FabSwingers.com forum: to cuddle or not too

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That is the question.

For me cuddles are not a part of sex... Unless its with someone your close to...

I'm quite happy to cuddle up on the sofa with a mate watching a movie or when someone is upset.. me or them... But that's very different to cuddling up post sex or even mid sex

But if a meet wanted to cuddle up... I'm very uncomfortable with it... Yet quite happy to with long term partner..

Am I weird....

I have talked to friends and mostly the divide is completely single... They cuddle meets... Part of a couple...then they don't..

So I'm curious ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can appreciate where you're coming from.

Being crude to put my point across...I don't whisper sweet nothings to my spam javelin after masturbating,

So why would I do it to someone I know for the single reason of sexual gratification?

I love cuddles and small talk, but only with those I have a real connection to.

As it says on my profile actually!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I've never been one for cuddles. I may do a quick spoons with my FB when he stays just prior to sleep - though this has been known to lead to another shag - but I like my space.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only really cuddle with one person. He likes to get in bed and cuddle for a couple of hours. It's nice to feel flesh on flesh and be relaxed. He likes to kiss a lot too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this comes down to how well you get on with that person and what ever understanding you both have.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I love cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a regular FWB that occassionally stays overnight and we do have a cuddle in bed, and when in relationshops i love a good snuggle, but other than that i generally dont, the most a meet gets is a quick farewell hug at the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex without cuddles is a bit unsatisfying for me. I prefer more intimacy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a regular FWB that occassionally stays overnight and we do have a cuddle in bed, and when in relationshops i love a good snuggle, but other than that i generally dont, the most a meet gets is a quick farewell hug at the door "

See this is what I'm like..

Although ive not spent the whole night in bed with someone for many years xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cuddling

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I like cuddling, I enjoy the touching after sex....little strokes and kisses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cuddles no hugs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cuddle my teddy!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like cuddling, I enjoy the touching after sex....little strokes and kisses

Would you do that with a meet though?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I think this comes down to how well you get on with that person and what ever understanding you both have. "

I disagree. I adored my husband but still didn't really cuddle him. I'm not a cuddly kind of person.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I like to cuddle if it's on offer, as a single person it's one of the things I miss but you have to gauge what the the other person is comfortable with too, if he said "get over here for a cuddle" I'm not going to refuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was single and meeting, I wouldn't cuddle...too much like dating...not for me...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I di it all without strict rules on the type of relationship. Some people are more matched for hugs and cuddles and sometimes I application them more.

I like to be non formulaic and just be spontaneous. I'm sensitive and also love a range of physical intimacy.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"I like cuddling, I enjoy the touching after sex....little strokes and kisses

Would you do that with a meet though?"

We have a lot of repeat meets and some have become very close friends

I am good either way, if someone gets off the bed and starts getting dressed then that's fine, if they lay there stroking and cuddling that's good too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love cuddling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to go against the grain here (yet again!). I'm part of a couple and often cuddle up with those I meet.....and what's more my husband loves hearing about the sensual side of my meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I adore being stoked and cuddled... But....just couldn't do it with a meet . Would feel very wrong x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss cuddles. Id be quite happy with a cuddle on someone's sofa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel weird if I don't get cuddles after sex :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile does state I am a really warm and tactile kind of person so I like it pretty intimate to be honest, but this is dependant on who I am meeting and how the chemistry is and if we both feel comfortable, for me casual sex does not mean it has to be lacking warmth etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aww yer have got to lay and have a cuddle after sex I treat my meets like we are lovers Even if it just for that one night it's lovely to both do all the things you miss been single without all the stuff that goes with been in a relationship Or maybe that is just me and the ladies I have tended to meet c

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like cuddling, I enjoy the touching after sex....little strokes and kisses

Would you do that with a meet though?"

Yes I would x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"aww yer have got to lay and have a cuddle after sex I treat my meets like we are lovers Even if it just for that one night it's lovely to both do all the things you miss been single without all the stuff that goes with been in a relationship Or maybe that is just me and the ladies I have tended to meet c"

My play partner is the same and yet I hate the thought of cuddling up both me.. or him. Once ive finished I want them to go. Yet I'm not the same with my play partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very tactile and love to cuddle and touch, love after sex snuggling up, kissing and stroking before round 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, you are weird

On the question of cuddling, that is a mood thing and requires you both in a certain space, so there is no right or wrong answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the nature of two people, and their connection / understanding.

I'm not generally cuddly if it's time to sleep, love a good starfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never cuddle if I am meeting with hubby (ie threesome or full swap) but will cuddle when I meet alone. Don't cuddle with all meets though... Depends on the person, the mood and how much time we have.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Am a bit of a cuddler myself whether it be a long term partner or a meet.

Feels right to be cuddled up recovering rather than getting dressed and leaving, which IMO is wrong but everyone will see it differently

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm very tactile and love to cuddle and touch, love after sex snuggling up, kissing and stroking before round 2

Lol see this I agree with if it's someone you have feelings for... But I'd not snuggle or kiss before round 2. But I also mostly meet in clubs so its different.

Seems a lot more people find it odd to not do it though x

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down

Love cuddles...man or woman...

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By *renchDeliceMan
over a year ago

Consett

"I'm very tactile and love to cuddle and touch, love after sex snuggling up, kissing and stroking before round 2

+1 for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very tactile and love to cuddle and touch, love after sex snuggling up, kissing and stroking before round 2

Lol see this I agree with if it's someone you have feelings for... But I'd not snuggle or kiss before round 2. But I also mostly meet in clubs so its different.

Seems a lot more people find it odd to not do it though x "
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It is not odd it is just what you prefer, your not comfortable with that so you don't do it and that is what is best

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By *lttattoocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"I like cuddling, I enjoy the touching after sex....little strokes and kisses

Would you do that with a meet though?

We have a lot of repeat meets and some have become very close friends

I am good either way, if someone gets off the bed and starts getting dressed then that's fine, if they lay there stroking and cuddling that's good too

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I won't cuddle on a meet, it's not what I'm there for, not even with those I am friends with. Doesn't mean I want him to cum, roll off, fart, wipe his cock on the curtains and bugger off

I like to chat a bit and stroking is nice. But no cuddles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men have such a lovely body you can't help wanting to cuddle him

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I have some friends who, after we've shagged each other's brains out, wrap themselves around me in a massive, protecting, coming down from a huge cum, cuddle.

I can't do sex without some intimacy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some men have such a lovely body you can't help wanting to cuddle him "

I may want to but if it was a meet I'd resist x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is the question.

For me cuddles are not a part of sex... Unless its with someone your close to...

I'm quite happy to cuddle up on the sofa with a mate watching a movie or when someone is upset.. me or them... But that's very different to cuddling up post sex or even mid sex

But if a meet wanted to cuddle up... I'm very uncomfortable with it... Yet quite happy to with long term partner..

Am I weird....

I have talked to friends and mostly the divide is completely single... They cuddle meets... Part of a couple...then they don't..

So I'm curious ... "

Let's have a group hug!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That is the question.

For me cuddles are not a part of sex... Unless its with someone your close to...

I'm quite happy to cuddle up on the sofa with a mate watching a movie or when someone is upset.. me or them... But that's very different to cuddling up post sex or even mid sex

But if a meet wanted to cuddle up... I'm very uncomfortable with it... Yet quite happy to with long term partner..

Am I weird....

I have talked to friends and mostly the divide is completely single... They cuddle meets... Part of a couple...then they don't..

So I'm curious ...

Let's have a group hug!!!"
haha.. see that's fine too xx it's more one on one I'm on about x I think men like it more than women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is the question.

For me cuddles are not a part of sex... Unless its with someone your close to...

I'm quite happy to cuddle up on the sofa with a mate watching a movie or when someone is upset.. me or them... But that's very different to cuddling up post sex or even mid sex

But if a meet wanted to cuddle up... I'm very uncomfortable with it... Yet quite happy to with long term partner..

Am I weird....

I have talked to friends and mostly the divide is completely single... They cuddle meets... Part of a couple...then they don't..

So I'm curious ...

Let's have a group hug!!!haha.. see that's fine too xx it's more one on one I'm on about x I think men like it more than women"

I've always wondered why I've been called bloke bird in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I just bust a nut and get the fuck out of there as quick as I can.

Probably sounds wrong but to me so does sex with no kissing and cuddling.

But we are all different I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cuddles but addmitinly i only do this with certain guys who i meet off here. But it is only a selected few who i meet regular. There is one guy who i meet and he stays over so we treat these meets like dates. And for that one night every so often we are lovers for the night but without the hassle of being a relationship.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men have such a lovely body you can't help wanting to cuddle him

I may want to but if it was a meet I'd resist x"

come here giz a cuddle

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Depends on the person but generally I don't cuddle up with meets unless it is a regular fb that I spend nights with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex and cuddling are two seperate things for me.

I have a friend and we cuddle and hold hands but in the thirty years I've known her it's never been sexual between us

. I like cuddling Mrs P after sex but I don't really cuddle our meets. Sometimes lay entwined for a few minutes but that doesn't constitute cuddling to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a cuddle after, but I'm quite a cuddly and tactile person with my friends anyway so it's not out of character for me.

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By *renchDeliceMan
over a year ago

Consett

"I like a cuddle after, but I'm quite a cuddly and tactile person with my friends anyway so it's not out of character for me. "

Tactile me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cuddle with my man, but I wouldn't cuddle a guy on a meet. Different for the girls. I love to cuddle a lady. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to cuddle and kissing as foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a one-on-one meet (which is most of my meets) then intimacy is essential for me! There just wouldn't be any chemistry for me without it! So yeah - who wants the first cuddle guys??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a cuddle, gentle stroking and kissing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope I just bust a nut and get the fuck out of there as quick as I can.

Probably sounds wrong but to me so does sex with no kissing and cuddling.

But we are all different I guess."

You never cuddled and massaged a woman after or during sex?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

cuddles are great

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It depends on the person, to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope I just bust a nut and get the fuck out of there as quick as I can.

Probably sounds wrong but to me so does sex with no kissing and cuddling.

But we are all different I guess.

You never cuddled and massaged a woman after or during sex? "

I think you have misunderstood my point

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By *renchDeliceMan
over a year ago

Consett

"On a one-on-one meet (which is most of my meets) then intimacy is essential for me! There just wouldn't be any chemistry for me without it! So yeah - who wants the first cuddle guys??

Moi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope I just bust a nut and get the fuck out of there as quick as I can.

Probably sounds wrong but to me so does sex with no kissing and cuddling.

But we are all different I guess.

You never cuddled and massaged a woman after or during sex?

I think you have misunderstood my point

I am totally bloody confused! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cuddles are great"
Where,s me Teddy haha..

he,s always ready for a cuddle thou i,d prefer a female..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A quick cuddle I don't mind with a meet but a full on coco and slippers is not what I am looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On a one-on-one meet (which is most of my meets) then intimacy is essential for me! There just wouldn't be any chemistry for me without it! So yeah - who wants the first cuddle guys??

Moi!

Ok - but a hell of a long way to come for a cuddle!!

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By *renchDeliceMan
over a year ago

Consett

"On a one-on-one meet (which is most of my meets) then intimacy is essential for me! There just wouldn't be any chemistry for me without it! So yeah - who wants the first cuddle guys??

Moi!

Ok - but a hell of a long way to come for a cuddle!!

Bolt on more than a cuddle and it could be arranged!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cuddles and happy to cuddle men i meet, it's just a cuddle I do it cause it feels nice, no other reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to cuddles jack but don't think he would be amused if I cuddled up to a meet lol

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

I love cuddles specially after sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love cuddles and happy to cuddle men i meet, it's just a cuddle I do it cause it feels nice, no other reason "

This

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

I think cuddles should be mandatory...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't and don't do cold and clinical sex. Cuddles, intimacy and being tactile doesn't have to involve feelings or love.

I wouldn't be able to fully connect to someone who just wanted to fuck and leave....just not my style at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to cuddle with one of my meets after we had sex.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i cuddle with alot of men that i meet ..i like meets to last all weekend so i can feel comfortable ...it means nothing more than i am in my comfort zone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to cuddle after sex.

In a bi threesome I do love being in the middle of a intimate embrace. All three of us sharing the moment.

But that's just me

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I don't mind a cuddle afterwards, but they need to wake me up first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love to cuddle after sex.

In a bi threesome I do love being in the middle of a intimate embrace. All three of us sharing the moment.

But that's just me

that sounds lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't mind a cuddle afterwards, but they need to wake me up first "

It's more fun if they wake you up before the shag.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I don't mind a cuddle afterwards, but they need to wake me up first

It's more fun if they wake you up before the shag. "

Hahaha

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

ewww !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bugger that! Get em out of the boot of the car before the drugs wear off

Gimp

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

cant beat a good cuddle before and after sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to cuddle and it normally gets me all horny again

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Yes. ..it is weird to let someone fuck you but not let him put an arm around your waist.

It means nothing but you are ascribing meaning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on the guy and the meet. I have couple of fbs that I've known a long time so a post shag cuddle and catch up have become comfortable but I guess we're friends too now. New meets it varies but tend to find that whilst there may be a chat with some physical contact it's rarely as intimate, but still nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles n sex .....yep. A different thing. Very rare I cuddle with a "meet" unless a very regular one....and they staying overnight. So yes there are a few of them (they know who they are if this gets back to them)

I also have a very special friend (now back on here). We met on fab...yes we fucked several times but didn't really cuddle. We came to be really good friends. We go away at weekends to her caravan. We cuddle as we share the same bed....but we don't do the horizontal jogging thing as it would now mess with our heads a bit.

Actually that was until she came round rather over horny last Wednesday to be "fixed"... Which we did ...but had to be rather distant/mechanical about it...to keep separate from our friendship.

At the weekend...back to the caravan and sharing a bed. We got away with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends who I am meeting , sometimes its a quick fuck and go , sometimes its an all night slow sensual session.

I can live without a cuddle

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Oh yes, I love to embrace and stroke, if both people are sensuous by nature it just comes automatically I find. I had the most fabulous back stroking given to me by a meet recently, it was so therapeutic - I'd really like explore more of the tantric side of sensuality.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"On a one-on-one meet (which is most of my meets) then intimacy is essential for me! There just wouldn't be any chemistry for me without it! So yeah - who wants the first cuddle guys??

I think that might be me!

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"I can't and don't do cold and clinical sex. Cuddles, intimacy and being tactile doesn't have to involve feelings or love.

I wouldn't be able to fully connect to someone who just wanted to fuck and leave....just not my style at all."

I couldn't have put that better myself !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't and don't do cold and clinical sex. Cuddles, intimacy and being tactile doesn't have to involve feelings or love.

I wouldn't be able to fully connect to someone who just wanted to fuck and leave....just not my style at all."

It's not cold and clinical. . But I don't want a meet to cuddle me... After sex I may ( I mostly meet in clubs so not often happens) lay and talk But I will move away from skin to skin...

I'm naturally tactile and love to be stroked and touched... But therre is a time and a place in my view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't and don't do cold and clinical sex. Cuddles, intimacy and being tactile doesn't have to involve feelings or love.

I wouldn't be able to fully connect to someone who just wanted to fuck and leave....just not my style at all.

It's not cold and clinical. . But I don't want a meet to cuddle me... After sex I may ( I mostly meet in clubs so not often happens) lay and talk But I will move away from skin to skin...

I'm naturally tactile and love to be stroked and touched... But therre is a time and a place in my view. "

Well it is cold, humans are naturally demonstrative and you are choosing not to engage in that level of intimacy.

We're all different though and enjoy different levels of intimacy, I don't think there is a right or wrong answer as long as both parties are happy with it.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"That is the question.

For me cuddles are not a part of sex... Unless its with someone your close to...

I'm quite happy to cuddle up on the sofa with a mate watching a movie or when someone is upset.. me or them... But that's very different to cuddling up post sex or even mid sex

But if a meet wanted to cuddle up... I'm very uncomfortable with it... Yet quite happy to with long term partner..

Am I weird....

I have talked to friends and mostly the divide is completely single... They cuddle meets... Part of a couple...then they don't..

So I'm curious ... "

For me, sex consists of foreplay, sex and afterplay (cuddles). Take out any one of those and I feel cheated.

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over a year ago

"I only really cuddle with one person. He likes to get in bed and cuddle for a couple of hours. It's nice to feel flesh on flesh and be relaxed. He likes to kiss a lot too "

Me too x

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

I like a cuddle from time to time

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I love cuddles too.

...although cuddling a friend once led to more than we both intended

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Think it depends on the person my meets are all friends and there is a certain amount of intimacy I guess for those who meet for just sex it would be uncomfortable but for me to just have sex without that intimacy wouldnt feel right and yup can also be post cpl meet before returning to my bed or falling asleep there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love cuddles too.

...although cuddling a friend once led to more than we both intended

Poor Funky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love cuddles too.

...although cuddling a friend once led to more than we both intended

That's my problem,I can't cuddle without wanting more

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