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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What the average amount of messages the each group of people get eg how many for couples , women , men etc

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I get very, very few. I send none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends if I put a new pic up or something I said in forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get no messages of f or mf only men saying they like my cock lol, which would be great if I was bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few everyday but just of friends, Maybe 1 or 2 every couple of weeks are from new people or from forum regulars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get any.. I maibe get 5 emails a week from women, but mostly from men who sais how good my body looks, gues its better than owt lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It varies. Most I ever got was 35 and a few weeks ago got 27 in one day but mainly less than that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It depends if I put a new pic up or something I said in forums "

I get the _iews when I put a pic up but not a message lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get no messages of f or mf only men saying they like my cock lol, which would be great if I was bi

Lol same as

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads, I get 40/50 a day, plus ones from friend, if I go in chat and put my cam on the amount rockets

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Loads, I get 40/50 a day, plus ones from friend, if I go in chat and put my cam on the amount rockets "

Does getting that many puss you off or do you like the attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads, I get 40/50 a day, plus ones from friend, if I go in chat and put my cam on the amount rockets

Does getting that many puss you off or do you like the attention "

neither to be honest i just go through and reply to the ones I like, in sure all women get the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't had any for yonks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The average week :

From women : 0

From men : 0

From myself : 1.2

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Loads, I get 40/50 a day, plus ones from friend, if I go in chat and put my cam on the amount rockets

Does getting that many puss you off or do you like the attention

neither to be honest i just go through and reply to the ones I like, in sure all women get the same "

I imagine they do yeah , do you reply to all or do you delete most ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends if I put a new pic up or something I said in forums "
x

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

I'd say about 40 plus a day xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as much since I blocked single guys!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Haven't had any for yonks"

You must have friends you get messages from ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not as much since I blocked single guys!! Lol "

Are they 99% of your messages x

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

50 a week maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a couple a day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd say about 40 plus a day xxx"

You must spend a lot of time reading them x is that why the house is a tip ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get about 10 - 15 messages on average a day. More if I'm looking for a meet or put a new pic on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just a couple a day. "

Would you want more then ? Or is that enough ? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get about 10 - 15 messages on average a day. More if I'm looking for a meet or put a new pic on "

Is that a manageable amount to reply to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"50 a week maybe

50 !!!!!! Lucky bastard lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me. I prefer quality messages. But a few more would be nice x

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I'm lucky if I get 3 a week lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get about 10 - 15 messages on average a day. More if I'm looking for a meet or put a new pic on

Is that a manageable amount to reply to "

Yes though must admit one message from an idiot can have me throwing a rant and deleting my inbox

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I get about 10 - 15 messages on average a day. More if I'm looking for a meet or put a new pic on

Is that a manageable amount to reply to

Yes though must admit one message from an idiot can have me throwing a rant and deleting my inbox "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm lucky if I get 3 a week lol

Really !!!! You look so sexy you should be getting more x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get about 10 - 15 messages on average a day. More if I'm looking for a meet or put a new pic on

Is that a manageable amount to reply to

Yes though must admit one message from an idiot can have me throwing a rant and deleting my inbox "

So one idiot can ruin it for a lot of men lol

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I'm lucky if I get 3 a week lol

Really !!!! You look so sexy you should be getting more x"

awww thanks

want to tell the guys in the Lincoln area that lol

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

4 a week , which is quite good seeing we a sooo inactive...... If we post a pic then we may get a short surge......then today, for no apparent reason we had 8 from single guys...don't know why...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm lucky if I get 3 a week lol

Really !!!! You look so sexy you should be getting more x

awww thanks

want to tell the guys in the Lincoln area that lol

They need their heads banging together lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"4 a week , which is quite good seeing we a sooo inactive...... If we post a pic then we may get a short surge......then today, for no apparent reason we had 8 from single guys...don't know why..."

Its your lucky night then x do you reply to all ?

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

wow I thought I didn't get many -

1 every week or so from fems - so I am now happy looking at the other guys

cud always do with a few more though.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"wow I thought I didn't get many -

1 every week or so from fems - so I am now happy looking at the other guys

cud always do with a few more though.......

And me too , like replying to messages from women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm lucky if I get 3 a week lol

You must have a lot of filters on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get about 10 - 15 messages on average a day. More if I'm looking for a meet or put a new pic on

Is that a manageable amount to reply to

Yes though must admit one message from an idiot can have me throwing a rant and deleting my inbox

So one idiot can ruin it for a lot of men lol "

Definitely though luckily my friends are used to it now

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Up to about 6 months or so ago when I used the forum a lot, I would get loads. These days hardly any, just from a few friends, which suits me fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get about 10 - 15 messages on average a day. More if I'm looking for a meet or put a new pic on

Is that a manageable amount to reply to

Yes though must admit one message from an idiot can have me throwing a rant and deleting my inbox

So one idiot can ruin it for a lot of men lol

Definitely though luckily my friends are used to it now

That's good then , do you then message your friends to explain lol

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I'm lucky if I get 3 a week lol

You must have a lot of filters on "

not really. Just don't attracted guys in the Lincoln area lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm lucky if I get 3 a week lol

You must have a lot of filters on

not really. Just don't attracted guys in the Lincoln area lol"

What's wrong with your Lincoln area?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm lucky if I get 3 a week lol

You must have a lot of filters on

not really. Just don't attracted guys in the Lincoln area lol"

Look further afield

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

The last time I counted, I had 200 in a day. A lot from friends.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The last time I counted, I had 200 in a day. A lot from friends.

Sweet Jesus lol

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I'm lucky if I get 3 a week lol

You must have a lot of filters on

not really. Just don't attracted guys in the Lincoln area lol

What's wrong with your Lincoln area?"

again, ask the guys here what's wrong with me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads, I get 40/50 a day, plus ones from friend, if I go in chat and put my cam on the amount rockets

Does getting that many puss you off or do you like the attention

neither to be honest i just go through and reply to the ones I like, in sure all women get the same "

^^I average around 30-40 messages a day, all single men. I do the same as yourself & just go through them & reply to those I like. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Loads, I get 40/50 a day, plus ones from friend, if I go in chat and put my cam on the amount rockets

Does getting that many puss you off or do you like the attention

neither to be honest i just go through and reply to the ones I like, in sure all women get the same

^^I average around 30-40 messages a day, all single men. I do the same as yourself & just go through them & reply to those I like. X"

Do you reply to many or are most none starters ?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"The last time I counted, I had 200 in a day. A lot from friends.

Sweet Jesus lol"

Luckily I can answer them whilst at work, so it's no big deal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The last time I counted, I had 200 in a day. A lot from friends.

Sweet Jesus lol

Luckily I can answer them whilst at work, so it's no big deal

Cant beat being paid to flirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What the average amount of messages the each group of people get eg how many for couples , women , men etc "

I barely get any. I usually have to initiate. I think it takes a lot of activity on here for a guy to get messages they weren't expecting.

It's a real shame as I'm happy to just message people and not going to go all creepy on people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many and I don't expect many. No biggie.

Messaging and contact is pot luck and a challenge. Just way I like it- when the mood gets me. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What the average amount of messages the each group of people get eg how many for couples , women , men etc "

It varies on the time of the day from guys. The numbers drop significantly when the wives comes home and goes up again when they go to bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads, I get 40/50 a day, plus ones from friend, if I go in chat and put my cam on the amount rockets

Does getting that many puss you off or do you like the attention

neither to be honest i just go through and reply to the ones I like, in sure all women get the same

^^I average around 30-40 messages a day, all single men. I do the same as yourself & just go through them & reply to those I like. X

Do you reply to many or are most none starters ? "

Honestly, no, Maybe 10 or so, but in my defence a lot of them are boring one liners, or 'wanna fuck right now' 'i've got a 12inch dong' type messages, which don't do it for me. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What the average amount of messages the each group of people get eg how many for couples , women , men etc

It varies on the time of the day from guys. The numbers drop significantly when the wives comes home and goes up again when they go to bed.

Can you set your clock to them lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about 10 - 12 per day.

Some friends, some new,

Just enough to sort through and deal with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Loads, I get 40/50 a day, plus ones from friend, if I go in chat and put my cam on the amount rockets

Does getting that many puss you off or do you like the attention

neither to be honest i just go through and reply to the ones I like, in sure all women get the same

^^I average around 30-40 messages a day, all single men. I do the same as yourself & just go through them & reply to those I like. X

Do you reply to many or are most none starters ?

Honestly, no, Maybe 10 or so, but in my defence a lot of them are boring one liners, or 'wanna fuck right now' 'i've got a 12inch dong' type messages, which don't do it for me. X"

Makes you wonder why they think that type of message gets any replies at all lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"about 10 - 12 per day.

Some friends, some new,

Just enough to sort through and deal with.

That sounds like the ideal amount x reply to friends and not ignore new ones x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have I couple of people I banter with so I do get a few pm's most days, but very rare that I get someone 'new' messaging me. When my 'regulars' get bored with me I'll be all alone again ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have I couple of people I banter with so I do get a few pm's most days, but very rare that I get someone 'new' messaging me. When my 'regulars' get bored with me I'll be all alone again ... "

I have a couple of friends that message but same for me no new messages lol except one tonight about this thread so it worked lol

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Usually about 10 per week, but most of those are off the back of a forum post or friends

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I have I couple of people I banter with so I do get a few pm's most days, but very rare that I get someone 'new' messaging me. When my 'regulars' get bored with me I'll be all alone again ...

I have a couple of friends that message but same for me no new messages lol except one tonight about this thread so it worked lol"

possibly me? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if we put new pictures up then it's to many. But average is around 15+ xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have I couple of people I banter with so I do get a few pm's most days, but very rare that I get someone 'new' messaging me. When my 'regulars' get bored with me I'll be all alone again ...

I have a couple of friends that message but same for me no new messages lol except one tonight about this thread so it worked lol

possibly me? lol

Lol that would be telling lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends if we put new pictures up then it's to many. But average is around 15+ xx"

Is that a manageable amount ? New messages ? Or both friends and new ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple from friends but new ones. We've been really lucky and not had any nasty ones like some on here. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple from friends but new ones. We've been really lucky and not had any nasty ones like some on here. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A couple from friends but new ones. We've been really lucky and not had any nasty ones like some on here. Xx"

That's lucky x hopefully it stays that way lol

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

There's a message system!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's a message system!!!

Lol pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering I'm just a shoe with a shit profile and I rarely show up on searches I still get mail. Weird.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Considering I'm just a shoe with a shit profile and I rarely show up on searches I still get mail. Weird.

My best friend is a sock so I think you should find people are still going to be interested in meeting you.

Just don't trust those fingerless gloves...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Considering I'm just a shoe with a shit profile and I rarely show up on searches I still get mail. Weird.

They're intrigued to find out what's above the shoe xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Considering I'm just a shoe with a shit profile and I rarely show up on searches I still get mail. Weird.

My best friend is a sock so I think you should find people are still going to be interested in meeting you.

Just don't trust those fingerless gloves...

Or snoods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Considering I'm just a shoe with a shit profile and I rarely show up on searches I still get mail. Weird.

My best friend is a sock so I think you should find people are still going to be interested in meeting you.

Just don't trust those fingerless gloves...

Is it a crusty sock?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Considering I'm just a shoe with a shit profile and I rarely show up on searches I still get mail. Weird.

My best friend is a sock so I think you should find people are still going to be interested in meeting you.

Just don't trust those fingerless gloves...

Is it a crusty sock? "

Are you implying that the demi-god of swing, traveller of the time-space-continuum-wormhole-thready-thingies, the great Invictus himself, uses a mop sock!!!!

...but yes. He is a bit crusty...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Considering I'm just a shoe with a shit profile and I rarely show up on searches I still get mail. Weird.

My best friend is a sock so I think you should find people are still going to be interested in meeting you.

Just don't trust those fingerless gloves...

Is it a crusty sock?

Are you implying that the demi-god of swing, traveller of the time-space-continuum-wormhole-thready-thingies, the great Invictus himself, uses a mop sock!!!!

...but yes. He is a bit crusty...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What the average amount of messages the each group of people get eg how many for couples , women , men etc

It varies on the time of the day from guys. The numbers drop significantly when the wives comes home and goes up again when they go to bed.

Iv noticed that too lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What the average amount of messages the each group of people get eg how many for couples , women , men etc

It varies on the time of the day from guys. The numbers drop significantly when the wives comes home and goes up again when they go to bed.

Iv noticed that too lol "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Considering I'm just a shoe with a shit profile and I rarely show up on searches I still get mail. Weird.

My best friend is a sock so I think you should find people are still going to be interested in meeting you.

Just don't trust those fingerless gloves...

Is it a crusty sock?

Are you implying that the demi-god of swing, traveller of the time-space-continuum-wormhole-thready-thingies, the great Invictus himself, uses a mop sock!!!!

...but yes. He is a bit crusty...

Oops sorry I was mesmerised by the arse avatar. Thought it was Mark the Ninja. I didn't spot the glitter.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't get that many. The ones I reply to are usually from friends, most of the rest are the usual one liners, so probably less than ten a day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't get that many. The ones I reply to are usually from friends, most of the rest are the usual one liners, so probably less than ten a day."

Ten is a good amount though x don't wanna get over run with to many messages x

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

What are these message things that you speak of...??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What are these message things that you speak of...??

They're rare as unicorn shit

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