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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am of course referring to the select few women on here who think they are so special that they don't need to respond to emails!

It doesn't take much to say a polite "no thanks", etc.

Not replying makes you look rude and obnoxious. Thankfully, the majority of women, couples and men on here are fantastic people who are up for chatting and having fun. Shame a few stuck up people have to spoil the party!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People arnt stuck up ,they may just not be interested in you,move on to someone who is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that manners cost nothing but some women get so inundated with messages they couldn't possibly answer them all - so be nice xx

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Oh dear...

Mind you, it is Thursday...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gets the popcorn out, this could be fun....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not stuck up either, am 'special' though....

Manners cost my time that I'm not prepared to give.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not stuck up either, am 'special' though....

Manners cost my time that I'm not prepared to give."

Special as in too many chromosomes?

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gets the popcorn out, this could be fun.... "

You were right about the popcorn, toffee for me please

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I am of course referring to the select few women on here who think they are so special that they don't need to respond to emails!

It doesn't take much to say a polite "no thanks", etc.

Not replying makes you look rude and obnoxious. Thankfully, the majority of women, couples and men on here are fantastic people who are up for chatting and having fun. Shame a few stuck up people have to spoil the party! "

You are absolutely right manners cost nothing. Why do you find your self able to be so rude about people who are complying with site rules?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if they dont reply OP they aren't interested.

What would you like ? A message bank to explain what bit of you they aren't attracted to ?

Why would you want that !

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Oh dear...

Mind you, it is Thursday..."

My thoughts exactly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree that manners cost nothing but some women get so inundated with messages they couldn't possibly answer them all - so be nice xx"

The good thing about email on this site, you can see if it's been picked up. If you've got time to pick an email up, you've got time to say "no thanks".

Not every woman ignores emails, just a few. If what you said was true, every woman would ignore emails!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am of course referring to the select few women on here who think they are so special that they don't need to respond to emails!

It doesn't take much to say a polite "no thanks", etc.

Not replying makes you look rude and obnoxious. Thankfully, the majority of women, couples and men on here are fantastic people who are up for chatting and having fun. Shame a few stuck up people have to spoil the party! "

I used to think the same too mate but like other people have said they do get inundated with messages maybe over 200 or so , so just take it as a no if you get deleted and don't get to disheartened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not stuck up either, am 'special' though....

Manners cost my time that I'm not prepared to give.

Special as in too many chromosomes? "

Well that's not very polite is it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I agree that manners cost nothing but some women get so inundated with messages they couldn't possibly answer them all - so be nice xx

The good thing about email on this site, you can see if it's been picked up. If you've got time to pick an email up, you've got time to say "no thanks".

Not every woman ignores emails, just a few. If what you said was true, every woman would ignore emails!"

You need to concentrate on those who do answer and stop wasting energy on those who don't.

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

If we aren't interested, generally we don't reply. Saying no thanks usually causes more problems.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm not stuck up either, am 'special' though....

Manners cost my time that I'm not prepared to give.

Special as in too many chromosomes? "

And this from a guy who thinks women have no manners!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooohhh aren't we Mr Entitled McRantychops this morning?

I'm waiting for the part where it's explained to me why it's impolite not to reply to a stranger mailing me with a load of preamble leading up to a 5 minute champion-the-wonder-shag.

Kind of the same as I ignore chuggers in the street. Or perhaps I should just stand there and listen to their god awful spiel before explaining politely "Thanks for stopping me cold in the street today and explaining the benefits of giving money to fluffykins hamster sanctuary, but I don't think It's the charity for me. Hamsters are bastards anyway."

Would that appease you?

There, that's my Thursday rant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree that manners cost nothing but some women get so inundated with messages they couldn't possibly answer them all - so be nice xx

The good thing about email on this site, you can see if it's been picked up. If you've got time to pick an email up, you've got time to say "no thanks".

Not every woman ignores emails, just a few. If what you said was true, every woman would ignore emails!"

Some I said I understand being ignored is annoying, but you also must understand where SOME women / couples are coming from. And maybe if they just don't offer you the courtesy then they are not worth your time either?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners cost nothing and I always reply unless they forgot to attach a face pic. But I hate getting asked why I've said no.

I can't say if it's to do with the pic that's just rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear...

Mind you, it is Thursday...

My thoughts exactly. "

Another first poster committing suicide

Where's Tina with the forms

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To he fair, most women and couples on here are great, always talk, always up for a chat etc.

Just a select few that think they're gods gift lol

I've blocked 2 this motoring. To be honest, I don't know what I was thinking in the first place ewwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree that manners cost nothing but some women get so inundated with messages they couldn't possibly answer them all - so be nice xx

The good thing about email on this site, you can see if it's been picked up. If you've got time to pick an email up, you've got time to say "no thanks".

Not every woman ignores emails, just a few. If what you said was true, every woman would ignore emails!

You need to concentrate on those who do answer and stop wasting energy on those who don't."

Lol. Read his current status....another ignorant bitch blocked.

Genius. If someone doesnt reply to him...he blocks them. That'll work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Manners cost nothing and I always reply unless they forgot to attach a face pic. But I hate getting asked why I've said no.

I can't say if it's to do with the pic that's just rude "

Yeah, talk about awkward! I wouldn't go as far as to ask why?!? Getting an honest answer can't be good for the moral lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I am of course referring to the select few women on here who think they are so special that they don't need to respond to emails!

It doesn't take much to say a polite "no thanks", etc.

Not replying makes you look rude and obnoxious. Thankfully, the majority of women, couples and men on here are fantastic people who are up for chatting and having fun. Shame a few stuck up people have to spoil the party! "

What about the select few men who are rude, obnoxious and arrogant enough to think they are entitled to a reply and whine and bitch when they don't get their own way?

I often don't reply to messages. I have several good reasons for this and even if I didn't, it's MY choice how I spend my time, not yours or anyone else's.

I've discussed my reasons on gazillions of other threads on this same subject and I can't be arsed to waste my time explaining again to someone who thinks what they want is all that matters.

You, I am sure, consider it perfectly reasonable not to send messages to people who don't interest you. Why then would you expect anyone else to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh dear...

Mind you, it is Thursday...

My thoughts exactly.

Another first poster committing suicide

Where's Tina with the forms "

Far from being a first poster pal. Been on here as a couple for a looooong time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am of course referring to the select few women on here who think they are so special that they don't need to respond to emails!

It doesn't take much to say a polite "no thanks", etc.

Not replying makes you look rude and obnoxious. Thankfully, the majority of women, couples and men on here are fantastic people who are up for chatting and having fun. Shame a few stuck up people have to spoil the party! "

The trouble is that, in my experience, if i reply no thanks to someone who im not interested in meeting, then often they then reply well why not, age is just a number etc etc and often then get abusive .... so i dont always bother to reply to them in the first place !

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Oooh this hasn't been done for a day or two, wonder if this time it'll be any different

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree that manners cost nothing but some women get so inundated with messages they couldn't possibly answer them all - so be nice xx

The good thing about email on this site, you can see if it's been picked up. If you've got time to pick an email up, you've got time to say "no thanks".

Not every woman ignores emails, just a few. If what you said was true, every woman would ignore emails!

You need to concentrate on those who do answer and stop wasting energy on those who don't.

Lol. Read his current status....another ignorant bitch blocked.

Genius. If someone doesnt reply to him...he blocks them. That'll work"

That's how it works from now on! What's the point of the ignorant cow's blocking up my search feeds??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am of course referring to the select few women on here who think they are so special that they don't need to respond to emails!

It doesn't take much to say a polite "no thanks", etc.

Not replying makes you look rude and obnoxious. Thankfully, the majority of women, couples and men on here are fantastic people who are up for chatting and having fun. Shame a few stuck up people have to spoil the party! "

They aren't stuck up.

Maybe lose your sense of entitlement?

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By *ove bi guysWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"To he fair, most women and couples on here are great, always talk, always up for a chat etc.

Just a select few that think they're gods gift lol

I've blocked 2 this motoring. To be honest, I don't know what I was thinking in the first place ewwww"

Sounds like they had a lucky escape

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

Someone take the shovel away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would reply if someone had taken the time to read our profile, even if it's a no thanks. it clearly says have other commitments so only do organised meets. But already this morning we've had 4 messages asking our we free today or do we fancy something this morning. I usually wouldn't but replied to them telling them to read what it says.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"To he fair, most women and couples on here are great, always talk, always up for a chat etc.

Just a select few that think they're gods gift lol

I've blocked 2 this motoring. To be honest, I don't know what I was thinking in the first place ewwww"

Now now. No need to be rude manners cost nothing you know.

Are you aware that you are coming across like an extremely badly behaved child?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am of course referring to the select few women on here who think they are so special that they don't need to respond to emails!

It doesn't take much to say a polite "no thanks", etc.

Not replying makes you look rude and obnoxious. Thankfully, the majority of women, couples and men on here are fantastic people who are up for chatting and having fun. Shame a few stuck up people have to spoil the party!

What about the select few men who are rude, obnoxious and arrogant enough to think they are entitled to a reply and whine and bitch when they don't get their own way?

I often don't reply to messages. I have several good reasons for this and even if I didn't, it's MY choice how I spend my time, not yours or anyone else's.

I've discussed my reasons on gazillions of other threads on this same subject and I can't be arsed to waste my time explaining again to someone who thinks what they want is all that matters.

You, I am sure, consider it perfectly reasonable not to send messages to people who don't interest you. Why then would you expect anyone else to?"

I'm not here to defend ignorant men. I'm here to talk about ignorant women.

You don't have to respond to my emails, that's fine. However, in my eyes, that makes you ignorant and i'll block you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To he fair, most women and couples on here are great, always talk, always up for a chat etc.

Just a select few that think they're gods gift lol

I've blocked 2 this motoring. To be honest, I don't know what I was thinking in the first place ewwww"

It's all coming out now.

You find someone attractive, they ignore you, and now you think they aren't attractive.

Psychologically speaking, this is interesting. And does back up that we find people attractive when we think they are sexually available to us. The mind is a funny thing when it tries to work out what others are thinking though.

Honestly (and personally), most of us will already be chatting to at least one other guy we are trying to meet with, or are just enjoying chatting to. When a message pops up we don't have time to answer, simple as that. I'm in the middle of a chat with someone hot right now, pop in the forums while I wait for him to message back, not got time to start more convos. Plus cba with guys starting shit if I tell them no, some guys don't understand what no means and I don't care to have my day spoilt by trying to figure out who is a dickhead on here and who isn't.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Still, it's always entertaining when entitled folk start bandying names and insults around and then suggest other people are obnoxious.

So much butthurt that some people aren't interested.

Why waste time and energy on those not interested? Concentrate on finding those that are.

After all, how does getting a 'no thanks' change anything? You still aren't getting a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear...

Mind you, it is Thursday...

My thoughts exactly.

Another first poster committing suicide

Where's Tina with the forms

Far from being a first poster pal. Been on here as a couple for a looooong time!"

Then you should know better

The green arrow says this is a first post from this profile I was affording you new poster fuck up, I won't be so generous from now on

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Oooohhh aren't we Mr Entitled McRantychops this morning?

I'm waiting for the part where it's explained to me why it's impolite not to reply to a stranger mailing me with a load of preamble leading up to a 5 minute champion-the-wonder-shag.

Kind of the same as I ignore chuggers in the street. Or perhaps I should just stand there and listen to their god awful spiel before explaining politely "Thanks for stopping me cold in the street today and explaining the benefits of giving money to fluffykins hamster sanctuary, but I don't think It's the charity for me. Hamsters are bastards anyway."

Would that appease you?

There, that's my Thursday rant. "

I've missed you!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We would reply if someone had taken the time to read our profile, even if it's a no thanks. it clearly says have other commitments so only do organised meets. But already this morning we've had 4 messages asking our we free today or do we fancy something this morning. I usually wouldn't but replied to them telling them to read what it says."

Yes, I would agree with this entirely!

If your profile clearly states your preferences and they are ignored, so be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree that manners cost nothing but some women get so inundated with messages they couldn't possibly answer them all - so be nice xx

The good thing about email on this site, you can see if it's been picked up. If you've got time to pick an email up, you've got time to say "no thanks".

Not every woman ignores emails, just a few. If what you said was true, every woman would ignore emails!

You need to concentrate on those who do answer and stop wasting energy on those who don't.

Lol. Read his current status....another ignorant bitch blocked.

Genius. If someone doesnt reply to him...he blocks them. That'll work

That's how it works from now on! What's the point of the ignorant cow's blocking up my search feeds??"

It's slightly ironic to start a thread bemoaning a lack of manners and then call people ignorant cows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oooohhh aren't we Mr Entitled McRantychops this morning?

I'm waiting for the part where it's explained to me why it's impolite not to reply to a stranger mailing me with a load of preamble leading up to a 5 minute champion-the-wonder-shag.

Kind of the same as I ignore chuggers in the street. Or perhaps I should just stand there and listen to their god awful spiel before explaining politely "Thanks for stopping me cold in the street today and explaining the benefits of giving money to fluffykins hamster sanctuary, but I don't think It's the charity for me. Hamsters are bastards anyway."

Would that appease you?

There, that's my Thursday rant. "

probably the funniest post ever written ! Will you marry me ?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I am of course referring to the select few women on here who think they are so special that they don't need to respond to emails!

It doesn't take much to say a polite "no thanks", etc.

Not replying makes you look rude and obnoxious. Thankfully, the majority of women, couples and men on here are fantastic people who are up for chatting and having fun. Shame a few stuck up people have to spoil the party!

What about the select few men who are rude, obnoxious and arrogant enough to think they are entitled to a reply and whine and bitch when they don't get their own way?

I often don't reply to messages. I have several good reasons for this and even if I didn't, it's MY choice how I spend my time, not yours or anyone else's.

I've discussed my reasons on gazillions of other threads on this same subject and I can't be arsed to waste my time explaining again to someone who thinks what they want is all that matters.

You, I am sure, consider it perfectly reasonable not to send messages to people who don't interest you. Why then would you expect anyone else to?

I'm not here to defend ignorant men. I'm here to talk about ignorant women.

You don't have to respond to my emails, that's fine. However, in my eyes, that makes you ignorant and i'll block you!"

Feeling entitled to a response makes you look arrogant. Am I going to care if you block me?

If blocking people who weren't interested helps your little feelings then fine but really, is anyone who wasn't interested going to care? Or even notice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gets the popcorn out, this could be fun.... "

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By *ove bi guysWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I am of course referring to the select few women on here who think they are so special that they don't need to respond to emails!

It doesn't take much to say a polite "no thanks", etc.

Not replying makes you look rude and obnoxious. Thankfully, the majority of women, couples and men on here are fantastic people who are up for chatting and having fun. Shame a few stuck up people have to spoil the party!

What about the select few men who are rude, obnoxious and arrogant enough to think they are entitled to a reply and whine and bitch when they don't get their own way?

I often don't reply to messages. I have several good reasons for this and even if I didn't, it's MY choice how I spend my time, not yours or anyone else's.

I've discussed my reasons on gazillions of other threads on this same subject and I can't be arsed to waste my time explaining again to someone who thinks what they want is all that matters.

You, I am sure, consider it perfectly reasonable not to send messages to people who don't interest you. Why then would you expect anyone else to?

I'm not here to defend ignorant men. I'm here to talk about ignorant women.

You don't have to respond to my emails, that's fine. However, in my eyes, that makes you ignorant and i'll block you!"

I wonder how many more you will need to block after they read this and your superbly enlightened status lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I am of course referring to the select few women on here who think they are so special that they don't need to respond to emails!

It doesn't take much to say a polite "no thanks", etc.

Not replying makes you look rude and obnoxious. Thankfully, the majority of women, couples and men on here are fantastic people who are up for chatting and having fun. Shame a few stuck up people have to spoil the party!

What about the select few men who are rude, obnoxious and arrogant enough to think they are entitled to a reply and whine and bitch when they don't get their own way?

I often don't reply to messages. I have several good reasons for this and even if I didn't, it's MY choice how I spend my time, not yours or anyone else's.

I've discussed my reasons on gazillions of other threads on this same subject and I can't be arsed to waste my time explaining again to someone who thinks what they want is all that matters.

You, I am sure, consider it perfectly reasonable not to send messages to people who don't interest you. Why then would you expect anyone else to?

I'm not here to defend ignorant men. I'm here to talk about ignorant women.

You don't have to respond to my emails, that's fine. However, in my eyes, that makes you ignorant and i'll block you!"

Well ladies you all know what to do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh dear...

Mind you, it is Thursday...

My thoughts exactly.

Another first poster committing suicide

Where's Tina with the forms

Far from being a first poster pal. Been on here as a couple for a looooong time!

Then you should know better

The green arrow says this is a first post from this profile I was affording you new poster fuck up, I won't be so generous from now on

"

This is far from my first post. I've been on here as a couple for several years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same.. We tend to reply no matter what.. Always politely as well. Just because its a swinging site doesn't mean you lose your human decency

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By *one IdolMan
over a year ago

your imagination


"I agree that manners cost nothing but some women get so inundated with messages they couldn't possibly answer them all - so be nice xx

The good thing about email on this site, you can see if it's been picked up. If you've got time to pick an email up, you've got time to say "no thanks".

Not every woman ignores emails, just a few. If what you said was true, every woman would ignore emails!

You need to concentrate on those who do answer and stop wasting energy on those who don't.

Lol. Read his current status....another ignorant bitch blocked.

Genius. If someone doesnt reply to him...he blocks them. That'll work

That's how it works from now on! What's the point of the ignorant cow's blocking up my search feeds??"

Err , is this really gonna help your cause mate ?

I don't get what relevance Thursday has on things but I do get that there's no obligation to reply , after all I don't reply to all the emails I get from folk in South Africa telling me my fourteenth removed uncles cousin copped in and left me a squillion pounds or send a letter in response to junk mail , what's the difference ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am of course referring to the select few women on here who think they are so special that they don't need to respond to emails!

It doesn't take much to say a polite "no thanks", etc.

Not replying makes you look rude and obnoxious. Thankfully, the majority of women, couples and men on here are fantastic people who are up for chatting and having fun. Shame a few stuck up people have to spoil the party!

What about the select few men who are rude, obnoxious and arrogant enough to think they are entitled to a reply and whine and bitch when they don't get their own way?

I often don't reply to messages. I have several good reasons for this and even if I didn't, it's MY choice how I spend my time, not yours or anyone else's.

I've discussed my reasons on gazillions of other threads on this same subject and I can't be arsed to waste my time explaining again to someone who thinks what they want is all that matters.

You, I am sure, consider it perfectly reasonable not to send messages to people who don't interest you. Why then would you expect anyone else to?

I'm not here to defend ignorant men. I'm here to talk about ignorant women.

You don't have to respond to my emails, that's fine. However, in my eyes, that makes you ignorant and i'll block you!

I wonder how many more you will need to block after they read this and your superbly enlightened status lol"

They can block me all they want, I don't use this profile to meet people

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI


"Same.. We tend to reply no matter what.. Always politely as well. Just because its a swinging site doesn't mean you lose your human decency"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear...

Mind you, it is Thursday...

My thoughts exactly.

Another first poster committing suicide

Where's Tina with the forms

Far from being a first poster pal. Been on here as a couple for a looooong time!"

Out of interest did you reply to every message when you had a couple's profile?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I am of course referring to the select few women on here who think they are so special that they don't need to respond to emails!

It doesn't take much to say a polite "no thanks", etc.

Not replying makes you look rude and obnoxious. Thankfully, the majority of women, couples and men on here are fantastic people who are up for chatting and having fun. Shame a few stuck up people have to spoil the party!

What about the select few men who are rude, obnoxious and arrogant enough to think they are entitled to a reply and whine and bitch when they don't get their own way?

I often don't reply to messages. I have several good reasons for this and even if I didn't, it's MY choice how I spend my time, not yours or anyone else's.

I've discussed my reasons on gazillions of other threads on this same subject and I can't be arsed to waste my time explaining again to someone who thinks what they want is all that matters.

You, I am sure, consider it perfectly reasonable not to send messages to people who don't interest you. Why then would you expect anyone else to?

I'm not here to defend ignorant men. I'm here to talk about ignorant women.

You don't have to respond to my emails, that's fine. However, in my eyes, that makes you ignorant and i'll block you!

Well ladies you all know what to do "

Yeah I'm going to wait for him to block me and cry into my pillow over it.

Such a loss...

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI


"

They can block me all they want, I don't use this profile to meet people"

I'm confused!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calling women ignorant bitches comes across as abusive. I wouldn't even consider meeting anyone like that. Would be concerned for my safety 100%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not stuck up either, am 'special' though....

Manners cost my time that I'm not prepared to give.

Special as in too many chromosomes? "

You talk about manners yet this comment is beyond rude.

Just because someone says she is special you insinuate that they may be special due to Downs Syndrome.

That's a real dickhead comment, totally insensitive, how do you know that the couples or woman on here do not have children with disabilities.

Unsolicited mail on here is like junk mail in the real world. Bet you don't reply to all the jumk mail you receive so why should anyone be expected to do so just because they are on Fab?

Grow up and take your own advice, manners don't cost anything, now if only you could learn some.

(Sorry for everyone else but that comment really hit a nerve).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we aren't interested, generally we don't reply. Saying no thanks usually causes more problems. "

Indeed. Is one msg after another trying to convince us to meet. And that is absolutely annoying. And rude and lacking manners

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"

They can block me all they want, I don't use this profile to meet people

I'm confused! "

Lol. It isn't intentional it's just that he's realised after this no one will meet him

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By *aura001Woman
over a year ago

poole


"I am of course referring to the select few women on here who think they are so special that they don't need to respond to emails!

It doesn't take much to say a polite "no thanks", etc.

Not replying makes you look rude and obnoxious. Thankfully, the majority of women, couples and men on here are fantastic people who are up for chatting and having fun. Shame a few stuck up people have to spoil the party! "

I answer all msgs...sometimes I read but if I havent got time to look at profile etc..I might wait a day or 2 but I always reply yes or no and also has to be said nearly always get a polite response saying something to the effect of...no worries thanks for reply

I find nearly everyone on here polite and courteous when msging and in forums

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

They can block me all they want, I don't use this profile to meet people

I'm confused! "

He can't use it to meet people because nobody will reply to his entitled arse!

That's the problem. ickle hurted feelings.

Him such a special snowflake, how dare the nasty women ignore him. Don't they know who he is??!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"

They can block me all they want, I don't use this profile to meet people

I'm confused!

He can't use it to meet people because nobody will reply to his entitled arse!

That's the problem. ickle hurted feelings.

Him such a special snowflake, how dare the nasty women ignore him. Don't they know who he is??! "

They do now

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI


"

They can block me all they want, I don't use this profile to meet people

I'm confused!

Lol. It isn't intentional it's just that he's realised after this no one will meet him "

Phew, otherwise this thread was a big waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

They can block me all they want, I don't use this profile to meet people

I'm confused! "

Me too.....so

What are you winging about if you don't meet off this profile?

How many other profiles have you got?

This might be a new one (4weeks) but it's definitely a first post from THIS ONE

What is your couples one, just out of interest you understand

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"

They can block me all they want, I don't use this profile to meet people

I'm confused!

Lol. It isn't intentional it's just that he's realised after this no one will meet him

Phew, otherwise this thread was a big waste of time. "

It's kept me amused apart from the obnoxious insults the op has dished out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

They can block me all they want, I don't use this profile to meet people

I'm confused!

He can't use it to meet people because nobody will reply to his entitled arse!

That's the problem. ickle hurted feelings.

Him such a special snowflake, how dare the nasty women ignore him. Don't they know who he is??! "

VV your so naughty your funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am of course referring to the select few women on here who think they are so special that they don't need to respond to emails!

It doesn't take much to say a polite "no thanks", etc.

Not replying makes you look rude and obnoxious. Thankfully, the majority of women, couples and men on here are fantastic people who are up for chatting and having fun. Shame a few stuck up people have to spoil the party! "

Just get over and move on. You have no idea how hard it is to actually reply to everyone. And when we say no, men have the tendency of sending mags asking why or trying to convince us to say yes. That's harassment, worse than being obnoxious. I'm very clean on my profile that I'm not going to reply to all, is up to you (anyone) to give it a try. That's life, that's fab.

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI


"That's life, that's fab."

We should adopt this as our unofficial slogan.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

They can block me all they want, I don't use this profile to meet people

I'm confused!

He can't use it to meet people because nobody will reply to his entitled arse!

That's the problem. ickle hurted feelings.

Him such a special snowflake, how dare the nasty women ignore him. Don't they know who he is??!

VV your so naughty your funny "

That, believe it or not, is me holding back and biting my tongue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

They can block me all they want, I don't use this profile to meet people

I'm confused!

He can't use it to meet people because nobody will reply to his entitled arse!

That's the problem. ickle hurted feelings.

Him such a special snowflake, how dare the nasty women ignore him. Don't they know who he is??!

VV your so naughty your funny

That, believe it or not, is me holding back and biting my tongue! "

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

Site rules say it's not rude not to reply.

You'll enjoy the site more if you take no response as no thanks

Admin x

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