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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We where at the pictures yesterday and seen a couple off here? Would it be rude to say hi we have seen you on Fab ?? Or just ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a very discreet smile or wink and leave it at that outside in the vanilla world.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think as long as you are prepared to say who you were, it's cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be horrified if someone came up to me in my everyday life and started talking about fab... I'd think that was very indiscreet personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore it

Id be really pissed off if someone did that to me

Normal life doesn't include my fab life unless I want it too

Having random people coming up to me isn't what I want,what if they had their friends right behind them or within ear shot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignore it

Id be really pissed off if someone did that to me

Normal life doesn't include my fab life unless I want it too

Having random people coming up to me isn't what I want,what if they had their friends right behind them or within ear shot? "

This...

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By *justhetwofusCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"I'd be horrified if someone came up to me in my everyday life and started talking about fab... I'd think that was very indiscreet personally "

agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you did say hi would it not be better off saying it on fab ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a single gentleman who I had a social will a few months ago yesterday at a conference, I made eye contact once as he made it impossible for me not too, but then carried on as he and I had company

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

You'd blow all hope of meeting me if you did that.

Swinging is something that is kept to this website or appropriate socials or clubs. Not my everyday life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind it if I was on my own. I would say, hey yes I am, how does your diary look for this week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could send them a message saying you think you saw them,but in the interests of discretion you didn't approach

Then its up to them if they respond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We where at the pictures yesterday and seen a couple off here? Would it be rude to say hi we have seen you on Fab ?? Or just ignore. "

I think that approach shows a lack of discretion and respect. Just because they are on FAB doesn't mean they want to be approached in vanilla life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once bumped into a "single" guy we had seen a couple of times... At our local club.. He was having a cooked brekkie, with his very obvious family in asda. Wouldn't have dreamt of acknowledging him.. There's a time and a place..and a situation... To smile or not to smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't go up to someone in real life. Message them on here afterwards if you wanted to strike up a conversation.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Ignore it, its happened to us , needless to say I wasn't polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't go up to someone in real life. Message them on here afterwards if you wanted to strike up a conversation. "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignore it

Id be really pissed off if someone did that to me

Normal life doesn't include my fab life unless I want it too

Having random people coming up to me isn't what I want,what if they had their friends right behind them or within ear shot? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once bumped into a "single" guy we had seen a couple of times... At our local club.. He was having a cooked brekkie, with his very obvious family in asda. Wouldn't have dreamt of acknowledging him.. There's a time and a place..and a situation... To smile or not to smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be horrified if someone came up to me in my everyday life and started talking about fab... I'd think that was very indiscreet personally "

i agree, I have had this happen to me twice now and I wasn't impressed, one of the times I was at the gym and a guy got on the treadmill next to me and to get my attention he took my head phone out my ear and started telling me he had mailed me on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would never approach someone, definately shows lack of respect and class.

however there is another option.

see whos near.

see if they are logged on if so send message saying hi, if they want to engage in chat they will respond or say thanks just out for vanilla evening.

but at least u have not crossed the line by walking upto them.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'd be horrified if someone came up to me in my everyday life and started talking about fab... I'd think that was very indiscreet personally "

Likewise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had a guy off here do it to us on a flippin nudist beach. very very embarassing and not cool.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Ignore it

Id be really pissed off if someone did that to me

Normal life doesn't include my fab life unless I want it too

Having random people coming up to me isn't what I want,what if they had their friends right behind them or within ear shot? "

Indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat people how you'd like to be treated

Would you guys be okay with anyone off here approaching you if they recognise you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if it's a couple you've "played" with before you should definately walk on by! We had a couple turn up at the stables where we kept our horse (had mentioned rough location on the date during conversation)& they tracked us down during a Sunday drive, really really not cool trying to explain to the kids & fellow stable mates who they were, think I might've been a little rude to them!

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By *ercedes_SLKMan
over a year ago

nottingham

NEVER cross the streams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would it be rude to say hi we have seen you on Fab ??"

I'd say "Hi" at a safe distance...

You don't know HOW they are gonna react to YOU knowing THEY are on Fab...

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"NEVER cross the streams

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exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion at all times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its rude and inappropriate to approach people if you recognise them.

Just because we all share an interest in swinging, does not mean that we have the right to approach anyone off this site should they ever have the misfortune to be recognised.

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Saw a guy in the high st after a night at a club, just all passed each other by with just a small nod as the woman he was with wasn't at the club,subtle is the only way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooo, pretend you don't know them. Unless it was an adult cinema maybe discretion is everything on here. We can be our truest kinkiest selves that way xx

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I'd be horrified if someone approached me in the street & said they'd seen me on here......

Especially if i'd never met them socially

WD40 x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers guys we thought that to. Treat people how you like to be treated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be real pissed of if someone said something to us in public, a block from Shaz would be inevitable.

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