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Dress code for men when meeting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi is there a dress code as I wear a suit most of the time and I felt over dressed once when meeting a couple , so do the ladies prefer jeans and casual shirts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. A suit is fine, especially if a man is coming from work where he wears it.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It depends when and where you are meeting. Wear what you wear and feel comfortable wearing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wear what you wear and feel comfortable wearing.

"

I would never dress to meet someone elses expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just smart casual does me, if a guy turned up for a meet with me in a suit I would feel he was over dressed but I suppose the main thing is that they are comfortable and clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What ever you feel comfortable in an you can relax more when your comfortable. Once your clean an tidy an smell good your good to go!!!

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I will admit to being turned off at a guy in a tracksuit.

Jeans and a t-shirt or a shirt is fine, as is a suit!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wear shorts and t shirt when at home , but as soon as I need to go out it's a suit . That's what 34 years military service will do to you I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear what I feel good in. Time, place and type of meet play their part in helping me to choose something I want to wear that, in my mind, fits the context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did have a guy once who turned up in dirty jeans and a very scruffy t shirt which had seen better days. Put me off straight away. I personally prefer smart casual, and obviously clean

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I wear what's comfortable.

Fez

Velvet smoking jacket

cravat

Persian slippers

brown Y fronts (cream Y)

(No trousers ladies)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looks like I need to get lots of jeans and casual wear try and loss the officer and gentleman look

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry typo not loss but lose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing the Officer and a Gentleman look in the right context, carried off well, could be very appealing to some

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Looks like I need to get lots of jeans and casual wear try and loss the officer and gentleman look "

You can do smart casual. Have a look at loosening or losing the tie and jacket and see how comfortable you feel.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks could try that , the officer and gentleman look is drummed into you over the years , from guardsman to major in the queens guards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cannot over use a classic T jacket.

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By *utmegsMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think


"You cannot over use a classic T jacket. "

I feel the need; the need for t!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend not to wear a dress when meeting women. I find it puts them right off

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

My Class IV Power-Armour with the Auto-vibrator and Mechanical-flail attachments usually goes down well ...

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By *mmie2014Man
over a year ago

London


"Looks like I need to get lots of jeans and casual wear try and loss the officer and gentleman look "

No you don't. The advice given is generally to be comfortable. Being comfortable means or, will show, having confidence, which is priceless in this game.

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24


"I tend not to wear a dress when meeting women. I find it puts them right off"

You've got me ol in Costco car park. Thanks for that vision lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wear what's comfortable.

Fez

Velvet smoking jacket

cravat

Persian slippers

brown Y fronts (cream Y)

(No trousers ladies)"

Yes I can confirm the above is true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure ladies will spend a lot more time to get ready for meets than you will OP. I take an hour but I've read that other ladies will take a lot longer.

So with that in mind, it's nice for us ladies to see that any meets have also spent a bit of time and effort in their appearance and presentation too.

It's very of putting when people ( men and ladies) turn up, looking like they've barely seen the shower and thrown on their nearest greying underwear.

Please also read in conjunction with my hygiene thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last meet was a grey Tshirt and scruffy drop knee joggers. It was at a wet club and I thought I was going to be nekkid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who I am meeting and where. Also how long I will spend wearing clothes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice casual shirt, jeans and a good pair.of shoes, nice aftershave and a fresh smell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

String vest sandals brown socks

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"String vest sandals brown socks

Her"
its a shame gimp doesn't have your dress sense

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I just allow the circumstances and the place of meeting to define what I wear. I would generally avoid going straight from work (unless its lunch) because I would want a shower so I smell fresh and clean.

Smart casual is usually the way though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You cannot over use a classic T jacket.

I feel the need; the need for t!"

I am nicking that as my status!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like smart casual really but indeed as others have said whatever you feel comfortable in, you have to come across and comfy in your own skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear what you are comfy in

It's a meet not a fashion shoot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"String vest sandals brown socks

Herits a shame gimp doesn't have your dress sense "

Oi man of Mystery theres nothing wrong with a Balaclava butchers apron and waders

Hannibal Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive met women where theyve wanted me 'fresh' from work. Apparently the dirty overalls an smell of car is a turn on for some

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My clothes don't stay on long so no-one is bothered what I wear.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Nice casual shirt, jeans and a good pair.of shoes, nice aftershave and a fresh smell "

That would work...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would wear what I am comfortable in, I would never consider dressing to someone else's requirement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All about location and what you feel comfortable in, sure a suit is better than turning up scruffy or in a tracksuit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shower fresh n smelling nice does it for me although I wouldn't want tracky bottoms n scraggy tea shirt

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Ive met women where theyve wanted me 'fresh' from work. Apparently the dirty overalls an smell of car is a turn on for some "

I have played out that scenario I few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive met women where theyve wanted me 'fresh' from work. Apparently the dirty overalls an smell of car is a turn on for some

I have played out that scenario I few times "

Ooh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can never be too over dressed, better than looking scruffy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you can never be too over dressed, better than looking scruffy."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you can never be too over dressed, better than looking scruffy.

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Just rejoined another site like this and got a couple of messages from tidy looking men in suits, was impressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I liked the guy I wouldn't care if he came dressed as a banana.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"If I liked the guy I wouldn't care if he came dressed as a banana. "
funny you should say that, i often meet in my banana suit seems popular

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Smart casual, definitely clean. Op I tend to go for younger but definitely have a soft spot for guys who wear suits or even better uniforms (my own personal preference). I wouldn't worry about wearing suits if you've had no direct complaints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends I don't wear high street stuff, I like to wear clothes with clean, simple lines and colours (mainly blacks). The feel of my look mainly comes down to what shoes I'm wearing. So I'm very versatile on what I'd wear to meet anyone I have a lot of clothes to mix and match. So yea ...Plenty of style over here

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Hi is there a dress code as I wear a suit most of the time and I felt over dressed once when meeting a couple , so do the ladies prefer jeans and casual shirts "
. Smart casual jacket , ironed casual trousers , ironed casual shirt , clean shoes , freshly shaved and aftershave . Would never wear jeans , a t shirt or trainers . Looks scruffy

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By *ercedes_SLKMan
over a year ago

nottingham

ALWAYS wear a collar....

Its a particular annoyance with me to see fellas walking around in round neck t shirts.

A smart polo shirt with a collar as a minimum for a meet.

Smelling fresh, with nice aftershave

Clean pants and trousers/jeans

Clean shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi is there a dress code as I wear a suit most of the time and I felt over dressed once when meeting a couple , so do the ladies prefer jeans and casual shirts "

Personally I would prefer a guy who has come home changed into something casual but clean and not scruffy. Clean and tidy is the most important thins for me rather than something a guy has worn all day.

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