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Can sex last TOO long?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Exactly what it says..

.. Sometimes (not all the time) when me and amy are having sex, the odd time it takes me ages to cum :/ sometimes too long! I do enjoy the sex massively but always wondered why sometimes its so hard for me to finish. Wondering if any guys, women or other couples have ever experienced the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if you're married, there's a finite cut off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly what it says..

.. Sometimes (not all the time) when me and amy are having sex, the odd time it takes me ages to cum :/ sometimes too long! I do enjoy the sex massively but always wondered why sometimes its so hard for me to finish. Wondering if any guys, women or other couples have ever experienced the same thing"

Yes, Mo gets a lot of pleasure getting a guy off and gets very bored when all a guy wants to do is hammer her till he gets off especially after she has had an orgasm. She gets nothing from it and the sex gets boring quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything over 2 minutes is a waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Exactly what it says..

.. Sometimes (not all the time) when me and amy are having sex, the odd time it takes me ages to cum :/ sometimes too long! I do enjoy the sex massively but always wondered why sometimes its so hard for me to finish. Wondering if any guys, women or other couples have ever experienced the same thing

Yes, Mo gets a lot of pleasure getting a guy off and gets very bored when all a guy wants to do is hammer her till he gets off especially after she has had an orgasm. She gets nothing from it and the sex gets boring quickly."

I see.. So would yourself and Month agree that its not all about the time taken but more how the time is used?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no complaints if it's lasting too long, especially if its good...very good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly what it says..

.. Sometimes (not all the time) when me and amy are having sex, the odd time it takes me ages to cum :/ sometimes too long! I do enjoy the sex massively but always wondered why sometimes its so hard for me to finish. Wondering if any guys, women or other couples have ever experienced the same thing

Yes, Mo gets a lot of pleasure getting a guy off and gets very bored when all a guy wants to do is hammer her till he gets off especially after she has had an orgasm. She gets nothing from it and the sex gets boring quickly.

I see.. So would yourself and Month agree that its not all about the time taken but more how the time is used?"

Yes, quick intense sex can be amazing.

Longer sessions work if you keep changing positions or in a group situation.

Mixing it up is really important to us and when we are on meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have no complaints if it's lasting too long, especially if its good...very good! "

So the longer the better? Or is that not always the case?

Which would you prefer, a shorter but more intense fuck or a fuck that lasts a little longer? Just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man is just trying make himself come it can be too long

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a man is just trying make himself come it can be too long "

So in a nutshell, if the guy is being selfish concentrating more on cumming than the sexual experience TOGETHER pleasing the woman too?

I aim to please amy first, I try to make her reach a climax before me so I'm reassured she has enjoyed it just as much as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Yes it can. And then having to tell them that is never fun. I dont care how many other girls said they loved it. Theres a limit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man is just trying make himself come it can be too long

So in a nutshell, if the guy is being selfish concentrating more on cumming than the sexual experience TOGETHER pleasing the woman too?

I aim to please amy first, I try to make her reach a climax before me so I'm reassured she has enjoyed it just as much as me "

Yes,it's boring being a bore hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Longer the better with like minded women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. Yes it can. And then having to tell them that is never fun. I dont care how many other girls said they loved it. Theres a limit."

That's exactly the thought that goes through my mind on the occasions this happens! I mean, I have aspergers disorder and have tendencies to think further into things than others, sort of like looking 50 steps ahead. When this happens I think "what if amy thinks I don't find her attractive?" I mean, I'm not selfish, on a couple of occasions this has happened I have stopped and not even finished.. I have made amy cum first but then because I'm carrying on for ages, these thoughts come into mind and sometimes have to stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Yes it can. And then having to tell them that is never fun. I dont care how many other girls said they loved it. Theres a limit.

That's exactly the thought that goes through my mind on the occasions this happens! I mean, I have aspergers disorder and have tendencies to think further into things than others, sort of

like looking 50 steps ahead. When this happens I think "what if amy thinks I don't find her attractive?" I mean, I'm not selfish, on a couple of occasions this has happened I have stopped and not even finished.. I have made amy cum first but then because I'm carrying on for ages, these thoughts come into mind and sometimes have to stop "

Yeah, I kind of agree with you dude/ette, I mean, I don't see too many people on Fab wanting a weekend in bed, do you?

I feel that that requires Doctor Luuuuuuuurv!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Yes it can. And then having to tell them that is never fun. I dont care how many other girls said they loved it. Theres a limit.

That's exactly the thought that goes through my mind on the occasions this happens! I mean, I have aspergers disorder and have tendencies to think further into things than others, sort of like looking 50 steps ahead. When this happens I think "what if amy thinks I don't find her attractive?" I mean, I'm not selfish, on a couple of occasions this has happened I have stopped and not even finished.. I have made amy cum first but then because I'm carrying on for ages, these thoughts come into mind and sometimes have to stop "

A lot of guys think that its the length of time they have sex that makes them good. I love a good hard fuck as much as the next person but ages of just banging away becomes boring. I'd rather have 30 mins of sex then more sex 30 mins later. And repeat If a guy is having problems cumming i'd rather he said that and then i can do whatever he wants to help him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Yes it can. And then having to tell them that is never fun. I dont care how many other girls said they loved it. Theres a limit.

That's exactly the thought that goes through my mind on the occasions this happens! I mean, I have aspergers disorder and have tendencies to think further into things than others, sort of like looking 50 steps ahead. When this happens I think "what if amy thinks I don't find her attractive?" I mean, I'm not selfish, on a couple of occasions this has happened I have stopped and not even finished.. I have made amy cum first but then because I'm carrying on for ages, these thoughts come into mind and sometimes have to stop

A lot of guys think that its the length of time they have sex that makes them good. I love a good hard fuck as much as the next person but ages of just banging away becomes boring. I'd rather have 30 mins of sex then more sex 30 mins later. And repeat If a guy is having problems cumming i'd rather he said that and then i can do whatever he wants to help him. "

That's what red wine, pizza & rugby were invented for, innit???

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Longer the better with like minded women "

I agree, if it's very good and there is a variety of moves and positions then I want it to last all night and again in the morning please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Yes it can. And then having to tell them that is never fun. I dont care how many other girls said they loved it. Theres a limit.

That's exactly the thought that goes through my mind on the occasions this happens! I mean, I have aspergers disorder and have tendencies to think further into things than others, sort of like looking 50 steps ahead. When this happens I think "what if amy thinks I don't find her attractive?" I mean, I'm not selfish, on a couple of occasions this has happened I have stopped and not even finished.. I have made amy cum first but then because I'm carrying on for ages, these thoughts come into mind and sometimes have to stop

A lot of guys think that its the length of time they have sex that makes them good. I love a good hard fuck as much as the next person but ages of just banging away becomes boring. I'd rather have 30 mins of sex then more sex 30 mins later. And repeat If a guy is having problems cumming i'd rather he said that and then i can do whatever he wants to help him. "

And that's if he wants to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too have been having the same problem I like sex but sometimes it takes awhile. I make sure we change positions, mix it up but not afraid to call time out if need be. As long as Ginger has a good time does it matter if I've cum or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we first met. We used to have sex for hours and hours. But not now. About hour is all I need now. Unless we are at a club then it's about 8 hours.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Exactly what it says..

.. Sometimes (not all the time) when me and amy are having sex, the odd time it takes me ages to cum :/ sometimes too long! I do enjoy the sex massively but always wondered why sometimes its so hard for me to finish. Wondering if any guys, women or other couples have ever experienced the same thing"

If a man i am playing with had difficulties coming, i would rather he said so. Sometimes no matter how good it feels a man just can't reach climax...is just physical.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

I wonder if it is lack of technique that is the problem here.

You mention "me and amy are having sex" as if it is nothing more than sweeping the path or washing the dishes.

When a couple are having sex the speed of the males organism is more often than not controlled by the male.

When a couple are making love the speed of the male organism is more often than not controlled by the female.

An experienced lover can make her man cum inside her in 30 seconds or make him last for ages depending on how she uses her muscles to clench & unclench his cock.

I would imagine the times it takes you ages to cum are the times Amy is not really into the experience.

There is a vast difference between having sex and the sensual experience of making love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if it is lack of technique that is the problem here.

You mention "me and amy are having sex" as if it is nothing more than sweeping the path or washing the dishes.

When a couple are having sex the speed of the males organism is more often than not controlled by the male.

When a couple are making love the speed of the male organism is more often than not controlled by the female.

An experienced lover can make her man cum inside her in 30 seconds or make him last for ages depending on how she uses her muscles to clench & unclench his cock.

I would imagine the times it takes you ages to cum are the times Amy is not really into the experience.

There is a vast difference between having sex and the sensual experience of making love."

That is a very subjective _iew, so basically what you are saying is that if sex (or making love) is taking too long then it is the woman who is at fault. Either she is not experienced enough to make her lover cum in 30 seconds or she is not really into it?

Think that is, trying to find the right words, oh yeah, bollocks.

It depends on a variety of factors, your distinctions seem to have little resonance for us.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

You words not mine.

It could be the mans fault (if you want to involve blame) the woman was not into it.

It could even be the mans fault a young woman has not learned technique, if she has only had lovers that have sex and roll over how could she develop her own technique.

I was not talking about fault only reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly what it says..

.. Sometimes (not all the time) when me and amy are having sex, the odd time it takes me ages to cum :/ sometimes too long! I do enjoy the sex massively but always wondered why sometimes its so hard for me to finish. Wondering if any guys, women or other couples have ever experienced the same thing

Yes, Mo gets a lot of pleasure getting a guy off and gets very bored when all a guy wants to do is hammer her till he gets off especially after she has had an orgasm. She gets nothing from it and the sex gets boring quickly."

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes, if it over runs the adverts and bites into the main programme time...

fucking hate missing Emmerdale.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow! Some very mixed _iews thanks guys/gals! Garry247, just out of interest it would appear as though your comment didn't "go down" to well with the rest of thread which is understandable. In the instance in question, it does not have anything to do with my girlfriend as to how quickly or slowly I cum.. Like I clearly stated on the OP, it happens 'SOMETIMES'.. Yeah sometime she does make me cum in a minute, not afraid to admit that so I'd appreciate personal comments towards amy to be left out. Yes, I am asking for feedback from others on if they have experienced similar things and not once has someone turned a bad comment towards US a couple personally.

To everyone else, thank you

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I think it comes down to he position. Some I pop in a couple of minutes, others there is no way I am going to come unless I change position. It's good to change positions and explore those that have you hold off or explode easier/harder. Usually those that make me come faster, usually the woman comes faster too..

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

*the position

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it comes down to he position. Some I pop in a couple of minutes, others there is no way I am going to come unless I change position. It's good to change positions and explore those that have you hold off or explode easier/harder. Usually those that make me come faster, usually the woman comes faster too.."

True, in other encounters with my partner, we do change position and pace and in most cases that works, VERY WELL but still in some instances, its very hard for me to finish. Amy is very understanding and I will tell her openly how I'm feeling during sex and if its proving hard for me to come and she will offer to "finish me off" by giving oral or a handjob by no means is she inexperienced, especially considering the time we have been together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly what it says..

.. Sometimes (not all the time) when me and amy are having sex, the odd time it takes me ages to cum :/ sometimes too long! I do enjoy the sex massively but always wondered why sometimes its so hard for me to finish. Wondering if any guys, women or other couples have ever experienced the same thing

Yes, Mo gets a lot of pleasure getting a guy off and gets very bored when all a guy wants to do is hammer her till he gets off especially after she has had an orgasm. She gets nothing from it and the sex gets boring quickly.

I see.. So would yourself and Month agree that its not all about the time taken but more how the time is used?

Yes, quick intense sex can be amazing.

Longer sessions work if you keep changing positions or in a group situation.

Mixing it up is really important to us and when we are on meets.

"

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

yes it can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also struggle with this question. I find that the first time is usually a reasonable length and both parties enjoy it however after that I struggle to cum and usually have to finish myself off as we're both exhausted and the pleasure has been overtaken as it is going on too long

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I prefer men not to cum and for the exchange to be honest enough to take a little snack break before starting again. If it feels like it's going on too long then the honesty allows either party to stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly what it says..

.. Sometimes (not all the time) when me and amy are having sex, the odd time it takes me ages to cum :/ sometimes too long! I do enjoy the sex massively but always wondered why sometimes its so hard for me to finish. Wondering if any guys, women or other couples have ever experienced the same thing"

It certainly can if certain drugs are involved! Take it from me and avoid friction burns on the cock at all costs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tiredness can be a factor too, you can be as horny as hell but, if you're tired, can greatly affect performance.

I wouldn't say that a guy HAS to come every time, sometimes its nice for her not to have to go mopping up our mess! Lol

Don't let it get to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tiredness can be a factor too, you can be as horny as hell but, if you're tired, can greatly affect performance.

I wouldn't say that a guy HAS to come every time, sometimes its nice for her not to have to go mopping up our mess! Lol

Don't let it get to you. "

I had the same thought.. Tiredness is a huge factor! The time we get together when we're not working, tiredness does take over. I'm on 24 hour call out and amy works 12 hour night shifts So it would seem as though tiredness could be a factor..

..No, don't have to come every time and yeah, saves them having to clean up eh cheers for your input mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tiredness can be a factor too, you can be as horny as hell but, if you're tired, can greatly affect performance.

I wouldn't say that a guy HAS to come every time, sometimes its nice for her not to have to go mopping up our mess! Lol

Don't let it get to you.

I had the same thought.. Tiredness is a huge factor! The time we get together when we're not working, tiredness does take over. I'm on 24 hour call out and amy works 12 hour night shifts So it would seem as though tiredness could be a factor..

..No, don't have to come every time and yeah, saves them having to clean up eh cheers for your input mate "

Just enjoy the sex fella!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can sex last TOO long?

"

Not Foreplay!!!.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if it is lack of technique that is the problem here.

You mention "me and amy are having sex" as if it is nothing more than sweeping the path or washing the dishes.

When a couple are having sex the speed of the males organism is more often than not controlled by the male.

When a couple are making love the speed of the male organism is more often than not controlled by the female.

An experienced lover can make her man cum inside her in 30 seconds or make him last for ages depending on how she uses her muscles to clench & unclench his cock.

I would imagine the times it takes you ages to cum are the times Amy is not really into the experience.

There is a vast difference between having sex and the sensual experience of making love."

Not in my experience my friend and I've had a hell of a lot of it. Physically a man can be unable to orgasm for many reasons,not always because a woman is inexperienced,and being a couple in a relationship the woman will know what gets her man going. You don't sound very experienced yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when we have had unhurried hours long sessions never felt it was too much at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when we have had unhurried hours long sessions never felt it was too much at all "

I love those ones. If one thing makes me want a relationship again it would be to have this regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when we have had unhurried hours long sessions never felt it was too much at all

I love those ones. If one thing makes me want a relationship again it would be to have this regularly "

one of the best/most memorable sex sessions i have ever had was quite early on with him - dinner out and a drink or two - back to hotel - massage and just generally getting to know each other a little more than we had already - at the stage totally at ease with in our company and it went for hours - ebbed and flowed and we reached some amazing highs that night - never forget that as long as i live

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By *r not quite virginMan
over a year ago

rochdale

I've never cum from sex so if always lasts too long for me as i get bored after a while haha far more enjoyable making a woman cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when we have had unhurried hours long sessions never felt it was too much at all

I love those ones. If one thing makes me want a relationship again it would be to have this regularly

one of the best/most memorable sex sessions i have ever had was quite early on with him - dinner out and a drink or two - back to hotel - massage and just generally getting to know each other a little more than we had already - at the stage totally at ease with in our company and it went for hours - ebbed and flowed and we reached some amazing highs that night - never forget that as long as i live "

I think my biggest regret is never having that with someone I was in love with. Being in love makes it so much more special

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By *crew_driverMan
over a year ago

Near you

Is that not a good thing? At least she won't have to worry about you leaving her hanging with you finishing before she could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not for me. I just lasts 2min in the bed, quicker than it takes to boil an egg, but got a great 6pack lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, sometimes though lazy repeated sex over many hours especially weekend morning sex or holiday sex when there are no distractions is great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when we have had unhurried hours long sessions never felt it was too much at all

I love those ones. If one thing makes me want a relationship again it would be to have this regularly

one of the best/most memorable sex sessions i have ever had was quite early on with him - dinner out and a drink or two - back to hotel - massage and just generally getting to know each other a little more than we had already - at the stage totally at ease with in our company and it went for hours - ebbed and flowed and we reached some amazing highs that night - never forget that as long as i live

I think my biggest regret is never having that with someone I was in love with. Being in love makes it so much more special "

dont regret hun - still time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading this thread I'm really scratching my head because it's supposed to be fun, reading this it sounds like a fucking chore to some people.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i d stop if she fell asleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i d stop if she fell asleep"

Well only if she starts snoring

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Reading this thread I'm really scratching my head because it's supposed to be fun, reading this it sounds like a fucking chore to some people.

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@fucking chore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading this thread I'm really scratching my head because it's supposed to be fun, reading this it sounds like a fucking chore to some people.

@fucking chore"

put me on the rota for that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading this thread I'm really scratching my head because it's supposed to be fun, reading this it sounds like a fucking chore to some people.

"

Yeah it seems like a fucking chore, at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading this thread I'm really scratching my head because it's supposed to be fun, reading this it sounds like a fucking chore to some people.

Yeah it seems like a fucking chore, at times."

There are a few women that I have spoken to and met over the years that feel exactly that and are not impresses with "stayers" much preferring "repeaters" supprisingly quite a few ladies like Mo have a sensitivity issue after orgasm that actually makes any sort or stimulation uncomfortable.

Though I have also met women that do like to be hammered all night long I have found they find it harder to attain orgasm so can go for longer.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"when we have had unhurried hours long sessions never felt it was too much at all "

No I agree, it ebbs and flows, but if the sex is good, then bring it on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading this thread I'm really scratching my head because it's supposed to be fun, reading this it sounds like a fucking chore to some people.

Yeah it seems like a fucking chore, at times.

There are a few women that I have spoken to and met over the years that feel exactly that and are not impresses with "stayers" much preferring "repeaters" supprisingly quite a few ladies like Mo have a sensitivity issue after orgasm that actually makes any sort or stimulation uncomfortable.

Though I have also met women that do like to be hammered all night long I have found they find it harder to attain orgasm so can go for longer. "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Is a lifetime too long? Just like with food, keep grazing and have some big feasts. If it's monotonous then it could be tedious but you can all work at keeping it interesting and horny. Wax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a problem with sex taking s long time because I enjoy multiple orgasms! Although my ex would just sort of flop around on top of me so I'd fake an orgasm to get him to stop

As long as I'm still getting pleasure, I don't mind how long it takes xD

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