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They say revenge is best served cold - what is the longest you waited?

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By *UNCHBOX OP   Man
over a year ago

folkestone

Was it years or just months?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not going to get revenge im just waiting for karma to strut her stuff -

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I'll wait years. It's a bad trait of mine, I know but that's me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Revenge doesn't concern me it's a waste of time and emotion. If I need to deal with someone it's done immediately..

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Revenge can have its moments but I do prefer karma doing the pay back for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Karma is good.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Revenge is a waste of my time and energy, what Will be will be

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Does karma exist? How come J. Savile died a free and wealthy man?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Oh I'll wait years. It's a bad trait of mine, I know but that's me."

^ this although I do deal with ppl at the time revenge is just a bonus. NOBODY gets the better of me EVER

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I'll wait years. It's a bad trait of mine, I know but that's me.

^ this although I do deal with ppl at the time revenge is just a bonus. NOBODY gets the better of me EVER "

^exactly

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

as I get older, revenge of any sort seems such a huge waste of intent, thoughts and/or actions.

what will be, will be.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I don't deal with that sort of shit, the best revenge is no revenge at all as that means zero time and emotion is spent on someone who simply is not worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waiting for revenge will make you twisted and bitter. Better to move on and put it behind you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As folks have said revenge is a waste of time, you're wasting your own time and energy on people who aren't worth it. It's easier said than done but in my experience the best thing you can do is just walk away from whatever it is.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't do vengeance. It means someone's got the better of me by making me think about them. I have on occasion enjoyed a moment of schadenfreude however due to circumstances entirely free of my own involvement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never wasted my time with revenge. My genial nature seems to piss more people off than any act of vegance ever could.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Silence! Thats the key.... People who expect some kind of revenge for any nasty deeds are really unerved and on edge , when silence is all they get! Karma can bite their arse when time is right too .... Aint got time for being bitter n twisted .... Their bad deeds their drama

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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo


"Better to move on and put it behind you."

Not always possible to do this. In my case, I plan, one day, to be able to dance on the grave of the person who did me wrong over 30 yrs ago, then and only then will I be able to move on from it and yes, it really was THAT serious)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does karma exist? How come J. Savile died a free and wealthy man?"

Probably have to see what he comes back as to be sure!

How people treat you is their karma, how you react is all yours

Revenge is in the dog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't agree with revenge - I think it's quite childish to be honest, I just prefer to move on and wash them out my life. I did revenge with my x hubby but I've grown up since then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never wanted revenge on anyone. I pity them more than hate them and am thankful I'm not like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Better to move on and put it behind you.

Not always possible to do this. In my case, I plan, one day, to be able to dance on the grave of the person who did me wrong over 30 yrs ago, then and only then will I be able to move on from it and yes, it really was THAT serious)"

Ignoring the fact that it's not exactly revenge, but regradless of what they did - what will that achieve? Somethings are unforgivable, but a life full of hatred is not a healthy way to live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't do vengeance. It means someone's got the better of me by making me think about them. I have on occasion enjoyed a moment of schadenfreude however due to circumstances entirely free of my own involvement."

Sums it up perfectly. I might have a little smile to myself when some people land on their arses but I'd never actively seek to put them there

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By *r MacmullyMan
over a year ago

Tarbert

I can wait years

I have been know to carry on like nothing happened and buy my time to act. I will till the time is right and the give it right back to them and remind them if what they did.

I know most say no revenge but I do like the feeling of it and I know it makes me a BAD person but I like it served ice cold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16 years so far... His time will come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't agree with revenge - I think it's quite childish to be honest, I just prefer to move on and wash them out my life. I did revenge with my x hubby but I've grown up since then "

I don't think it's childish, so someone can really hurt us and we just smile and go "oh well"

I don't think so and I'm def not childish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did exact revenge on my husband once. He had a piss in the toilet right behind my head,making me sit up. So,I invited him to sit in front of me in my bath. He got himself comfy and I wee'd on him then jumped out laughing at him

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I did exact revenge on my husband once. He had a piss in the toilet right behind my head,making me sit up. So,I invited him to sit in front of me in my bath. He got himself comfy and I wee'd on him then jumped out laughing at him "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We been waiting 4 long years slowly it's coming round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never wasted my time with revenge. My genial nature seems to piss more people off than any act of vegance ever could. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Silence! Thats the key.... People who expect some kind of revenge for any nasty deeds are really unerved and on edge , when silence is all they get! "

Couldn't agree more

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does karma exist? How come J. Savile died a free and wealthy man?"
he was a deeply damaged man. . Yes he made others as messed up . . But he's now in a lake of fire being bummed by a narwhal !

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"as I get older, revenge of any sort seems such a huge waste of intent, thoughts and/or actions.

what will be, will be."

I'm the same. . I leave it to karma .... and it often seems to work

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

I don't really do revenge, but instead just 'bide my time', waiting for an opportunity to make a comment or act accordingly as I see fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does karma exist? How come J. Savile died a free and wealthy man? he was a deeply damaged man. . Yes he made others as messed up . . But he's now in a lake of fire being bummed by a narwhal ! "
So true.

Free? Physically yes. But imagine the thoughts, fears, dark complexities, constantly wary of being found out (consciously or otherwise).. karma.

*shudders*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does karma exist? How come J. Savile died a free and wealthy man? he was a deeply damaged man. . Yes he made others as messed up . . But he's now in a lake of fire being bummed by a narwhal ! So true.

Free? Physically yes. But imagine the thoughts, fears, dark complexities, constantly wary of being found out (consciously or otherwise).. karma.

*shudders*"

Sometimes karma is a smokescreen, an illusion...

Im not sure I either believe it, or understand it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Karma is a lie, at least in the form that most people understand it. Karma isn't about your negative (or positive) actions returning upon you at done future point - that's just life because good things and bad things happen.

Karma is a state of mind, an intent of action. Bad karma (intent) less to bad action; positive to good action and so forth. Karma and your karmic balance comes from within - through your own mindfulness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and in answer to the OP question.

I'm still waiting....

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Silence! Thats the key.... People who expect some kind of revenge for any nasty deeds are really unerved and on edge , when silence is all they get! Karma can bite their arse when time is right too .... Aint got time for being bitter n twisted .... Their bad deeds their drama "

I agree with this totally.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"Revenge can have its moments but I do prefer karma doing the pay back for me. "

im hoping karma exists revenge makes me as bad as them

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Show me some tangible evidence that karma is real and exists then I'll rip up my revenge list

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Sometimes revenge needs to hot and burns the hell out of them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Show me some tangible evidence that karma is real and exists then I'll rip up my revenge list "

Cause and effect!

You cause an event to happen and there will be an effect (consequence)

Eg instant karma

You call someone a prick, most likely you'll end up with a fat lip.

Simples

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Show me some tangible evidence that karma is real and exists then I'll rip up my revenge list

Cause and effect!

You cause an event to happen and there will be an effect (consequence)

Eg instant karma

You call someone a prick, most likely you'll end up with a fat lip.

Simples "

no you call someone a prick they walk away thinking karma will get them back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just started my waiting game! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years and still going

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

I just sit in the corner rocking, with a twisted smile on my face whilst I make voodoo dolls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just sit in the corner rocking, with a twisted smile on my face whilst I make voodoo dolls "

An ex of mine actually tried the whole voodoo doll thing on me

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys


"I just sit in the corner rocking, with a twisted smile on my face whilst I make voodoo dolls

An ex of mine actually tried the whole voodoo doll thing on me "

Shit I didn't know u were on here!!!!... Only joking haha... Sorry in a naughty mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just sit in the corner rocking, with a twisted smile on my face whilst I make voodoo dolls

An ex of mine actually tried the whole voodoo doll thing on me

Shit I didn't know u were on here!!!!... Only joking haha... Sorry in a naughty mood. "

Lol had me worried then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Show me some tangible evidence that karma is real and exists then I'll rip up my revenge list

Cause and effect!

You cause an event to happen and there will be an effect (consequence)

Eg instant karma

You call someone a prick, most likely you'll end up with a fat lip.

Simples

no you call someone a prick they walk away thinking karma will get them back "

I don't think you grasped the concept!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got big balls,x*

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Show me some tangible evidence that karma is real and exists then I'll rip up my revenge list

Cause and effect!

You cause an event to happen and there will be an effect (consequence)

Eg instant karma

You call someone a prick, most likely you'll end up with a fat lip.

Simples

no you call someone a prick they walk away thinking karma will get them back

I don't think you grasped the concept! "

is that your way of trying to calling me stupid?

I fully understand and don't agree with you like I said before tangible evidence not some made up scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's going to be a couple more years...

which will probs accumalate to around 11yrs.. All told

It won't be revenge it will be what I deserve... And him, also for that matter..I will smile very sweetly. Some things are worth waiting for....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Does karma exist? How come J. Savile died a free and wealthy man? he was a deeply damaged man. . Yes he made others as messed up . . But he's now in a lake of fire being bummed by a narwhal ! "

So karma doesn't exist?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is that your way of trying to calling me stupid?

I fully understand and don't agree with you like I said before tangible evidence not some made up scenario "

No. It wouldn't be my intention to do so!!!

Read professor xxx post. The concept of karma is its 'your karma'. No one else's. It doesn't jump on to other people because they do bad things to you. Cause and effect in relation to your intentions! conscious or unconscious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not one for revenge .... I just get my retaliation in first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As folks have said revenge is a waste of time, you're wasting your own time and energy on people who aren't worth it. It's easier said than done but in my experience the best thing you can do is just walk away from whatever it is."
You never forget

And thats as bad after 47years and I presume

I never will...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An eye for an eye? Grow up . Revenge is a childish reaction, not a solution of justice.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Those that claim that revenge isnt worth it, or you should turn the other cheek, cant care about people much.

It's been 20 years since I found out what happened, and now its payback.

I have waited, because I had to, but now I dont have to wait any more..... and the punishment will fit the crime.

I made a promise, and that promise will be honoured, he sowed the wind.... now he will reap the whirlwind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those that claim that revenge isnt worth it, or you should turn the other cheek, cant care about people much.

It's been 20 years since I found out what happened, and now its payback.

I have waited, because I had to, but now I dont have to wait any more..... and the punishment will fit the crime.

I made a promise, and that promise will be honoured, he sowed the wind.... now he will reap the whirlwind."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.......or just trust in sweet Karma & move on.............. after all, what you witness maybe just a tiny part of the comeback; best to move on & be happy .......especially whilst fantasising what you may have missed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Show me some tangible evidence that karma is real and exists then I'll rip up my revenge list "

Karma does exist. I have seen her in action and it is truly amazing. It will happen when you least expect it.

I also believe what goes around goes around.

I don't do revenge as a rule I just like to think I'm giving karma a helping hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a short attention span so the whole revenge thing is lost on me, I get bored and theres always other more important stuff going on. This way I tend to find myself on the moral high ground a lot of the time which in turn gives me a nice warm smug feeling!!

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