FabSwingers.com forum: safewords or phrases

By *uttyjonn OP Man
over a year ago

SEA

if you have one is it always the same or what would yours be - with my pain threshold mine would be

"oh it's starting to chafe"

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

That's not a word it is a sentence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well last night if was 'whatever the fuck you've got clipped to me had just moved... It needs to come off NOW!' Seeing as I don't really say much usually it seemed to work... But only after I heard him giggle at me. Git!

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By *uttyjonn OP Man
over a year ago

SEA

"That's not a word it is a sentence."

or a phrase

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By *issyyourbadWoman
over a year ago

Dorset

Red simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is usually mmffhmmmmfphf,which translates to that fucking hurts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have never needed one with my Fwb.

Only once had to ask him to take a clip off my nipple as he was a bit busy further down and forgot it was still there...

He's a spark so it wasn't your run of the mill peg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO......!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By *uttyjonn OP Man
over a year ago

SEA

"Mine is usually mmffhmmmmfphf,which translates to that fucking hurts! "

I assume they got the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is usually mmffhmmmmfphf,which translates to that fucking hurts!

I assume they got the message

He ignores me anyway but has never gone too far. He goes a little bit further every now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well last night if was 'whatever the fuck you've got clipped to me had just moved... It needs to come off NOW!' Seeing as I don't really say much usually it seemed to work... But only after I heard him giggle at me. Git! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's not a word it is a sentence.

or a phrase

yep, just a phrase he's going through.

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By *uttyjonn OP Man
over a year ago

SEA

"That's not a word it is a sentence.

or a phrase

yep, just a phrase he's going through."

10cc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest if you trust someone that much you wouldn't need one.

They would know, if they didn't listen its a case everybody was kung foo fighting

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liberal Democrat

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By *uttyjonn OP Man
over a year ago

SEA

"To be honest if you trust someone that much you wouldn't need one.

They would know, if they didn't listen its a case everybody was kung foo fighting

Her"

got a song thing going here - want that Carl Douglas? Classic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's not a word it is a sentence.

or a phrase

yep, just a phrase he's going through.

10cc?"

Good. Though that was a silly phrase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest if you trust someone that much you wouldn't need one.

They would know, if they didn't listen its a case everybody was kung foo fighting

Her

got a song thing going here - want that Carl Douglas? Classic "
yes I was singing as I was printing, it ended up there

Her

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By *uttyjonn OP Man
over a year ago

SEA

"To be honest if you trust someone that much you wouldn't need one.

They would know, if they didn't listen its a case everybody was kung foo fighting

Her

got a song thing going here - want that Carl Douglas? Classic yes I was singing as I was printing, it ended up there

Her"

that does need re-releasing - together with 'red light spells danger' which are now my safewords

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

NOOOOO !!!!!! means no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FUUUUUCKINOHJESUSTAKEITOUT

Gimp

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"FUUUUUCKINOHJESUSTAKEITOUT

Gimp

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i usually get FUCKINOHJESUSKEEPITIN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never needed one we know if something isnt right with each other - we chatted about having such a thing for when on meets but for the same reason we would know by a look or by the way we were acting -

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

Cup of tea. Works well in a group.

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

"To be honest if you trust someone that much you wouldn't need one.

They would know, if they didn't listen its a case everybody was kung foo fighting

Her"

hmmmm we have had 1 since the night we went on our 1st date (its ardvark btw)

As well as a safe gesture.

We have been together 13 years and its been used once.

We both like to push and sometimes push hard and i (Mr) like to sometimes go a little further than elle comfortable with.

Its also useful in roleplay situations as NO does not always mean NO when you playing this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's difficult to say a safe word when your tongue is clamped between teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never used a safe word, never will. If I can't trust them to look after me and me to look after them... no play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is "I will pound you harder slut"

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Never used a safe word, never will. If I can't trust them to look after me and me to look after them... no play."

Echo this, if they haven't got the sensory acuity to see what is working or not, they're not safe to play with.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"if you have one is it always the same or what would yours be - with my pain threshold mine would be

"oh it's starting to chafe"

had an fb who's safe word was:

"you're just a pussy"

lol it was an experience lol

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

oh, and she only used it once or twice I believe. Think she got distracted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never used a safe word, never will. If I can't trust them to look after me and me to look after them... no play."

Totally agree. I won't get in a situation where I'd need one, with anyone I don't fully trust.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Rumpelstiltskin ... Providing I havn't got a mouth full ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion, you should always have safe words/signs.

I suppose it's the level of play that you get to, one should always be known.

We use the usual ,amber and Red.

I've never said red yet

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Try : "Anne Widdecombe. Anne Widdecombe. Anne Widdecombe."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never used a safe word, never will. If I can't trust them to look after me and me to look after them... no play.

Echo this, if they haven't got the sensory acuity to see what is working or not, they're not safe to play with. "

I do fully trust my Doms but don't agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A safety word is a back up plan for me. Haven't used it with my dom/fb as he reads me well. And it's dragonfly so takes some getting out.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"if you have one is it always the same or what would yours be - with my pain threshold mine would be

"oh it's starting to chafe"

I don't use words....the gag gets in the way

hand signals work best!

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By *uttyjonn OP Man
over a year ago

SEA

"Never used a safe word, never will. If I can't trust them to look after me and me to look after them... no play.

Echo this, if they haven't got the sensory acuity to see what is working or not, they're not safe to play with.

I do fully trust my Doms but don't agree with this."

I dont either but mainly coz i dont know what acuity means

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

More !

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

"More !"

Lol greedy!

Speaking of which I had to make sure Mr Smoothie was ok whilst being tied up and flogged earlier by checking he knew our safe word. He was moaning excessively, so I had to check so that I was happy to continue. It's all a learning curve

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By *IDNIGHTMADNESSMan
over a year ago

Nr Exeter

Slightly different than a safe word but I met a couple a while back, after about 15 minutes of chatting in there lounge hubby went to put the kettle on, she asked for tea which meant it was a go, if she would of asked for coffee it would have been a no go.. As I found out afterwards lol

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

My status update says it all

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By *uttyjonn OP Man
over a year ago

SEA

"My status update says it all

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By *IDNIGHTMADNESSMan
over a year ago

Nr Exeter

"My status update says it all

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By *orneyashell87Couple
over a year ago

stockotn on tees

Ours is banana lmao xx

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