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By *supermen OP   Couple (MM)
over a year ago

North London

Suppose a lot of people have gone through this but how do you overcome the nerves when attending a swingers club for first time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had drink.

We didn't come out of our room for two hours.

But you get used to it so quickly and almost everyone is lovely. Nobody is going to pounce on you do try to enjoy yourself.

X

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Suppose a lot of people have gone through this but how do you overcome the nerves when attending a swingers club for first time... "

Single girls do it without effort............you shouldn't have a problem, just hold each others hand for comfort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got to admit, I was in my comfort zone when I first went into a club!..was everything I expected..& loved it!.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just Imagine you are in a pub....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The nerves are all part of the excitement. Youll be like a rabbit caught in headlights at the sights. Just go without any expectations of what the night will bring

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

making me smile as I remember our first club visit! A friend of ours had recently started swinging. Told us all about the club, and how much we would enjoy it... Friend drove us... I remember being so excited, but nervy too. As we parked up remember thinkin WTF are we doing here?! Had a large swig of Brandy n just went with it lol ...

Loved it! Like a breath of fresh air and never looked back!

Natural to be nervy as its the unknown! We went to same one a few times before being ready to try others... You may well wonder why ya left it so long... Enjoy and keep a smile on ya faces!

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

We have been going to different clubs for years now and im still nervous when trying a new one as never know what to expect or who will be there but very rare im disappointed ......everyone in most cases are very friendly so take the bull by the horns and go for it

You will wonder why you never did it earlier

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Single girls do it without effort............you shouldn't have a problem, just hold each others hand for comfort. "

Lol I wish it was without effort! I recently had my first visit to a club (all on my own) and stood across the road from it trying to pluck up the courage to go in for about 25 minutes, then it took me about an hour to stop shaking with nerves when I got in. Turns out I was worried for nothing because I had THE BEST time and can't wait to go again! Take the plunge you will love it! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Single girls do it without effort............you shouldn't have a problem, just hold each others hand for comfort.

Lol I wish it was without effort! I recently had my first visit to a club (all on my own) and stood across the road from it trying to pluck up the courage to go in for about 25 minutes, then it took me about an hour to stop shaking with nerves when I got in. Turns out I was worried for nothing because I had THE BEST time and can't wait to go again! Take the plunge you will love it! X"

We have been to clubs as well, where a woman has been on her own and is an absolute bag of nerves. But also met one who was fine.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I have been clubbing on and off for years, I still get really nervous when trying a new club or if I haven't been to one in a while. I went to a club on sat yes I was nervous but like other people have said take bull by the horn and go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This would help me a bit as well. As I'm seriously looking into attending a club/social or two to see if it's for me or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time my partner and I went he couldn't get it up!! Second time we went I was on my knees in the glory hole at Chams and he's as hard as I've ever seen him!

If at first you don't succeed try again!!

We've not looked back since. A few bad occasions, but mostly good. And everyone's soooo friendly. We've made some great friends. xx

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