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What is beauty and eroticism

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm a professional photographer, at the moment working on my own project to show that people over 40 can be sexy and erotic.

My question is what do you believe makes somebody erotic or beautiful.

I believe in photographing normal people not size 0

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

a sense of self acceptance, confidence..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence or at least being comfortable in your own skin so to speak. And, being suggestive while leaving plenty to the imagination x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence, knowing yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a professional photographer, at the moment working on my own project to show that people over 40 can be sexy and erotic.

My question is what do you believe makes somebody erotic or beautiful.

I believe in photographing normal people not size 0 "

Confidence in a shot I find quite sexy...

You want to look at a shot and feel as horny as they look as though they feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been lucky to meet lots that have let me photograph and take part in photos, many of varying ages/weights.Some will highlight things they dont like, or when I'm editing I'll do some standard adjustments..its not too change them dramatically though...

I'd say I have a good eye for making friends and acquaintances look good..sometimes I even amaze myself at me in my pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A figment of ones perception.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Are you saying that people over forty are NOT sexy? That people under 40 usually are?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm a professional photographer, at the moment working on my own project to show that people over 40 can be sexy and erotic.

My question is what do you believe makes somebody erotic or beautiful.

I believe in photographing normal people not size 0 "

It needs a dedicated project to prove that people over 40 can be sexy?

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

There are plenty in Fabs over the age of 40 who are incredibly sexy and beautiful and erotic

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

this point is perpetual ...we are over 40 and im sure we dont float everyones boats ..no one ever will c..thats life !

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By *crew_driverMan
over a year ago

Near you

Beauty is the loving and acceptance of ones self regardless of their shape, size, age, gender and colour, and confident and proud to let others know that.

Eroticism is the embracing of ones sexuality, regardless of their beauty (as defined above), and sexual satisfaction is derived from whatever it is that we find sensually stimulating, which can and will differ with each person.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

body awareness and being comfortable knowing youve got the allure

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By *layersdelightCouple
over a year ago

Stevenage

I'm well over 40 and my husband thinks I'm sexy thank god!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Are you saying that people over forty are NOT sexy? That people under 40 usually are?

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I think he is saying that the perception is that they aren't. I think this might be his perception though.

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.


"Confidence or at least being comfortable in your own skin so to speak. And, being suggestive while leaving plenty to the imagination x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no idea

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm a professional photographer, at the moment working on my own project to show that people over 40 can be sexy and erotic.

My question is what do you believe makes somebody erotic or beautiful.

I believe in photographing normal people not size 0

It needs a dedicated project to prove that people over 40 can be sexy?

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Not for me but maybe for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watched the programme on Gypsy Rose Lee the other evening. She didn't even take any clothes off for the first 15 mins of her show. Yet the audience were entranced apparently. Some people just exude eroticism. It doesn't have to be in your face. It's implied, so partially clothed to leave the rest to your imagination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A figment of ones perception."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are a state of mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence I think if someone is confident in front of the camera that shows, I also love eye contact in a pic it is just damn sexy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm a professional photographer, at the moment working on my own project to show that people over 40 can be sexy and erotic.

My question is what do you believe makes somebody erotic or beautiful.

I believe in photographing normal people not size 0 "

I understand what you're saying but beauty and eroticism is ageless (in adults of course) and comes from self acceptance.

Look at the pictures of the women and men who have posted here who are all beautiful, erotic creatures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all down to the Photographer

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By *ike4362ukMan
over a year ago

Cheshunt

I think beauty is a property associated with a person or image. Different people gauge beauty differently.

Eroticism is more about the actions of a person or in the production of an image. A person who is beautiful can pose in images that are frankly gynaecological rather than erotic, and a person that I may not consider beautiful can be in a very erotic image or act in an erotic manner.

Also beauty is not necessarily directly a feature of sexuality, whereas eroticism very definitely is!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think beauty is a property associated with a person or image. Different people gauge beauty differently.

Eroticism is more about the actions of a person or in the production of an image. A person who is beautiful can pose in images that are frankly gynaecological rather than erotic, and a person that I may not consider beautiful can be in a very erotic image or act in an erotic manner.

Also beauty is not necessarily directly a feature of sexuality, whereas eroticism very definitely is!"

That's a good answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It does need a project when in the eyes of the erotic photography world you have to be slim and in your late teens to 20s. Thats why the project shots will be exhibited and entered in 2 major competitions in 2015. Take a look at the majority of erotic 'art' photographers sites, you will find young ladies with perfect figures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm over forty, size 20 and sexy to some.

When I feel sexy then apparently I appear sexy. Same person and same wrapping, it's the attitude and positivity that helps.

Obviously not to everyone, that's just being honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you saying that people over forty are NOT sexy? That people under 40 usually are?

I think he is saying that the perception is that they aren't. I think this might be his perception though."

It isn't my perception at all, it seems to be the perception of most erotic photographers, my perception is anybody can be sexy and erotic whatever age they are

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Are you saying that people over forty are NOT sexy? That people under 40 usually are?

I think he is saying that the perception is that they aren't. I think this might be his perception though.

It isn't my perception at all, it seems to be the perception of most erotic photographers, my perception is anybody can be sexy and erotic whatever age they are"

possibly most erotic photographers are catering to a perceived market? Young, nubile etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have a portfolio of your work online?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you have a portfolio of your work online?"

I will have at beginning of November

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"I'm a professional photographer, at the moment working on my own project to show that people over 40 can be sexy and erotic.

My question is what do you believe makes somebody erotic or beautiful.

I believe in photographing normal people not size 0 "

A strange question for a professional photographer to be asking, I assumed they would know otherwise they wouldn't get any business?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone can be erotic without being beautiful in my view. Erotic = arousing, a turn on. Beauty = visually appealing. Both will be different for everyone I would guess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a professional photographer, at the moment working on my own project to show that people over 40 can be sexy and erotic.

My question is what do you believe makes somebody erotic or beautiful.

I believe in photographing normal people not size 0

A strange question for a professional photographer to be asking, I assumed they would know otherwise they wouldn't get any business?"

I was asking to see if my perception matched other peoples, nothing strange in that

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"I'm a professional photographer, at the moment working on my own project to show that people over 40 can be sexy and erotic.

My question is what do you believe makes somebody erotic or beautiful.

I believe in photographing normal people not size 0

A strange question for a professional photographer to be asking, I assumed they would know otherwise they wouldn't get any business?

I was asking to see if my perception matched other peoples, nothing strange in that"

Judging by the photo's you have on your profile I would concentrate on composition and balance first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a professional photographer, at the moment working on my own project to show that people over 40 can be sexy and erotic.

My question is what do you believe makes somebody erotic or beautiful.

I believe in photographing normal people not size 0

A strange question for a professional photographer to be asking, I assumed they would know otherwise they wouldn't get any business?

I was asking to see if my perception matched other peoples, nothing strange in that

Judging by the photo's you have on your profile I would concentrate on composition and balance first."

I'm sure that anyone can tell they were webcam photos taken because somebody asked me to put them on my profile

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm a professional photographer, at the moment working on my own project to show that people over 40 can be sexy and erotic.

My question is what do you believe makes somebody erotic or beautiful.

I believe in photographing normal people not size 0 "

Can I ask what you believe makes someone erotic or beautiful ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish you could buy it in a bottle I need some

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Oops there he was.....gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Own up! Who did that to the OP

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