FabSwingers.com forum: swinging and the classes

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So am guessing that most people on here either class themselves as working or middle class.

Yes a few are going to say I don't label myself and so on.

Like it or not most of us are in one class or another.

My question is this

Swingers come from all members of society but all the people we have met are definitely working and middle.

So where do all the upper class go?

The aristocracy. These guy's invented debauchery lol

Do they have their own private clubs that us oiks don't know.

And luxury swinging clubs?

Coz let's face it most clubs are by and large pretty grotty places unless they roughing it can't see upper classes mingling with us.

Thoughts on the class system and swinging please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am gentry!

As for your other enquiry. One does not indulge that information

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

You're not looking hard enough

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

When it comes to fucking, everyone is in the same pot believe me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Clearly we are not in with the right crowd.

Besides would rather have fun with people we feel comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am gentry!

As for your other enquiry. One does not indulge that information "

Blown lol!

The word is divulge....but only us true hoi poloi would know that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grabs the popcorn and an insurance claim form (just in case)

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I am gentry!

As for your other enquiry. One does not indulge that information

Blown lol!

The word is divulge....but only us true hoi poloi would know that."

I suspect someone's autocorrect got in the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When it comes to fucking, everyone is in the same pot believe me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grabs the popcorn and an insurance claim form (just in case)"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Their houses are large enough to accommodate club like facilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We allow the downstairs staff one day off a month and this is when we indulge.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe the good folk of Downton abbey are swingers?

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

They have their own knighthood ceremonies... A cock slapped on each shoulder.... It happens honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have limited experience of UK swinging venues but have found that one in particular stands out for having "higher class" (or maybe just richer) people than others. I am referring to Killing Kittens when compared to AbFabs, our place 4 fun or Vanilla Alternative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are probably living it up in private apartments in the Bahamas or Monaco

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"I have limited experience of UK swinging venues but have found that one in particular stands out for having "higher class" (or maybe just richer) people than others. I am referring to Killing Kittens when compared to AbFabs, our place 4 fun or Vanilla Alternative."

I have also heard Killing kittens is more "upper class" if you want to use that term. And Killing kittens parties are done more on an invite only basis, but not sure if thats true?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So am guessing that most people on here either class themselves as working or middle class.

Yes a few are going to say I don't label myself and so on.

Like it or not most of us are in one class or another.

My question is this

Swingers come from all members of society but all the people we have met are definitely working and middle.

So where do all the upper class go?

The aristocracy. These guy's invented debauchery lol

Do they have their own private clubs that us oiks don't know.

And luxury swinging clubs?

Coz let's face it most clubs are by and large pretty grotty places unless they roughing it can't see upper classes mingling with us.

Thoughts on the class system and swinging please

The aristocracy invented debauchery?

Errrrrm, I think everyone was at it since the year dot, - not to mention the Romans, biggous dickous & all!

I don't believe in the class system that we have but there are the good, bad & aholes throughout all walks of life, - who cares how they class themselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am really not sure that there is much left of a "class" system in our country, other than one created through self- perception. What does working class mean? Many of us work. Some earn more than others. Some have jobs which would fit the traditional bracket of working-class yet earn much more than those in sectors which might have been described as middle- or upper-class. It may be much more to do with how you see yourself than a class system per se. Hey, and if you can say per se in a sentence, you probably perceive yourself as middle-class.

Sorry for the class ramble. I really do not think it has much to do with swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am really not sure that there is much left of a "class" system in our country, other than one created through self- perception. What does working class mean? Many of us work. Some earn more than others. Some have jobs which would fit the traditional bracket of working-class yet earn much more than those in sectors which might have been described as middle- or upper-class. It may be much more to do with how you see yourself than a class system per se. Hey, and if you can say per se in a sentence, you probably perceive yourself as middle-class.

Sorry for the class ramble. I really do not think it has much to do with swinging."

The class system is alive and kicking in London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for the class ramble. I really do not think it has much to do with swinging.

The class system is alive and kicking in London"

Really? Interesting. What class are you? What class are your friends and neighbours?

I exclude bankers. Bankers should always be excluded.

*Poor provincial man post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for the class ramble. I really do not think it has much to do with swinging.

The class system is alive and kicking in London

Really? Interesting. What class are you? What class are your friends and neighbours?

I exclude bankers. Bankers should always be excluded.

*Poor provincial man post"

I'm working class,so are my neighbours. One of my regular men is upper middle class. We are worlds apart. Teachers I worked with were middle class. There are people in my area who could be described as lower class. It may not be as prominent now but we are not a totally classless society yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for the class ramble. I really do not think it has much to do with swinging.

The class system is alive and kicking in London

Really? Interesting. What class are you? What class are your friends and neighbours?

I exclude bankers. Bankers should always be excluded.

*Poor provincial man post

Are you working class because of your career or your upbringing or attitude? I am genuinely interested. And "upper middle class?" Is that like lower upper class? What score has to be obtained to reach that ... And what are the criteria for obtaining the required score?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really get it. Teachers are perceived to be middle class but some of the teachers I know live on council estates

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

He's upper class, she's middle class, I know my place.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think you hit the nail on the head re richer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's upper class, she's middle class, I know my place.

If he is just mid to lower upper class and she is upper middle class, they might be close.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

They have house parties - it would happen behind closed doors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really get it. Teachers are perceived to be middle class but some of the teachers I know live on council estates "

Some are not from council estates. I worked with a few who had a big culture shock when they worked in a greater London secondary school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kate middletons sister organises high class swinger parties. The posh couple from goggle box rented their house out to her.....check it out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go a few times a month to a party in a mansion in Birmingham and the owner is undoubtedly very wealthy. Ive been to various parties in very large expensive houses where the hosts, dare i say the dreaded word, are professionals. I dont think any have been aristocrats or titled but who knows.

I think people of all ages, class and culture are into recreational sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really get it. Teachers are perceived to be middle class but some of the teachers I know live on council estates

Some are not from council estates. I worked with a few who had a big culture shock when they worked in a greater London secondary school "

I get that. But teaching is perceived to be a middle class profession but some of the teachers I know are anything but.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Class by profession, by earnings, by home ownership and/or personal wealth or by birth/breeding?

I am peasant class by birth, working class growing up and in my early career and middle class by career now. Not upper middle class as I don't have the birth and education to claim that.

I'm too old to get invited to the exclusive parties with the hoi polloi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know what class you are? I might be an aristocrat.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"How do you know what class you are? I might be an aristocrat. "

I'm posh, me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know what class you are? I might be an aristocrat. "

Everybody wants to be a cat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are so posh we fast forward through the servant scenes in downton abbey.Actually I get the remote control servant to push the button as we are too posh to do it ourselves

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"How do you know what class you are? "

a good politics thread, a benefit cheat thread, a professional thread, a reality show thread....

you can narrow it down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know what class you are? I might be an aristocrat.

I'm posh, me.

Corrrr you're married to Becks? Jealous muchly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know what class you are?

a good politics thread, a benefit cheat thread, a professional thread, a reality show thread....

you can narrow it down

I don't like any of those. Am I a heathen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd imagine the upper class hold their own private parties, either in house or at an exclusive venue hired for the occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I skived off school a lot, I completely missed the swinging classes innit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know what class you are?

a good politics thread, a benefit cheat thread, a professional thread, a reality show thread....

you can narrow it down

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"How do you know what class you are?

a good politics thread, a benefit cheat thread, a professional thread, a reality show thread....

you can narrow it down

I don't like any of those. Am I a heathen?"

no, just fickle...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well looks like we too old for killing kittens

45 age limit

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I've been having a think and the classes could be reclassified as:

First Class

Business Class (all those claiming to be professionals)

Economy Class (most of us)

Budget, no-frills, airlines.

Everyone can be in the mile high club and there's enough opportunity in the first three classes for intermingling - even if it's accidentally walking through the drawn curtain.

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