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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To ask men to copy and paste their hidden verifications I like to know good or bad who I going to meet and what standards they have I feel I only playing safe

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

...er... how do yoy know they even have any hidden ones?

Their veri summary may contain veris lost from people leaving

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

people can ask, doesn't mean they will send

i wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To ask men to copy and paste their hidden verifications I like to know good or bad who I going to meet and what standards they have I feel I only playing safe "

Sounds sensible to me

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

I don't think it's wrong if that's how you feel it works best for you

Personally I take verifications with a pinch of salt, after all 'one man's trash is another man's treasure' and all that!

I prefer to spend time finding out about a prospective meet myself, through messaging and chatting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok Thankyou for your _iews.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To ask men to copy and paste their hidden verifications I like to know good or bad who I going to meet and what standards they have I feel I only playing safe "

We like to see who men have been with before.

We also find guys who hide veris are often guys who have met a tv or been verified by another guy.

The veris that are hidden because of people leaving sites cam still be seen if you have a summary of veris... like ours still shows we met a woman even though she has left.. it just won't allow the write up what she left ills (which is good as she said we were rubbish in bed and smelt bad lol)...

We like to see where people ol have been before as it gives us an idea of their standards .... and of course we are nosey and may fancy someone on their list too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To ask men to copy and paste their hidden verifications I like to know good or bad who I going to meet and what standards they have I feel I only playing safe "

Do you really think they would show a bad verification , and instead of copy not paste which they could just make up why not ask them to temporarily display them for you to read, but you'd still only get to see good ones

bit pointless IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To ask men to copy and paste their hidden verifications I like to know good or bad who I going to meet and what standards they have I feel I only playing safe "

Do you do the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's wrong if that's how you feel it works best for you

Personally I take verifications with a pinch of salt, after all 'one man's trash is another man's treasure' and all that!

I prefer to spend time finding out about a prospective meet myself, through messaging and chatting "

That is why I choose to be a blank canvas

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Blimey, if someone asked me to do that the message would go into several volumes!

Poor men. We moan when they don't have veris, we moan when they have too many, and now we don't trust them at all. As trust is a major part of setting up a meet for me, I wouldn't give a crap if he'd had a dodgy veri or two. I mean, if there's been serious problems, its more than likely it won't be on a verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few verifications on show but I don't search others verifications to see what type of people they meet, beauty is in the eye of the beholder as they say, so just because they found that person attractive and I don't does not mean I would find that off putting that seems strange to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To ask men to copy and paste their hidden verifications I like to know good or bad who I going to meet and what standards they have I feel I only playing safe "

Up to you what you do but it's not really a worthwhile exorcise many lose wording with verifications when people leave

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I'm open and honest on my profile and I display most of my veris, I just keep a few repetive ones back and I have a few I've lost from folk leaving site.

The whole question is flawed anyway due to the answers given above.

If someone asked me to do this I'd decline and suggest they find another performing dog to jump through their hoops....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blimey, if someone asked me to do that the message would go into several volumes!

Poor men. We moan when they don't have veris, we moan when they have too many, and now we don't trust them at all. As trust is a major part of setting up a meet for me, I wouldn't give a crap if he'd had a dodgy veri or two. I mean, if there's been serious problems, its more than likely it won't be on a verification."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never relied solely on verifications. I like to use my own judgement on who I meet and why.

I'd have missed out on a lot of gorgeous men if I hadn't given those without verifications a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never relied solely on verifications. I like to use my own judgement on who I meet and why.

I'd have missed out on a lot of gorgeous men if I hadn't given those without verifications a chance. "

Smart lady

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i'd think about it...... and then tell ya its none of your business!!

i don't show some just because they are too graphic for my taste... or repeat ones (i only feel the need to show one from any person) or like others have said...they may have left the site....

if you are seriously that suspicious of people in something like this that can take a lot of trust, then why would you meet then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What stop them putting an edit between paste and send? Pointless excercise really, mostly harmless but if you rely on it as a selection method, it could cause you problems of overlooking real issues.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

If someone asked me I'd make up some stunning ones about how we gate crashed a party at Sandringham, or got thrown out of Vegas, etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To ask men to copy and paste their hidden verifications I like to know good or bad who I going to meet and what standards they have I feel I only playing safe "

How do you know if they have hidden veris? And how do you know they are copied veris and not just something that they have written them self?

We don't go on verifications and much prefer to make our minds up about someone by chatting and then possibly meeting. It's no business of ours who they have met and what they got up to.

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

If I was asked to paste a hidden verification, I'd probably just send this one;

Beyonce K by Meeting in person

Displayed on profile)

I met Chip after months of flirting and trying to hide it from my husband Jay Z (You guys call him Jay Zed over here I think). You may remember a scuffle Jay had in a lift with my sister - well, this was because Chip met her first and she recommended him to me.

Chip is as close to perfection as a man can be. Tall, handsome, dashing, suave, intelligent, funny, gentlemanly. Lean, toned, twinkling eyes, looks far younger than his years. Oh my, I feel I need to write a song about him right now.

As for his performance in bed, where do I start? Passionate, attentive, a wicked tongue, a cock made from granite, hands that explore, such stamina. I'm not one to exaggerate but I had 63 orgasms in an hour.

If Michelangelo was still about there would probably be a statue of Chip on the Thames embankment in Staines.

Furthermore, let me tell you that when he did finally have to cope with me and Solange together he was equally as magnificent.

What a total and utter, sex God stud muffin.

Thank you Chip, you are my World and my next husband to be. B xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was asked to paste a hidden verification, I'd probably just send this one;

Beyonce K by Meeting in person

Displayed on profile)

I met Chip after months of flirting and trying to hide it from my husband Jay Z (You guys call him Jay Zed over here I think). You may remember a scuffle Jay had in a lift with my sister - well, this was because Chip met her first and she recommended him to me.

Chip is as close to perfection as a man can be. Tall, handsome, dashing, suave, intelligent, funny, gentlemanly. Lean, toned, twinkling eyes, looks far younger than his years. Oh my, I feel I need to write a song about him right now.

As for his performance in bed, where do I start? Passionate, attentive, a wicked tongue, a cock made from granite, hands that explore, such stamina. I'm not one to exaggerate but I had 63 orgasms in an hour.

If Michelangelo was still about there would probably be a statue of Chip on the Thames embankment in Staines.

Furthermore, let me tell you that when he did finally have to cope with me and Solange together he was equally as magnificent.

What a total and utter, sex God stud muffin.

Thank you Chip, you are my World and my next husband to be. B xxxx

"

Wow you met Beyoncé?

You kept that blooming quiet

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines


"Wow you met Beyoncé?

You kept that blooming quiet "

Ah you know me - modest to a fault. But I can tell you that Dangerously In Love was dedicated to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see the point. They'd just edit out any bad bits. I've had a guy send the text of his veri in a message, turns out he'd left out the part about him being 'tall, dark and two out of three's not bad'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To ask men to copy and paste their hidden verifications I like to know good or bad who I going to meet and what standards they have I feel I only playing safe

Do you really think they would show a bad verification , and instead of copy not paste which they could just make up why not ask them to temporarily display them for you to read, but you'd still only get to see good ones

bit pointless IMO"

I can't believe people would make up veri's!!!!

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines


"I can't believe people would make up veri's!!!!

"

Yeeeeah, exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To ask men to copy and paste their hidden verifications I like to know good or bad who I going to meet and what standards they have I feel I only playing safe

Do you really think they would show a bad verification , and instead of copy not paste which they could just make up why not ask them to temporarily display them for you to read, but you'd still only get to see good ones

bit pointless IMO

I can't believe people would make up veri's!!!!

"

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

See chips veri from Beyoncé, I'm sure it's not made up though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To ask men to copy and paste their hidden verifications I like to know good or bad who I going to meet and what standards they have I feel I only playing safe

Do you really think they would show a bad verification , and instead of copy not paste which they could just make up why not ask them to temporarily display them for you to read, but you'd still only get to see good ones

bit pointless IMO

I can't believe people would make up veri's!!!!

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

See chips veri from Beyoncé, I'm sure it's not made up though "

It looks as real as my veri's.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Good to ask and their response, even if no veris, may reveal all you need.

It's good to form your own selection and meet rules, as only you know what feels right.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"To ask men to copy and paste their hidden verifications I like to know good or bad who I going to meet and what standards they have I feel I only playing safe "

You can ask what you like. Personally I think veris show that someone is who they say they are and turned up on that occasion. Beyond that they are pretty useless to me. If I'm interested, I'll make up my own mind.

Veris aren't supposed to be re_iews, at least in my opinion.

I'd tell anyone demanding to see all my veris to get knotted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask away.

I wouldn't provide then though and it would be an instant cessation to any further notion of meeting or playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand people keeping their veris hidden at times.

I've been messaged by a woman and warned off a guy because she wanted him to herself.

On the flip side I've also had a disgruntled guy I didnt want to meet go through my friends list messaging men on there.

Fruitloops!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cam verification disappeared cos the member left the site, but it still sais verified

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the guys could write their own if just being asked to copy and paste.

I don't show mine as had issues with other women checking who 'their' men were meeting. I think that it is enough that I/the guys are verified.

Let's face it the verification will never be negative, and it is more about how you interact/feel.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Surely the guys could write their own if just being asked to copy and paste.

I don't show mine as had issues with other women checking who 'their' men were meeting. I think that it is enough that I/the guys are verified.

Let's face it the verification will never be negative, and it is more about how you interact/feel."

plus.. for me, at least, yeah its nice to see a coupla veri's, that give a clue that yeah they are real. when i meet them, i never go out of my way.. i always make a first social somewhere in town, so even if they are a faker or a no-show, then i can do a bit of shopping or summat on my way home.

besides, even with the genuine guys, veri's on here mean fuck all as to their sex life. they may have tons going on outside fab, they may be banging mutant ninja midgets every weekend, but use fab when they are feeling less (or more) kinky

long as i keep every meet as safe as i can (socially and sexually), hidden veri's dont bother me. whether their veri was simply too explicit for them to want to show, or it could have mentioned their real name, or a place they frequent regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the guys could write their own if just being asked to copy and paste.

I don't show mine as had issues with other women checking who 'their' men were meeting. I think that it is enough that I/the guys are verified.

Let's face it the verification will never be negative, and it is more about how you interact/feel."
That's true, have you notice how everyone are so awesome in bed? lol.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Surely the guys could write their own if just being asked to copy and paste.

I don't show mine as had issues with other women checking who 'their' men were meeting. I think that it is enough that I/the guys are verified.

Let's face it the verification will never be negative, and it is more about how you interact/feel.That's true, have you notice how everyone are so awesome in bed? lol."

and how all the guys have a such a 'suckable cock'!!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

What`s all this "standards" bollocks, what someone chooses to do with another person who they choose to see has nothing to do with me wanting to meet them, that just makes you sound so far up your own backside it would put me off for a start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man asked me to copy and paste mine to 'prove' anything about myself I'd tell him to fuck right off, so I wouldn't ask a man to do it either. Plus as many others have said, how do you even know that they'd be legit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,you're wrong. If you just want to see who he fucks you sound a bit shallow to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the guys could write their own if just being asked to copy and paste.

I don't show mine as had issues with other women checking who 'their' men were meeting. I think that it is enough that I/the guys are verified.

Let's face it the verification will never be negative, and it is more about how you interact/feel.

plus.. for me, at least, yeah its nice to see a coupla veri's, that give a clue that yeah they are real. when i meet them, i never go out of my way.. i always make a first social somewhere in town, so even if they are a faker or a no-show, then i can do a bit of shopping or summat on my way home.

besides, even with the genuine guys, veri's on here mean fuck all as to their sex life. they may have tons going on outside fab, they may be banging mutant ninja midgets every weekend, but use fab when they are feeling less (or more) kinky

long as i keep every meet as safe as i can (socially and sexually), hidden veri's dont bother me. whether their veri was simply too explicit for them to want to show, or it could have mentioned their real name, or a place they frequent regularly. "

I'm now loving the image of mutant ninja midgets

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i would think it odd and have only once unhidden my veris for a man ...he was a seriously special man !!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Veri's mean Jack Shit other than to say who you are.

I shag disease ridden prostitutes every night of the week and it's always bareback

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Veri's mean Jack Shit other than to say who you are.

I shag disease ridden prostitutes every night of the week and it's always bareback "

That's ok if you show the veri`s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Veri's mean Jack Shit other than to say who you are.

I shag disease ridden prostitutes every night of the week and it's always bareback "
Can you recommend any cheap ones?.. joke lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just display my veris if requested

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By *ediceTV/TS
over a year ago

Wrexham

If someone asked me to c+p my varies, I'd tell them to fuck right off.

Whom I've slept with in the past past is none of their damn business (it's enough to know they enjoyed the experience enough to leave a vari at all)!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes OP I believe you are wrong.

Like others have said, I would not adhere to Amy demands made of me.

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