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"You open yourself up to pain so bad you can't eat or sleep and you feel so sick. In mu honest opinion love is over rated. I truly loved once and never want that again" I totally agree x | |||
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"You open yourself up to pain so bad you can't eat or sleep and you feel so sick. In mu honest opinion love is over rated. I truly loved once and never want that again I totally agree x" Surely true love is forever, regardless? Still hurst though. | |||
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"You open yourself up to pain so bad you can't eat or sleep and you feel so sick. I truly loved once and never want that again" I see it in others, but it's something that's eluded me. | |||
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"You open yourself up to pain so bad you can't eat or sleep and you feel so sick. In mu honest opinion love is over rated. I truly loved once and never want that again I totally agree x" Glad I'm not alone in that. My fruends seem to think I will again but I really don't so I won't | |||
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"You open yourself up to pain so bad you can't eat or sleep and you feel so sick. In mu honest opinion love is over rated. I truly loved once and never want that again I totally agree x Surely true love is forever, regardless? Still hurst though." I will always love this guy but I'm done with it all now | |||
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"There is absolutely no trouble with being in love. There may be issues if it's not reciprocal or if things go wrong, but being in love is great and no trouble. " This is great in itself | |||
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"Men are from Venus... women are from Mars remember that " I gave a copy to friends who were off on a second honeymoon to try to reinvigorate their marriage. They fell out on the plane over who got to read it first | |||
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"You open yourself up to pain so bad you can't eat or sleep and you feel so sick. In mu honest opinion love is over rated. I truly loved once and never want that again I totally agree x" a truly tragic admission | |||
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"....waiting to be hurt x " Not going to happen | |||
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"No the worst thing ever is never to have loved at all That is sad " I would have preferred not have ever been in love. | |||
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"Is...... ??" there's no escape. | |||
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"...you open yourself to being hurt " Being alive risks getting hurt! | |||
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"...you open yourself to being hurt Being alive risks getting hurt!" | |||
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"There is absolutely no trouble with being in love. There may be issues if it's not reciprocal or if things go wrong, but being in love is great and no trouble. " Beat me to it. | |||
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"Being in love is blissfully, intoxicating, ......then there is no pain like the heartbreak when you know they will get taken from you before their time ." I hear ya, when my husband died, the physical hurt was like going cold turkey from a drug | |||
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"Love is dopamine, oxytocin and serotonin. For good or bad these make us feel the way we do. " | |||
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"You risk being eternally happy ! " Eternally thats a big word why Not happy.... | |||
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"love is... a dated cartoon from the seventies, featuring people with whom love would be illegal..." I remember them | |||
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"Being in love is blissfully, intoxicating, ......then there is no pain like the heartbreak when you know they will get taken from you before their time . I hear ya, when my husband died, the physical hurt was like going cold turkey from a drug" Hugs and kisses for your loss xxx | |||
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"No the worst thing ever is never to have loved at all That is sad " Why is it? You can't miss what you have never had | |||
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"Is...... ??" Everybody sing now.. "Sky rockets in flight....(booooo!) Afternoon delight.. ..............Afternoon delight!" Sorry ... I keep watching 'Anchorman' | |||
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"Is...... ?? Everybody sing now.. "Sky rockets in flight....(booooo!) Afternoon delight.. ..............Afternoon delight!" Sorry ... I keep watching 'Anchorman' " SSEEEEEXXXXXXXX | |||
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"Being in love is blissfully, intoxicating, ......then there is no pain like the heartbreak when you know they will get taken from you before their time . I hear ya, when my husband died, the physical hurt was like going cold turkey from a drug" I hear that, just lost my partner and it hurts so bad...it's the turning to say something to them and they're not there, the I must tell her that later when something amuses you and you can't...cuts inside like a knife to think about her and what I've lost | |||
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"All the bad things being described are not about "being in love". They are descriptions of the pain of the absence of love or the one sided nature of a love they feel. Yes, it hurts like nothing else when you love someone and it is not reciprocated or if you have had a great love and that has been lost through death (relationship ending fits under non-reciprocity). Being in love feels wonderful and makes the world seem a better place. I don't think there is anything bad about that. " That's just made me cry......... | |||
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"All the bad things being described are not about "being in love". They are descriptions of the pain of the absence of love or the one sided nature of a love they feel. Yes, it hurts like nothing else when you love someone and it is not reciprocated or if you have had a great love and that has been lost through death (relationship ending fits under non-reciprocity). Being in love feels wonderful and makes the world seem a better place. I don't think there is anything bad about that. That's just made me cry........." You crying just made me cry. | |||
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"All the bad things being described are not about "being in love". They are descriptions of the pain of the absence of love or the one sided nature of a love they feel. Yes, it hurts like nothing else when you love someone and it is not reciprocated or if you have had a great love and that has been lost through death (relationship ending fits under non-reciprocity). Being in love feels wonderful and makes the world seem a better place. I don't think there is anything bad about that. " It isn't the greatest thing about being in love though, OP wanted the worst.. think they covered it :L | |||
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"All the bad things being described are not about "being in love". They are descriptions of the pain of the absence of love or the one sided nature of a love they feel. Yes, it hurts like nothing else when you love someone and it is not reciprocated or if you have had a great love and that has been lost through death (relationship ending fits under non-reciprocity). Being in love feels wonderful and makes the world seem a better place. I don't think there is anything bad about that. " I agree | |||
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"All the bad things being described are not about "being in love". They are descriptions of the pain of the absence of love or the one sided nature of a love they feel. Yes, it hurts like nothing else when you love someone and it is not reciprocated or if you have had a great love and that has been lost through death (relationship ending fits under non-reciprocity). Being in love feels wonderful and makes the world seem a better place. I don't think there is anything bad about that. That's just made me cry......... You crying just made me cry." Tissues! I haven't got any! I need to call my dad tell him I love him........... | |||
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"All the bad things being described are not about "being in love". They are descriptions of the pain of the absence of love or the one sided nature of a love they feel. Yes, it hurts like nothing else when you love someone and it is not reciprocated or if you have had a great love and that has been lost through death (relationship ending fits under non-reciprocity). Being in love feels wonderful and makes the world seem a better place. I don't think there is anything bad about that. It isn't the greatest thing about being in love though, OP wanted the worst.. think they covered it :L" Ah, well I have a bit of a view that the being in love when it isn't reciprocated isn't being in love at all. Being in love happens when you are both engaged in the activity. The other stuff is the madness of chemicals, lust, a deep need to be loved and/or enjoying the buzz of a new person. | |||
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"Being in love is blissfully, intoxicating, ......then there is no pain like the heartbreak when you know they will get taken from you before their time . I hear ya, when my husband died, the physical hurt was like going cold turkey from a drug I hear that, just lost my partner and it hurts so bad...it's the turning to say something to them and they're not there, the I must tell her that later when something amuses you and you can't...cuts inside like a knife to think about her and what I've lost" Big hugs to you ((((hug)))) | |||
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" Invariably, the other person doesn't love you. Some don't even know about it , , " That is really sad' | |||
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"Ah, well I have a bit of a view that the being in love when it isn't reciprocated isn't being in love at all. " Unrequited love certainly isn't the same but I'd definitely think it is love still. | |||
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"All the bad things being described are not about "being in love". They are descriptions of the pain of the absence of love or the one sided nature of a love they feel. Yes, it hurts like nothing else when you love someone and it is not reciprocated or if you have had a great love and that has been lost through death (relationship ending fits under non-reciprocity). Being in love feels wonderful and makes the world seem a better place. I don't think there is anything bad about that. That's just made me cry......... You crying just made me cry. Tissues! I haven't got any! I need to call my dad tell him I love him..........." Ffs | |||
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"All the bad things being described are not about "being in love". They are descriptions of the pain of the absence of love or the one sided nature of a love they feel. Yes, it hurts like nothing else when you love someone and it is not reciprocated or if you have had a great love and that has been lost through death (relationship ending fits under non-reciprocity). Being in love feels wonderful and makes the world seem a better place. I don't think there is anything bad about that. It isn't the greatest thing about being in love though, OP wanted the worst.. think they covered it :L Ah, well I have a bit of a view that the being in love when it isn't reciprocated isn't being in love at all " Your dead right, it's borderline stalker :L it would be a grand old world if we all got what we wanted from people though :P | |||
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"Ah, well I have a bit of a view that the being in love when it isn't reciprocated isn't being in love at all. Unrequited love certainly isn't the same but I'd definitely think it is love still." I used to think that too but I have come to change my mind over the years. | |||
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"Ah, well I have a bit of a view that the being in love when it isn't reciprocated isn't being in love at all. Unrequited love certainly isn't the same but I'd definitely think it is love still. I used to think that too but I have come to change my mind over the years. " A woman change her mind? | |||
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"There is absolutely no trouble with being in love. There may be issues if it's not reciprocal or if things go wrong, but being in love is great and no trouble. " | |||
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"Ah, well I have a bit of a view that the being in love when it isn't reciprocated isn't being in love at all. Unrequited love certainly isn't the same but I'd definitely think it is love still. I used to think that too but I have come to change my mind over the years. A woman change her mind? " I also admit when I am wrong. | |||
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"Being in love is blissfully, intoxicating, ......then there is no pain like the heartbreak when you know they will get taken from you before their time . I hear ya, when my husband died, the physical hurt was like going cold turkey from a drug I hear that, just lost my partner and it hurts so bad...it's the turning to say something to them and they're not there, the I must tell her that later when something amuses you and you can't...cuts inside like a knife to think about her and what I've lost Big hugs to you ((((hug))))" Thank you hun xx | |||
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"Ah, well I have a bit of a view that the being in love when it isn't reciprocated isn't being in love at all. Unrequited love certainly isn't the same but I'd definitely think it is love still. I used to think that too but I have come to change my mind over the years. " I think it starts as falling in love but because it is unrequited it can distort the feelings of love and therefore the unrequited lover's behaviour. | |||
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