FabSwingers.com forum: Single guys (the good thread :-) )

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter

then wished them well in their search

The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )

But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.

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By *supermenCouple (MM)
over a year ago

North London

"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter

then wished them well in their search

The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )

But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter

then wished them well in their search

The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )

But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.

As is so often the case I agree with everything you say.......BUT I am perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is so refreshing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter

then wished them well in their search

The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )

But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a few time-wasters - but no abusive messages - and agree that the good ones by far outweigh the bad ones - and many of them are GORGEOUS and amazing in bed! For me - single guys rock!! God bless ya guys!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like this thread a nice start to the week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with this thread 100%.....even though I have encountered a couple of idiots I'm intelligent enough to realise that they don't represent the majority of guys. This site would be boring without the single guys, and I would have no use for it

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Threads like this are just an attempt to win favour with single males. I can see right through it!

Make MOARRRR!!!

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By *ercedes_SLKMan
over a year ago

nottingham

"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter

then wished them well in their search

The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )

But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take each message on it's own merit and try to reply to each one ..The majority of single guys that message me are charming and polite ..ok I've had a few that aren't but I realise it's only a minority that behave like that and I use the block button and move on ..This site is hard for single guys and in no way does it represent true life statistics ..I try to remember this xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I agree with this thread 100%.....even though I have encountered a couple of idiots I'm intelligent enough to realise that they don't represent the majority of guys. This site would be boring without the single guys, and I would have no use for it

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

I prefer single men and most are very nice.

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By *ercedes_SLKMan
over a year ago

nottingham

"I take each message on it's own merit and try to reply to each one ..The majority of single guys that message me are charming and polite ..ok I've had a few that aren't but I realise it's only a minority that behave like that and I use the block button and move on ..This site is hard for single guys and in no way does it represent true life statistics ..I try to remember this xx"

Soooo refreshing to hear this sort of attitude ladies.

I has frustrated me in the past that I have taken the time to respond with a personal message and yet receive only the big block button.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

^ what she said

The decent men make it worth being here

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Oh what a breath of fresh air this thread is! Such a welcome change from the usual gripey ones about single guys....(and the even gripier ones FROM single males too!)

You have quite won me over!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter

then wished them well in their search

The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )

But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.

thanks for this thread. Not all us single guys are bad and I am glad this has finally been recognised x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's official....we rock!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter

then wished them well in their search

The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )

But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.

As is so often the case I agree with everything you say.......BUT I am perfect

Don't tell anyone but I did want to put in brackets that some of us are

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

fancy a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones we have met chatted to on our list are proper stars

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"fancy a fuck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep have to agree. Some cracking single guys on here. To be perfectly frank we have more trouble with the couples than the single men. Like our profile states common courtesy doesn't go a miss. The minority will always try to spoil it for the majority. Trick is not to let them. Happy fabbing folks. X

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

Thanks, there are enough threads bashing single guys, nice to see some positives about us from time to time too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter

then wished them well in their search

The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )

But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.

good point. This will be a good read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it probably also has something to do with the fact you have the decency to say "no thank you". Thats always appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's official....we rock!!!!"

Well YOU certainly do honey!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well it probably also has something to do with the fact you have the decency to say "no thank you". Thats always appreciated.

well said most just usually ignore !!!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

some men can be idiots...

some women can be idiots...

some couples can be idiots...

if people aren't prepared to look at others individually rather than lumping groups together... thats a "them" issue... not a "me" issue....

in the end I stand up for me and only me... I don't affect others chances, and others don't affect me....

all I can be is the best me I can... if that aint good enough to some... tough!!! I aint changing!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused. A positive thread about blokes???

*pokes around under rocks to find the "all men are wankers" brigade*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Let's not start on the "we get a ton of messages every day" don't want to, can't or don't have to reply"

We don't get many messages so I am able to reply to them all.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Let's not start on the "we get a ton of messages every day" don't want to, can't or don't have to reply"

We don't get many messages so I am able to reply to them all.

Fair enough, as long as the blokes don't start on with the anyone not replying is not decent.

It's a positive thread, which is great, not one for sniping at other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's not start on the "we get a ton of messages every day" don't want to, can't or don't have to reply"

We don't get many messages so I am able to reply to them all.

Fair enough, as long as the blokes don't start on with the anyone not replying is not decent.

It's a positive thread, which is great, not one for sniping at other people."

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I love single men, without you guys I wouldn't get laid

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Let's not start on the "we get a ton of messages every day" don't want to, can't or don't have to reply"

We don't get many messages so I am able to reply to them all.

Fair enough, as long as the blokes don't start on with the anyone not replying is not decent.

It's a positive thread, which is great, not one for sniping at other people."

That's why I put that, that subject has plenty of its own threads

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I love single men, without you guys I wouldn't get laid

Ah, straight to the point there.

Indeed, it's why I like single blokes too

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Don't post in here single men!!!

IT'S A TRAP!!!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Let's not start on the "we get a ton of messages every day" don't want to, can't or don't have to reply"

We don't get many messages so I am able to reply to them all.

Fair enough, as long as the blokes don't start on with the anyone not replying is not decent.

It's a positive thread, which is great, not one for sniping at other people.

That's why I put that, that subject has plenty of its own threads

Yes, but your comment is from the point of view of the women. I'm pointing out that comments about women not replying aren't needed either.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Don't post in here single men!!!

IT'S A TRAP!!!

You all hope so anyway!

We know your sort!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Single men are fab, I appreciate you and your singledom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's not start on the "we get a ton of messages every day" don't want to, can't or don't have to reply"

We don't get many messages so I am able to reply to them all.

Fair enough, as long as the blokes don't start on with the anyone not replying is not decent.

It's a positive thread, which is great, not one for sniping at other people.

That's why I put that, that subject has plenty of its own threads

Great thread, we only meet single guys. So nice to see something positive

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

Single guys are great and we love being here

Disclaimer: Posters thoughts are personal and relate to only the few he has met. Other single men on here may be dickheads and any opinion should not be used as a rule.

Terms and conditions of some other guys may differ and if he has small print...it may not be worth looking at.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Don't post in here single men!!!

IT'S A TRAP!!!

Step inside said the spider to the fly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's not start on the "we get a ton of messages every day" don't want to, can't or don't have to reply"

We don't get many messages so I am able to reply to them all.

AW after this thread made me feel all warm and fuzzy your post made me feel sad for you xx I'll send you a message if you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm extremely happy with the single men I've met from this site. Extremely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Let's not start on the "we get a ton of messages every day" don't want to, can't or don't have to reply"

We don't get many messages so I am able to reply to them all.

AW after this thread made me feel all warm and fuzzy your post made me feel sad for you xx I'll send you a message if you want

Please, don't be sad, this is a positive thread. We are more than happy with what we get from this site

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't post in here single men!!!

IT'S A TRAP!!!

Yes it's a trap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love single men, without you guys I wouldn't get laid

Get that sexy ass up to liverpool cheeky chops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I am a nice single guy and very modest too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter

then wished them well in their search

The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )

But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.

"
I think you are just trying to butter me up to get in me pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't post in here single men!!!

IT'S A TRAP!!!

Watch out for the trip wire in our bras !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive respect frill1

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Wow never thought I'd see the day a positive thread about single guys gets posted really refreshing

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Massive respect frill1"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter

then wished them well in their search

The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )

But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.

I think you are just trying to butter me up to get in me pants

Is it working ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting emotional here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some men can be idiots...

some women can be idiots...

some couples can be idiots...

if people aren't prepared to look at others individually rather than lumping groups together... thats a "them" issue... not a "me" issue....

in the end I stand up for me and only me... I don't affect others chances, and others don't affect me....

all I can be is the best me I can... if that aint good enough to some... tough!!! I aint changing!!!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Don't post in here single men!!!

IT'S A TRAP!!!

Yes it's a trap

*makes feeble and ineffectual struggling motions*

Oh no. She's got me....

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By *coutin4girlzMan
over a year ago

Moo-Moo land :-)

"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter

then wished them well in their search

The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )

But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.

"
Spot on guys,appreciate you putting a good word in for us singletons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like single guys, a lot. I've had some great times with single guys over the last few years. Long may enjoying single man continue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love single men, without you guys I wouldn't get laid

This for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Threads like this are a welcome refreshment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree with op x I always treat the single guys with the respect they deserve ... They get such a bad time and bad press also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a nice thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is indeed a nice thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love single men, without you guys I wouldn't get laid "

Could shout this from the nearest mountain --- if I advertise which mountain , maybe all the local single guys could congregate !!!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

There are some hot single guys out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're alright I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love single men, without you guys I wouldn't get laid "

Could shout this from the nearest mountain --- if I advertise which mountain , maybe all the local single guys could congregate !!!

I think you could whisper it and they'd still appear

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I think the single guys on here are lovely, very friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm getting emotional here.

careful. .. You don't want to ruin the reputation of all single guys, do you??

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By *DFL6828Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Soooo refreshing to hear this sort of attitude ladies.

I has frustrated me in the past that I have taken the time to respond with a personal message and yet receive only the big block button. "

yep, don't i know that one...

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

Im very Pro single guys here..

I basically find there are two types being;

a)Respectfull.. They read profiles and send a message that`s thought out and relevant .For these I will always have time for..

b) Disrespectfull.. Don`t read profiles and think they can message you any old shit/are funny/God`s gift and don`t like being politely declined (Like,isnt it OUR choice,surely?)

There`s loads of QUALITY guy`s here... It`s just a case of wading through all the dross,the banal and ridiculous messages to get to them...

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By *coutin4girlzMan
over a year ago

Moo-Moo land :-)

Someone's bound to come on now n burst my bubble...

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area

is this the twilight zone?

thanks everyone for voicing positive remarks about us single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They're alright I suppose

Thanks for that ringing endorsement lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this thread and glad it's come up again

http://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/297863

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im very Pro single guys here..

I basically find there are two types being;

a)Respectfull.. They read profiles and send a message that`s thought out and relevant .For these I will always have time for..

b) Disrespectfull.. Don`t read profiles and think they can message you any old shit/are funny/God`s gift and don`t like being politely declined (Like,isnt it OUR choice,surely?)

There`s loads of QUALITY guy`s here... It`s just a case of wading through all the dross,the banal and ridiculous messages to get to them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't post in here single men!!!

IT'S A TRAP!!!

Watch out for the trip wire in our bras !

I bet you £5 I can get into your bra without setting off the tripwire

*Mr Marmite come pre buttered up for easy access to contents of pants*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter

then wished them well in their search

The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )

But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.

I think you are just trying to butter me up to get in me pants

Is it working ?

"
might be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm getting emotional here.

careful. .. You don't want to ruin the reputation of all single guys, do you??

Oh yeah. I'm hardcore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the love on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry. Threw my toys out of the pram on another thread... not a nice marmite tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is just what makes it so good to be on this site.

Would also say that (as a single guy) I have also had some very polite replies from couples and ladies...even when they say thanks but no thanks. It has sometimes led to a bit of banter before going our own ways.

And thanks to those that have said yes...quite true...there are quite a few of us "good guys" out there. And those of us that are have enjoyed much success...personally speaking anyway.

So yo all you lovely ladies and couples......a big thanks. Here's to the next 200 meets.

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By *DFL6828Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Realistically guys have next to no chance on here. So best thing i have found is not to send messages but go to a club where you can chat and people find out who you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I approve of this thread, thanks frill1.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I approve of this thread, thanks frill1."

You're very welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though we don't play with single guys we've met some really awesome guys in clubs and had a good laugh.

Guys are there for the same reason as we are....to have a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Realistically guys have next to no chance on here. So best thing i have found is not to send messages but go to a club where you can chat and people find out who you are."

Ain't that the truth !!!!

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