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"The rejection seems to cut deeper here than say out on the town ,chat a bird up and she says fuck off and you move on . The site gives the impression that a message or two means that one part of the party assumes that sex is on the menu . When the other party says no thanks , they take it as a rule quite personally and toys are rapidly displaced from the pram " | |||
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"Only had the abusive messages off men and not couples or ladies. Always a fat ugly slag when I turn somebody down. " I've had a few abusive comments also on my single profile after a polite no thanks. Funny how you can go from gorgeous to a fat cow in the space of one message!! Sad how immature some can be but at least they've confirmed your decision to not want to meet them as the correct one. | |||
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"Childish, throwing rattles, and 5 minutes before you was a stunning fuck piece. 5 minutes later your a fat slag, and reckon they are doing you a favour. Simples, err no your not doing me a favour lolThis is based on a single female profile, not this site another Her Her" | |||
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"most guys are never the same after I reject them,,most go down hill rapidly,some lose their jobs most just cant cope with life. One guy joined the foreign legion. Its sad,,but hey lifes a bitch eh " Well I just say no thanks and that's it . lol I have not one on my block list here for being nasty I must be lucky . | |||
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"I don't get many rejections " You're the nicest man around dahling and so much fun xx xx | |||
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"yes, the same...only from single men..always reply politely to all messages..even married men in the outer hebrides, and im always suprised when i get a nasty message back..seems a huge waste of effort...had 5 increasingly horrible messages off a guy last night....strangley, a long while ago, the same guy messaged me on a 'fishing' site, and behaved exactly the same...spent the best part of an evening sending me really nasty messages...he actually worries me, sounds like a bit of a psycho! it just reaffirms my original decision!" Yes, you had a lucky escape... | |||
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"Through speaking to different ladies on this site and others, I have realised that alot of guys out there don't react well to rejection, I have been rejected many times in the past myself and respected that persons wishes, we all have different likes and dislikes so we are not all suited, but what i don't understand is how some guys get so offended by this!! they send awful abussive messages to the person that rejected them!! It must be something to do with the male ego some must have really sensitive ones!! or maybe some are just deluded narcissists. just wondered what peoples _iews are on this subject??" my _iew is that you should see some of my mail when i have said "no thank you!" to some single women and couples.... being that much of an "arse" and no taking rejection well is not the sole domain of one group of people..... | |||
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"most guys are never the same after I reject them,,most go down hill rapidly,some lose their jobs most just cant cope with life. One guy joined the foreign legion. Its sad,,but hey lifes a bitch eh Well I just say no thanks and that's it . lol I have not one on my block list here for being nasty I must be lucky . " yea I just say no thanks too,,but the poor guys cant cope,,its sooooo sad | |||
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"so do females and couples. some people just don't take rejection well, others are rude in the manner in which they reject." If a person says "fuck off you ugly twat", chances are they will get abuse back. Then they start an indignant thread about it. | |||
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"I used to work for a domestic violence help center. We would never ever tell anyone to leave their partner, as most people would expect. The reason being, is that women are at their most vulnerable when they leave their abuser. You are most likely to be attacked when you reject them." xx | |||
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"I never have an issue with rejection. Sometimes I visit the shallow graves of those who did reject me and I even still chat to them...." Backing away slowly. Not making eye contact ........... | |||
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"I've had my best today. I politely said no and he replied "Well I wouldn't want to f**k you anyway. You look like a walking STI" I would add that 99% of guys are polite though. " What the hell does a walking STI look like?? lol. I'm not sure they realise how much of a twat they make themselves look with such abuse. | |||
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"Haha no idea!! I liked the "I didn't want to f**k you anyway" bit. I thought that's exactly what he wanted!" That just gave me an idea. We could get someone to dress up as a Petri Dish and say look...A walking STI...great sexual health promotion that | |||
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"so do females and couples. some people just don't take rejection well, others are rude in the manner in which they reject. If a person says "fuck off you ugly twat", chances are they will get abuse back. Then they start an indignant thread about it." The key is how you respond. If I'm in the mood I can send quite a lengthy, but scathing, put down. Just for fun. But most of the time I can't be arsed. I just block and move on. | |||
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"I've had my best today. I politely said no and he replied "Well I wouldn't want to f**k you anyway. You look like a walking STI" I would add that 99% of guys are polite though. " . What did he ask for in his initial message if his opinion changed so quickly. | |||
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"Through speaking to different ladies on this site and others, I have realised that alot of guys out there don't react well to rejection, I have been rejected many times in the past myself and respected that persons wishes, we all have different likes and dislikes so we are not all suited, but what i don't understand is how some guys get so offended by this!! they send awful abussive messages to the person that rejected them!! It must be something to do with the male ego some must have really sensitive ones!! or maybe some are just deluded narcissists. just wondered what peoples _iews are on this subject??" I think this is one of those 'look how nice I am' type threads. After all... it's a small minority of guys who take rejection badly and in comparison to the wrath some women unleash, a short "fat slag" message is nothing in comparison. If women in general were so great at taking a knock-back, more of them would quit whinging about what guys aren't doing right in messages and start taking the initiative. | |||
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" If women in general were so great at taking a knock-back, more of them would quit whinging about what guys aren't doing right in messages and start taking the initiative. " | |||
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"I've had my best today. I politely said no and he replied "Well I wouldn't want to f**k you anyway. You look like a walking STI" I would add that 99% of guys are polite though. . What did he ask for in his initial message if his opinion changed so quickly." Just would I like to meet him at his hotel Friday night. I assumed it was for more than a game of scrabble but I might have been wrong. | |||
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"Through speaking to different ladies on this site and others, I have realised that alot of guys out there don't react well to rejection, I have been rejected many times in the past myself and respected that persons wishes, we all have different likes and dislikes so we are not all suited, but what i don't understand is how some guys get so offended by this!! they send awful abussive messages to the person that rejected them!! It must be something to do with the male ego some must have really sensitive ones!! or maybe some are just deluded narcissists. just wondered what peoples _iews are on this subject?? I think this is one of those 'look how nice I am' type threads." I was thinking the same thing. Pro-active white knighting! | |||
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"Through speaking to different ladies on this site and others, I have realised that alot of guys out there don't react well to rejection, I have been rejected many times in the past myself and respected that persons wishes, we all have different likes and dislikes so we are not all suited, but what i don't understand is how some guys get so offended by this!! they send awful abussive messages to the person that rejected them!! It must be something to do with the male ego some must have really sensitive ones!! or maybe some are just deluded narcissists. just wondered what peoples _iews are on this subject??" What a crock of shit. This is sooo not gender specific, I have male friends who have had to seek legal advice after rejecting a woman.OP ten outta ten for being condescending though. | |||
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"didnt block the guy last night..wanted to see how long he'd go on...went from'i love curvy women'..to 'youre a fucking walrus!'...'walrus'??? thats a new one!..after the 5th message i went reply,only to find he'd blocked me...and not a single word was spelt correctly!" Yeah I know the feeling and these guys I would not touch with a stray cat it's my choice some good some bad men and dummy's ha ha | |||
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"Look - some people are twats and some people are not. Some are twats some of the time and some of the time they aren't twats. Twattery is gender neutral. " | |||
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"I never have an issue with rejection. Sometimes I visit the shallow graves of those who did reject me and I even still chat to them.... Backing away slowly. Not making eye contact ........... " Hello.... you're not leaving me are you? | |||
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"most guys are never the same after I reject them,,most go down hill rapidly,some lose their jobs most just cant cope with life. One guy joined the foreign legion. Its sad,,but hey lifes a bitch eh " im slowly getting over it now | |||
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"Only had the abusive messages off men and not couples or ladies. Always a fat ugly slag when I turn somebody down. " It is amusing as how one minute your the sexiest womam on Fab then all of a sudden an ugly slag! | |||
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"You should see the reaction from girls that I turn down! They are sooooo used to clicking their fingers and having the pick of the bunch youd think you have just shot their offspring in the head when you try and say no! " | |||
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