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"Go on then, who's done the lot? White, coloured,Asian,mixed,oriental, and that special unique group, top of the tree - gingers." Define coloured | |||
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"Go on then, who's done the lot? White, coloured,Asian,mixed,oriental, and that special unique group, top of the tree - gingers." . If I'm attracted to a woman it dose not matter. | |||
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"Go on then, who's done the lot? White, coloured,Asian,mixed,oriental, and that special unique group, top of the tree - gingers. Define coloured " I was thinking exactly the same??? Very small minded i think | |||
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"Go on then, who's done the lot? White, coloured,Asian,mixed,oriental, and that special unique group, top of the tree - gingers." Jaysus, really???? | |||
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"Go on then, who's done the lot? White, coloured,Asian,mixed,oriental, and that special unique group, top of the tree - gingers. Define coloured " Someone dressed as a smurf for fancy dress! | |||
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"I hate the word coloured it took me years to teach my dad not to say coloured....the word coloured belongs in the 1950's not in 2014. " coloured doesnt bother me, I think it describes me more than being black..being mixed race anyway.Been refused many a meet because I'm not 'black' lol | |||
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"You forgot native American, Australian aborigine, and Orion Slave Boys. " and Pygmies. | |||
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"I hate the word coloured it took me years to teach my dad not to say coloured....the word coloured belongs in the 1950's not in 2014. coloured doesnt bother me, I think it describes me more than being black..being mixed race anyway.Been refused many a meet because I'm not 'black' lol" I understand your point of view lovely, I just like to think we have gone past the coloured stage in life...that is all. | |||
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"if you dont like the question, apologies - now jog on to one of the million other threads here. as for the word 'coloured', miss CC, you should get with the times. obviously i'm white, so no expert - but if you care to do more than shoot your mouth off, you will find that the current vogue is 'of colour'. thanks mr fucktographer, for not jumping on the bandwagon. " Sorry I don't read vogue....carry on as you are...enjoy your evening | |||
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"You forgot native American, Australian aborigine, and Orion Slave Boys. " don't forget the Eskimo's | |||
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"if you dont like the question, apologies - now jog on to one of the million other threads here. as for the word 'coloured', miss CC, you should get with the times. obviously i'm white, so no expert - but if you care to do more than shoot your mouth off, you will find that the current vogue is 'of colour'. thanks mr fucktographer, for not jumping on the bandwagon. Sorry I don't read vogue....carry on as you are...enjoy your evening " It's full of ad's. Total shite. | |||
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"You forgot native American, Australian aborigine, and Orion Slave Boys. don't forget the Eskimo's " Inuits innit. | |||
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"You forgot native American, Australian aborigine, and Orion Slave Boys. don't forget the Eskimo's Inuits innit." | |||
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"if you dont like the question, apologies - now jog on to one of the million other threads here. as for the word 'coloured', miss CC, you should get with the times. obviously i'm white, so no expert - but if you care to do more than shoot your mouth off, you will find that the current vogue is 'of colour'. thanks mr fucktographer, for not jumping on the bandwagon. Sorry I don't read vogue....carry on as you are...enjoy your evening It's full of ad's. Total shite." And expensive and full of clothes that I would need a second mortgage to get...I'm quite happy in my own world | |||
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"if you dont like the question, apologies - now jog on to one of the million other threads here. as for the word 'coloured', miss CC, you should get with the times. obviously i'm white, so no expert - but if you care to do more than shoot your mouth off, you will find that the current vogue is 'of colour'. thanks mr fucktographer, for not jumping on the bandwagon. Sorry I don't read vogue....carry on as you are...enjoy your evening It's full of ad's. Total shite. And expensive and full of clothes that I would need a second mortgage to get...I'm quite happy in my own world " I got a dress in a charity shop for £1 today...from White Stuff! | |||
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"if you dont like the question, apologies - now jog on to one of the million other threads here. as for the word 'coloured', miss CC, you should get with the times. obviously i'm white, so no expert - but if you care to do more than shoot your mouth off, you will find that the current vogue is 'of colour'. thanks mr fucktographer, for not jumping on the bandwagon. " The correct phrase is 'people of colour', not 'coloureds'. Because they're people. | |||
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"Go on then, who's done the lot? White, coloured,Asian,mixed,oriental, and that special unique group, top of the tree - gingers." coloured? ?? | |||
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"I liked madonnas song vogue. " oh that dance.... | |||
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"if you dont like the question, apologies - now jog on to one of the million other threads here. " if you don't like the responses to posting on a public forum perhaps think before you do so..? | |||
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"if you dont like the question, apologies - now jog on to one of the million other threads here. as for the word 'coloured', miss CC, you should get with the times. obviously i'm white, so no expert - but if you care to do more than shoot your mouth off, you will find that the current vogue is 'of colour'. thanks mr fucktographer, for not jumping on the bandwagon. Sorry I don't read vogue....carry on as you are...enjoy your evening It's full of ad's. Total shite. And expensive and full of clothes that I would need a second mortgage to get...I'm quite happy in my own world I got a dress in a charity shop for £1 today...from White Stuff!" Oh did you...?? What is it like x | |||
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"if you dont like the question, apologies - now jog on to one of the million other threads here. if you don't like the responses to posting on a public forum perhaps think before you do so..?" | |||
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"I liked madonnas song vogue. oh that dance...." I still do it if it comes on at a disco. | |||
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"if you dont like the question, apologies - now jog on to one of the million other threads here. as for the word 'coloured', miss CC, you should get with the times. obviously i'm white, so no expert - but if you care to do more than shoot your mouth off, you will find that the current vogue is 'of colour'. thanks mr fucktographer, for not jumping on the bandwagon. Sorry I don't read vogue....carry on as you are...enjoy your evening It's full of ad's. Total shite. And expensive and full of clothes that I would need a second mortgage to get...I'm quite happy in my own world I got a dress in a charity shop for £1 today...from White Stuff! Oh did you...?? What is it like x" It fits great! Delighted! | |||
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"if you dont like the question, apologies - now jog on to one of the million other threads here. as for the word 'coloured', miss CC, you should get with the times. obviously i'm white, so no expert - but if you care to do more than shoot your mouth off, you will find that the current vogue is 'of colour'. thanks mr fucktographer, for not jumping on the bandwagon. Sorry I don't read vogue....carry on as you are...enjoy your evening It's full of ad's. Total shite. And expensive and full of clothes that I would need a second mortgage to get...I'm quite happy in my own world I got a dress in a charity shop for £1 today...from White Stuff! Oh did you...?? What is it like x It fits great! Delighted!" | |||
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"eg http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/jul/16/people-of-colour-working-class-history" You use the word coloured in your first post. | |||
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"http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/dec/31/books-2014-people-of-colour " You use the word coloured in your first post. | |||
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"eg http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/jul/16/people-of-colour-working-class-history You use the word coloured in your first post." so, in your world, what does 'people of colour' mean? | |||
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"We've yet to have a oompa loompa " Not had an Essex girl? | |||
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"eg http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/jul/16/people-of-colour-working-class-history You use the word coloured in your first post. so, in your world, what does 'people of colour' mean? " Stop digging that hole for yourself | |||
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"eg http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/jul/16/people-of-colour-working-class-history You use the word coloured in your first post. so, in your world, what does 'people of colour' mean? " You didn't say 'people of colour' though. You said 'coloured'. Its right up there, for everyone to read. I can quote it if you like. | |||
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"eg http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/jul/16/people-of-colour-working-class-history You use the word coloured in your first post. so, in your world, what does 'people of colour' mean? " Any non European non white person. | |||
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"We've yet to have a oompa loompa Not had an Essex girl? " I have. | |||
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"We've yet to have a oompa loompa Not had an Essex girl? I have. " Me too. She didn't fake bake though | |||
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"I hate the word coloured it took me years to teach my dad not to say coloured....the word coloured belongs in the 1950's not in 2014. " Especially not in the cosmopolitan London. | |||
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"if you dont like the question, apologies - now jog on to one of the million other threads here. as for the word 'coloured', miss CC, you should get with the times. obviously i'm white, so no expert - but if you care to do more than shoot your mouth off, you will find that the current vogue is 'of colour'. thanks mr fucktographer, for not jumping on the bandwagon. " If you meant mixed by saying coloured then you mentioned mixed twice and forgot black. But we all know what you meant | |||
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"We've yet to have a oompa loompa Not had an Essex girl? " I resemble that remark! | |||
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"the only offensive part is calling gingers an ethnicity " My husband is ginger...well, he was when he had hair | |||
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"We've yet to have a oompa loompa Not had an Essex girl? I resemble that remark! " | |||
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"We've yet to have a oompa loompa Not had an Essex girl? I have. Me too. She didn't fake bake though " I fancy an Essex woman | |||
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"We've yet to have a oompa loompa Not had an Essex girl? I have. Me too. She didn't fake bake though I fancy an Essex woman " Which one ? | |||
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"Go on then, who's done the lot? White, coloured,Asian,mixed,oriental, and that special unique group, top of the tree - gingers." Actually I am blue and white. My veins stand out dude. | |||
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"We've yet to have a oompa loompa Not had an Essex girl? I have. Me too. She didn't fake bake though I fancy an Essex woman " A whole one? | |||
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"Go on then, who's done the lot? White, coloured,Asian,mixed,oriental, and that special unique group, top of the tree - gingers. Actually I am blue and white. My veins stand out dude." Mine does a bit too I'm quite tanned though, actually. Essex ladies? 2 so far and 1 from London | |||
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"I eat with my eyes first so it's nice to have some variety. but in reality, there is little difference. Although I have never fulfilled my dream of sleeping with a beautiful Japanese woman." Watch Tampopo. | |||
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"Go on then, who's done the lot? White, coloured,Asian,mixed,oriental, and that special unique group, top of the tree - gingers. Actually I am blue and white. My veins stand out dude. Mine does a bit too I'm quite tanned though, actually. Essex ladies? 2 so far and 1 from London " Another Essex girl here, incognito | |||
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"I eat with my eyes first so it's nice to have some variety. but in reality, there is little difference. Although I have never fulfilled my dream of sleeping with a beautiful Japanese woman." I saw a beautiful Japanese lady on a train quite recently. She really was remarkable looking,I think I stared a bit | |||
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"I eat with my eyes first so it's nice to have some variety. but in reality, there is little difference. Although I have never fulfilled my dream of sleeping with a beautiful Japanese woman. Watch Tampopo." I love Japanes film, I'll do just that. I've just been watching lot's of the Studio Ghibli movies and I'm about to watch 1984 with Richard hurt, so maybe in a day or two and I'll mail you to tell you what I think x | |||
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"Go on then, who's done the lot? White, coloured,Asian,mixed,oriental, and that special unique group, top of the tree - gingers." "Coloured" is so 1960s it's ok to say Black in fact Black is the correct term xx this is said with a smile, just saying that's all x | |||
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"I eat with my eyes first so it's nice to have some variety. but in reality, there is little difference. Although I have never fulfilled my dream of sleeping with a beautiful Japanese woman. Watch Tampopo. I love Japanes film, I'll do just that. I've just been watching lot's of the Studio Ghibli movies and I'm about to watch 1984 with Richard hurt, so maybe in a day or two and I'll mail you to tell you what I think x" Seriously erotic and interesting film. | |||
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"I eat with my eyes first so it's nice to have some variety. but in reality, there is little difference. Although I have never fulfilled my dream of sleeping with a beautiful Japanese woman. Watch Tampopo. I love Japanes film, I'll do just that. I've just been watching lot's of the Studio Ghibli movies and I'm about to watch 1984 with Richard hurt, so maybe in a day or two and I'll mail you to tell you what I think x Seriously erotic and interesting film." You know, they consider cannibalism the highest form of sexual flattery in Japan. Fun, but a little odd! | |||
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"I eat with my eyes first so it's nice to have some variety. but in reality, there is little difference. Although I have never fulfilled my dream of sleeping with a beautiful Japanese woman. Watch Tampopo. I love Japanes film, I'll do just that. I've just been watching lot's of the Studio Ghibli movies and I'm about to watch 1984 with Richard hurt, so maybe in a day or two and I'll mail you to tell you what I think x Seriously erotic and interesting film. You know, they consider cannibalism the highest form of sexual flattery in Japan. Fun, but a little odd!" noooooo this film is cool | |||
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"eg http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/jul/16/people-of-colour-working-class-history You use the word coloured in your first post. so, in your world, what does 'people of colour' mean? " There IS a difference between using a term (coloureds in this case) that was used to describe a class of people, and using people of colour. Henry Louis Gates Jr wrote a great book about 15 years ago, Coloured People. Read it if you want a good understanding of what the word meant back in the 40s and what it came to mean. As to your OP, the answer is yes. | |||
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"Go on then, who's done the lot? White, coloured,Asian,mixed,oriental, and that special unique group, top of the tree - gingers. "Coloured" is so 1960s it's ok to say Black in fact Black is the correct term xx this is said with a smile, just saying that's all x " fair point, and apologies all round for those offemded. but whats a poor whitey to do when the, ahem, black writers on the guardian, say its now 'people of colour'? and for those above makng nasty comments about what 'everyone knows i think' - how about 3 black ex gfs? | |||
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"I love sex with women of ethnicity other than my own, crossing both the stranger and race gap together, those kisses taste all the sweeter x" really? | |||
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"Go on then, who's done the lot? White, coloured,Asian,mixed,oriental, and that special unique group, top of the tree - gingers. "Coloured" is so 1960s it's ok to say Black in fact Black is the correct term xx this is said with a smile, just saying that's all x fair point, and apologies all round for those offemded. but whats a poor whitey to do when the, ahem, black writers on the guardian, say its now 'people of colour'? and for those above makng nasty comments about what 'everyone knows i think' - how about 3 black ex gfs?" | |||
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"Go on then, who's done the lot? White, coloured,Asian,mixed,oriental, and that special unique group, top of the tree - gingers. "Coloured" is so 1960s it's ok to say Black in fact Black is the correct term xx this is said with a smile, just saying that's all x fair point, and apologies all round for those offemded. but whats a poor whitey to do when the, ahem, black writers on the guardian, say its now 'people of colour'? and for those above makng nasty comments about what 'everyone knows i think' - how about 3 black ex gfs?" oh please not that old line next it will be my neice or nephews Dad is black and you didn't say "people of colour" now did you ? | |||
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"Go on then, who's done the lot? White, coloured,Asian,mixed,oriental, and that special unique group, top of the tree - gingers. "Coloured" is so 1960s it's ok to say Black in fact Black is the correct term xx this is said with a smile, just saying that's all x fair point, and apologies all round for those offemded. but whats a poor whitey to do when the, ahem, black writers on the guardian, say its now 'people of colour'? and for those above makng nasty comments about what 'everyone knows i think' - how about 3 black ex gfs? oh please not that old line next it will be my neice or nephews Dad is black and you didn't say "people of colour" now did you ?" It's like the saying I'm not racist I have black friends... | |||
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"Go on then, who's done the lot? White, coloured,Asian,mixed,oriental, and that special unique group, top of the tree - gingers. "Coloured" is so 1960s it's ok to say Black in fact Black is the correct term xx this is said with a smile, just saying that's all x fair point, and apologies all round for those offemded. but whats a poor whitey to do when the, ahem, black writers on the guardian, say its now 'people of colour'? and for those above makng nasty comments about what 'everyone knows i think' - how about 3 black ex gfs?" And you couldn't say black in your original post? | |||
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"I love sex with women of ethnicity other than my own, crossing both the stranger and race gap together, those kisses taste all the sweeter x really?" Yes, we all find sexual satisfaction in our own ways. | |||
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"What ethnicities are women drawn to? Is it all black cock fantasies?" For years growing up in inner city London I dated only black guys....now it's not about colour but who engages my brain regardless of colour | |||
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" fair point, and apologies all round for those offemded. but whats a poor whitey to do when the, ahem, black writers on the guardian, say its now 'people of colour'? and for those above makng nasty comments about what 'everyone knows i think' - how about 3 black ex gfs? And you couldn't say black in your original post? " My personal favourite is when something racist is said in a generalised way and followed with, not you though. However, OP, you have apologised and I can see that you have become confused with the different terminologies in use. Take the information here and follow the advice not to call us coloured. | |||
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"Well, I personally say that everyone is coloured. I haven't met an transparent person yet." That is the argument Gates Jr makes in his book. If everyone is called coloured, regardless of race, then the world can move on. However, that is not how the word is and has been used. The SA classifications of Black, Coloured and White also adds a status to the terms. | |||
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" fair point, and apologies all round for those offemded. but whats a poor whitey to do when the, ahem, black writers on the guardian, say its now 'people of colour'? and for those above makng nasty comments about what 'everyone knows i think' - how about 3 black ex gfs? And you couldn't say black in your original post? My personal favourite is when something racist is said in a generalised way and followed with, not you though. However, OP, you have apologised and I can see that you have become confused with the different terminologies in use. Take the information here and follow the advice not to call us coloured. " I think its kind to throw people a lifeline when they paint themselves into a corner | |||
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"Go on then, who's done the lot? White, coloured,Asian,mixed,oriental, and that special unique group, top of the tree - gingers. "Coloured" is so 1960s it's ok to say Black in fact Black is the correct term xx this is said with a smile, just saying that's all x fair point, and apologies all round for those offemded. but whats a poor whitey to do when the, ahem, black writers on the guardian, say its now 'people of colour'? and for those above makng nasty comments about what 'everyone knows i think' - how about 3 black ex gfs? oh please not that old line next it will be my neice or nephews Dad is black and you didn't say "people of colour" now did you ? It's like the saying I'm not racist I have black friends... " you got it | |||
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"Im not racist....i have a black dog " wtf | |||
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"Go on then, who's done the lot? White, coloured,Asian,mixed,oriental, and that special unique group, top of the tree - gingers. "Coloured" is so 1960s it's ok to say Black in fact Black is the correct term xx this is said with a smile, just saying that's all x fair point, and apologies all round for those offemded. but whats a poor whitey to do when the, ahem, black writers on the guardian, say its now 'people of colour'? and for those above makng nasty comments about what 'everyone knows i think' - how about 3 black ex gfs? oh please not that old line next it will be my neice or nephews Dad is black and you didn't say "people of colour" now did you ? It's like the saying I'm not racist I have black friends... you got it " Yeah, the guy has apologised, realises he was wrong and you guys are still acting like a lynch mob. Chill out. | |||
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"Im not racist....i have a black dog wtf " sorry it actually made me giggle I think it was ment tongue in cheek | |||
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"Go on then, who's done the lot? White, coloured,Asian,mixed,oriental, and that special unique group, top of the tree - gingers. "Coloured" is so 1960s it's ok to say Black in fact Black is the correct term xx this is said with a smile, just saying that's all x fair point, and apologies all round for those offemded. but whats a poor whitey to do when the, ahem, black writers on the guardian, say its now 'people of colour'? and for those above makng nasty comments about what 'everyone knows i think' - how about 3 black ex gfs? oh please not that old line next it will be my neice or nephews Dad is black and you didn't say "people of colour" now did you ? It's like the saying I'm not racist I have black friends... you got it Yeah, the guy has apologised, realises he was wrong and you guys are still acting like a lynch mob. Chill out." get it right the guy is digging a bigger hole for himself and not the best choice of words I mean "lynch mob" seriously? | |||
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"Go on then, who's done the lot? White, coloured,Asian,mixed,oriental, and that special unique group, top of the tree - gingers. "Coloured" is so 1960s it's ok to say Black in fact Black is the correct term xx this is said with a smile, just saying that's all x fair point, and apologies all round for those offemded. but whats a poor whitey to do when the, ahem, black writers on the guardian, say its now 'people of colour'? and for those above makng nasty comments about what 'everyone knows i think' - how about 3 black ex gfs? oh please not that old line next it will be my neice or nephews Dad is black and you didn't say "people of colour" now did you ? It's like the saying I'm not racist I have black friends... you got it Yeah, the guy has apologised, realises he was wrong and you guys are still acting like a lynch mob. Chill out. get it right the guy is digging a bigger hole for himself and not the best choice of words I mean "lynch mob" seriously? It was a perfectly chosen choice of words." in your opinion | |||
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"Well, I personally say that everyone is coloured. I haven't met an transparent person yet. That is the argument Gates Jr makes in his book. If everyone is called coloured, regardless of race, then the world can move on. However, that is not how the word is and has been used. The SA classifications of Black, Coloured and White also adds a status to the terms. Yes. But those are the only terms used. No one calls Asians yellow or American reds. If you do, you're called racist. Ironic no?" I know. Which is why people of colour has ended up being the compromise term. Yet still excludes white as that can just be people, it would seem. | |||
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"Well, I personally say that everyone is coloured. I haven't met an transparent person yet. That is the argument Gates Jr makes in his book. If everyone is called coloured, regardless of race, then the world can move on. However, that is not how the word is and has been used. The SA classifications of Black, Coloured and White also adds a status to the terms. Yes. But those are the only terms used. No one calls Asians yellow or American reds. If you do, you're called racist. Ironic no? I know. Which is why people of colour has ended up being the compromise term. Yet still excludes white as that can just be people, it would seem. " Relatively speaking, the u.k. may not be utopia, but its getting there. We're a pretty mixed bunch. I reckon black people may well have a harder time in,say, Russia. | |||
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"Coloured is a horrible word to describe somebody. " does not make someone racist thought just because they make a bad choice of wording, someone may choose to use the word coloured with the best intentions because they may believe it's the most suitable word to use while others may not agree, political correctness has gone a bit nuts in my opinon | |||
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"Well, I personally say that everyone is coloured. I haven't met an transparent person yet. That is the argument Gates Jr makes in his book. If everyone is called coloured, regardless of race, then the world can move on. However, that is not how the word is and has been used. The SA classifications of Black, Coloured and White also adds a status to the terms. Yes. But those are the only terms used. No one calls Asians yellow or American reds. If you do, you're called racist. Ironic no? I know. Which is why people of colour has ended up being the compromise term. Yet still excludes white as that can just be people, it would seem. Relatively speaking, the u.k. may not be utopia, but its getting there. We're a pretty mixed bunch. I reckon black people may well have a harder time in,say, Russia. " I agree. I grew up in Hackney, a very racially mixed borough now and back then. I didn't experience real racism until I was 17. It came as real shock to me as the white people I had met until then were not racist. I have white cousins too and it didn't enter my head that people would see and treat me as different. I worry when I see language and behaviour return to what was the less tolerant norm and I hope that we as a British nation of all ethnicities don't buy into hating people for their colour. | |||
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"Well, I personally say that everyone is coloured. I haven't met an transparent person yet. That is the argument Gates Jr makes in his book. If everyone is called coloured, regardless of race, then the world can move on. However, that is not how the word is and has been used. The SA classifications of Black, Coloured and White also adds a status to the terms. Yes. But those are the only terms used. No one calls Asians yellow or American reds. If you do, you're called racist. Ironic no? I know. Which is why people of colour has ended up being the compromise term. Yet still excludes white as that can just be people, it would seem. "People of colour" is embraced in America, as it has replaced the word minority, apparently. it includes all non white people, which are in fact a majority in many places and the phrase represents that. Or so Wiki says." Lol, Wiki - gotta love it's scientific rigour and lack of trolls... Imagine a world where all white people were called "pale faces" "foreign devils" "ghosts" for centuries, throw in historical repression, slavery and genocide and you then begin to appreciate that coloured is not just a word, its a symbol of being treated badly. However, we can move on without kissing asses, if we just show respect. End of. | |||
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"Well, I personally say that everyone is coloured. I haven't met an transparent person yet. That is the argument Gates Jr makes in his book. If everyone is called coloured, regardless of race, then the world can move on. However, that is not how the word is and has been used. The SA classifications of Black, Coloured and White also adds a status to the terms. Yes. But those are the only terms used. No one calls Asians yellow or American reds. If you do, you're called racist. Ironic no? I know. Which is why people of colour has ended up being the compromise term. Yet still excludes white as that can just be people, it would seem. "People of colour" is embraced in America, as it has replaced the word minority, apparently. it includes all non white people, which are in fact a majority in many places and the phrase represents that. Or so Wiki says. Lol, Wiki - gotta love it's scientific rigour and lack of trolls... Imagine a world where all white people were called "pale faces" "foreign devils" "ghosts" for centuries, throw in historical repression, slavery and genocide and you then begin to appreciate that coloured is not just a word, its a symbol of being treated badly. However, we can move on without kissing asses, if we just show respect. End of." Including to those who apologise. And getting rid of racism whether it be intended, mistaken or accidental, is to preach respect and understanding, not bash over the head repeatedly. End of. | |||
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"I dont think think OP meant to use the term coloured in a derogatory sense. Perhaps just a wrong choice of words but he has apologised for causing offence. What was supposed to be a light hearted thread has turned into a witch hunt and turned a mole hill into a mountain. Chill out for fuck sake. " Well if those legs don't change everyones focus then what the hell will!! | |||
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"I dont think think OP meant to use the term coloured in a derogatory sense. Perhaps just a wrong choice of words but he has apologised for causing offence. What was supposed to be a light hearted thread has turned into a witch hunt and turned a mole hill into a mountain. Chill out for fuck sake. " tasty legs..what colour are they? | |||
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"I'd give up if I was you You're never going to win on the debate but wonder how many went mad when we were stopped from saying "blackboard" ????? Goodnight to all you lovely people " We weren't ever really stopped from saying blackboard. Anyhoo, they've all been replaced with white boards now. | |||
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"I dont think think OP meant to use the term coloured in a derogatory sense. Perhaps just a wrong choice of words but he has apologised for causing offence. What was supposed to be a light hearted thread has turned into a witch hunt and turned a mole hill into a mountain. Chill out for fuck sake. tasty legs..what colour are they? " They are brown coloured | |||
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"And breath people Anyone else noticed that it's the 'white' people who get more twisted and offended about this subject than the 'black, Asian, coloured' ever do Dons riot gear and braces oneself for the flack " the flacks back and its black | |||
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"And breath people Anyone else noticed that it's the 'white' people who get more twisted and offended about this subject than the 'black, Asian, coloured' ever do Dons riot gear and braces oneself for the flack " I admit I may of got on my high horse but I I just reacted to the abuse I have had dating a black guy maybe I over reacted but I just don't like the term coloured... | |||
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"And breath people Anyone else noticed that it's the 'white' people who get more twisted and offended about this subject than the 'black, Asian, coloured' ever do Dons riot gear and braces oneself for the flack I admit I may of got on my high horse but I I just reacted to the abuse I have had dating a black guy maybe I over reacted but I just don't like the term coloured... " | |||
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"And breath people Anyone else noticed that it's the 'white' people who get more twisted and offended about this subject than the 'black, Asian, coloured' ever do Dons riot gear and braces oneself for the flack I admit I may of got on my high horse but I I just reacted to the abuse I have had dating a black guy maybe I over reacted but I just don't like the term coloured... " I don't think many do. I used to use coloured in the mistaken belief it was less offensive than black. I am glad I know better now. I was very sorry that I'd offended anyone when I found out the actual connotations of the term. I'd never have tried to justify using the word by claiming that "coloured" is fundamentally the same thing as "people of colour". | |||
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"And breath people Anyone else noticed that it's the 'white' people who get more twisted and offended about this subject than the 'black, Asian, coloured' ever do Dons riot gear and braces oneself for the flack " Perhaps there's some kind of guilt there over how black people were treated in the past. The OP (who I am, possibly incorrectly, thinking is white) doesn't seem bothered about it but some white people don't want to see more of the same. I also think it's possible that some people, (not necessarily just those "of colour"), are so used to casual racism or marginalisation that they let it pass. Otherwise they'd constantly be arguing with people. Taking the high road and forgiving some their ignorance or foolishness probably makes for a calmer life. Of course, intentional abuse is something totally different, as it should be. | |||
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"That word is offensive to many because of it's inherent link to apartheid. The Op used it out of ignorance simply because no one had educated him that some find it offensive. I for one accept his apology. He also uses the word 'oriental' this is equally offensive to some Asian peoples. Why hasn't that recieved similar outcry, is it because of the ignorance of other contributors to the thread? We are all ignorant until educated on certain issues. Anyone willing to learn, change and offer a genuine apology for their ignorance should always be applauded. Many are ignorant and choose to remain so. " thank god there's someone sane on this thread | |||
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"And breath people Anyone else noticed that it's the 'white' people who get more twisted and offended about this subject than the 'black, Asian, coloured' ever do Dons riot gear and braces oneself for the flack Perhaps there's some kind of guilt there over how black people were treated in the past. The OP (who I am, possibly incorrectly, thinking is white) doesn't seem bothered about it but some white people don't want to see more of the same. I also think it's possible that some people, (not necessarily just those "of colour"), are so used to casual racism or marginalisation that they let it pass. Otherwise they'd constantly be arguing with people. Taking the high road and forgiving some their ignorance or foolishness probably makes for a calmer life. Of course, intentional abuse is something totally different, as it should be." | |||
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"That word is offensive to many because of it's inherent link to apartheid. The Op used it out of ignorance simply because no one had educated him that some find it offensive. I for one accept his apology. He also uses the word 'oriental' this is equally offensive to some Asian peoples. Why hasn't that recieved similar outcry, is it because of the ignorance of other contributors to the thread? We are all ignorant until educated on certain issues. Anyone willing to learn, change and offer a genuine apology for their ignorance should always be applauded. Many are ignorant and choose to remain so. " I thought it went back to the KKK usage of the word | |||
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