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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No nothing to do with size unless it's your reply to the question.

What in your opinions makes a man, manly?

Jools love's a hairy chest.

But what's your thing, deep voice, stubble, politeness, stature, big arms, chest?

An endless list.

But in this era of guy's who spend more time preening themselves than a cat with ocd.

Do ladies still like rugged men,

Or does it have to be fake tan,enough hair gel to wallpaper a large room, chemically enhanced muscles, unnaturally smooth all over? Type.

Btw u can be rugged and still take pride in your appearance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do ladies still like rugged men,

Or does it have to be fake tan,enough hair gel to wallpaper a large room, chemically enhanced muscles, unnaturally smooth all over?"

I've no doubt that the majority of the forum ladies will say that they find old fashioned, hairy chested, big but slightly pudgy guys to be far more appealing than the bronzed and rippling muscle type, yet when you look at the verifications on here from the kind of girls who regularly make the sites most fabbed list, it's not unusual to see the beach bodied bodybuilders are the ones they go for.

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By *aura001Woman
over a year ago

poole

I like my men to be men, physically big shoulders, broad etc but I think its more the way they carry themselves independence, confidence, attitude...I think far too many men these days have been "pussy whipped" especially my generation

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By *aura001Woman
over a year ago

poole


"Do ladies still like rugged men,

Or does it have to be fake tan,enough hair gel to wallpaper a large room, chemically enhanced muscles, unnaturally smooth all over?

I've no doubt that the majority of the forum ladies will say that they find old fashioned, hairy chested, big but slightly pudgy guys to be far more appealing than the bronzed and rippling muscle type, yet when you look at the verifications on here from the kind of girls who regularly make the sites most fabbed list, it's not unusual to see the beach bodied bodybuilders are the ones they go for."

I like a bit of chunk on a hunk...nothing wrong with a bit of cushion for the pushing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aaaannnd I'll be the first of what I'm sure will be many asking the ladies opinions....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm shocked at men being categorised like this!! We're not pieces of meat, we're all human beings, with feelings and personality definitely counts etc etc.

i.e. all of the things we'd be saying if this was a thread about women (and I say this from painful experience after a thread I started last night!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a man with a strong personality - because mine is very strong and I have NO desire to be a bully in any way. I like him to be intelligent and funny - even for a meet as my meets tend to become friends.

Physically i prefer at least as tall as me or pref taller, attractive face - nice eyes - and a body which has seen regular exercise even if they're not obsessed with it - as for me great sex should last for hours - and as sex is the only area i'm mildly submissive - the man needs a lot of stamina and self confidence to take the physical and mental lead in bed!

So - erm - that's all!! Not much really!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like my men to be men, physically big shoulders, broad etc but I think its more the way they carry themselves independence, confidence, attitude...I think far too many men these days have been "pussy whipped" especially my generation"

Very much so.

It is possible to still be manly without being politically incorrect, and chauvinistic.

Personally my opinion is the best way to act like a man /gentleman is to start by treating the woman like a lady.

Looks and appearance are worth nothing if you don't respect other's.

I would rather be an ugly gentleman than a goodlooking pig.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rugged and being a mans man,

Stubble oh a sexual weapon

Nothing like those only way is Essex blokes

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manly, to me, means you have a cock and balls. And a non-voluptuous figure. And can grow a full beard and tashe, if you wanted to.

They step up to responsibilities. Have patience and understanding. Don't tell lies. Aren't afraid to express themselves and stand up for what they believe in.

That's about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think far too many men these days have been "pussy whipped" especially my generation"

I probably agree with you, I think, is that ok madam? I can disagree if you prefer, but only if you're completely ok with it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Rugged and being a mans man,

Stubble oh a sexual weapon

Nothing like those only way is Essex blokes

Her"

Hugh jackman then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to be a man's man. Ain't no other way!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my mans broad shoulders and sexy thighs. Love that he is taller then me and physically stronger then me but would never use that in a negative way against me. Love his confidence without being full of himself. That he can do "manly" tasks but irons and cares for the children ect just as well. It's the person the body belongs too. I like to perv toned bodies but if he is full of himself and can't make me laugh the sex appeal goes. Its defiantly the whole package that gets me going!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alpha male type personality but whilst being courteous and chivalrous.

Tall, hairy, not plucked and waxed to the extremes of all the Ken doll lookalikes!

Have meat on his bones, big shoulders, big thighs...

Pah!!! I could go on and on.

A man should just be man!

Eat his steak pie on a Sunday but not stress out that he's overloaded on carbs....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strength. Whether that's physical strength, (not necessarily bulk, I really love strong and lean men) or mental strength as in personality and someone you know you could rely on to just sort shit out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like height in a guy, 6 foot or above even though I'm only 5'3 myself! I don't mind some facial hair but detest pubes especially ass pubes. Not fussed on massively hairy chests either! I like pretty looking guys Colin Farell as an example or the welsh rugby player mike phillips!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rugged and being a mans man,

Stubble oh a sexual weapon

Nothing like those only way is Essex blokes

Her

Hugh jackman then "
Ray winstone

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not fussed on massively hairy chests either!"

If my chest was any hairier it could be used as a doormat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not fussed on massively hairy chests either!

If my chest was any hairier it could be used as a doormat."

You have a nice hairy chest. Not too much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hairy rugged muscle men anytime for me xxx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's a tough one if you don't have one type. I prefer taller, towards 6' and higher, lean and muscled, flexibly varied sexually, above 7" cock and 18-35 ish.

But I find others compelling too. Some short fit guys are for the taking. Blonde, dark haired all work. I mainly don't do very over weight.

Confidence, strength of character, thoughtful and determined all add to appeal. You may be a fit towie lad or a rough fighter, it can all work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love my mans broad shoulders and sexy thighs. Love that he is taller then me and physically stronger then me but would never use that in a negative way against me. Love his confidence without being full of himself. That he can do "manly" tasks but irons and cares for the children ect just as well. It's the person the body belongs too. I like to perv toned bodies but if he is full of himself and can't make me laugh the sex appeal goes. Its defiantly the whole package that gets me going! "

Sounds like you've got a great man there hun! Delighted for you! If he has a twin please send him my way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Broad back and shoulders, big strong arms, tall and some stubble I think looks manly and sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Broad back and shoulders, big strong arms, tall and some stubble I think looks manly and sexy!"

Not forgetting some very sexy tattoos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being self confident but not cocky.

someone who has a mind of his own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love my mans broad shoulders and sexy thighs. Love that he is taller then me and physically stronger then me but would never use that in a negative way against me. Love his confidence without being full of himself. That he can do "manly" tasks but irons and cares for the children ect just as well. It's the person the body belongs too. I like to perv toned bodies but if he is full of himself and can't make me laugh the sex appeal goes. Its defiantly the whole package that gets me going!

Sounds like you've got a great man there hun! Delighted for you! If he has a twin please send him my way! "

Ha ha! He is great. Definitely a keeper and the opposite to my abusive ex husband. Knows how to make me cum again and again too

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By *aura001Woman
over a year ago

poole


"I think far too many men these days have been "pussy whipped" especially my generation

I probably agree with you, I think, is that ok madam? I can disagree if you prefer, but only if you're completely ok with it?"

No it's not..get back in your cupboard..im on my way with my whip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love my mans broad shoulders and sexy thighs. Love that he is taller then me and physically stronger then me but would never use that in a negative way against me. Love his confidence without being full of himself. That he can do "manly" tasks but irons and cares for the children ect just as well. It's the person the body belongs too. I like to perv toned bodies but if he is full of himself and can't make me laugh the sex appeal goes. Its defiantly the whole package that gets me going!

Sounds like you've got a great man there hun! Delighted for you! If he has a twin please send him my way!

Ha ha! He is great. Definitely a keeper and the opposite to my abusive ex husband. Knows how to make me cum again and again too "

Yup - i had one of those too!! Hope i find a guy like yours one day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give me a man's man any day of the week by a man's man I mean a rugged normal guy, not into guys who would take longer than me to get ready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love my mans broad shoulders and sexy thighs. Love that he is taller then me and physically stronger then me but would never use that in a negative way against me. Love his confidence without being full of himself. That he can do "manly" tasks but irons and cares for the children ect just as well. It's the person the body belongs too. I like to perv toned bodies but if he is full of himself and can't make me laugh the sex appeal goes. Its defiantly the whole package that gets me going!

Sounds like you've got a great man there hun! Delighted for you! If he has a twin please send him my way!

Ha ha! He is great. Definitely a keeper and the opposite to my abusive ex husband. Knows how to make me cum again and again too

Yup - i had one of those too!! Hope i find a guy like yours one day! "

I'm sure he is out there somewhere. I was very lucky to find him at work! Lol

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