FabSwingers.com forum: Sorry rant time

By *istress-Mazikeen OP Woman
over a year ago

bolton

What is it with so many young guys on here think that a one liner is all they need to do! and they dont read profiles arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrggggggggggggggggggggg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

soz but ive started 2 just delete

hi hows u? if they cant take

time 2 chat then its deleted simple

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

You mean you have to send messages? I just put one of them sandcastle flags down mi japs eye and franticly waggle mi cock for attention!

That doesn't work either mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they think you're gagging for some hot young cock and no dialogue is neccessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't most conversations,here or anywhere else,start with a 'one liner'?.

Isn't a conversation a two way thing?.Is it a conversation you want or a CV?.

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"Don't most conversations,here or anywhere else,start with a 'one liner'?.

Isn't a conversation a two way thing?.Is it a conversation you want or a CV?.

Err no!

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By *istress-Mazikeen OP Woman
over a year ago

bolton

"Don't most conversations,here or anywhere else,start with a 'one liner'?.

Isn't a conversation a two way thing?.Is it a conversation you want or a CV?.

I want to know about the person a bit, what they are like, do you want a fuck does nothing for me, and when they cant be arsed to read a profile, and then get shitty coz you say no!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't most conversations,here or anywhere else,start with a 'one liner'?.

Isn't a conversation a two way thing?.Is it a conversation you want or a CV?.

Err no!

Really ???

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"Don't most conversations,here or anywhere else,start with a 'one liner'?.

Isn't a conversation a two way thing?.Is it a conversation you want or a CV?.

I want to know about the person a bit, what they are like, do you want a fuck does nothing for me, and when they cant be arsed to read a profile, and then get shitty coz you say no!!!"

Joking apart your spot on. A first message is supposed to catch someone attention and make them want to know more about the person who messaged them.

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By *istress-Mazikeen OP Woman
over a year ago

bolton

"Don't most conversations,here or anywhere else,start with a 'one liner'?.

Isn't a conversation a two way thing?.Is it a conversation you want or a CV?.

Err no!

Really ???"

yes really, conversations are good things to have they stimulate the mind, the largest sex organ in the body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't most conversations,here or anywhere else,start with a 'one liner'?.

Isn't a conversation a two way thing?.Is it a conversation you want or a CV?.

I want to know about the person a bit, what they are like, do you want a fuck does nothing for me, and when they cant be arsed to read a profile, and then get shitty coz you say no!!!

Joking apart your spot on. A first message is supposed to catch someone attention and make them want to know more about the person who messaged them. "

it is, so if they dont get a call back, it's their loss...so why stress?? i dont think i've lost anything from deleting a message from a guy who cant string a sentence together...

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"Don't most conversations,here or anywhere else,start with a 'one liner'?.

Isn't a conversation a two way thing?.Is it a conversation you want or a CV?.

Err no!

Really ???"

Yeh really! You actually get more meets if you send the right messages as the op would tell you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't most conversations,here or anywhere else,start with a 'one liner'?.

Isn't a conversation a two way thing?.Is it a conversation you want or a CV?.

I want to know about the person a bit, what they are like, do you want a fuck does nothing for me, and when they cant be arsed to read a profile, and then get shitty coz you say no!!!"

I totally accept your point that something like "Wanna fuck?" is idiotic...anyone with any sense wouldn't send that or say it to someone off this site (a rule I would use myself...if I wouldn't say it to a stranger in a pub I wouldn't say it on here) however I was refering,more,to the automatic deleting of "Hi how's you"...and sorry realise that was the second poster not you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it with so many young guys on here think that a one liner is all they need to do! and they dont read profiles arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrggggggggggggggggggggg"

or men who think after a message they will be added to the friends list grrrrr and the send requests everytime u delete it ASIF thst will make me add em lol

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

Just wondering why some women prefer longer messages, yet also struggle with the amount of messages received???

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"Don't most conversations,here or anywhere else,start with a 'one liner'?.

Isn't a conversation a two way thing?.Is it a conversation you want or a CV?.

I want to know about the person a bit, what they are like, do you want a fuck does nothing for me, and when they cant be arsed to read a profile, and then get shitty coz you say no!!!

Joking apart your spot on. A first message is supposed to catch someone attention and make them want to know more about the person who messaged them.

it is, so if they dont get a call back, it's their loss...so why stress?? i dont think i've lost anything from deleting a message from a guy who cant string a sentence together..."

If they have anything about them they will wait a few weeks and try and be more imaginative when messaging again.

It makes the difference for a bloke between 1 out of 300 messages getting a reply to 1 in 10.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Just wondering why some women prefer longer messages, yet also struggle with the amount of messages received???

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its not the amount its the piss poor quality of some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering why some women prefer longer messages, yet also struggle with the amount of messages received???

its not the amount its the piss poor quality of some

I agree...Some of the Women who are trying to get into my y fronts can not even spell Y...Tut!!!

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

"Just wondering why some women prefer longer messages, yet also struggle with the amount of messages received???

its not the amount its the piss poor quality of some

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Wouldn't the disappointment be worst if you had to read lies of poorly written message. Would a lady write back or delete... just curious

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Just wondering why some women prefer longer messages, yet also struggle with the amount of messages received???

its not the amount its the piss poor quality of some

Wouldn't the disappointment be worst if you had to read lies of poorly written message. Would a lady write back or delete... just curious"
i dont know i suggest ya ask one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least with a short message being sent you can decide that the sender is a bell end and react accordingly in a shorter time. See, they're being considerate really.

Actually no, I've had another think and they're just bell ends.

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And by the way.... it's not just younger men who leave non imaginative one liners!!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"And by the way.... it's not just younger men who leave non imaginative one liners!!

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agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or just men.

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By *ifferentClassMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Guess what. Women are capable of crap messages as well. They are, you know. I have, on more than one occasion, simply got "Hi." One liners? One worders are worse!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Guess what. Women are capable of crap messages as well. They are, you know. I have, on more than one occasion, simply got "Hi." One liners? One worders are worse!"
yep i have no doubt about that whatsoever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guess what. Women are capable of crap messages as well. They are, you know. I have, on more than one occasion, simply got "Hi." One liners? One worders are worse!"

...bet you've still responded though :0)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that's the point...women have the luxury of choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that's the point...women have the luxury of choice."

think you mean more choice...not true that we can have anyone we want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that's the point...women have the luxury of choice.

think you mean more choice...not true that we can have anyone we want. "

Of course you are right...but you know what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't see that a short message is any worse than a wink. with either i will take a look at the profile and its the profile that will trigger a response if its interesting.

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By *uton_coupleCouple
over a year ago

luton

oh you poor thing , my heart bleeds for you

it just the same in the real world , there you are in the pub and a bloke pops up and says "hello do you come here often"

why cant they start with there primary school education , and work there way up to what there currently doing for a living , including there voting patterns over the last 20 years , and add in a smattering about there sexuall kinky perversions

the art of conversation seems to be dead

there should be a rule on here where single guys should compose an individually crafted mail consisting of at least 5 A4 pages

and a computer proggrame to out cut and pasted messages

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Just wondering why some women prefer longer messages, yet also struggle with the amount of messages received???

think of it this way.... if everyone sent the same one line message how would people every make a decision on who to meet and who not to....

I am all for conversation, I want to know a bit about the person I am interesting in!

It doesn't have to be some sort of masterpiece, but how much of someones personality can you glimmer from a one or two word answer.... ?

and as the ladies have say " the brain is the biggest sex organ you have" why not use it???

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By *istress-Mazikeen OP Woman
over a year ago

bolton

"What is it with so many young guys on here think that a one liner is all they need to do! and they dont read profiles arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrggggggggggggggggggggg

or men who think after a message they will be added to the friends list grrrrr and the send requests everytime u delete it ASIF thst will make me add em lol"

i know that is soooooooo true..

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I think that's the point...women have the luxury of choice."

they may have a luxury of choice... but it is still up to men to decide whether they think with there brains or think with there cocks...

I had a classic the other day from a couple....

"you hung??"

that was it..... did i reply? no.... do i think a lot of guys would... probably, but it is up to people to find there own standard....

we are forever saying that you get out what you put in, really how much "effort" goes into a 1 line mail?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that's the point...women have the luxury of choice.

they may have a luxury of choice... but it is still up to men to decide whether they think with there brains or think with there cocks...

I had a classic the other day from a couple....

"you hung??"

that was it..... did i reply? no.... do i think a lot of guys would... probably, but it is up to people to find there own standard....

we are forever saying that you get out what you put in, really how much "effort" goes into a 1 line mail?"

was probably the male half of the couple, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry only joking but couldn't resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that's the point...women have the luxury of choice.

they may have a luxury of choice... but it is still up to men to decide whether they think with there brains or think with there cocks...

I had a classic the other day from a couple....

"you hung??"

that was it..... did i reply? no.... do i think a lot of guys would... probably, but it is up to people to find there own standard....

we are forever saying that you get out what you put in, really how much "effort" goes into a 1 line mail?"

I agree with you,particularly "it's up to people to find their own standard"...but what I would say too is that there are times when people come on here just to chat and have a little break from the real world.So it shouldn't always have to be an "effort" to be here.

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By *istress-Mazikeen OP Woman
over a year ago

bolton

we are forever saying that you get out what you put in, really how much "effort" goes into a 1 line mail?"

That is it, if you put effort in you get it back, just like being polite, it costs nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You mean you have to send messages? I just put one of them sandcastle flags down mi japs eye and franticly waggle mi cock for attention!

That doesn't work either mind

ive deleted 2 this morning without reading, bad girl i know but it does clearly say on my profile im not interested in anyone under 30, in fact over the last couple of weeks, the messages from youngsters seems to have increased in line with school holidays which is odd given their age

love the picture by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't most conversations,here or anywhere else,start with a 'one liner'?.

Isn't a conversation a two way thing?.Is it a conversation you want or a CV?.

Maybe so but personally i like a well written first message, not a cv lol but a message that shows they are interested in my profile because they have read it and like my pics and after the same as me, not a one line message that really says....your a woman you'll do!!!! once they have cought my attention then im happy to add them to msn and have a conversation that becomes a two way thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't most conversations,here or anywhere else,start with a 'one liner'?.

Isn't a conversation a two way thing?.Is it a conversation you want or a CV?.

yes but it depends what it is and who from, im not interested in younger than 30 so i wouldnt respond to any one liners or long messages from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't most conversations,here or anywhere else,start with a 'one liner'?.

Isn't a conversation a two way thing?.Is it a conversation you want or a CV?.

I want to know about the person a bit, what they are like, do you want a fuck does nothing for me, and when they cant be arsed to read a profile, and then get shitty coz you say no!!!"

Is this not just the receiver being a bone idle sod.

Someone has taken time to message you. they have found your profile and sent a message. You complain you want more info off them about them. WHY DONT YOU READ THERE PROFILE.

Kind of pot kettle and black here isnt it lol

It would make life easier if a CV was attatched but there not.

I notcie its fellow couples and females who whine about this the most. We know we are sought after being a couple yet we would never delete a message because it didnt contain enough info. When you reply to a message do you explain everything????

Reading profiles works both ways and bitching about someone not reading yours when you havent read theres is just ignorant really.

And breath lol

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By *arlot ScarlettWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

It isn't only young guys! I will read a 'one liner' and check out the profile of the sender - conversely, very long messages can also put me off so they can't really win! It depends what the one liner says really - some are ok!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't most conversations,here or anywhere else,start with a 'one liner'?.

Isn't a conversation a two way thing?.Is it a conversation you want or a CV?.

I want to know about the person a bit, what they are like, do you want a fuck does nothing for me, and when they cant be arsed to read a profile, and then get shitty coz you say no!!!

Is this not just the receiver being a bone idle sod.

Someone has taken time to message you. they have found your profile and sent a message. You complain you want more info off them about them. WHY DONT YOU READ THERE PROFILE.

Kind of pot kettle and black here isnt it lol

It would make life easier if a CV was attatched but there not.

Reading profiles works both ways and bitching about someone not reading yours when you havent read theres is just ignorant really.

And breath lol"

Getting enough info from reading profiles can be very difficult when there's very little on them, which tends to be the case from the poor messages senders.

We do however try to reply to all.

First impressions do count, when we're busy and don't have much time to be playing PM Tennis, if for example we receive two messages, one is a basic 'Hi, how's you' and the other is a little more eye catching, then it's obvious who gets the more eye catching reply back I would say.

First Impressions count anywhere.

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By *arlot ScarlettWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

Everyone is entitled to view messages as they see fit and respond accordingly - or not - what has it really got to do with anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are not lazy swingers. we do our homework and dont castrosize anyone for poor messages."

Does that mean you won't reject playmates on the basis that they have a long beard, funny hat, smoke cigars and lead revolutions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are not lazy swingers. we do our homework and dont castrosize anyone for poor messages.

Does that mean you won't reject playmates on the basis that they have a long beard, funny hat, smoke cigars and lead revolutions?

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By *ukup N LukdahnCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

Ostracise perhaps???

This is a swingers website not a pub or club. If Nikki & I are in a pub/club/party/social setting then "Hi how are you"? will elicit a response.

If you're sending us a message in the hope that we will view your profile and perhaps take things a little further then quite frankly the message needs to make us want to click through to your profile.

One liners and messages with no pictures are deleted, well thought out, personalised messages receive a reply (not always a favourable one but a reply all the same).

In the 30 minutes that I have been online we have received 8 messages, 2 notable ones are "Do u fancy sum cam fun" and "Your pictures look great I would love to meet you". Now I'm no expert but I would guess that the 2 young men that sent those messages were not considering the fact that, as we are a couple, they may be addressing a 6'4" 16 stone fella. Still want to cam? lol

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

when you lot have finished squabiling

with each other

any one want a shag

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

These forums make me wince at times.

These type of threads are becoming as common as men starting threads asking why they don't get any replies to their mails, and yet, the reaction is totally different to what single men get.

People complain that the mens threads are whinges, but people seem to think it is different if someone wants to whinge about the men and join in

Mails.........if you don't want them, delete them.

If you don't want to get any more mails from single men, go to your message filters and click on the "single men" option, and it will block any men from mailing you.

And lastly, if someone annoys you on the forums by their posts, then ignore them.

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area

"when you lot have finished squabiling

with each other

any one want a shag

possibly a 6'4" 16 stone poster above you. careful what you wish for for, you might just get it

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