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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering because ive been on and off this site should i stick at it and no abuse please

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

There are huge amounts of folk meeting each other, the site would collapsed years ago if we don't.

If YOU are not meeting then it's time to reevaluate what YOU are doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if you're on and off why would you get meets?

I would be difficult to build up a rapport if you keep disappearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people meeting, they're just not meeting you.

Change of approach perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering because ive been on and off this site should i stick at it and no abuse please "

I had a meet last night so yes we do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know its just i can be a little impatient

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Just wondering because ive been on and off this site should i stick at it and no abuse please "

I meet up with those I've got to know over the time I've been and stayed on the site, and tend not to meet new folk now, which suits me just fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing you need on here is plenty of patience especially as a young single guy getting started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know its just i can be a little impatient "

This place is all about patience, patience and more...........yep you guessed it, patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You never replied to your invite to the 30 girl ,1 male orgy .

Your named was selected out of the hundreds of single males on here and someone else was then chosen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the site's not working for you, try something else. Don't have it as the only thing you use. We haven't used the site for meets for months. Got too many other things planned.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

your choice.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering because ive been on and off this site should i stick at it and no abuse please "

With status like yours it would put us off to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do meet people, socially and for play times, but I'm not a serial Meeter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet people when I want to

I like it here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to the OP's question- Yes.

This may not be ultimately necessary, or wanted, but I feel compelled to address you on this as a whole.

The first thing I noticed from this thread is that you said you were impatient. That's an absolute no-no for anyone, especially a single male. There are enough single males for someone to surf for a day and not repeat. So you may need to manage your expectations when it comes to Fab.

I had a read of your profile and what it says (blunt as opposed to honest) coupled with your status (already referenced) may not endear you to those you seek.

Getting involved in the forums is a way to show your personality. For better or worse. Lol

Perhaps you can take a look at the (substance of the) profiles of those single men who do get meets and then tailor it to suit you. I don't offer any more profile advice because if I do, or anyone else does, and you adopt it, it ceases to be your profile.

If and when you private message, are you respectful? Are you (too) direct? Are you actually interested in the person/people you message past just a lay? People see this.

And lastly, no matter how good a profile is, or yours can be, there is an element of luck. Right place, right time? Your words resonate with someone? You come across as a fun, attractive personality at that moment in time?

Take this and other more concise comments on board if you wish. Whatever course of action you take, all the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering because ive been on and off this site should i stick at it and no abuse please

With status like yours it would put us off to be honest"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does work. I've only been here a week. Had 3. 3 more booked

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just wondering because ive been on and off this site should i stick at it and no abuse please

With status like yours it would put us off to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does work. I've only been here a week. Had 3. 3 more booked "
oops sorry 4 weeks. Time flys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering because ive been on and off this site should i stick at it and no abuse please "

Oh, don't be silly, of course not!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet but sadly there are no one 1 mile from me, but still hoping lol, so using the forum instead

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" You never replied to your invite to the 30 girl ,1 male orgy .

Your named was selected out of the hundreds of single males on here and someone else was then chosen"

Hey really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's so hard for you to get a meet, why are you advertising for your male friend to get a meet too? I'm fairly sure you can't do that. If he wants a meet, tell him to make his own profile.

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


" You never replied to your invite to the 30 girl ,1 male orgy .

Your named was selected out of the hundreds of single males on here and someone else was then chosen"

I hate you, you told me I was second choice. GUTTED

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In answer to the OP's question- Yes.

This may not be ultimately necessary, or wanted, but I feel compelled to address you on this as a whole.

The first thing I noticed from this thread is that you said you were impatient. That's an absolute no-no for anyone, especially a single male. There are enough single males for someone to surf for a day and not repeat. So you may need to manage your expectations when it comes to Fab.

I had a read of your profile and what it says (blunt as opposed to honest) coupled with your status (already referenced) may not endear you to those you seek.

Getting involved in the forums is a way to show your personality. For better or worse. Lol

Perhaps you can take a look at the (substance of the) profiles of those single men who do get meets and then tailor it to suit you. I don't offer any more profile advice because if I do, or anyone else does, and you adopt it, it ceases to be your profile.

If and when you private message, are you respectful? Are you (too) direct? Are you actually interested in the person/people you message past just a lay? People see this.

And lastly, no matter how good a profile is, or yours can be, there is an element of luck. Right place, right time? Your words resonate with someone? You come across as a fun, attractive personality at that moment in time?

Take this and other more concise comments on board if you wish. Whatever course of action you take, all the best."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's so hard for you to get a meet, why are you advertising for your male friend to get a meet too? I'm fairly sure you can't do that. If he wants a meet, tell him to make his own profile. "

Helping a friend out as he dont want a profile up just helping a friend

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"If it's so hard for you to get a meet, why are you advertising for your male friend to get a meet too? I'm fairly sure you can't do that. If he wants a meet, tell him to make his own profile.

Helping a friend out as he dont want a profile up just helping a friend "

some folks will read it as you and not your 'mate' who is looking to meet a man, which is cool with some and others not so..

it just looks a bit suss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's so hard for you to get a meet, why are you advertising for your male friend to get a meet too? I'm fairly sure you can't do that. If he wants a meet, tell him to make his own profile.

Helping a friend out as he dont want a profile up just helping a friend "

Well it'll put a lot of women off. And i can't see it being allowed by the site rules either. Plus, give your profile text a read though and spell check it. It doesn't make a difference to most women but a correctly written profile will get you better results.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In answer to the OP's question- Yes.

This may not be ultimately necessary, or wanted, but I feel compelled to address you on this as a whole.

The first thing I noticed from this thread is that you said you were impatient. That's an absolute no-no for anyone, especially a single male. There are enough single males for someone to surf for a day and not repeat. So you may need to manage your expectations when it comes to Fab.

I had a read of your profile and what it says (blunt as opposed to honest) coupled with your status (already referenced) may not endear you to those you seek.

Getting involved in the forums is a way to show your personality. For better or worse. Lol

Perhaps you can take a look at the (substance of the) profiles of those single men who do get meets and then tailor it to suit you. I don't offer any more profile advice because if I do, or anyone else does, and you adopt it, it ceases to be your profile.

If and when you private message, are you respectful? Are you (too) direct? Are you actually interested in the person/people you message past just a lay? People see this.

And lastly, no matter how good a profile is, or yours can be, there is an element of luck. Right place, right time? Your words resonate with someone? You come across as a fun, attractive personality at that moment in time?

Take this and other more concise comments on board if you wish. Whatever course of action you take, all the best.

Thank you "

You're welcome. Again, all the best and don't worry about your friend. Focus on you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In answer to the OP's question- Yes.

This may not be ultimately necessary, or wanted, but I feel compelled to address you on this as a whole.

The first thing I noticed from this thread is that you said you were impatient. That's an absolute no-no for anyone, especially a single male. There are enough single males for someone to surf for a day and not repeat. So you may need to manage your expectations when it comes to Fab.

I had a read of your profile and what it says (blunt as opposed to honest) coupled with your status (already referenced) may not endear you to those you seek.

Getting involved in the forums is a way to show your personality. For better or worse. Lol

Perhaps you can take a look at the (substance of the) profiles of those single men who do get meets and then tailor it to suit you. I don't offer any more profile advice because if I do, or anyone else does, and you adopt it, it ceases to be your profile.

If and when you private message, are you respectful? Are you (too) direct? Are you actually interested in the person/people you message past just a lay? People see this.

And lastly, no matter how good a profile is, or yours can be, there is an element of luck. Right place, right time? Your words resonate with someone? You come across as a fun, attractive personality at that moment in time?

Take this and other more concise comments on board if you wish. Whatever course of action you take, all the best.

Thank you

You're welcome. Again, all the best and don't worry about your friend. Focus on you "

One more favour if you can bud could you check out my new profile i may have spelling mistakes as at work when wrote up thanks

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's so hard for you to get a meet, why are you advertising for your male friend to get a meet too? I'm fairly sure you can't do that. If he wants a meet, tell him to make his own profile.

Helping a friend out as he dont want a profile up just helping a friend

some folks will read it as you and not your 'mate' who is looking to meet a man, which is cool with some and others not so..

it just looks a bit suss

"

A bit? Try very!

A few years ago, I used to have a mate who was into wearing women's clothes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In answer to the OP's question- Yes.

This may not be ultimately necessary, or wanted, but I feel compelled to address you on this as a whole.

The first thing I noticed from this thread is that you said you were impatient. That's an absolute no-no for anyone, especially a single male. There are enough single males for someone to surf for a day and not repeat. So you may need to manage your expectations when it comes to Fab.

I had a read of your profile and what it says (blunt as opposed to honest) coupled with your status (already referenced) may not endear you to those you seek.

Getting involved in the forums is a way to show your personality. For better or worse. Lol

Perhaps you can take a look at the (substance of the) profiles of those single men who do get meets and then tailor it to suit you. I don't offer any more profile advice because if I do, or anyone else does, and you adopt it, it ceases to be your profile.

If and when you private message, are you respectful? Are you (too) direct? Are you actually interested in the person/people you message past just a lay? People see this.

And lastly, no matter how good a profile is, or yours can be, there is an element of luck. Right place, right time? Your words resonate with someone? You come across as a fun, attractive personality at that moment in time?

Take this and other more concise comments on board if you wish. Whatever course of action you take, all the best.

Thank you

You're welcome. Again, all the best and don't worry about your friend. Focus on you

One more favour if you can bud could you check out my new profile i may have spelling mistakes as at work when wrote up thanks "

It's an improvement. Check 'evening' and you may not want to disparage your other half, intended or otherwise. She knows, you've spoken and leave it at that

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