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the missing of a great oppurtunity......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

long before i met lucy i was a swinger ..... enjoying watching, being watched and the voyeur thing but since i met lucy my life has just got better and better, anyway after being honest with her from the off and explaining what and why i liked hearing, seeing and joining her with another bloke i was over the moon, we set up a profile and away she went, our first meet was fun, it was both there first time so quite tame but she loved it. the second time wasnt too great, he wasnt quite how he described, used quire an old pic and well incrudeble hulk undies.....need i say more lol, anyway last week she announced she was going for a drink mon evenin with a guy unfortunately not on here anymore, i was at work so didnt see her until she got home, so as all you men understand the mixture of nerves, excitement, ecstacy, sensitivity i had while she was out was mindblowing, i was getting the odd txt,they'd kissed, he's fit, then nothing.....until the 'i've just been fucked and used' txt, this was by the was from the woman who said i'm on'y going for an hour to say hi, and see if we could all meet lol.......i cum almost straight away and have been constantly wanking since imagining them in a particular pub car park lol.......i was just gutted i didnt get the text so i could have just watched from a difference.......but what a feeling....lol

so if theres any pub managers or staff on here who work in a ub quite high up in hyde then i'd be interesting in discussing a cctv tape with you lol.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sorry, was meant to say 'pub quite high up in hyde' lol the excitement what can i say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you ever get the CCTV tape can you get me the one of my husbands stag night??

Wasnt in Hyde but Ive been waiting 8 years and still never seen it

Shona

x x x

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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I don't know how to put this without sounding critical.....but although you obviously got off on the idea of her with another man, it doesn't sound like it was what you had both agreed on.

I wouldn't be happy if my OH went against what we had agreed on, and I know it would be the same for the OH.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing she would have known how much it would turn him on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really get what the post is about.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"I'm guessing she would have known how much it would turn him on."

I think maybe you are missing my point a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm guessing she would have known how much it would turn him on.

I think maybe you are missing my point a bit."

I don't think I am.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"I'm guessing she would have known how much it would turn him on.

I think maybe you are missing my point a bit.

I don't think I am. "

Ah right, ok will try and explain better.

I know he got turned on at the thought of what she did, and I am sure she must have known it would turn him on, but it wasn't quite what they had agreed what was going to happen.

As a couple, we don't deviate from anything unless we agree on it........I assumed thats how everyone plays, but obviously I could be wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm guessing she would have known how much it would turn him on.

I think maybe you are missing my point a bit.

I don't think I am.

Ah right, ok will try and explain better.

I know he got turned on at the thought of what she did, and I am sure she must have known it would turn him on, but it wasn't quite what they had agreed what was going to happen.

As a couple, we don't deviate from anything unless we agree on it........I assumed thats how everyone plays, but obviously I could be wrong."

I wasn't having a 'pop'...and that is exactly what I assumed you meant and I understand it completely.Though reading OP it doesn't sound as if it were a broken agreement (so to speak) rather,as he says,she "announced" what was happening.

He seems quite happy with the way things are and that's great for them.Everyone on here has their own rules or boundaries...and thank God for that.It would be a boring world if everyone was the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm guessing she would have known how much it would turn him on.

I think maybe you are missing my point a bit.

I don't think I am.

Ah right, ok will try and explain better.

I know he got turned on at the thought of what she did, and I am sure she must have known it would turn him on, but it wasn't quite what they had agreed what was going to happen.

As a couple, we don't deviate from anything unless we agree on it........I assumed thats how everyone plays, but obviously I could be wrong."

No Rugby you arent wrong. What you described is how Steven and I play.

Steven loves watching me, he has said (many times) that if I felt like it I could carry on and do what I wanted with someone I meet up with for a coffee, and tell him about it later.

However I cant do that to him, I know he enjoys watching and for me (and me alone) I think playing almost without his knowledge is not right.

I say almost without his knowledge because it says the partner was only meeting the other guy for an hour, which to me means a coffee and chat nowt more. But again that may be how I am reading it.

Shona

x x x

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I'm guessing she would have known how much it would turn him on.

I think maybe you are missing my point a bit.

I don't think I am.

Ah right, ok will try and explain better.

I know he got turned on at the thought of what she did, and I am sure she must have known it would turn him on, but it wasn't quite what they had agreed what was going to happen.

As a couple, we don't deviate from anything unless we agree on it........I assumed thats how everyone plays, but obviously I could be wrong.

I wasn't having a 'pop'...."

I didn't assume you were.

I just aired my views and explained futher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i got off on it incredibly, she had my permission, she told me all about it and i was just playing regarding the cctv though i would love to see it, she enjoyed it more than she thought she would after her second meet, so the was no deciet, just shock, oh and plenty of enjoyment, but wach to there own...

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"i got off on it incredibly, she had my permission, she told me all about it and i was just playing regarding the cctv though i would love to see it, she enjoyed it more than she thought she would after her second meet, so the was no deciet, just shock, oh and plenty of enjoyment, but wach to there own... "

See now thats why I was struggling to figure out how to write it , I didn't want it to sound critical or suggest any deciet.

It was your sentance of how you were "gutted " not to have been able to see what was going on that made me comment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

apologies, should have said frustrated lol, its not a regular, it was just the situation and i think we both enjoyed it, but each to there own...

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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lol lots of people enjoy the same thing.....they get off on the thought of it.

Glad you enjoyed anyway

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