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taking condoms on a date: being prepared or being presumptuous?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question for anyone here. What do you think about taking condoms with you?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sensible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sensible"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sensible"
,Very sensible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sensible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a problem with it, if you don't and the chance arises then you ain't getting any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you flash them in her face, I don't see that it matters.

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

1. Be Prepared in Mind by having disciplined yourself to be obedient to every order, and also by having thought out beforehand any accident or situation that might occur, so that you know the right thing to do at the right moment, and are willing to do it.

2. Be Prepared in Body by making yourself strong and active and able to do the right thing at the right moment, and do it.

3. Be prepared in pocket by having birth control devices available and refer to pints 1 and 2 again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turn up with one already on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless you flash them in her face, I don't see that it matters."

Keep 'em in your pocket till they're (maybe) needed then it's win win

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unless you flash them in her face, I don't see that it matters."

*like*

this is my opinion too really

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

sensible +1. and a few more.

I always have some on me, or take them with me when its a game on playdate.. A big crunch test, I always ask first *WHEN its getting kinda close to jiggy time*, does he have any. If the answer is no, then... its likely that that meet will be over there and then.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"I turn up with one already on "

What if you need to pee?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Question for anyone here. What do you think about taking condoms with you? "

as everyone has said... sensible...

its not like you are going to wear them as earings and stick one to your forehead to get the message across.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I turn up with one already on

What if you need to pee? "

I always do my toilet duties before I leave the house

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I usually carry one in that little pocket in my jeans, just in case .... glad I did recently as I unexpectedly needed one

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


" its not like you are going to wear them as earings and stick one to your forehead to get the message across..... "

You do that ONCE and no one will let you forget!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a couple and both carry all the time

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We always have some and love it when the people we meet have them too....shows we are all being proactive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure it's an XXL condom.

"Oh whoops… I dropped my monster condom that I use for my magnum dong."

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines


"Make sure it's an XXL condom.

"Oh whoops… I dropped my monster condom that I use for my magnum dong.""

You eat your ice cream with a condom on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I.used to feel presumptuous. Also seemed to be a jinx: when I had them with, nothing happened but when I was without, potential sexathon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I carry them myself I think it is important for all parties to be prepared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people on here go on dates?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always carry them with me in my purse and handbag

It's a big turn on when the man whispers hold a second while I put a condom on, I just know what's near

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make sure it's an XXL condom.

"Oh whoops… I dropped my monster condom that I use for my magnum dong."

You eat your ice cream with a condom on?"

Yes.

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By *0AJMan
over a year ago

London


"Make sure it's an XXL condom.

"Oh whoops… I dropped my monster condom that I use for my magnum dong.""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make sure it's an XXL condom.

"Oh whoops… I dropped my monster condom that I use for my magnum dong." "

Hello, you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are always in my bag along with my lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had an awkward moment once when out with a friend and she was borrowing my spare bike pants reaches into the pockets (that I almost always forget they have since the zip ground off in a crash so not really secure any more) and then in the middle of the arndale centre says very loudly "Why are there condoms in my pockets?"

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

essential for keeping roll film completely waterproof when you have removed it from your camera, always be prepared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be prepared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had an awkward moment once when out with a friend and she was borrowing my spare bike pants reaches into the pockets (that I almost always forget they have since the zip ground off in a crash so not really secure any more) and then in the middle of the arndale centre says very loudly "Why are there condoms in my pockets?"

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Not as bad as your grandson digging down your bag for a pen and saying "Why has nanny got condoms in her bag?". I said they were for my other daughter

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Unless you flash them in her face, I don't see that it matters."

#subtleschool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I turn up with one already on "

Me too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I turn up with one already on "

is this Mr or Mrs P ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wishful thinking

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

sensible .. and id like to mention at this point... one of my potential inventions .. the pants with condom pockets .. just in case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sensible .. and id like to mention at this point... one of my potential inventions .. the pants with condom pockets .. just in case"

I'm sure this has been done already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's irresponsible to leave your house without condoms, who knows when you are going to need one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's irresponsible to leave your house without condoms, who knows when you are going to need one?"

So you would take one to a bar mitzvah, a kids party or a funeral?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's irresponsible to leave your house without condoms, who knows when you are going to need one?

So you would take one to a bar mitzvah, a kids party or a funeral?

"

Well apart from never attending bar mitzvah's or kids parties, yes I would it would be in my wallet

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"It's irresponsible to leave your house without condoms, who knows when you are going to need one?

So you would take one to a bar mitzvah, a kids party or a funeral?

"

Hey don't see why not mate of mine has managed to score at two funerals. You never know, and before any one asks it wasn't with the "stiffy" and it wasn't a dead cert either lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's irresponsible to leave your house without condoms, who knows when you are going to need one?

So you would take one to a bar mitzvah, a kids party or a funeral?

Well apart from never attending bar mitzvah's or kids parties, yes I would it would be in my wallet "

To a funeral? That's......errr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To a funeral? That's......errr "

I thought everyone got Anel at funrals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To a funeral? That's......errr

I thought everyone got Anel at funrals "

If you want to be buggered and pumped fair do's but not at a funeral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want to be buggered and pumped fair do's but not at a funeral. "

I would rather not, not my thing. don't have a separate wallet for funerals though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's irresponsible to leave your house without condoms, who knows when you are going to need one?

So you would take one to a bar mitzvah, a kids party or a funeral?

"

I have pulled at a bar mitzvah and a funeral. Only got as far as getting a number at a kids party though.

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"We always have some and love it when the people we meet have them too....shows we are all being proactive "

Us two too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. Be Prepared in Mind by having disciplined yourself to be obedient to every order, and also by having thought out beforehand any accident or situation that might occur, so that you know the right thing to do at the right moment, and are willing to do it.

2. Be Prepared in Body by making yourself strong and active and able to do the right thing at the right moment, and do it.

3. Be prepared in pocket by having birth control devices available and refer to pints 1 and 2 again."

Aaaaaagh, I see, you meet in a bar & get a pack of 3 from the dispenser in the toilets between pints 1 & 2; very sensible because between pints 10 & 11 you may walk in to the ladies toilets instead & who knows what you might obtain in there!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry them where ever I go ....mainly because I just don't take them out of my handbag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always wearing one in winter, - keeps it a little warmer thus saves it from shrivelling up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess an overnight bag at a speed date evening may be a little presumptuous

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I have a few in wallet just in case as you never know. Missed out once with a girl because of that so always carry some

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's being prepared, just as long as you check to ensure they don't go out of date

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

Always got a couple in my wallet must check date on them I don't get much action other than with OH lol

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Responsible.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I take them everywhere, often to give to people or just to know I'm prepared.

Just part of my normal handbag contents.

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

It is better to have it and not need it, than to need it and not have it.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Depends if your into the frustration of orgasm denial or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has been a few posts about men expecting the woman to have condoms on a meet, so you might be a refreshing change to some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never go anywhere without...Just in case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for anyone here. What do you think about taking condoms with you? "

Sensible and careful.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

Always have condoms in wallet or pocket.

Only a small wallet so they often fall out at the checkout or bar.

Just pop em back in

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

i always have condoms lurking around in the depths of my handbag ...just in case

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE


"i always have condoms lurking around in the depths of my handbag ...just in case "

Yours or mine

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