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any room for big guys in swinging ???

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By *y2fun OP   Man
over a year ago

DUDLEY

been on fab a while now and not had any meets, some of that is down to us... but being a big guy (around 20st) and not the most well blessed in the world I am starting to find it all too much trouble...... I guess there's no place for big guys in the swinging world? or can any big guy restore my faith... so ready to knock it all on the head.... shame as a couple we would really like to explore and are good fun :O)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you`ve got a mrs so it aint so bad

tbh guys or girls knocking on 20 stone would struggle in any walk of life

thats not me being a cnut im just trying to keep it real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been on fab a while now and not had any meets, some of that is down to us... but being a big guy (around 20st) and not the most well blessed in the world I am starting to find it all too much trouble...... I guess there's no place for big guys in the swinging world? or can any big guy restore my faith... so ready to knock it all on the head.... shame as a couple we would really like to explore and are good fun :O)"

Id love to say your wrong but as a 22 stone guy with a small cock my experience says your right youve got very little chance. Ive given up and only film Emily play because when I was involved we had no interest apart from single guys. Couples are only interested now Ive taken myself out of the mix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I'm not a couple (but getting there in terms of fbs) so not really part of the swinging side of here yet and more looking for single guys, but I do love tall guys with who are chubby. Can't resist them.

My ex was a big guy, well endowed though as well. Which I think you're saying you aren't? So long as youre not tiny then that wouldn't put me off. That's my perspective anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be put off, we've seen people of all shapes and sizes getting plenty of attention, it just sounds like you need to boisterous your confidence a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same boat mate, ive not got a tiny dick but still tough out in swingingland being bigger built!

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By *y2fun OP   Man
over a year ago

DUDLEY


"Same boat mate, ive not got a tiny dick but still tough out in swingingland being bigger built! "

thanks and any more advice is more than wleocme..... I guess I'm lucky Ang likes me :O) plus I do that special trick once in a while ...............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some single blokes struggle anyway regardless of weight.

Hang in there mate, if you enjoy what you're doing just be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't be put off, we've seen people of all shapes and sizes getting plenty of attention, it just sounds like you need to boisterous your confidence a bit "

I'm at the opposite end of the scale, 5'8 slim with a small body, It's not for everybody but I do have some interest in me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same boat mate, ive not got a tiny dick but still tough out in swingingland being bigger built! "

Any pics of this sexy body of yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't be put off, we've seen people of all shapes and sizes getting plenty of attention, it just sounds like you need to boisterous your confidence a bit "

Bolster not boisterous (stupid predictive text )

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By *y2fun OP   Man
over a year ago

DUDLEY

Bolster not boisterous (stupid predictive text )

or your fingers were busy elsewhere............

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

The one picture of the fella is awful, so not enough to be able to judge if I would be interested (if I was close enough)

Big lads aren't a turn off, but it would be good to see in advance. I've often played with bigger men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't be put off, we've seen people of all shapes and sizes getting plenty of attention, it just sounds like you need to boisterous your confidence a bit

Bolster not boisterous (stupid predictive text )"

too late everyone thinks ur a doughnut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Positive thinking, though remember VWE doesn't mean belly size.

There have to be women who like chubby men...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...Chubby Chasers and Feeders...

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

You say 20 stone but it very much depends on build. Are you a chubby big build guy or is it flab, sorry didn't know how else to word it

The pic you have on your profile gives me no idea. People like different things, some like the fat girls, like myself, others may well find me repulsive.

Horses for courses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you`ve got a mrs so it aint so bad

tbh guys or girls knocking on 20 stone would struggle in any walk of life

thats not me being a cnut im just trying to keep it real"

You really think a 20 stone women would struggle on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Own your weight.

Embrace it or lose some.

How do you expect others not to have an issue with it when you evidently do ?

I have been anywhere between 10 & 19 stones at various stages in my life and have struggled to pull at various times.

Some of that was down to my weight but much of it wasn't.

I have also had more sex to even begin and quantify it, so again, despite my weight, I have still had a full, diverse and interesting sex life.

That, in part, is down to how I approached it and _iewed myself and those I met.

I don't feel that I have ever accepted second best and would like to think that I have never been someone elses second best.

Of course I may have been, but no one has ever made me feel that way.

Hope that helps a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you`ve got a mrs so it aint so bad

tbh guys or girls knocking on 20 stone would struggle in any walk of life

thats not me being a cnut im just trying to keep it real

You really think a 20 stone women would struggle on here?"

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By *y2fun OP   Man
over a year ago

DUDLEY

thanks for the comments and the messages off forum points taken.........

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think a guy who is larger but who carries himself with confidence, is realistic with his choices and puts in the effort, can have a great time on here.

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By *y2fun OP   Man
over a year ago

DUDLEY


"I think a guy who is larger but who carries himself with confidence, is realistic with his choices and puts in the effort, can have a great time on here."

think you right ta and from the few messages we've had seem its not a no goes.... so back to the drawing board.. anyone like to meet?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

there is room for everyone in our experience

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By *y2fun OP   Man
over a year ago

DUDLEY


"there is room for everyone in our experience "

yes that seems to be what alot of people have said, maybe we choose the wrong people to speak with... the chat room cam "possers" were maybe not the best move we made on here....

we'll just carry on looking and maybe try the attic out some time next month...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you`ve got a mrs so it aint so bad

tbh guys or girls knocking on 20 stone would struggle in any walk of life

thats not me being a cnut im just trying to keep it real"

Really? I think not.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I think a guy who is larger but who carries himself with confidence, is realistic with his choices and puts in the effort, can have a great time on here.

think you right ta and from the few messages we've had seem its not a no goes.... so back to the drawing board.. anyone like to meet?"

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I think it's how you carry yourself mate I myself am a bigger guy and though it is hard to swing ive managed a few meets try go to some club meets and that would def help and you know what mate sod what anyone else thinks about you be confident in your own skin and if you got a cock that gets hard and you can please a woman great

I used to lack confidence but then one woman said u got a hard cock and you've made me cum so fuck everyone else lol there is always someone out there for you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stuart is a big guy he's over 6ft about 19 and half stone....fortunately for me he has a sizeable appendage keep going horses for courses n all that x

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By *hybuthornydanMan
over a year ago

grays

I'm in the same boat really as I have got a bit of a belly and also I'm not big ether so I know how the op feels I just hope that I will find some one soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 stone is relative, 6 foot plus not so bad, 4'6" problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get to know the person not the colour or size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get to know the person not the colour or size.

"

Wish there were more like you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly , I'm 20st, but 6ft 5"... Do carry a bit of excess baggage , and not overly well endowed (Mr Average I'd say) but do ok....and have a personality , that still counts even here!

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By *y2fun OP   Man
over a year ago

DUDLEY

"..and have a personality , that still counts even here! "

you are 100% right, some right brain dead fukkas on here, might look ok but who wants to shag an air head....

guess we are fussy, maybe its me (brad) Ang wants to play more than me... PM her if you fancy what you see

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