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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd like to try a 3 sum with my girlfriend, she's not to keen though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So respect her.....

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I'd like to try a 3 sum with my girlfriend, she's not to keen though."

so what do you think you should do

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"I'd like to try a 3 sum with my girlfriend, she's not to keen though.

so what do you think you should do "
Scarlet has already answered that for him

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I'd like to try a 3 sum with my girlfriend, she's not to keen though."

for some its a big step to involve others, listen to what she wants and don't pressure her maybe with time etc she will feel more inclined or she wont..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So respect her....."

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not that she isn't keen, it's fining the right person she's worried about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not that she isn't keen, it's fining the right person she's worried about."

Well what is it?

First she isn't keen?

Now she is but you can't find the right person?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"It's not that she isn't keen, it's fining the right person she's worried about."

In that case start a couples profile and let her do the choosing! Or even a single female one of her own - then she could find two guys she wants for the MMF!

Problem solved!

Simple!!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So respect her....."

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not that she isn't keen, it's fining the right person she's worried about.

In that case start a couples profile and let her do the choosing! Or even a single female one of her own - then she could find two guys she wants for the MMF!

Problem solved!

Simple!!

A"

She could find 2 guys she's interested in...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've put that idea to her but she was still abit hesitant. She said as soon as it actually happens she will love it, she just feels abit awkward as to which way we'd go about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've put that idea to her but she was still abit hesitant. She said as soon as it actually happens she will love it, she just feels abit awkward as to which way we'd go about it."

Find some one you like the look of. Meet for a social, she how it progresses.

That's usually the protocol

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"It's not that she isn't keen, it's fining the right person she's worried about.

In that case start a couples profile and let her do the choosing! Or even a single female one of her own - then she could find two guys she wants for the MMF!

Problem solved!

Simple!!

A

She could find 2 guys she's interested in... "

Well the OP did originally say


"I'd like to try a 3 sum with my girlfriend, she's not to keen though."

and then say


"It's not that she isn't keen, it's fining the right person she's worried about."

So it may be she just hasn't found the right two guys yet!

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We'll just have to see what happens.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'd like to try a 3 sum with my girlfriend, she's not to keen though."

Not likely to happen then, is it? Not nice shagging a woman knowing the other doesn't really want to be there, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not that she isn't keen, it's fining the right person she's worried about."

If she's using the words not keen & worried then why push it, she's obviously trying to tell you something so listen to her...!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've discussed it, and we're looking for male to join us in our first mmf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not that she isn't keen, it's fining the right person she's worried about.

If she's using the words not keen & worried then why push it, she's obviously trying to tell you something so listen to her...!!"

So right!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not that she isn't keen, it's fining the right person she's worried about.

If she's using the words not keen & worried then why push it, she's obviously trying to tell you something so listen to her...!!"

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

If you push her, she will push back and it may result in you being pushed out of the picture altogether.

if its good why wreck a relationship if you want something and she doesn't then accept it and move on.

Seen too many relationships fail because the male gets very jealous when their partner has fun with another guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to try a 3 sum with my girlfriend, she's not to keen though."

This is so simple to resolve - get another girlfriend who is keen !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She's read the threads and assured me that she wants to, she says that she was just a bit apprehensive as to how we would go about it. So she says we are looking for that mr right to join us now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's read the threads and assured me that she wants to, she says that she was just a bit apprehensive as to how we would go about it. So she says we are looking for that mr right to join us now. "

Go to a club on a Friday night, she can then see if there are any single men that she fancies & vice versa ~ maybe less daunting option then pre arranging one....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Searching for me right.

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