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"Describe single guys in clubs in your own words " Pack hunters | |||
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"(((Im single guy )))and i av 201 verifications i must be doing something right lol " Depends whether it's quality or quantity that impresses people x | |||
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"(((Im single guy )))and i av 201 verifications i must be doing something right lol " lol it must been expensive with all them socials and drinks | |||
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"(((Im single guy )))and i av 201 verifications i must be doing something right lol Depends whether it's quality or quantity that impresses people x" I will verify he is a quality guy. | |||
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"Describe single guys in clubs in your own words " Responsible for everything from Ebola to Global Warming. | |||
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"Wanting good time just like everyone else don't see problem" | |||
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"Describe single guys in clubs in your own words Responsible for everything from Ebola to Global Warming. " If I was drinking tea I would have spat it everywhere then | |||
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"why have most of the contributions been negative....... " Maybe because people are just speaking as they have found it to be? | |||
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"(((Im single guy )))and i av 201 verifications i must be doing something right lol Depends whether it's quality or quantity that impresses people x" Having known Tarzan for a while now I can vouch he's one of the hod guys. X | |||
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"why have most of the contributions been negative....... " Because it's a thread about single guys it was never gonna be positive this whole have a dig at single guys on a daily basis is getting old and boring WE ARE NOT ALL THE SAME | |||
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"why have most of the contributions been negative......." I agree as its about single guys, if it was about women, it would be all positive lol | |||
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"Describe single guys in clubs in your own words Responsible for everything from Ebola to Global Warming. " you got it | |||
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"(((Im single guy )))and i av 201 verifications i must be doing something right lol Depends whether it's quality or quantity that impresses people x Having known Tarzan for a while now I can vouch he's one of the good guys. X " | |||
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"(((Im single guy )))and i av 201 verifications i must be doing something right lol Depends whether it's quality or quantity that impresses people x" They aren't mutually exclusive | |||
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"Unwanted for some but the life source of many club. Sadly the bad apples can make it hard for the decent genuine single guys to shine. " Not true at all. The "bad apples" make the decent guys even more shinier! | |||
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"Unwanted for some but the life source of many club. Sadly the bad apples can make it hard for the decent genuine single guys to shine. K Not true at all. The "bad apples" make the decent guys even more shinier! " Can I be a Pineapple? | |||
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"Unwanted for some but the life source of many club. Sadly the bad apples can make it hard for the decent genuine single guys to shine. K Not true at all. The "bad apples" make the decent guys even more shinier! Can I be a Pineapple? " you can eat some pineapple. ... | |||
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"people always complain about the "cash cow" element that single guys are suppose to be... but I probably spend less going to a club then I would going out for a night in any city centre.. transport there and back, drinks, ect ect ect.... a lot of the criticism comes from people who have never been... but have an opinion of what a club is suppose to be like.... but yes... as one of the people above me said... the constant bashing of single guys gets more and more tiresome... I dont speak for any other single guy... and any other single guy doesn't speak for me! I am an individual... and if people want to generalise that is on them... not on me!" I posted 3 threads abouts single men, single girls and couples at clubs. Single men one gets more criticism. What can you do | |||
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"people always complain about the "cash cow" element that single guys are suppose to be... but I probably spend less going to a club then I would going out for a night in any city centre.. transport there and back, drinks, ect ect ect.... a lot of the criticism comes from people who have never been... but have an opinion of what a club is suppose to be like.... but yes... as one of the people above me said... the constant bashing of single guys gets more and more tiresome... I dont speak for any other single guy... and any other single guy doesn't speak for me! I am an individual... and if people want to generalise that is on them... not on me! I posted 3 threads abouts single men, single girls and couples at clubs. Single men one gets more criticism. What can you do " Become a TV | |||
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"If your a shy guy then you'll never shine. The bad apples are normally the guys who seize on a couple who playing and soon develop groping arms like Mr Tickle queue up expecting to get their share without ever making any interaction with either part of the playing couple. Normally these types of singles can be found in any open play areas in a club such as the cinema room, grope box or dark areas in a club. I find if playing in these areas, I have to take on the part of security guard making sure the lady isn't swarmed by a cluster of mute "gentlemen" franticly masturbating their nameless cocks. Some of these guys could do with brushing up on their people skills as I can't see how they would ever get laid outside of the club environment." | |||
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"people always complain about the "cash cow" element that single guys are suppose to be... but I probably spend less going to a club then I would going out for a night in any city centre.. transport there and back, drinks, ect ect ect.... a lot of the criticism comes from people who have never been... but have an opinion of what a club is suppose to be like.... but yes... as one of the people above me said... the constant bashing of single guys gets more and more tiresome... I dont speak for any other single guy... and any other single guy doesn't speak for me! I am an individual... and if people want to generalise that is on them... not on me! I posted 3 threads abouts single men, single girls and couples at clubs. Single men one gets more criticism. What can you do Become a TV " No thanks.. But you go for it. | |||
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"If your a shy guy then you'll never shine. The bad apples are normally the guys who seize on a couple who playing and soon develop groping arms like Mr Tickle queue up expecting to get their share without ever making any interaction with either part of the playing couple. Normally these types of singles can be found in any open play areas in a club such as the cinema room, grope box or dark areas in a club. I find if playing in these areas, I have to take on the part of security guard making sure the lady isn't swarmed by a cluster of mute "gentlemen" franticly masturbating their nameless cocks. Some of these guys could do with brushing up on their people skills as I can't see how they would ever get laid outside of the club environment." Never been to a club with a grope box - but is the clue not in the name? As for your self appointed role of 'security guard' - I get the impression you are trying to portray yourself as a good guy but that is massively presumptuous and inappropriate. we'd be seriously pissed off if someone took that role and decided crystal needed protecting | |||
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"If your a shy guy then you'll never shine. The bad apples are normally the guys who seize on a couple who playing and soon develop groping arms like Mr Tickle queue up expecting to get their share without ever making any interaction with either part of the playing couple. Normally these types of singles can be found in any open play areas in a club such as the cinema room, grope box or dark areas in a club. I find if playing in these areas, I have to take on the part of security guard making sure the lady isn't swarmed by a cluster of mute "gentlemen" franticly masturbating their nameless cocks. Some of these guys could do with brushing up on their people skills as I can't see how they would ever get laid outside of the club environment." Also id be interested yo know which clubs you go to and how often. The behaviour you describe isn't consistent with our experiences. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but it's not tge norm | |||
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"If your a shy guy then you'll never shine. The bad apples are normally the guys who seize on a couple who playing and soon develop groping arms like Mr Tickle queue up expecting to get their share without ever making any interaction with either part of the playing couple. Normally these types of singles can be found in any open play areas in a club such as the cinema room, grope box or dark areas in a club. I find if playing in these areas, I have to take on the part of security guard making sure the lady isn't swarmed by a cluster of mute "gentlemen" franticly masturbating their nameless cocks. Some of these guys could do with brushing up on their people skills as I can't see how they would ever get laid outside of the club environment." Most single guys are respectful. However the respectfulness is also quickly lost by some in the herd mentality when there is the possibility of some action. If a lady or a couple lets a single guy into the fun, rest assured in a matter of seconds there will be a deluge of men trying to get in on the action. It's happened to us more than once to the extent we have had to cut play short and retire to a lockable room. | |||
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"Describe single guys in clubs in your own words " Required for my pleasure. | |||
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" Occasionally you come across a respectful one however these tend to be lost in the sea of guys who let the side down. " In fact a bit like being on here. Those of us who are genuine get shot down and no matter how hard we try were on a up hill battle, So every one has a go at the single guys cos there not genuine/ single/ or are pretty boys. And if they can accommodate they must be in a relationship. Yes this place has made me negative towards women and couples on here. COs were always portrayed as the bad ones. To say that pisses me of is an understatement. | |||
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"Have visited clubs on a regular basis days/ nights, during the week/ weekends all over the country. Have met the "meercats" the "silent lurkers" the "under the towel tuggers", the "stalkers" the "chancers who try for a sneaky grope" and the "ones who are verbally offensive when their sense of entitlement gets rebuffed". Occasionally you come across a respectful one however these tend to be lost in the sea of guys who let the side down. As for complaints re high entrance fees... challenge it in the courts same as someone did years ago over the "ladies nights" in clubs" oh my! Think we will stick to the parties and party organizers (who use different venues for their events) ... All who go knows this aint the way to behave or that it would be accepted. Would not be our idear of fun... At all! Like to spend time with likeminded people who have grasped the whole concept of swinging, with manners and respect that come with it. The single men/ women and couples we meet , are just that | |||
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"Ho yea, and if your not part of the in crowd, you will never get to be part of the in crowd on here." what is the in crowd? | |||
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"Ho yea, and if your not part of the in crowd, you will never get to be part of the in crowd on here." I wouldn't say you have to conform but its definitely more fun if you are in team Jacob rather than Team Edward! | |||
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"the cash cow for many a club.." also to be ignored.. Horrible lurky things! Eeeewwww | |||
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"Describe single guys in clubs in your own words " Ripped off. The club scene has never appealed to me because it discriminates and is based on a perceived and sometimes actual desperation of single guys. There are very few areas of life where a self respecting adult would be willing to pay a premium over another adult for no moral reason. It is very close to paying for an expectation of sex. | |||
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"the cash cow for many a club.. also to be ignored.. Horrible lurky things! Eeeewwww " There are an element who are like that but there is also an element who love to tar them that way even though they are the ones who financially keep clubs going and subsidise costs for others. | |||
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" That's it, i'm gonna start a club where it's free for single men, £10 for couples and £100 for single ladies. Now guys, where shall we put the snooker table? Dart board, one or two. Lino or sawdust? " Is the sawdust for the gushers? | |||
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" Occasionally you come across a respectful one however these tend to be lost in the sea of guys who let the side down. In fact a bit like being on here. Those of us who are genuine get shot down and no matter how hard we try were on a up hill battle, So every one has a go at the single guys cos there not genuine/ single/ or are pretty boys. And if they can accommodate they must be in a relationship. Yes this place has made me negative towards women and couples on here. COs were always portrayed as the bad ones. To say that pisses me of is an understatement." Easy mate! Sure its a case of supply and demand, but if you approach it right you put yourself in demand. Im a single guy. I didn't set foot in a private party or club till I was 32 so could hardly describe myself as a "boy" never mind a pretty one. I find it tricky to accom on weekends as I have my daughter. Never once has this been misinterpretted. The overwhelming majority on here have been nothing but lovely to me. I meet regularly, turn down offers that aren't suitable politely and never once have I been bitched at about it like a lot of single women have to cope with. Of course single guys get the piss taken out of us more; we're thicker skinned than women are, we handle rejection better (usually) we treat insults that would reduce a lot of women to tears either as banter or not worth losing sleep over. Think of all the fuss that goes with a wedding for example. The hen do normally involves a sisterhood going out for mutual fun and getting pissed in the process. The stag do involves the rest of the pack getting the stag absolutely off his face and ripping the piss out of him mercilessly. Its a rite of passage thing that only men tend to do as we find it easier to dust ourselves off and say "who cares?" Don't be too sensitive mate. | |||
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" That's it, i'm gonna start a club where it's free for single men, £10 for couples and £100 for single ladies. Now guys, where shall we put the snooker table? Dart board, one or two. Lino or sawdust? " Can we have a bar football table and a pool table aswel please? | |||
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" That's it, i'm gonna start a club where it's free for single men, £10 for couples and £100 for single ladies. Now guys, where shall we put the snooker table? Dart board, one or two. Lino or sawdust? " Great,I'm expecting there to be lots of hot,young spunky men who will lick me for hours and service me any way I want. I pay my money I expect my money's worth | |||
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"Describe single guys in clubs in your own words Ripped off. The club scene has never appealed to me because it discriminates and is based on a perceived and sometimes actual desperation of single guys. There are very few areas of life where a self respecting adult would be willing to pay a premium over another adult for no moral reason. It is very close to paying for an expectation of sex." This | |||
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" That's it, i'm gonna start a club where it's free for single men, £10 for couples and £100 for single ladies. Now guys, where shall we put the snooker table? Dart board, one or two. Lino or sawdust? Great,I'm expecting there to be lots of hot,young spunky men who will lick me for hours and service me any way I want. I pay my money I expect my money's worth " Expectations set the scene. | |||
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