FabSwingers.com forum: friend invites ???

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do people send a friend invite then delete all your messages when you except and won't answer you!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres an Echo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To perv pics maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why accept it then, I mean why would you accept a friendship request from someone you don't know/haven't chatted with?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To hopefully see face pics and your private gallery.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But that's the point I have chatted to them in the past. Maybe your right photo collectors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my pet hates:unsolicited friend requests when we haven't even chatted. Alot seem to think it's ok to send one with a wink. Only gets them a block from me. Would never want to meet them.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I only accept after messaging but don't always accept then the messages stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my pet hates:unsolicited friend requests when we haven't even chatted. Alot seem to think it's ok to send one with a wink. Only gets them a block from me. Would never want to meet them."

I started accepting them sometimes. I have no private pics so no idea why they send an invite.

I accept the invite but don't mail them or anything. It amuses me to think of their confusion.

Then I delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only accept after messaging but don't always accept then the messages stop

Bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my pet hates:unsolicited friend requests when we haven't even chatted. Alot seem to think it's ok to send one with a wink. Only gets them a block from me. Would never want to meet them.

I started accepting them sometimes. I have no private pics so no idea why they send an invite.

I accept the invite but don't mail them or anything. It amuses me to think of their confusion.

Then I delete.

I did think about accepting, waiting till they are offline, perv their pics, send a message thanking them for the perve then delete but the sheer effort would kill me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my pet hates:unsolicited friend requests when we haven't even chatted. Alot seem to think it's ok to send one with a wink. Only gets them a block from me. Would never want to meet them.

I started accepting them sometimes. I have no private pics so no idea why they send an invite.

I accept the invite but don't mail them or anything. It amuses me to think of their confusion.

Then I delete.

I don't accept them, had nearly 40 at one point, its amusing when I see them in my looked at list knowing they've clicked on my friends pictures and get that little warning note

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have seen your pics and bugger off...simple

Her

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"But that's the point I have chatted to them in the past. Maybe your right photo collectors "

Or maybe they just didn't like what they saw.

They don't have to be pic collectors just because they didn't reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my pet hates:unsolicited friend requests when we haven't even chatted. Alot seem to think it's ok to send one with a wink. Only gets them a block from me. Would never want to meet them.

I started accepting them sometimes. I have no private pics so no idea why they send an invite.

I accept the invite but don't mail them or anything. It amuses me to think of their confusion.

Then I delete.

I did think about accepting, waiting till they are offline, perv their pics, send a message thanking them for the perve then delete but the sheer effort would kill me

Do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my pet hates:unsolicited friend requests when we haven't even chatted. Alot seem to think it's ok to send one with a wink. Only gets them a block from me. Would never want to meet them.

I started accepting them sometimes. I have no private pics so no idea why they send an invite.

I accept the invite but don't mail them or anything. It amuses me to think of their confusion.

Then I delete.

I did think about accepting, waiting till they are offline, perv their pics, send a message thanking them for the perve then delete but the sheer effort would kill me

Do it.

The next one is sooooo gonna get it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my pet hates:unsolicited friend requests when we haven't even chatted. Alot seem to think it's ok to send one with a wink. Only gets them a block from me. Would never want to meet them.

I started accepting them sometimes. I have no private pics so no idea why they send an invite.

I accept the invite but don't mail them or anything. It amuses me to think of their confusion.

Then I delete.

I did think about accepting, waiting till they are offline, perv their pics, send a message thanking them for the perve then delete but the sheer effort would kill me

Do it.

The next one is sooooo gonna get it lol"

Don't forget to fab their private pic so they know you friended them... and they missed seeing yours. mwahahahahaaa

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

Maybe they didn't like the look of you? Some people can be shallow. I never send friends request. If she sends it to me and I am interested in a meet, then I will except it if not I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they didn't like the look of you? Some people can be shallow. I never send friends request. If she sends it to me and I am interested in a meet, then I will except it if not I don't.

Nothing wrong with being shallow on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But that's the point I have chatted to them in the past. Maybe your right photo collectors "

So you think people collect photos? maybe they didn't like what they saw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All you have for public view are pick pics. I would want to see more than that if I was thinking if meeting you because I cannot have sex with anyone I am not attracted to and it takes more than a cock to attract me (although you must have a cock lol).

Only time I stop messaging with someone I previously messaged is when they haven't sent me face pics before we chatted and then when I see their face I don't fancy them. I won't chat to anyone without seeing face pics now because of this. Might be shallow but I don't have any obligation to fuck anyone I don't find attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But it is bad manners to not tell someone why they aren't interested. Some people have bad manners.

I'm just here for good sex and to enjoy their company and have an all round good time, just don't see the point in wasting time chatting to those I am not interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More often than not its because their pics are in friends only , so we accept and have a look . If they look good we keep them as friends and send a msg . If not we block them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people send a friend invite then delete all your messages when you except and won't answer you!!! "

Probably because they looked at pictures available and decided there was no attraction for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's best not to read into things in order to avoid insanity xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To perv pics maybe "

definitely I just accept. Why shouldn't they perv my pics as I perve others on here

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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If you have no private pics then it can cut down the requests you get - some just wank fodder material.

Also some may be due to others mistaking you for someone. If they delete it after it helps as your list is kept trimmed down.

But like others my fab pet hate is a friend request that's unsolicited from an unknown user.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my pet hates:unsolicited friend requests when we haven't even chatted. Alot seem to think it's ok to send one with a wink. Only gets them a block from me. Would never want to meet them.

I started accepting them sometimes. I have no private pics so no idea why they send an invite.

I accept the invite but don't mail them or anything. It amuses me to think of their confusion.

Then I delete.

I did think about accepting, waiting till they are offline, perv their pics, send a message thanking them for the perve then delete but the sheer effort would kill me

Do it.

I do it often. Such a shame for all the half witts to assume I'd ever accept a friend request without a conversation.

Oh wait a mo.... you just want to perv. Forget it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are polite- we even ask if its ok to send a friend invite -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my pet hates:unsolicited friend requests when we haven't even chatted. Alot seem to think it's ok to send one with a wink. Only gets them a block from me. Would never want to meet them.

I started accepting them sometimes. I have no private pics so no idea why they send an invite.

I accept the invite but don't mail them or anything. It amuses me to think of their confusion.

Then I delete.

I did think about accepting, waiting till they are offline, perv their pics, send a message thanking them for the perve then delete but the sheer effort would kill me

Do it.

The next one is sooooo gonna get it lol

Don't forget to fab their private pic so they know you friended them... and they missed seeing yours. mwahahahahaaa "

Naughty woman giving me ideas lol. Done (tho the pic was crap)

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By *andS_GlasgowCouple
over a year ago

Giffnock

Does anyone know how to Cancel a friends invite you have sent ?

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Why do people send a friend invite then delete all your messages when you except and won't answer you!!! "

To look at your bits x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone know how to Cancel a friends invite you have sent ?"

You can't. If they accept it you can unfriend them.

Or you could block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people send a friend invite then delete all your messages when you except and won't answer you!!! "

Don't know, but why don't you just delete them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people send a friend invite then delete all your messages when you except and won't answer you!!! "

To scan your pix no other reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why accept it then, I mean why would you accept a friendship request from someone you don't know/haven't chatted with?!"

^this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have that problem,I've never had a friend request on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't except friend requests from people until we have spoken a few times, there is a lot of picture collectors on here and I will only show mine to friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be a nosey pratt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because their nosey and might not like what they see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

want to see the private pics id say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait till they are offline, accept perv their pics making sure you fab a few to let them know. Then delete from friends list so they can't see yours.

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By *andS_GlasgowCouple
over a year ago

Giffnock

just to clarify

We sent the Friend Request in Error from the phone.

We would rather keep "Friends Pics" just for our Friends.

Yes we could Block them - but dont wasnt to as they have done nothing to merit getting blocked.

We were just wondering if there was a simple "Cancel Friend Invite" button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were just wondering if there was a simple "Cancel Friend Invite" button

Don't know about cancel invite, but you can remove from friends list if they accept it. May be worth a message explaining why if you are in a good mood!

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