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By *lttattoocouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Over the last week noticed one particular single M (bless his cottons) in our local updates

Posting about his bad luck.

Just waiting for a I'm leaving etc etc update

Made me think. To us it seems desperate and beggy. I'm not going to put what she's typed or his handle because that's not nice.

Other peoples thoughts on those types of updates?

(And before any says don't like it don't look, it doesn't Actualy bother us)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like seeing that either, quite pathetic some of them. But kinda understand it in a way, the vast majority of single guys here are pretty much just paying to be ignored. You go for a certain amount of time without a reply, sometimes weeks or longer, and you lose your optimism and start looking for other ways to get noticed, unfortunately some opt for the sympathy vote, not a good look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Geez thanks for reminding how crap I am at posting status updates. Intended to post an obscure and off putting one each day but forgot.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

You should move down south!

You get daily entertainment!!

From the "thanks for last night babe. Amazing!" (From long term unverified profiles), to dozens of offers of skype/kik/whatsapp, to 'cock/tits out in xxxxx - anyone want a look?', to the usual moans of 'does anyone actually meet/been stood up again/xxxxxxx profile is a fake/deleting profile in 7 days' etc.

Sometimes tempted to message them yes/no one word responses to their updates just so their effort gets them a result in the form of an inbox message!

Resisted so far - but sometimes it's bloody hard!!

A

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

As a single guy, the local updates (women and couples due to my filters) are not too bad, but like above, the ones with "thanks for last night…." etc, tell them, not the whole of fab, what are you trying to achieve? - are usually my thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""thanks for last night…." "

Cool I will save that one for when I get good service in shop somewhere

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I find the constant negative status updates are a great filter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the constant negative status updates are a great filter... "
yup . . Usually slating off a whole swathe of the population. . Or reminding anyone who gives a fig . .that their criteria is as narrow as their mind. . How many times . . I only want guys who are 6ft 1 . .from st albans. . White . . With a BBC and who can acom . . And are named David Harris !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the constant negative status updates are a great filter... "

This

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Any I find disgustingly derogative I just C&P it into 'my private notes'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit to being witheringly sarcastic last night in my status after seeing an unverified, pictureless, 10 word profile post a status thanking the 2 hot women for a great time.

Needless to say his status didn't last long.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I fucking hate 99% of status's

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I find the constant negative status updates are a great filter...

This "

This too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the constant negative status updates are a great filter... yup . . Usually slating off a whole swathe of the population. . Or reminding anyone who gives a fig . .that their criteria is as narrow as their mind. . How many times . . I only want guys who are 6ft 1 . .from st albans. . White . . With a BBC and who can acom . . And are named David Harris ! "

Damn I am called Darren Harris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never even think to look at my local updates

Maybe I should

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I never even think to look at my local updates

Maybe I should "

I don't either...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I never even think to look at my local updates

Maybe I should "

I didn't used to, but I have found them highly amusing recently

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I never even think to look at my local updates

Maybe I should

I didn't used to, but I have found them highly amusing recently "

Opps *use*

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

i think looking at the dramas of local people may be a bit unnerving, especially on the night of the full moon...

knowing they were roaming just a few miles away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think looking at the dramas of local people may be a bit unnerving, especially on the night of the full moon...

knowing they were roaming just a few miles away."

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't remember the last time I looked at our local updates, perhaps j should go and take a peek!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I think looking at the dramas of local people may be a bit unnerving, especially on the night of the full moon...

knowing they were roaming just a few miles away."

Good point, but I just copy and paste them on to my private notes

Extra filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just had a peek and there aren't any because ive filtered myself out of the game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site has more filters than a packet of Rizlas...

...including having to re-post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I peeked! oh my eyes

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think they are a chance to be creative and can't understand why people would post a naff one.

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By *rben112Man
over a year ago

worcester

I'll stop posting them then......??

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

I love the fact that some people just don't check what they have typed ....

"Looking for a fun gut to escort me to Pleasures Party on the 1st........"

perhaps they have a fetish for someone who suffers with wind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the constant negative status updates are a great filter... yup . . Usually slating off a whole swathe of the population. . Or reminding anyone who gives a fig . .that their criteria is as narrow as their mind. . How many times . . I only want guys who are 6ft 1 . .from st albans. . White . . With a BBC and who can acom . . And are named David Harris ! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One came up 7 days ago....."deleting this account in 6 days"

Silly sod is still here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the fact that some people just don't check what they have typed ....

"Looking for a fun gut to escort me to Pleasures Party on the 1st........"

perhaps they have a fetish for someone who suffers with wind?

"

Friends of mine posted recently that they wanted "Dome" fun...I messages saying "yippee ...you have a new tent". Don't you just love typos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On ours "any women inserted?" and someone trying to sell a dog. Hope it wasn't a couple

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By *rben112Man
over a year ago

worcester

I'm sometimes guilty of that. Using a smart phone isn't always that smart. Everyone has a case of sausage fingers

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By *lttattoocouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Any I find disgustingly derogative I just C&P it into 'my private notes' "

That's a good idea :p

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By *lttattoocouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Ha some great replys thanks all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't stand ranty, negative or rude status updates, have blocked people in the past because of it. We have a couple of regular negative posters on our local update feed, being rude about other members, heads up arses, waste of skin, etc etc. Just makes us think they are not the type of person we'd like to meet.

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