FabSwingers.com forum: rudeness

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would like to say that manners dont cost anything, i always approach ladies on here with respect and kindness. A fair few are quite rude and even abusive. Is it me or are others having the same kind of problems. Does this site attract an element of self absorbed attention seekers, i have been to a couple of clubs and find its a friendly atmosphere.this site dosnt reflect that unless there are just some nutters who wouldnt dare actually swing

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"IDoes this site attract an element of self absorbed attention seekers, "

yup, me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean by being rude?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they get 300 messages a day. Get a bit stuck on themselves. Just block and forget

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I quite like a bit of verbal sexualised abuse when I'm shagging a hot lady

then she can be as rude as she likes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they get 300 messages a day. Get a bit stuck on themselves. Just block and forget

Do women on here really get 300 messages a day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are behind a bloody screen, does it matter, get face to face with people.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define rude?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you consider rude?

Be more expansive Op let it all out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did they do to be rude?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"Because they get 300 messages a day. Get a bit stuck on themselves. Just block and forget

Do women on here really get 300 messages a day?"

I wonder what the average is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is this Enid Blyton world of swinging so many on here seem to crave?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it possible that they are just being blunt and honest? Not necessarily rude?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they get 300 messages a day. Get a bit stuck on themselves. Just block and forget

Do women on here really get 300 messages a day?"

My friend recently rejoined. She got over 400 in the first day. Without putting up any meets or anything....so yes. They do!

They can't possibly reply to all. Read the FAQ's on the advice pages. It is NOT rude to delete a message without reply. Especially as some of the single guys here message women....miles away...not looking for their age range... One liners..... Not but cock pics....... Cannot accommodate (so assumed to be married - not my judgement btw)..... Need I go on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they get 300 messages a day. Get a bit stuck on themselves. Just block and forget

Do women on here really get 300 messages a day?

My friend recently rejoined. She got over 400 in the first day. Without putting up any meets or anything....so yes. They do!

I am aware of the rules thanks! That's not what I was asking about!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think u know what i mean by being rude, too many sweets to choose in the sweet shop may well be it but if people really are getting 300 a day then i am not suprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if people are getting 300 messages a day,it doesn't mean they have a right to be rude or abusive to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you mean rude as in being impolite or bordering on abusive then obviously it's not nice. That applies to all walks of life. Especially these days as the Internet creates a more pronounced buffer between us all.

Personally speaking, and I've been back just over a year, I've not had that- yet.

*Touch Wood*... And yes, I mean that in the metaphorical sense. Dirty minds

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I think u know what i mean by being rude, too many sweets to choose in the sweet shop may well be it but if people really are getting 300 a day then i am not suprised "

Not really, no.

All sorts of things are described as rude on here, from not replying, to sending abusive messages, to blocking people, to daring to be on "a sex site" and yet declining to meet someone.

Just about everything that doesn't suit some people is described as "rude" on here at times.

So what sort of "rudeness" is it that's bothering you?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"If you mean rude as in being impolite or bordering on abusive then obviously it's not nice. That applies to all walks of life. Especially these days as the Internet creates a more pronounced buffer between us all.

Personally speaking, and I've been back just over a year, I've not had that- yet.

*Touch Wood*... And yes, I mean that in the metaphorical sense. Dirty minds

*reaches out to touch wood.....no, draws hand back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think u know what i mean by being rude, too many sweets to choose in the sweet shop may well be it but if people really are getting 300 a day then i am not suprised "

Don't really understand what you mean by rude though?

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