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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive chatted to this guy on/off for god gotta b 3 months now, but a meet never happens, its not on my part i always say im free etc etc and im startin to feel a lil played now! Duno if he jst messin wiv me or it jst aint happened for whatever reason bt ive just told him we shud jst leave it now ( dnt mind chattin to any1 for any length of time needed bt wen i feel a meet is on cards u know). Proper gutted tho he seems nice guy, jst my type and we ad lot in common n got on well

Shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres plenty more if your willing to keep looking!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"theres plenty more if your willing to keep looking!"

im lookin haha jst a shame he soooooo hot haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he gets off on the chat but lacks the nerve to meet, time to cut your losses and look elsewhere?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe he gets off on the chat but lacks the nerve to meet, time to cut your losses and look elsewhere?"

agreed cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent over a year chatting and flirting with someone before we had any 'fun'- but that was partly because we both worked shifts and lived an hour apart, so it took a while but it was worth the wait.

Its up to you to decide how long you want to keep contact for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I spent over a year chatting and flirting with someone before we had any 'fun'- but that was partly because we both worked shifts and lived an hour apart, so it took a while but it was worth the wait.

Its up to you to decide how long you want to keep contact for"

I live 10mins away and wrk nxt door to his or where he says he lives haha....id chat aslong as needed bt its not wrk or distance issues

Ah well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why keep chatting to a catfish for so long? I know within a couple of mails if someone is dodgy and I stop mailing.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

It will be one of those women pretending to be a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in my experience this happens for one reason.. he is married and just likes the chase and excitement but has no intention of actually meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't allow him 3 months to mess you about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have chatted to people for longer than that before ive met them,I don't rush,I can't be pushed and I do things at my pace and how I want,if it happens it happens,if it doesn't then never mind

If you feel you're being messed around then you have done the right thing in telling him to leave it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got chatting to a lovely young lady 5 years ago on a dating site, after some time we arranged to go for dinner (before I was driving) the day of the meet we had a snowstorm and all the trains were cancelled. She then moved about 250 miles up north, we've stayed in touch ever since and met earleir this year, we still talk now, and will get together again soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's his reasons for not meeting? Do you only chat on here or have you exchanged mobile numbers? Do you talk on the phone? Have sufficient amount of pictures been exchanged?

I'm paranoid as fuck of people being fake and I trust my gut when something feels dodgy or too good to be true.

If I've exchanged some messages with someone I like and I'm interested in meeting then we'll exchange numbers, failing that kik, now on kik when someone sends you a picture from their photo album there's a symbol on the picture which says gallery, when they've actually taken an instant picture it displays a camera, that way you know that the person you are chatting with is the person in the pictures.

I'll put people images through tineye reverse image search or google image search to see if their pictures have been ripped off the internet. If someone has a fantastic dick that looks too good to be true I've asked them for pictures of it next to a protein shake mixer, a copy of today's picture, I've even told people to write my name on their dick before if I've ever had doubts. If they can't or won't prove their authenticity I'll just say right "off you fuck"

We have to admit that there are some strange people around and whatever their motives they enjoy tricking people. Don't feel bad about bit meeting someone who probably isn't even real in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that all the time. Just thought it was how this site worked lol

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Happened to me recently with someone I have been talking to on and off for months, the day we were supposed to meet he defriended and blocked me, strange as he was doing all the chasing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's his reasons for not meeting? Do you only chat on here or have you exchanged mobile numbers? Do you talk on the phone? Have sufficient amount of pictures been exchanged?

I'm paranoid as fuck of people being fake and I trust my gut when something feels dodgy or too good to be true.

If I've exchanged some messages with someone I like and I'm interested in meeting then we'll exchange numbers, failing that kik, now on kik when someone sends you a picture from their photo album there's a symbol on the picture which says gallery, when they've actually taken an instant picture it displays a camera, that way you know that the person you are chatting with is the person in the pictures.

I'll put people images through tineye reverse image search or google image search to see if their pictures have been ripped off the internet. If someone has a fantastic dick that looks too good to be true I've asked them for pictures of it next to a protein shake mixer, a copy of today's picture, I've even told people to write my name on their dick before if I've ever had doubts. If they can't or won't prove their authenticity I'll just say right "off you fuck"

We have to admit that there are some strange people around and whatever their motives they enjoy tricking people. Don't feel bad about bit meeting someone who probably isn't even real in the first place!"

Im totally same as u...im not paranoid bt i always go on my gut instinct, theres somethin jst not rite bt i lasted it this long as i say coz he seems nice bloke wiv really nice verifications

I dont swop numbers only kik bt usually it somethin like he wanted 3some so told me to look for anuva guy at short notice too, obv i couldnt n didnt really wna so wen i said itll jst have to b me n u suddenly he cudnt meet

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Go with your gut not your cock etc. It may all be above board but only you know the details.

Decide, cut and move on or put the ball in his court. If you'd like more than sex then look elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe he gets off on the chat but lacks the nerve to meet, time to cut your losses and look elsewhere?"

This! This! This! Perfectly describes the time wasters I have come into contact with.

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