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more subs then doms

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi im a sub guy but have noticed so many more sub ladies then dom ones. Is this down to 50 shades of grey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope there has always been more submissive women than dominant women.

But it has perked more peoples interest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes you could be right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep preaching to the perverted got an influx of femme dommes mind.

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By *laction manMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I have no complaints with that

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

Being a true Domme isn't easy, it doesn't come naturally to many people I have found.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes more easy to be sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easier too let go than stay in control I guess ?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

they are probably too shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More bi guys into being fucked rather than doing the fucking too.

S is a pure top whereas J is pretty much always a bottom.

Therefore, we only seek top guys for meets.

For every message we receive from a guy that ticks our box in that respect, I bet we get 10 that don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easier too let go than stay in control I guess ?"

I find it doesn't easier to be in control if I'm honest....I've been about and tried a hole lot of different things kink and vanilla. ..came into the swinging side of things a few years back and always nilla meets without even touching on the kink.

It's a whole lot harder gor me to trust someone completely and let them have total control.

He is very dominant and it took a while but when it happens its amazing.

But I think having my fiesty nature drives him mad but makes it worth the effort

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Sabrina just naturally sub and still looking find right dom or domme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are alot of people generally who have read that book and think they are dom or sub. Really they know jack shit about it! Lets put up a quick thread - 'I want a sub' Yeh right fella thats gonna happen with a total stranger, who I've never met. Laughable!.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats true very unlikely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are using this site to seek out Dommes that maybe where you are going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're into this kind of thing, which do you prefer, fifty shades, or the secretary?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Where is best then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To say its easier to be sub than Dominant is quite honestly ignorant. To give up control to someone else is not an east thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes more easy to be sub"

I take exception to that comment. Only the ill informed think that the sub's role is to lay back and take the forced orgasms. Wrong!

If you're lucky enough to find the right Dom, your physical, mental and emotional strength is tested and pushed up to and beyond their limits.

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes more easy to be sub

I take exception to that comment. Only the ill informed think that the sub's role is to lay back and take the forced orgasms. Wrong!

If you're lucky enough to find the right Dom, your physical, mental and emotional strength is tested and pushed up to and beyond their limits.

crystal"

As I said loads think they know about sub/dom relationship but only cos they have read that book. I'm a sub but only to women. In vanilla life I am a strong ballsy woman who takes crap from no one. I chose who I sub to.That is built on trust and respect. 'Easier to sub' by far the most ill informed statement I've heard.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Faslane has a similar problem I'm lead to believe.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Hi im a sub guy but have noticed so many more sub ladies then dom ones. Is this down to 50 shades of grey?"
I don't know. Is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a dom (least a good one) takes an awful lot of self confidence more than most people have and way more than the type of person in these kinds of sites tends to have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that every man who wanted me to dominate them has a list of things they want doing. That's not my idea of a sub. One of my regular men lets me get on with what I want to do,he knows I wouldn't go too far and hurt him. I'm naturally passive but he makes me want to do bad things to him

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I find that every man who wanted me to dominate them has a list of things they want doing. That's not my idea of a sub. One of my regular men lets me get on with what I want to do,he knows I wouldn't go too far and hurt him. I'm naturally passive but he makes me want to do bad things to him "

Fully agree

And tha ty book has nothelped with anything imo

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