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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do winks actually work , ive looked at profiles that wink me and thanked them , but the winks ive give out not always get a result even though their profiles say they reply to winks ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We rarely look at ours and never give them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very rare I look at winks at all I normally delete them

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I bulk delete my winks about once a week. If I'm really bored, I might flick through them and have a quick peek... but to be honest, it tends to be a gallery of cocks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We rarely look at ours and never give them out. "

So really kinda pointless on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a wink they have worked for me both ways

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's very rare I look at winks at all I normally delete them "

That's fair enough x they should have a option on everyone's profile that they can delete the wink option

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By *r jblMan
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"It's very rare I look at winks at all I normally delete them "
. How come?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I bulk delete my winks about once a week. If I'm really bored, I might flick through them and have a quick peek... but to be honest, it tends to be a gallery of cocks."

And when you've seen one you've seen them all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like a wink they have worked for me both ways "

I give winks out mainly so as not to add to someone's messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't notice winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think winks are a lazy way of contacting someone so i usually block the person sending them and delete them !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to look at who has winked at me but if I am not attracted to them, don't like their profile or they don't have any pics then I don't message or any thing. I take winks as some one letting me know they like my profile and are testing the water to see if I like them too. I wink people and get nothing back, no problem!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't do winks "

Do you delete the ones you e recieved ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to look at who has winked at me but if I am not attracted to them, don't like their profile or they don't have any pics then I don't message or any thing. I take winks as some one letting me know they like my profile and are testing the water to see if I like them too. I wink people and get nothing back, no problem!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to look at who has winked at me but if I am not attracted to them, don't like their profile or they don't have any pics then I don't message or any thing. I take winks as some one letting me know they like my profile and are testing the water to see if I like them too. I wink people and get nothing back, no problem!"

Yeah that's what I do , just to let them know I like what I see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't do winks

Do you delete the ones you e recieved ?"

No I just ignore them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't do winks

Do you delete the ones you e recieved ?

No I just ignore them "

Lol fair do's lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to receive a wink on those rare occassions that they do actually come through. I never know what to do though when I do finally get one so tend to wink back if I like them.

It's always a bit of that game / gamble where if you drop them a note you'll probably end up getting blocked.

So I do struggle with wink etiquette to be honest!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's nice to receive a wink on those rare occassions that they do actually come through. I never know what to do though when I do finally get one so tend to wink back if I like them.

It's always a bit of that game / gamble where if you drop them a note you'll probably end up getting blocked.

So I do struggle with wink etiquette to be honest!"

Yeah same here , I do message saying thanks for the wink and 9/10 times I do get a reply

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I never look at winks, if someone wants to get in contact they can, I have no filters up as I only use this profile to chat and as an 'advert'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never look at winks, if someone wants to get in contact they can, I have no filters up as I only use this profile to chat and as an 'advert'."

That's fair enough, I think that winks Are kind of a ice breaker I think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't do winks

Do you delete the ones you e recieved ?"

We don't delete them, they just sit there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't do winks

Do you delete the ones you e recieved ?

We don't delete them, they just sit there. "

Does it say how many you got lol ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to look at who has winked at me but if I am not attracted to them, don't like their profile or they don't have any pics then I don't message or any thing. I take winks as some one letting me know they like my profile and are testing the water to see if I like them too. I wink people and get nothing back, no problem!"

Couldn't say it better for me it's a great way to gauge interest without clogging up an inbox

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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo


"I like a wink they have worked for me both ways "

Me too but I do simply delete the 'cocks gallery'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like a wink they have worked for me both ways

Me too but I do simply delete the 'cocks gallery' "

Like a said before once you've seen one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't do winks

Do you delete the ones you e recieved ?"

Well we're so far up our own arse that we don't reply to winks or a anything else and if we get them when we are looking for a meet ...BLOCKED!!!!

Pmsl

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford

I very rarely recieve winks, and when I send one almost never get a reply. I don't have any cock pix, as they're two a penny, but still people get quite upset about receiving winks???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its enough trying to keep up with messages so im afraid i never look at my winks either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good wink....better way to make 1st contact then a massage that just gets deleted because they have so many

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't do winks

Do you delete the ones you e recieved ?

Well we're so far up our own arse that we don't reply to winks or a anything else and if we get them when we are looking for a meet ...BLOCKED!!!!

Pmsl "

Lol pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I love a good wink....better way to make 1st contact then a massage that just gets deleted because they have so many"

That's my thoughts too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its enough trying to keep up with messages so im afraid i never look at my winks either."

Shame lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I very rarely recieve winks, and when I send one almost never get a reply. I don't have any cock pix, as they're two a penny, but still people get quite upset about receiving winks???"

Yeah I've found that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't do winks

Do you delete the ones you e recieved ?

We don't delete them, they just sit there.

Does it say how many you got lol ?"

Just looked , no it doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't do winks

Do you delete the ones you e recieved ?

We don't delete them, they just sit there.

Does it say how many you got lol ?

Just looked , no it doesn't. "

A lot then lol

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I respond to winks that I receive (granted its a small number) I don't send them though.

If a profile has interested me enough to want to contact them I personally like to message I can tailor that to the individual profile,

I think the few minutes it takes for my pinky to type the message is a worthwhile investment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We generally wink back if we like someone. We tend to look at it as a tentative "do you like me"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We generally wink back if we like someone. We tend to look at it as a tentative "do you like me" "

That's why I send winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single male, I love them as it's hard to get any attention on here.

Unless of course, they're from another single guy from miles away......I don't get that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a good wink..I'll respond if I like the look of the winker...if not I just ignore them.....I've had many a meet that started with a wink

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I must admit, I never look at my winks, so they are pointless to me but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like a good wink..I'll respond if I like the look of the winker...if not I just ignore them.....I've had many a meet that started with a wink "

Yeah they are good for something ain't they xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We give and enjoy receiving winks, we do think its a good ice breaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always check the profile if I'm winked and if I like the look of the profile I will usually send a wink back

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

I look and delete especially if a friends invite follws the wink.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We give and enjoy receiving winks, we do think its a good ice breaker. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always check the profile if I'm winked and if I like the look of the profile I will usually send a wink back "

I'll try that with you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always check the profile if I'm winked and if I like the look of the profile I will usually send a wink back

I'll try that with you lol "
sadly my requirements are very specific.....thanks for the wink though .....you may have so public one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always check the profile if I'm winked and if I like the look of the profile I will usually send a wink back

I'll try that with you lol sadly my requirements are very specific.....thanks for the wink though .....you may have so public one"

Lol shot down lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

winks can be a nudge in the right direction, if you jerk the one armed bandit enough times and nudge the buttons, and put enough in the slot, eventually you get a Jackpot!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"winks can be a nudge in the right direction, if you jerk the one armed bandit enough times and nudge the buttons, and put enough in the slot, eventually you get a Jackpot!"

Good way of putting it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we take notice of winks - and have met people that the first move was a wink - some very good friends in fact that we had our firs full swap with - so they definately work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a mooch at winks, sometimes reciprocate, i also send them...they have worked for us.. I think the difference is the single ladies are perhaps, swamped with them, so don't have the inclination, or time to sieve through....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to look at who has winked at me but if I am not attracted to them, don't like their profile or they don't have any pics then I don't message or any thing. I take winks as some one letting me know they like my profile and are testing the water to see if I like them too. I wink people and get nothing back, no problem!"

Couldn't have said it better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are a great way to start a convo and initiate a response x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way we see it is , time is important and we have wasted many nights trying to catch the dangling carrot lol

Any contact is possative contact especialy when wanting something ..

I've never heard anyone on a singles night out saying , psssst I don't do smiles accros the room!! If someone shows interest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we take notice of winks - and have met people that the first move was a wink - some very good friends in fact that we had our firs full swap with - so they definately work "

That is always good to know x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The way we see it is , time is important and we have wasted many nights trying to catch the dangling carrot lol

Any contact is possative contact especialy when wanting something ..

I've never heard anyone on a singles night out saying , psssst I don't do smiles accros the room!! If someone shows interest "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people take winks too seriously....they are just a flirtatious option surely.....

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

dont mind them and occassionally send them

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