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People who look similar are they attracted the same people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To make' sense of my title... over the years I've noticed this but when someone fancies you do u think that people who look similar do also.

i.e a woman is attracted to you, then someone similar looking to that woman is attracted to you also?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I doubt it very much,they're different people after all

But ive never really thought about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never crossed my mind but of course, I might feel attracted to them if they remind me of someone else I like.

Until you get to know them and realise they're a shitbag lol.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Actually quite interesting..

Having thought about it for a minutes.. I think you are attracted to specific types (I know I am - brainy, sexy dark hair, size 6 sort of does it for me - although this is first impressions rather than getting to know you territory) and maybe then put yourself in a situation where it may be reciprocated.

Sort of leads onto the whether people are out f your league or not.. which the twitter "shit my dad says" has a neat thing to say about it... "Son, women have a hundred reasons not to sleep with you - don't add to the list"...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just mentioned because some women who are attracted to me have have been similar looking.

Then again its just a theory and we all know what their like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"which the twitter "shit my dad says" has a neat thing to say about it... "Son, women have a hundred reasons not to sleep with you - don't add to the list"...

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LOL I love that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sound advice from dad hey lol

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"I just mentioned because some women who are attracted to me have have been similar looking.

Then again its just a theory and we all know what their like lol"

Are they the type of women that you're attracted too as well? would be a bummer if they wer'nt

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"To make' sense of my title... over the years I've noticed this but when someone fancies you do u think that people who look similar do also.

i.e a woman is attracted to you, then someone similar looking to that woman is attracted to you also?

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There was a survey done not so long ago that said we marry people who we look similar too, nose shape, eye shape etc, so you could be right

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I look nothing like Rob though.............that could explain a lot actually

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well I always seem to like the dirty mischievous type lol

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"well I always seem to like the dirty mischievous type lol

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LOL thats not a look that a type

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeh but they have that Look in their eye lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could be on to summat 'ere. My last three girlfriends all had a Golden Labrador, wore dark glasses and had a white stick

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I usually attracted the nutters lol

I don't mind rich, dirty nutters though lol

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"Actually quite interesting..

Having thought about it for a minutes.. I think you are attracted to specific types (I know I am - brainy, sexy dark hair, size 6 sort of does it for me - although this is first impressions rather than getting to know you territory) and maybe then put yourself in a situation where it may be reciprocated.

Sort of leads onto the whether people are out f your league or not.. which the twitter "shit my dad says" has a neat thing to say about it... "Son, women have a hundred reasons not to sleep with you - don't add to the list"...

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there is an american sitcom starting based on that twitter thing,,starring william shatner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To make' sense of my title... over the years I've noticed this but when someone fancies you do u think that people who look similar do also.

i.e a woman is attracted to you, then someone similar looking to that woman is attracted to you also?

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If attraction is partly do to personality your theory goes up in smoke.

Purely physical no or all the tall skinny guys would all fancy the same short round women for example and you don't see that combination out holding hands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do on Jeremy Kyle!

We've known couples outside of swinging who you'd think were brother and sister......spooky.

Also,how many couples profiles say "Looking to meet similar"?

It seems that like attracts like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first wife was 5'0, olive-skinned with long black hair, whereas Siren is 5'10, fair-skinned and blonde.

Couldn't get more different if I tried lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do "Opposites Attract"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no i agree, 3 or 4 guys i've met have a similar look. i've also found when checking out the people in their friends lists, i am nearly alsways accompanied by the same 5 or 6 girls and we're all similar in build and look lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex-husband was 6ft, 12.5 stones, shaved head, athletic build and black.

My playmates are all around 6ft 12-13 stones, shaved (close cropped hair) athletic build but white.

Could be something in it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first met Andy ** years ago many of his friends asked him if I was one of his sisters as we have a similar look especially our colouring (fair hair, and pale skin!!). Before that I'd always favoured dark haired guys. But there must be something in it, as we're still laughing and having as much fun as when we first got together. Probably more since we've been on Fab!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everybody has different tastes,do not think looking alike makes you fancy the same looking person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could be on to summat 'ere. My last three girlfriends all had a Golden Labrador, wore dark glasses and had a white stick "

it's strange that as I have a theory that anyone that gets a golden Labrador mysteriously turns blind !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

blimey it could be true hey then again my last few girlfriends have varied to be honest, last gf was black 6"0 tall short black hair, one before was 5"7 white long blonde hair so im not so sure now hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am one of a kind lol

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