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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies and gents, I recently saw a lass that was 100% against giving or receiving oral. Now for me I normally use this as a technique to keep the lady I am with, going until I'm ready again and I found this to be quite off putting and a bit restrictive? I mean I love giving head to a lady and sure having a play with your fingers is good but surely there's only so long you can do that before your hand gets cramped and she starts feeling numb? Just wondering if they're any other ladies out their that finds receiving oral leaves them feeling cold?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies and gents, I recently saw a lass that was 100% against giving or receiving oral. Now for me I normally use this as a technique to keep the lady I am with, going until I'm ready again and I found this to be quite off putting and a bit restrictive? I mean I love giving head to a lady and sure having a play with your fingers is good but surely there's only so long you can do that before your hand gets cramped and she starts feeling numb? Just wondering if they're any other ladies out their that finds receiving oral leaves them feeling cold? "

I can really take it or leave it.. Don't mind giving though at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a lady who is completely against the giving or receiving of oral. I find it a little odd, but its her body and she is entitled to her opinions so i dont really find it a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to never actually like it at all I loved giving but receiving I would always decline, until I met a couple of people who made me think otherwise and showed me what I was missing, but even now it is very hard to get me there that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it when I feel like something is 'expected' of me, no matter what it is. I do things because I want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it! And j loves giving it to me - makes it even better

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I used to never actually like it at all I loved giving but receiving I would always decline, until I met a couple of people who made me think otherwise and showed me what I was missing, but even now it is very hard to get me there that way. "

This is me but still haven't been shown what I'm missing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate oral full stop. Won't do it at all! To the men who think it's odd, not every woman likes oral, we're all different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex hated oral as well... In fact he hated all forms of foreplay..

Probably why I never once had an orgasm the 8 and a half years I was with him.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

This effect has been linked to one particular catalyst in many women:

Marraige

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love giving but receiving leaves me feeling cold. Just don't get it at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did not know there was so many ladies out there that did not like a lick I found it more to be a case of they did not get it at home lazy husband s not returning and been mingeaphidic and have loved the fact I like to go down also but each to there own would hate to do it and they not enjoy it or any other act in fact

Nothing worse then someone putting uo with something if its not what you want say so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love oral. With the right person oral can be as good as penetration. My hubby has a magic tongue and drives me wild

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Just extend your range and find what she really wants.

If you expect multiple partners then it's reasonable to assume a one trick pony won't pull it off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just found it put me a little off set. Like I say, it's what I normally do while I'm waiting to be ready to go again and instead was to be found getting finger cramp.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I just found it put me a little off set. Like I say, it's what I normally do while I'm waiting to be ready to go again and instead was to be found getting finger cramp. "

Then do what women do when their fingers are cramping - get out the toys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just found it put me a little off set. Like I say, it's what I normally do while I'm waiting to be ready to go again and instead was to be found getting finger cramp. "

Tell her to sort herself out the lazy cow.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I dislike receiving oral. I find it a bit disrespectful that anyone thinks I'm odd

because of that.

There are so many different ways to keep a woman aroused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dislike receiving oral. I find it a bit disrespectful that anyone thinks I'm odd

because of that.

There are so many different ways to keep a woman aroused."

Give her some ironing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just found it put me a little off set. Like I say, it's what I normally do while I'm waiting to be ready to go again and instead was to be found getting finger cramp. "

I prefer kissing and stroking in rest periods. Or just staring at the ceiling having a chat works for me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I dislike receiving oral. I find it a bit disrespectful that anyone thinks I'm odd

because of that.

There are so many different ways to keep a woman aroused.

Give her some ironing to do."

Does it for me every time

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