coast a small fortune, If I invite a meet to mine, I always make sure I buy in what they eat/drink.

More than likely a new lingerie outfit as well for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lingerie I would be buying anyway as I like wearing pretty things.

The clubs/parties/socials, if we didn't go to them we would be having nights out with other friends or just the 2 of us, so don't spend more than we would of done before we entered this life style, it's just something we budget accordingly for.

So for sex £0 for our lifestyle between £40- 150 each month

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Petrol if I'm going anywhere.

I wear the same stuff repeatedly and have used the same mascara for years (yep, I know, don't bug me). I don't have fancy nails or hairdressers to pay for and I do my own de-fuzzing and plucking. I don't wear make-up apart from that old mascara.

I don't drink and get my condoms from the NHS and getting into clubs is little or no expense with an occasional hotel stay.

If I'm entertaining at home, it costs little more than a pot of coffee and a shower of hot water.

Sorted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My lingerie is for me..

I get gifts, treats.. Pay my way sometimes if needed.

pay your way sometimes if needed???

i expect to pay halves for thé hotel etc. It's only fair. Some don't let me but I will always offer .. After all I'm not there for the man's enjoyment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey. We don't spend anywhere near as much as you lot. Our swinging nights out are a lot cheaper than a normal night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As little as possible as I'm rather skint and live in my overdraft

But I do pay fuel costs to go to a meet, will offer to go halves on a hotel ans to pay my way at dinner etc

Then there is a few quid for stockings and if I buy a new outfit, so if averaged out over a year I would guess about £40 to £50 a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really need to start making an effort then, all my social meets I rock up in leggings and a hoody with trainers on cos it's all I live in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each month? I couldn't calculate it monthly as I don't buy lingerie especially or go to clubs. My main outlay would be travelling money,condoms and lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really need to start making an effort then, all my social meets I rock up in leggings and a hoody with trainers on cos it's all I live in!

Hun if I looked like you I would be able to get away with that too

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Really need to start making an effort then, all my social meets I rock up in leggings and a hoody with trainers on cos it's all I live in!

I always wanted to hug a hoody, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just bus fare and coffee. Don't need nice underwear just for socials

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As little as possible as I'm rather skint and live in my overdraft

But I do pay fuel costs to go to a meet, will offer to go halves on a hotel ans to pay my way at dinner etc

Then there is a few quid for stockings and if I buy a new outfit, so if averaged out over a year I would guess about £40 to £50 a month

I think I spend about the same averaged out. We do something different all the time. Our last adventure cost me £2.99 and a bit of diy. It was bloody good fun though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gaffa Tape - £3

Cable Ties - £1

Blindfold - £5

Stolen Number Plates - £100

Good Solicitor - £££££££££'s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not contributing to.a hotel.if its already.paid for by someones employer....

Or if they are the manager and its a freebie ..

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

In Cap d Agde can be three hundred pounds in a week. However the clubs are excellent and if you take the correct approach will have an excellent time . These are nights that you will remember for the rest of your life . Some nights have entertained three different ladies. Great performing in front of an audience as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last meet cost me, a few nice drinks at home,and a Domino's pizza about 1am

Hungry work this meeting lark.

But other nights it can cost a good night out, painting the town red, so it varies I guess. As long as its a fun time, that's all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

half my fucking house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My lingerie is for me..

I get gifts, treats.. Pay my way sometimes if needed.

pay your way sometimes if needed???

i expect to pay halves for thé hotel etc. It's only fair. Some don't let me but I will always offer .. After all I'm not there for the man's enjoyment. "

I don't pay for hotels. If a man wants to pay for a hotel because he doesn't accommodate I'm there for our enjoyment not his. If I got the impression he thought he was paying to be serviced I wouldn't meet him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus, its cheaper as well to shag in your home, no hotel to pay for lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends

Fuel cost

Half the hotel costs

Club fees

Don't have nails done or waxing. (DIY)

Buy a lot of bits from eBay

Average 40 quid a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Our local club, Isis, is only £10 entry for couples before 9pm. There isn't a licensed bar so we take a couple of £5 bottles of wine with us.

That's a pretty cheap night out for anyone.

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By *moke itMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Gaffa Tape - £3

Cable Ties - £1

Blindfold - £5

Stolen Number Plates - £100

Good Solicitor - £££££££££'s

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haha brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend about £50-£80 per month if averaged over the year. That's what I pay out for swinging related activities, not always sex though.

Less than a couple of vanilla nights out a month that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good question!

Depending whether I have an overnight stay it could be:

Hotel £50

Hair: £30

Waxing various bits: £20

Club entry: zero or £5 ish

lingerie: have enough at moment but about £60 a throw

Hold ups: £5

Drinks: £10

So around £180 ish tho not every month (wish I could!) Swinging ain't cheap for anyone!

That's about right xxx

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"In Cap d Agde can be three hundred pounds in a week. However the clubs are excellent and if you take the correct approach will have an excellent time . These are nights that you will remember for the rest of your life . Some nights have entertained three different ladies. Great performing in front of an audience as well."
Last night half a gallon of petrol. A lady whom I see regularly when in Belfast . It is straight to her house and down to action. Husband arranges the meet, I supply the goods .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing

We have a winner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that much, I don't class hair, waxing, underwear etc as meet cost because id do that anyway, if I didn't meet I wouldn't walk round with a mono brow underwear less

A meet on average costs me half towards a hotel and a few drinks so around £30

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

1 luurve sausage. 1/2 if I'm being frugal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every one who is a site supporter pays atleast £5 per month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever the cost of a squirt of lube a day is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really need to start making an effort then, all my social meets I rock up in leggings and a hoody with trainers on cos it's all I live in!

You could turn up in a bin liner, made in Britain of course

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

How much do you spend on swinging each month?"

Depending on the hotel, about £100 a month. I am good at re-using outfits as I don't feel the need to get new lingerie for every meet. Sorry guys - those outfits are second hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every one who is a site supporter pays atleast £5 per month

Per 60 days for me I think

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We certainly don't think of it as paying for sex.... We're just paying for a great night out. If that leads to some sexy fun with others, then that's a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my case quite a lot - but that's because most of my social life is now at swinging clubs/parties - Where I chat/giggle with friends far more often than I have sex! I must confess I spend a lot more on cosmetics and matching lingerie than I used to - and I never seem to find stockings which survive more than one wear - But the biggest expense for me is petrol! I fill my car up far more often than I used to travelling to clubs, parties and meets. The places I go/people I meet make it well worth the time, petrol and effort though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, when i do go. It does get costly. Not exactly breaking the back but does cost a bit.

So, usually..

Hotel: 50/60 quid*

Train Tickets: 5-55 quid*

New Jeans: 25-30 quid

New Top: 25-30 quid

Boxers: 35 quid

Shoes: 30 quid

Bag: 20-30 quid

Food and drinks: 30 quid

Beard, moustache and hair: 10 quid*

*costs may vary depending on location/event and body hair levels.

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

When we first got into swinging it would cost upwrds of £500.

Air fares (ferry)

Hotel

Food

Hire car (sometimes)

Petrol

Drink monies for the initial meet

That was all before what the lady would spend on the niceties

Guernsey being a small island you have to be careful who you meet everyone knows someone who might know something, it got really expensive doing that 3 to 4 times a year so we started to look local, does not cost us that much now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far, the cost of being here and the occasional scone

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Well, when i do go. It does get costly. Not exactly breaking the back but does cost a bit.

So, usually..

Hotel: 50/60 quid*

Train Tickets: 5-55 quid*

New Jeans: 25-30 quid

New Top: 25-30 quid

Boxers: 35 quid

Shoes: 30 quid

Bag: 20-30 quid

Food and drinks: 30 quid

Beard, moustache and hair: 10 quid*

*costs may vary depending on location/event and body hair levels.

You buy clothes for every meet and event you go to? What do you do with all the old ones?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

About £70 a month.

Plus the ancillary costs of buying things you lot introduce me to, such as crumpet bread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much do you spend on swinging each month?

Depending on the hotel, about £100 a month. I am good at re-using outfits as I don't feel the need to get new lingerie for every meet. Sorry guys - those outfits are second hand.

I doubt anyone buys new outfits for every meet, I don't buy new for meets ever, I buy new cloths and underwear as I need them or if I see something I like, when I get meet I just cluster up something I already have, there's no way id cough up for new everytime I met a guy off here, its a sex site it don't take over my life to that extent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, when i do go. It does get costly. Not exactly breaking the back but does cost a bit.

So, usually..

Hotel: 50/60 quid*

Train Tickets: 5-55 quid*

New Jeans: 25-30 quid

New Top: 25-30 quid

Boxers: 35 quid

Shoes: 30 quid

Bag: 20-30 quid

Food and drinks: 30 quid

Beard, moustache and hair: 10 quid*

*costs may vary depending on location/event and body hair levels.

A bloke buying a new bag.. Surely that's a one time purchase??

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Swinging is not cheap

Dogging is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About £70 a month.

Plus the ancillary costs of buying things you lot introduce me to, such as crumpet bread. "

Are you going all northern on us ?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Do you need a calculator? "

I not sure why you got the rolly eyes as I have asked the same question as you have a few times as it can mount up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, when i do go. It does get costly. Not exactly breaking the back but does cost a bit.

So, usually..

Hotel: 50/60 quid*

Train Tickets: 5-55 quid*

New Jeans: 25-30 quid

New Top: 25-30 quid

Boxers: 35 quid

Shoes: 30 quid

Bag: 20-30 quid

Food and drinks: 30 quid

Beard, moustache and hair: 10 quid*

*costs may vary depending on location/event and body hair levels.

You buy clothes for every meet and event you go to? What do you do with all the old ones?"

I wear them?

...well, the meets and events i go to are quite rare. So you're talking about maybe once or twice a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About £70 a month.

Plus the ancillary costs of buying things you lot introduce me to, such as crumpet bread. "

Not had that in months

Not working next to a Greenhalghs has its downsides

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you need a calculator?

I not sure why you got the rolly eyes as I have asked the same question as you have a few times as it can mount up...

Probably my choice of thread title. My naughty play on words.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not that much, I don't class hair, waxing, underwear etc as meet cost because id do that anyway, if I didn't meet I wouldn't walk round with a mono brow underwear less

A meet on average costs me half towards a hotel and a few drinks so around £30 "

Mono brow.

I shave my tache even if I don't have a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1.56 a minute for playboy tv most expensive wank you've had lol only joking only paid once when went Amsterdam but she was beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not that much, I don't class hair, waxing, underwear etc as meet cost because id do that anyway, if I didn't meet I wouldn't walk round with a mono brow underwear less

A meet on average costs me half towards a hotel and a few drinks so around £30

Mono brow.

I shave my tache even if I don't have a meet.

it just makes me laugh when people add the costs of waxing, nails etc to the cost of meet, don't you do that anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When we first got into swinging it would cost upwrds of £500.

Air fares (ferry)

Hotel

Food

Hire car (sometimes)

Petrol

Drink monies for the initial meet

That was all before what the lady would spend on the niceties

"
oh me days not many swingers there i take it you must be keen has mustard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most recently...(yesterday). Fuel from Malvern to Castle Morton (4 miles) packet of bacon, mushrooms and eggs (£4 ish) for breakfast this morning. I was provided with tea, wine, bed for the night (shared of course lol), tea n coffee whenever needed, lunch today......all in all a good deal I reckon.

Was with my bestest mate Marilyn tho....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not that much, I don't class hair, waxing, underwear etc as meet cost because id do that anyway, if I didn't meet I wouldn't walk round with a mono brow underwear less

A meet on average costs me half towards a hotel and a few drinks so around £30

Mono brow.

I shave my tache even if I don't have a meet.

it just makes me laugh when people add the costs of waxing, nails etc to the cost of meet, don't you do that anyway?"

I do.

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Quite a lot judging by my last meet

I was invited to chams near the motorway in the west mids

When I picked her up she dropped the bombshell that another guy was coming

He turned out to be her fuck buddy

I was ignored all night

And it cost me 40 quid in petrol

I dropped them both off at his

And she text on the Sunday morning asking me to pick her up and drop her home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A snippet of my soul, an iota of self-respect and a smidgen of my sanity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite a lot judging by my last meet

I was invited to chams near the motorway in the west mids

When I picked her up she dropped the bombshell that another guy was coming

He turned out to be her fuck buddy

I was ignored all night

And it cost me 40 quid in petrol

I dropped them both off at his

And she text on the Sunday morning asking me to pick her up and drop her home "

without wanting to sound harsh more fool you for doing it, if I arranged to meet someone and they turned up with someone else I'd have turned round and gone home

People can only use you if you allow yourself to be used, after being ignored all night why the hell did you take them home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A snippet of my soul, an iota of self-respect and a smidgen of my sanity."

that's an expensive shag lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Quite a lot judging by my last meet

I was invited to chams near the motorway in the west mids

When I picked her up she dropped the bombshell that another guy was coming

He turned out to be her fuck buddy

I was ignored all night

And it cost me 40 quid in petrol

I dropped them both off at his

And she text on the Sunday morning asking me to pick her up and drop her home

without wanting to sound harsh more fool you for doing it, if I arranged to meet someone and they turned up with someone else I'd have turned round and gone home

People can only use you if you allow yourself to be used, after being ignored all night why the hell did you take them home?

I would have driven off as soon as she turned up with the fb!

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Yeah thanks but I really liked her

She has suggested we go again but she hasn't mentioned him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah thanks but I really liked her

She has suggested we go again but she hasn't mentioned him "

Yet

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Yes I no you say yet

But I'm keeping my fingers crossed

Don't really want to give him a lift again as they say in the back whispering and giggling all the way back

I couldn't say a word as I wasn't in the conversation

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I no you say yet

But I'm keeping my fingers crossed

Don't really want to give him a lift again as they say in the back whispering and giggling all the way back

I couldn't say a word as I wasn't in the conversation "

But do you like that? As a cuck scenario? In which case that's good.

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

"Yes I no you say yet

But I'm keeping my fingers crossed

Don't really want to give him a lift again as they say in the back whispering and giggling all the way back

I couldn't say a word as I wasn't in the conversation

But do you like that? As a cuck scenario? In which case that's good.

Yes I liked pleasing her and sort of had an idea she was using me but I felt wanted bit yes I don't regret it and I spent 7 years as a cuck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just bought 2 boxes of 10 skyns condoms for 50p each were £10 each lol do in all set for a quid!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stupid predictive text!!

so I'm all set!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not that much, I don't class hair, waxing, underwear etc as meet cost because id do that anyway, if I didn't meet I wouldn't walk round with a mono brow underwear less

A meet on average costs me half towards a hotel and a few drinks so around £30

Mono brow.

I shave my tache even if I don't have a meet.

it just makes me laugh when people add the costs of waxing, nails etc to the cost of meet, don't you do that anyway?"

my waxing is for me, every four weeks, my hair coloured and cut every six, again for me. eyebrows etc for me every four weeks. I do my own hair for a meet, dont get hairdresser specially, had no complaints. I know you werent talking to me but Im agreeing with you

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"Quite a lot judging by my last meet

I was invited to chams near the motorway in the west mids

When I picked her up she dropped the bombshell that another guy was coming

He turned out to be her fuck buddy

I was ignored all night

And it cost me 40 quid in petrol

I dropped them both off at his

And she text on the Sunday morning asking me to pick her up and drop her home "

And we're you mug enough to do that???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets be honest it cost as much as you want it too.

I rarely drink on a meet so I can drive. And the petrol money I spend is far less than that I would going for meal/drinks with friends on a fri nite.

As for clothes,lingerie, makeup I spend a small fortune on that anyway!and wouldnt have it any over way.xx

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

"Quite a lot judging by my last meet

I was invited to chams near the motorway in the west mids

When I picked her up she dropped the bombshell that another guy was coming

He turned out to be her fuck buddy

I was ignored all night

And it cost me 40 quid in petrol

I dropped them both off at his

And she text on the Sunday morning asking me to pick her up and drop her home

And we're you mug enough to do that???

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Yes but I didn't feel like a mug I liked her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"about 1.5 million pounds for my divorce she kept everything and it was her fault love from mr bitter"

Oh gosh!! You should've taken up gambling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite a lot judging by my last meet

I was invited to chams near the motorway in the west mids

When I picked her up she dropped the bombshell that another guy was coming

He turned out to be her fuck buddy

I was ignored all night

And it cost me 40 quid in petrol

I dropped them both off at his

And she text on the Sunday morning asking me to pick her up and drop her home

And we're you mug enough to do that???

Yes but I didn't feel like a mug I liked her "

Pity she don't like you as much x

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

"Quite a lot judging by my last meet

I was invited to chams near the motorway in the west mids

When I picked her up she dropped the bombshell that another guy was coming

He turned out to be her fuck buddy

I was ignored all night

And it cost me 40 quid in petrol

I dropped them both off at his

And she text on the Sunday morning asking me to pick her up and drop her home

And we're you mug enough to do that???

Yes but I didn't feel like a mug I liked her

Pity she don't like you as much x"

Yes well I havnt given up yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey. We don't spend anywhere near as much as you lot. Our swinging nights out are a lot cheaper than a normal night. "

And ours. Other than a big social like xtasia or jaydees this year tge cost is minimal. Admission to a local club, petrol and a couple of drinks is comparable to a meal out and cheaper than a night out in London or a gig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My lingerie is for me..

I get gifts, treats.. Pay my way sometimes if needed.

pay your way sometimes if needed???

i expect to pay halves for thé hotel etc. It's only fair. Some don't let me but I will always offer .. After all I'm not there for the man's enjoyment.

Ah but I don't accommodate and can't travel very far either so most of the guys I meet would accommodate but they are too far away for me to travel there and back in an evening.....I feel a bit demanding saying" I can't accom, you have a perfectly good place where you can, but I want you to travel to me and pay for the room".....thats more than a bit cheeky and doesn't sit well with me.

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By *uperGuy68Man
over a year ago

Southampton

I shave my tache even if I don't have a meet.

Hope you're going to leave it on for Movember!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1.56 a minute for playboy tv most expensive wank you've had lol only joking only paid once when went Amsterdam but she was beautiful "

,£3.12 ??

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

2nd hand fur coat and no knickers and walk to keep costs down. 60 quid. Faux, of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The quantifiable monetary cost is probably minimal.

The sheer human cost of the hours spent trying to find someone that I like, who isn't Wiener-the-5-minute-wonder, is horrific.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bugger all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The quantifiable monetary cost is probably minimal.

The sheer human cost of the hours spent trying to find someone that I like, who isn't Wiener-the-5-minute-wonder, is horrific.

2 shuffles and a squirt.... I feel your pain!!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

How much do you spend on swinging each month?"

Each month? We don't.

Every other month £5 (site supporter pass)

Our club visits? Fuel, entry and drinks £30-50 + another £30 if we're staying over.

House parties? Fuel and a couple of bottles.

In the grand scheme of things? Feck all!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Well on a monthly basis not a lot...my party cost me a few hundred quid with food, decorations etc but it was so worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

coffee at ours - or a couple of drinkies at a pub is the most we spend out on a social - the club visits dont happen that often and spend much less than if we had a night in bars in town - i prefer naked so only have a few items to wear to clubs (not bothered if people have seen that lacy black dress before as it comes off rather quickly anyway) -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On average...fuck all!! Lol.

TWO mac lippies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never really thought about it.

The only extra 'costs' are fuel and club entry (if I'm going to a club). Everything else I would consider to be part of my normal monthly expenses (toiletries, condoms etc).

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Most months very little as it's only really club trips that cost a lot for me. I'm not in a position to spend much on it so I limit myself to fit what I can afford.

Lingerie, yes, it's expensive. I have a few things and I tend to stick to those. I add to them when I can but finding suitable stuff to fit my boobage is difficult and I'm not often able to afford new undies.

Waxing is £37 every 5 weeks but I get it done whether I'm meeting or not.

My last club visit was Xtasia. That's a 340 mile round trip so fuel was probably around £40.

I was there for 2 nights so the hotel was around £100, plus food and drinks.

I also spent £100 on new makeup that weekend because there were several things I needed, (including false nails, lashes and lash glue - just those 3 things were £25).

I also bought new hold-ups. They're £5 or £6 or so in M&S, I think. I can't really remember.

Entry to the club was free (it was FFFF). I drank mostly water, with a few Smirnoff Ices and the odd cocktail. Perhaps £30 or £40 across the two nights? That's a guess though.

It's a weekend away for me and something I can only do 2 or 3 times a year.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Oh... I didn't actually even have sex that weekend, so make of that what you will!

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"We certainly don't think of it as paying for sex.... We're just paying for a great night out. If that leads to some sexy fun with others, then that's a bonus

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I pay nowt. If it's not here or within walking distance, I'm not interested.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Not alot...most of our meets are private so the cost of a bottle of wine/beer and condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cost of an occasional Zinger burger so I can stock up on wipes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hardly any cost at all. Lingerie is not that expensive online, certainly would never spend £70 on a basque!. Socials are either out for coffee or at home. Condoms are free from clinics and besides single guys we meet bring their own.

Only real expense is when we occasionally visit clubs and that is not anymore than going out for a good meal.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"The quantifiable monetary cost is probably minimal.

The sheer human cost of the hours spent trying to find someone that I like, who isn't Wiener-the-5-minute-wonder, is horrific.

Yes, I should use my hourly rate to work that out, then slap myself for wasting so much of my own time.

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