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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seeing as it's a young guys dream for the whole milf next door idea. Do men want the whole younger female fantasy too.... And women is it a woman's dream to have a toy boy at an older age and at a young age to want the older guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I've never gone for younger guys. Nothing more sexier than a hairy chest and grey hair xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No I've never gone for younger guys. Nothing more sexier than a hairy chest and grey hair xx"

Fair enough...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though young guys may catch my eye personally I much prefer an older man with experience

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Seeing as it's a young guys dream for the whole milf next door idea. Do men want the whole younger female fantasy too.... And women is it a woman's dream to have a toy boy at an older age and at a young age to want the older guy?"

these will be certain to be the fantasy of some men and women but by no means all, we are all different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me right now, either older or younger! But within 10 years either side of my age is ideal

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I prefer ladies about my age, up or down a few years.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You may miss a young guy with all the experience though! We are out there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like guys a little younger than myself my preferred age is early 30s i have no interest in very young guys

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

My preference is guys around my own age, I rarely break the 40-50 age range

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I usually like to meet people around my own age, although we prefer to meet people younger than older than us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger men - nom nom nom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always wondered - girls/ladies, could you clarify for me why an 'older' guy is considered to have more experience over a younger guy? And what does this 'experience' come with?

I may be wrong on this or considered sleightly biased (being a younger guy) but, can a younger guy please a woman in every which way she could hope for with experience or not? If I'm correct then even a younger, possibly considered less experienced, guy who has the mentality could please the woman he has an encounter with.

I slept with a 33 year old when I was 18 and was told afterwards that she had never been pleased that much before during sex, even with older 'more experienced' chaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer older than me ..If younger not much certainly no one I could of given birth to my eldest is 25 ..

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Always wondered - girls/ladies, could you clarify for me why an 'older' guy is considered to have more experience over a younger guy? And what does this 'experience' come with?

I may be wrong on this or considered sleightly biased (being a younger guy) but, can a younger guy please a woman in every which way she could hope for with experience or not? If I'm correct then even a younger, possibly considered less experienced, guy who has the mentality could please the woman he has an encounter with.

I slept with a 33 year old when I was 18 and was told afterwards that she had never been pleased that much before during sex, even with older 'more experienced' chaps."

10 years experience of doing one thing or 1 years experience of doing 10 different things. Which is more experienced?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always wondered - girls/ladies, could you clarify for me why an 'older' guy is considered to have more experience over a younger guy? And what does this 'experience' come with?

I may be wrong on this or considered sleightly biased (being a younger guy) but, can a younger guy please a woman in every which way she could hope for with experience or not? If I'm correct then even a younger, possibly considered less experienced, guy who has the mentality could please the woman he has an encounter with.

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I slept with a 33 year old when I was 18 and was told afterwards that she had never been pleased that much before during sex, even with older 'more experienced' chaps."

though not all older guys are great in bed experience does come with age, when I was 21 I thought I was the best shag going but looking back I was shit and much better sexually now, the fact of the matter is most of us get better with age and not just physically, I think i have matured sexually mentally too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always wondered - girls/ladies, could you clarify for me why an 'older' guy is considered to have more experience over a younger guy? And what does this 'experience' come with?

I may be wrong on this or considered sleightly biased (being a younger guy) but, can a younger guy please a woman in every which way she could hope for with experience or not? If I'm correct then even a younger, possibly considered less experienced, guy who has the mentality could please the woman he has an encounter with.

I slept with a 33 year old when I was 18 and was told afterwards that she had never been pleased that much before during sex, even with older 'more experienced' chaps.

10 years experience of doing one thing or 1 years experience of doing 10 different things. Which is more experienced?"

Well written BUT, either which way due to an individuals preference, BOTH could be classed as a higer level experience in their own provisions, would you agree?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's general life experience not purely sexual experience. It might be one of those annoying things in which if you have to ask, you ain't got it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say girls mature faster than boys and that a girl looks for a guy who has similar qualities to her dad. Maybe this has something to do with being attracted to guys a bit older than herself. Any thoughts ladies??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years experience of doing one thing or 1 years experience of doing 10 different things. Which is more experienced?

I agree with this .... Think I'd rather have the latter !

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Always wondered - girls/ladies, could you clarify for me why an 'older' guy is considered to have more experience over a younger guy? And what does this 'experience' come with?

I may be wrong on this or considered sleightly biased (being a younger guy) but, can a younger guy please a woman in every which way she could hope for with experience or not? If I'm correct then even a younger, possibly considered less experienced, guy who has the mentality could please the woman he has an encounter with.

I slept with a 33 year old when I was 18 and was told afterwards that she had never been pleased that much before during sex, even with older 'more experienced' chaps.

10 years experience of doing one thing or 1 years experience of doing 10 different things. Which is more experienced?

Well written BUT, either which way due to an individuals preference, BOTH could be classed as a higer level experience in their own provisions, would you agree?"

I do agree.

I don't have a fantasy person. I prefer to meet with people my own age and/or 10 years either side but that isn't about their sexual prowess.

I have had wonderful sex with someone my age who had only ever had sex with one other person in his life and bad sex with someone who had whittled his bedpost away it had so many notches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always wondered - girls/ladies, could you clarify for me why an 'older' guy is considered to have more experience over a younger guy? And what does this 'experience' come with?

I may be wrong on this or considered sleightly biased (being a younger guy) but, can a younger guy please a woman in every which way she could hope for with experience or not? If I'm correct then even a younger, possibly considered less experienced, guy who has the mentality could please the woman he has an encounter with.

I slept with a 33 year old when I was 18 and was told afterwards that she had never been pleased that much before during sex, even with older 'more experienced' chaps.

10 years experience of doing one thing or 1 years experience of doing 10 different things. Which is more experienced?"

Exactly! And my point was made from my personal experience, only my opinion, can't speak for others. I've met younger guys and had a relationship with a younger guy

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Seeing as it's a young guys dream for the whole milf next door idea. Do men want the whole younger female fantasy too.... And women is it a woman's dream to have a toy boy at an older age and at a young age to want the older guy?"
Jesus no, not for me, I did they whole younger guy thing years ago and I grew out of it

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

It's nothing to do with sexual experience in my case, it's more to do with life experience and being able to chat to someone who I can relate too in that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's nothing to do with sexual experience in my case, it's more to do with life experience and being able to chat to someone who I can relate too in that way "

So _andybeach, in conclusion, would you agree that its not about the age of a chap/girl that determines key factors such as experience, maturity, similar interests/likes and connection?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's nothing to do with sexual experience in my case, it's more to do with life experience and being able to chat to someone who I can relate too in that way "

i go with this, if they can't stimulate my mind they will never stimulate by body and what would I possibly have in common with an 21 year old

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's nothing to do with sexual experience in my case, it's more to do with life experience and being able to chat to someone who I can relate too in that way

i go with this, if they can't stimulate my mind they will never stimulate by body and what would I possibly have in common with an 21 year old "

Tattoos for one....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's nothing to do with sexual experience in my case, it's more to do with life experience and being able to chat to someone who I can relate too in that way

i go with this, if they can't stimulate my mind they will never stimulate by body and what would I possibly have in common with an 21 year old

Tattoos for one...."

well I'm not going to sit and talk about tattoo am I, tthat's not stimulating conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, quite happy with nearer my own age thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer guys who are my age up to 10 years older. I find these men to be on a similar wavelength and more compatible than a much younger person.

Of course there are always exceptions

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"It's nothing to do with sexual experience in my case, it's more to do with life experience and being able to chat to someone who I can relate too in that way

So _andybeach, in conclusion, would you agree that its not about the age of a chap/girl that determines key factors such as experience, maturity, similar interests/likes and connection?"

I am only speaking for myself mind, but I have nothing in common with someone who is my sons age, I want To be able to chat with people I meet, people who can relate to the same things as myself. For a meet to work well for me I have to relate to that person, I can't do cold fucking, that's not what I am about

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"It's nothing to do with sexual experience in my case, it's more to do with life experience and being able to chat to someone who I can relate too in that way

So _andybeach, in conclusion, would you agree that its not about the age of a chap/girl that determines key factors such as experience, maturity, similar interests/likes and connection?

I am only speaking for myself mind, but I have nothing in common with someone who is my sons age, I want To be able to chat with people I meet, people who can relate to the same things as myself. For a meet to work well for me I have to relate to that person, I can't do cold fucking, that's not what I am about "

Best not bend you over the freezer then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends more on the person and what kind of sandwich they have to offer me.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"It's nothing to do with sexual experience in my case, it's more to do with life experience and being able to chat to someone who I can relate too in that way

So _andybeach, in conclusion, would you agree that its not about the age of a chap/girl that determines key factors such as experience, maturity, similar interests/likes and connection?

I am only speaking for myself mind, but I have nothing in common with someone who is my sons age, I want To be able to chat with people I meet, people who can relate to the same things as myself. For a meet to work well for me I have to relate to that person, I can't do cold fucking, that's not what I am about

Best not bend you over the freezer then. "

I prefer the kitchen table or the arm of the sofa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's nothing to do with sexual experience in my case, it's more to do with life experience and being able to chat to someone who I can relate too in that way

So _andybeach, in conclusion, would you agree that its not about the age of a chap/girl that determines key factors such as experience, maturity, similar interests/likes and connection?

I am only speaking for myself mind, but I have nothing in common with someone who is my sons age, I want To be able to chat with people I meet, people who can relate to the same things as myself. For a meet to work well for me I have to relate to that person, I can't do cold fucking, that's not what I am about "

Please, I hope you didn't find any offence to my comment, nor was I implying that that is the kind of lady you are you are clearly a very intelligent woman who appreciates personal preferences, what I was implying (due to personal experience) is that some older people tend to make it well known to the younger people that they are 'inexperienced' and 'immature' which is a personal comment made to them when they don't even know them on a personal level.. I'm just trying to give an opinion being a younger person that when someone makes a comment which can be classed as stereotypical towards the youngers, it should NOT be made personal. Once again, I hope this hasn't offended YOU or ANYONE in this thread personally

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

It's mainly about the person for me.

But initially I am attracted to guys around the same age or a bit older than myself, and women a bit younger or the same as myself.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"It's nothing to do with sexual experience in my case, it's more to do with life experience and being able to chat to someone who I can relate too in that way

So _andybeach, in conclusion, would you agree that its not about the age of a chap/girl that determines key factors such as experience, maturity, similar interests/likes and connection?

I am only speaking for myself mind, but I have nothing in common with someone who is my sons age, I want To be able to chat with people I meet, people who can relate to the same things as myself. For a meet to work well for me I have to relate to that person, I can't do cold fucking, that's not what I am about

Please, I hope you didn't find any offence to my comment, nor was I implying that that is the kind of lady you are you are clearly a very intelligent woman who appreciates personal preferences, what I was implying (due to personal experience) is that some older people tend to make it well known to the younger people that they are 'inexperienced' and 'immature' which is a personal comment made to them when they don't even know them on a personal level.. I'm just trying to give an opinion being a younger person that when someone makes a comment which can be classed as stereotypical towards the youngers, it should NOT be made personal. Once again, I hope this hasn't offended YOU or ANYONE in this thread personally "

I'm not offended in any way, plus I would never reply to a young guy saying he was immature etc, young guys are just not for me but there are plenty of other ladies who appreciate them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's nothing to do with sexual experience in my case, it's more to do with life experience and being able to chat to someone who I can relate too in that way

So _andybeach, in conclusion, would you agree that its not about the age of a chap/girl that determines key factors such as experience, maturity, similar interests/likes and connection?

I am only speaking for myself mind, but I have nothing in common with someone who is my sons age, I want To be able to chat with people I meet, people who can relate to the same things as myself. For a meet to work well for me I have to relate to that person, I can't do cold fucking, that's not what I am about

Please, I hope you didn't find any offence to my comment, nor was I implying that that is the kind of lady you are you are clearly a very intelligent woman who appreciates personal preferences, what I was implying (due to personal experience) is that some older people tend to make it well known to the younger people that they are 'inexperienced' and 'immature' which is a personal comment made to them when they don't even know them on a personal level.. I'm just trying to give an opinion being a younger person that when someone makes a comment which can be classed as stereotypical towards the youngers, it should NOT be made personal. Once again, I hope this hasn't offended YOU or ANYONE in this thread personally

I'm not offended in any way, plus I would never reply to a young guy saying he was immature etc, young guys are just not for me but there are plenty of other ladies who appreciate them "

Thank god I do appreciate your views and like I say, nothing personal.. Just speaking from experience as me and amy have had people message us with very personal and stereotypical judgements when they don't even know us! The words 'immature' and 'inexperienced' have been slung about.. We all have personal preferences which is great but the point I was making is that personal, judgemental comments should not be made

PS, these women who like younger men you speak of, find out if they like younger couples and give us a holla lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's not my dream, whilst some are hot and mature, I prefer around my own age 10 yrs either side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually like older men, more mature, sexy, have a authority about them etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Though young guys may catch my eye personally I much prefer an older man with experience "

I like younger guys as they tend yo have mote stamina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Though young guys may catch my eye personally I much prefer an older man with experience "

I like younger guys as they tend to have more stamina

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By *ust MonicaWoman
over a year ago

CAMBRIDGESHIRE

I had a toy boy but in the end the age difference was too much. Want a sugar daddy next time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's nothing to do with sexual experience in my case, it's more to do with life experience and being able to chat to someone who I can relate too in that way "

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