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so many timewasters why do they bother

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can't belive how many timewasters there are on the site why do they bother to arrange with no intention I wish they could be named and shamed on an area of the site then 3 strikes and then off

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Ooooh goody, another timewaster thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't belive how many timewasters there are on the site why do they bother to arrange with no intention I wish they could be named and shamed on an area of the site then 3 strikes and then off "

I understand your frustration but that would never work - too open for abuse. Block and move on, and make sure your pre meet checks are more robust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the point they can just rejoin in a new name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just had dealings with a "lady" who turned out to be a complete timewaster. I wish I could name and shame her, but what's the point? It is annoying after getting to know someone over a month or so by phone and text, agreeing to meet, having it cancelled under dubious circumstances, re-arranging another meet, having that cancelled and when asking them what's going on, to be deleted and blocked instantly.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"I have just had dealings with a "lady" who turned out to be a complete timewaster. I wish I could name and shame her, but what's the point? It is annoying after getting to know someone over a month or so by phone and text, agreeing to meet, having it cancelled under dubious circumstances, re-arranging another meet, having that cancelled and when asking them what's going on, to be deleted and blocked instantly. "

Why would you arrange a 2nd meet after she cancelled the first meet under dubious circumstances?

Sometimes there are genuine reasons for a cancellation but if its a crap excuse then i don't give a 2nd chance.

If i do give a 2nd chance and she cancels the 3rd time then it is the block button!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave her the benifit of the doubt the first time, as it "could" have been gen, but the circumstances were a bit strange. I am nothing if not fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a new cult lol.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

stop wasting your time moaning about timewasters,its a waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we just state for the record.

We are timewasters and we never meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because there probably fake

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

or any of the other answers countless others have given on the same subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single men are just as bad! Arrange to meet at a club, they spend the next two days messaging 'are we still on for Sat' etc and then they don't turn up! Honestly don't know what they get out of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

End of the day were all a bunch of wankers on here haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not! haha the search continues ....

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"I can't belive how many timewasters there are on the site why do they bother to arrange with no intention I wish they could be named and shamed on an area of the site then 3 strikes and then off "
What is your definition of a time waster . Did you arrange the meet by phone and did you maked a realistic assessment of what you had to offer them ? Not complaints with the people I meet . But I am also realistic in my expectations and what I have to offer

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Why do they do it?

Because they get off on the fantasy but can't have, or don't want the reality, for some reason.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Well everyone needs a hobby.

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