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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I personal think men are shy but are bi curious too. Women just know sex with both sexes are just amazing

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By *andL-LiverpoolCouple
over a year ago

Huyton


"I personal think men are shy but are bi curious too. Women just know sex with both sexes are just amazing "

A lot of men are bi just don't admit it ! Some say they get to much male only attention, some say it puts women off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and some are just straight ..old schhol straight

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By *erts_darlings1Couple
over a year ago

watford

Everybody is bi!

Just some haven't tried it, some don't want to try it! Some that have didn't like it and won't do it again!

Tried it, loved it here though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everybody is bi!

Just some haven't tried it, some don't want to try it! Some that have didn't like it and won't do it again!

Tried it, loved it here though. "

I can safely say I'm not bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everybody is bi!

Just some haven't tried it, some don't want to try it! Some that have didn't like it and won't do it again!

Tried it, loved it here though. "

speak for yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight, never tried it

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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere

Im always amused/confused by men who's profiles say straight, but they're looking for TS/ TV.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight men get more anxious/upset by the idea of a cock up their chuff - doesn't stop bi-men trying to seduce them. Men will be men...

Im straight, don't want it up my chuff, or anywhere else, but Im confident in my heterosexuality...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everybody is bi!

. "

bullsh*t

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My wife is very straight and I'm a bit bi although used to be very straight. I see straight and bi men and women on here in almost equal numbers but can't be bothered to do a trawl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the idea of anything up my 'chuff' but I still find the odd guy attractive. I think its a number of things. Its more socially acceptable for women to be bi and for some guys the old homophobia is a part, plus I think a lot of guys are far too pushy and ruin it for others (I've experienced this first hand). Throw in the fact that some people find it turn off and I think there's your answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everybody is bi!

Just some haven't tried it, some don't want to try it! Some that have didn't like it and won't do it again!

Tried it, loved it here though. "

Bit of a contradiction? Everyone is bi but some try and don't like it?

I'm one of those. Tried it a few times but it just doesn't do anything for me.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can re-assure the (op). I'm 100% a (straight) male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol,,loads of guys are bi they just don't admit it in case the ladies see

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Straight men get more anxious/upset by the idea of a cock up their chuff - doesn't stop bi-men trying to seduce them. Men will be men...

Im straight, don't want it up my chuff, or anywhere else, but Im confident in my heterosexuality..."

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol,,loads of guys are bi they just don't admit it in case the ladies see"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everybody is bi!

Just some haven't tried it, some don't want to try it! Some that have didn't like it and won't do it again!

Tried it, loved it here though. "

Utter crap not everyone is bi,,ffs

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Everybody is bi!

some don't want to try it! Some that have didn't like it and won't do it again!

"

Your comments contradict each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long as it doesn't scare the horses...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just me."

But how do you know?

Oops gone all philosophical again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone one is Bi??? What an odd generalisation.

I do know if someone decided to wave his cock about, in my other halves direction.. He'd be liable to leave minus it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, what are the percentages please? I've always been curious what they are, and you seem to know.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've dabbled with bi curious and I can safely say now I'm boringly straight. I think the female form is beautiful but I'm not sexually attracted to it.

I guess some people are just straight, some are bi and some are gay.....just one of those things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've dabbled with bi curious and I can safely say now I'm boringly straight. I think the female form is beautiful but I'm not sexually attracted to it.

I guess some people are just straight, some are bi and some are gay.....just one of those things "

Well said

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Everybody is bi!

Just some haven't tried it, some don't want to try it! Some that have didn't like it and won't do it again!

Tried it, loved it here though. "

Twaddle sir.

I wish I was but cannot see a single thing attractive in a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and some are just straight ..old schhol straight"

exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everybody is bi!

Just some haven't tried it, some don't want to try it! Some that have didn't like it and won't do it again!

Tried it, loved it here though.

Twaddle sir.

I wish I was but cannot see a single thing attractive in a man. "

Why do you wish you were?

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Life would be easier and more varied. I have honestly asked myself the question and tried to imagine doing it...all to no avail.

I have gay friends who have told me that I am not even slightly bi.

Never have a chance to fuck, have a pint and watch the Rugby with the same partner. Which is a shame.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im always amused/confused by men who's profiles say straight, but they're looking for TS/ TV."

Very try it's still wanting a penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everybody is bi!

Just some haven't tried it, some don't want to try it! Some that have didn't like it and won't do it again!

Tried it, loved it here though.

I can safely say I'm not bi"

I'm not bi either but just because I prefer vanilla doesn't mean I'm not tempted by chocolate at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life would be easier and more varied. I have honestly asked myself the question and tried to imagine doing it...all to no avail.

I have gay friends who have told me that I am not even slightly bi.

Never have a chance to fuck, have a pint and watch the Rugby with the same partner. Which is a shame. "

Lol. Well I'm afraid I don't watch sport. I love a pint tho. Two out of three

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Everybody is bi!

Just some haven't tried it, some don't want to try it! Some that have didn't like it and won't do it again!

Tried it, loved it here though.

I can safely say I'm not bi

I'm not bi either but just because I prefer vanilla doesn't mean I'm not tempted by chocolate at times. "

Is not that bi curious then?

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

If only..but my mojo is purely fem fuelled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everybody is bi!

Just some haven't tried it, some don't want to try it! Some that have didn't like it and won't do it again!

Tried it, loved it here though.

I can safely say I'm not bi"

me too. No inclination whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately there is still a social stigma attached to be bi. Some people think it somehow deminishes your masculinity! I will predict that in 10 years there will be more men willing to openly acknowledge themselves as being Bi.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I would be Bi, just never found a man I'm attracted to and what's the point looking when there are 100's of gorgeous ladies who instantly bring a little growl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everybody is bi!

Just some haven't tried it, some don't want to try it! Some that have didn't like it and won't do it again!

Tried it, loved it here though.

I can safely say I'm not bi

I'm not bi either but just because I prefer vanilla doesn't mean I'm not tempted by chocolate at times. "

Haha I'm the only temptation to go for anything that's not my usual but that won't happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe us ladies are just more honest - with others and themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately there is still a social stigma attached to be bi. Some people think it somehow deminishes your masculinity! I will predict that in 10 years there will be more men willing to openly acknowledge themselves as being Bi. "

Well if the swinging scene is any indicator of society at large, that sounds like a matter of necessity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hundreds and hundreds of 'straight' men on here with veri's off tv's, ts's and stating how the suck cock like an olympian or fucked the so good... Just more proof in my eyes that men are full of crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[insert psychological Mumbo jumbo here] it's probably a cultural thing. You'll probably find that most guys on here are more ok with classing themselves as bi or bi-curious because it's more socially acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe us ladies are just more honest - with others and themselves"

I think this is very true. Reasons why guys are less willing to be honest have been discussed a multitude of times on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe us ladies are just more honest - with others and themselves

I think this is very true. Reasons why guys are less willing to be honest have been discussed a multitude of times on here. "

we keep agreeing on stuff today

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've found quite a few guys to be rather flexible in this. More so if they don't think anyone else will find out.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"I've found quite a few guys to be rather flexible in this. More so if they don't think anyone else will find out. "

And I love it when they do find maybe they can trust and take a little step way outside what they feel is becoming a fence rather than a comfortable boundary...

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I personal think men are shy but are bi curious too. Women just know sex with both sexes are just amazing "

Some men are shy.

Some men are shy but not the least bit interested in experimenting and are 100% comfortable being straight.

Some men are bi.

Some men are curious.

Some try it and like it - others decide it's not for them.

Some are uncomfortable around bi men. Others don't care so long as boundaries are respected.

Some tell fibs and state straight when bi.

Some state bi/curious as a means of getting to the female in a couple but have no intention of any bi activity.

Some just simply don't know, don't care or haven't decided yet.

All of the above are equally true for women.

The one difference (I suspect!) is that there are far less bi/curious guys in couples doing it to please their other half or using a status to hopefully get more meets/interest.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think most woman are bi in general but a lot in the swinging scene are, this is why a lot of couples start swinging because they want the woman to be able to experience fun with another woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see the op point though. To be 100% straight is probably as rare/common as 100% gay. Eg Lots of us straight guys enjoy watchinh porn where there is a big cock involved. Does it repulse us? No. Lots of men prefer the company of men on a night out. The majority of us can look at a naked man and say 'attractive' , even though we wouldn't admit it. Are these things pushing you away from being 100% straight? I don't know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personal think men are shy but are bi curious too. Women just know sex with both sexes are just amazing

A lot of men are bi just don't admit it ! Some say they get to much male only attention, some say it puts women off"
throw the clock back ten years and Id never have though I was, not in the slightest. now yes I prefer women but some guys are hot too. Add the number of mails I get from straight guys...no they dont admit it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we first started swinging a couple of years ago there was a lot of pressure for me as a female to be bi. Did it for a bit, didn't like it and now am a bit freaked out if women touch me. Many women try the bi stuff because their partner finds it a turn on, simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe us ladies are just more honest - with others and themselves

I think this is very true. Reasons why guys are less willing to be honest have been discussed a multitude of times on here.

we keep agreeing on stuff today "

Sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe us ladies are just more honest - with others and themselves

I think this is very true. Reasons why guys are less willing to be honest have been discussed a multitude of times on here.

we keep agreeing on stuff today

Sorry! "

its a good thing not a sorrowful one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe us ladies are just more honest - with others and themselves

I think this is very true. Reasons why guys are less willing to be honest have been discussed a multitude of times on here.

we keep agreeing on stuff today

Sorry!

its a good thing not a sorrowful one "

Can't promise I'll keep it up. The agreeing thing. The other thing works just fine

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By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos

Funny thing that ......I only seem to attract straight guys ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and some are just straight ..old schhol straight"

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everybody is bi!

Just some haven't tried it, some don't want to try it! Some that have didn't like it and won't do it again!

Tried it, loved it here though. "

Tried it and didnt like it would mean they are NOT bi they were curious and then realise they are straight. Some of us are not even curious and know full well we are straight so no not everybody is bi at all!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think most woman are bi in general but a lot in the swinging scene are, this is why a lot of couples start swinging because they want the woman to be able to experience fun with another woman "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think most woman are bi in general but a lot in the swinging scene are, this is why a lot of couples start swinging because they want the woman to be able to experience fun with another woman

"

''Twas tother way round with me and my wife.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"I can see the op point though. To be 100% straight is probably as rare/common as 100% gay. Eg Lots of us straight guys enjoy watchinh porn where there is a big cock involved. Does it repulse us? No. Lots of men prefer the company of men on a night out. The majority of us can look at a naked man and say 'attractive' , even though we wouldn't admit it. Are these things pushing you away from being 100% straight? I don't know!

"

Another crock.

I do not find men in any wsy attractive. Love them as friends but not even remotely sexual.

I am not hung up or shy....just straight.

A little more open mindedness would allow you not to project your own narrow perception of sexuality onto every other man in the world.

Just saying...

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By *rman82Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Because people are liars!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see the op point though. To be 100% straight is probably as rare/common as 100% gay. Eg Lots of us straight guys enjoy watchinh porn where there is a big cock involved. Does it repulse us? No. Lots of men prefer the company of men on a night out. The majority of us can look at a naked man and say 'attractive' , even though we wouldn't admit it. Are these things pushing you away from being 100% straight? I don't know!

Another crock.

I do not find men in any wsy attractive. Love them as friends but not even remotely sexual.

I am not hung up or shy....just straight.

A little more open mindedness would allow you not to project your own narrow perception of sexuality onto every other man in the world.

Just saying... "

Not sure what's wrong with me today cos I keep finding myself agreeing with people.

A straight guy can look at a handsome man and recognise him as such, same for a woman looking at a beautiful lady.

The recognition and even appreciation of another persons attractiveness doesn't mean they themselves find that person attractive.

We all recognise downright ugly so it makes sense we can acnowledge beauty.

Outpouring of bollocks complete. Sits down. Pours my first of three beers for today. Declares 'I have no problem'

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale


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Never have a chance to fuck, have a pint and watch the Rugby with the same partner. Which is a shame. "

I have all that with my female partner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everybody is bi! "

What a silly statement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If only..but my mojo is purely fem fuelled "

Bollocks, anyone in a kimono and your all over them lol,

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"If only..but my mojo is purely fem fuelled

Bollocks, anyone in a kimono and your all over them lol, "

Til they dump me

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of husbands want to watch 2 women play together, women will go the extra mile to please their men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can say I'm not bi I don't find a single thing attractive about a man, men are for drinking with and having a laugh, not for anything sexual between us,

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Everybody is bi!

.

bullsh*t"

couldn't put it any better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can say I'm not bi I don't find a single thing attractive about a man, men are for drinking with and having a laugh, not for anything sexual between us,

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Slightly easier for a lady to 'fake it til they make it' as bi sexual as no hard on needed. I have licked lots of things I didn't like before.

But getting a hard on with a guy is impossible if the other guy is straight. That's why 'orally bi' is a crock as well. You are bi...just don't want it up the Gary.

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personal think men are shy but are bi curious too. Women just know sex with both sexes are just amazing "

Its an opinion but its about as accurate as the loch ness monster actually existing.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Slightly easier for a lady to 'fake it til they make it' as bi sexual as no hard on needed. I have licked lots of things I didn't like before.

But getting a hard on with a guy is impossible if the other guy is straight. That's why 'orally bi' is a crock as well. You are bi...just don't want it up the Gary.

Just saying "

I disagree with the 'everyone is bi' statement - but I disagree with the above too!

There are plenty if straight MFM's going on, group play, DP, DV, bukakke, gang bangs etc - all of which can involve 100% straight men who manage to get a hard on!

As for orally bi being a crock? Not really! It's just a question of boundaries, tastes and preferences.

The difference is a bi/curious guy won't have problems getting a hard on in the company of a straight guy when it's 100% straight play.

The straight guy however.......

A

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"

As for orally bi being a crock? Not really! It's just a question of boundaries, tastes and preferences.

The difference is a bi/curious guy won't have problems getting a hard on in the company of a straight guy when it's 100% straight play.

The straight guy however.......

A"

So when a guy says he is orally bi he is admitting to being turned on by giving or receiving a BJ from a guy. He finds the situation exciting enough to keep a hard on or raise one from the other guy.

By definition he is turned on and finds it sexually exciting.

A mouth is like any mouth? Well not really...in the same way as ass is not like any ass. If they were then they would be anally bi if only as a top.

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

As for orally bi being a crock? Not really! It's just a question of boundaries, tastes and preferences.

The difference is a bi/curious guy won't have problems getting a hard on in the company of a straight guy when it's 100% straight play.

The straight guy however.......

A

So when a guy says he is orally bi he is admitting to being turned on by giving or receiving a BJ from a guy. He finds the situation exciting enough to keep a hard on or raise one from the other guy.

By definition he is turned on and finds it sexually exciting.

A mouth is like any mouth? Well not really...in the same way as ass is not like any ass. If they were then they would be anally bi if only as a top.

Just saying "

I agree, all this orally bi or bi playful is rubbish, if your a man and you suck cock your bi deal with, whether it's situational or not, same with women if you like to kiss v jay Jay your bi,

As for mfm yes there are many going on, but just because I'm OK around other men with an hard on doesn't mean I'm bi, if a was in a mfm and the man tried it on I would lose my hard on pretty bloody quickly

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


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As for orally bi being a crock? Not really! It's just a question of boundaries, tastes and preferences.

The difference is a bi/curious guy won't have problems getting a hard on in the company of a straight guy when it's 100% straight play.

The straight guy however.......

A

So when a guy says he is orally bi he is admitting to being turned on by giving or receiving a BJ from a guy. He finds the situation exciting enough to keep a hard on or raise one from the other guy.

By definition he is turned on and finds it sexually exciting.

A mouth is like any mouth? Well not really...in the same way as ass is not like any ass. If they were then they would be anally bi if only as a top.

Just saying "

Your first bit? Yep - all true.

The second bit? Nope. I agree. A mouth or arse isn't the same as any. Otherwise some might say all the straight guys who like anal are secretly bi because a guy has an arsehole too. Which of course they're not.

Notice you didn't comment on the 'keeping a hard on' statement though.

Just sayin!

A

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"If only..but my mojo is purely fem fuelled

Bollocks, anyone in a kimono and your all over them lol, "

I heard about the kimono thing, he tried to make light of it and brush it away but his pupils dilated, his faced flushed and I think I saw some 'stirrings'...

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I have no doubt a straight man can keep a hard on in male company. Whilst I have never done it myself I hope to be able to do just that although I do worry.

But once a cock enters a man's mouth and the owner of said cock is aware and stays hard...he is having bi sexual sex.

The guy sucking doesn't have to be bi if he is coerced or for any other reason. But if he enjoys it then he is also on board the bi train.

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no doubt a straight man can keep a hard on in male company. Whilst I have never done it myself I hope to be able to do just that although I do worry.

But once a cock enters a man's mouth and the owner of said cock is aware and stays hard...he is having bi sexual sex.

The guy sucking doesn't have to be bi if he is coerced or for any other reason. But if he enjoys it then he is also on board the bi train.

Just saying "

Don't worry. As you know us guys have an uncanny knack of only seeing what we want to see when we're horny.

We don't see the stretch marks women worry about. We just focus on the bits that really turn is on.

If you're doing an mmf you'll find yourself looking at the lucky lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personal think men are shy but are bi curious too. Women just know sex with both sexes are just amazing

Some men are shy.

Some men are shy but not the least bit interested in experimenting and are 100% comfortable being straight.

Some men are bi.

Some men are curious.

Some try it and like it - others decide it's not for them.

Some are uncomfortable around bi men. Others don't care so long as boundaries are respected.

Some tell fibs and state straight when bi.

Some state bi/curious as a means of getting to the female in a couple but have no intention of any bi activity.

Some just simply don't know, don't care or haven't decided yet.

All of the above are equally true for women.

The one difference (I suspect!) is that there are far less bi/curious guys in couples doing it to please their other half or using a status to hopefully get more meets/interest.

A"

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Orally bi = in denial (in my opinion)

#JustSaying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In denial of what?

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"and some are just straight ..old schhol straight"

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


" Orally bi = in denial (in my opinion)

#JustSaying "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say most bi women on here are just into soft play. It's not the same as two men giving each other a hard shafting is it. Even the straight bi men here just want oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say most bi women on here are just into soft play. It's not the same as two men giving each other a hard shafting is it. Even the straight bi men here just want oral"

Grins at "straight bi men"

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


" Orally bi = in denial (in my opinion)

#JustSaying "

What am I denying?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say most bi women on here are just into soft play. It's not the same as two men giving each other a hard shafting is it. Even the straight bi men here just want oral

Grins at "straight bi men" "

You know the ones I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say most bi women on here are just into soft play. It's not the same as two men giving each other a hard shafting is it. Even the straight bi men here just want oral

Grins at "straight bi men"

You know the ones I mean "

Lol. I sure do.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"In denial of what? "

being bisexual

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


" Orally bi = in denial (in my opinion)

#JustSaying

What am I denying?

A"

that your really bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Orally bi = in denial (in my opinion)

#JustSaying

What am I denying?

A

that your really bisexual "

Now I'm confused.

Orally bisexual. Is bisexual but not interested in botty fun. But bisexual all the same. Clue's in the name.

So what are they denying? Puzzled.com

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


" Orally bi = in denial (in my opinion)

#JustSaying

What am I denying?

A

that your really bisexual

Now I'm confused.

Orally bisexual. Is bisexual but not interested in botty fun. But bisexual all the same. Clue's in the name.

So what are they denying? Puzzled.com "

there is no such thing as orally bi that's just made up by people in denial that they bisexual (in my opinion)

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


" Orally bi = in denial (in my opinion)

#JustSaying

What am I denying?

A

that your really bisexual "

I occasionally kick a football.

Doesn't make me a footballer!

I once dressed up for a Rocky Horror party in fishnets and a basque.

Doesn't make me a TV!

Things that people do a handful of times in their lives don't define them.

But there's no point in arguing over something that people can't categorically define but are more than happy to label.

So I'm out.

(Not that kind of 'out'! )

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying you're orally bi helps people to know what you will and won't do. Saves time I think

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Saying you're orally bi helps people to know what you will and won't do. Saves time I think "

Yep. And of course that's 'will or won't do with the right people, at a time when you feel in the mood, in line with others preferences and boundaries'.

*A bit like every other sexual activity, whether straight, bi or 'inbetween'!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saying you're orally bi helps people to know what you will and won't do. Saves time I think

Yep. And of course that's 'will or won't do with the right people, at a time when you feel in the mood, in line with others preferences and boundaries'.

*A bit like every other sexual activity, whether straight, bi or 'inbetween'!

A"

Of course but stating it on your profile will stop men looking for fully bi men contacting you won't it. Ok it won't but that's the idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saying you're orally bi helps people to know what you will and won't do. Saves time I think "

Exactly.

I agree that orally bi is a made up thing but they still say bi.

There is plenty of debate on the differences between bi, orally bi, bi curious. Everyone seems to see each in their own light but orally bi kinda just says what it is. Doesn't it?

Just an observation.

Retires to a safe distance with the second beer of the day. One more and the government says I have a problem.

(Who are they kidding? Just look at me! Problems all the way )

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


" Orally bi = in denial (in my opinion)

#JustSaying

What am I denying?

A

that your really bisexual

I occasionally kick a football.

Doesn't make me a footballer!

I once dressed up for a Rocky Horror party in fishnets and a basque.

Doesn't make me a TV!

Things that people do a handful of times in their lives don't define them.

But there's no point in arguing over something that people can't categorically define but are more than happy to label.

So I'm out.

(Not that kind of 'out'! )

A"

Lmao those comparisons did make me laugh if your a man and regularly suck cock or get your cock sucked by another man your bisexual in my eyes just because you don't do it everyday doesn't change the fact of what it is but hey believe whatever you like I have my opinion and you have yours happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my confusion arises because I didn't see a post where anyone said they weren't bi if they were orally bi.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Slightly easier for a lady to 'fake it til they make it' as bi sexual as no hard on needed. I have licked lots of things I didn't like before.

But getting a hard on with a guy is impossible if the other guy is straight. That's why 'orally bi' is a crock as well. You are bi...just don't want it up the Gary.

Just saying

I disagree with the 'everyone is bi' statement - but I disagree with the above too!

There are plenty if straight MFM's going on, group play, DP, DV, bukakke, gang bangs etc - all of which can involve 100% straight men who manage to get a hard on!

As for orally bi being a crock? Not really! It's just a question of boundaries, tastes and preferences.

The difference is a bi/curious guy won't have problems getting a hard on in the company of a straight guy when it's 100% straight play.

The straight guy however.......

A"

I thought he meant straight men probably couldn't get a hard on to play sexually with another man rather than a man can't get a hard on in front of another man in a MFM ( or more )situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most men would probably suck a d be sucked... Just scared of the ass thing so say they're straight! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most men would probably suck a d be sucked... Just scared of the ass thing so say they're straight! Lol"

Cracking open that third beer and making myself comfy for the fireworks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most men would probably suck a d be sucked... Just scared of the ass thing so say they're straight! Lol"

I wouldn't suck a cock or let a man suck my cock,

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"I think most men would probably suck a d be sucked... Just scared of the ass thing so say they're straight! Lol"

speak for yourself mate! I for one wouldn't suck or be sucked by another man and have no idea how come to such a ridiculous conclusion either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had straight mmf, no one had trouble getting or staying hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most men would probably suck a d be sucked... Just scared of the ass thing so say they're straight! Lol

I wouldn't suck a cock or let a man suck my cock, "

Too many teasing heterophobes here - or men who won't take no for an answer...

I just love women - is that a crime? If so, dip me in honey and throw me into women's jail...

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

I`ve had hundreds of guys messageme here saying;

`I`m bi but no one else knows`

or

`I`m str8 but always wanted to try sucking cock/forced bi`

and other ....

Theres plenty more out there than admit to it...

I just wish I could get em all over mine of a Thursday night when shooting-Now THAT would make one awesum party for Mistress and her girls..

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By *s2inwales69Couple
over a year ago

Abertillery

It's because women are soft and lovely an mostly clean and smell nice. Are unhurried and caring about others feelings. Most men are just hairy and gross.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"It's because women are soft and lovely an mostly clean and smell nice. Are unhurried and caring about others feelings. Most men are just hairy and gross."

Such utter nonsense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not all its cracked up to be , being Bi you know..... you get the "knock back" from blokes as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't want a cock up my arseole ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm orally bi but prefer to give than receive, draw your own conclusions. I've done many a female anally but never a male, again draw your own conclusions.

I have no desire to be penetrated anally by a male, or a female !

I have kissed literally hundreds of females passionately, males actually zero.

I have held hands with again hundreds of females, with males zero.

I often walk down the street eyeing up females but have never honestly done this with males.

I like to play with a bit of cock, in the right company. If that makes you Bi, then I think we all are lol.

Labels are a fucking waste of time just enjoy what you do and fuck ( not literally ) all the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not all its cracked up to be , being Bi you know..... you get the "knock back" from blokes as well "

Not in clubs on bi night

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"I'm orally bi but prefer to give than receive, draw your own conclusions. I've done many a female anally but never a male, again draw your own conclusions.

I have no desire to be penetrated anally by a male, or a female !

I have kissed literally hundreds of females passionately, males actually zero.

I have held hands with again hundreds of females, with males zero.

I often walk down the street eyeing up females but have never honestly done this with males.

I like to play with a bit of cock, in the right company. If that makes you Bi, then I think we all are lol.

Labels are a fucking waste of time just enjoy what you do and fuck ( not literally ) all the rest."

your bisexual and have preferences get over it there is no such thing as orally bi don't try and say everyone is bi just to make yourself feel better

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By *s2inwales69Couple
over a year ago

Abertillery


"It's because women are soft and lovely an mostly clean and smell nice. Are unhurried and caring about others feelings. Most men are just hairy and gross.

Such utter nonsense "
In your opinion.

Another example of why the ratio is as is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahahaha these forums are potentially hilarious, best laugh of the weekend so far cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most men would probably suck a d be sucked... Just scared of the ass thing so say they're straight! Lol"

Id rather suck frozen vomit stuffed with razor blades than a cock and I firmly believe most GENUINELY straight men of which the vast majority of men are would agree. Same goes for being sucked. There is no way I would allow a guy to get his gob anywere near my crotch. I do however suspect a few more men might take the "a mouths a mouth" approach when it comes to being sucked.

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By *avebi48Man
over a year ago

Lordswood


"lol,,loads of guys are bi they just don't admit it in case the ladies see"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most men would probably suck a d be sucked... Just scared of the ass thing so say they're straight! Lol

Id rather suck frozen vomit stuffed with razor blades than a cock and I firmly believe most GENUINELY straight men of which the vast majority of men are would agree. Same goes for being sucked. There is no way I would allow a guy to get his gob anywere near my crotch. I do however suspect a few more men might take the "a mouths a mouth" approach when it comes to being sucked."

Although straight I think I would plump fir the cock option in preference to frozen vomit garnished with razors!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's often claimed on here that the majority of guys on fab are actually bi and just claim on their profile to be straight.

There are currently over 21000 people on fab right now. Many of them are men

I, as a receptive bi guy, get lots of messages from guys who say they are curious even though their profile says they are straight.

I get a lot of messages but it doesn't run into thousands.

I'd say the majority of guys probably are straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's because women are soft and lovely an mostly clean and smell nice. Are unhurried and caring about others feelings. Most men are just hairy and gross."

you must be meeting the wrong ones -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's because women are soft and lovely an mostly clean and smell nice. Are unhurried and caring about others feelings. Most men are just hairy and gross.

you must be meeting the wrong ones - "

Yeah. I have unbelievably soft skin. I'm hair free. As Rachael I smell faintly of coco Chanel. I never smell rough.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Well, you go away for the night and look what happens.

It is still the case that it easier for a girl to pretend than a guy. That is the crux of the argument. The fact they are soft and smell good and know how they like their pussy treated also helps. They can snog a girl or lick her whilst getting fucked hard from behind and that will be the overriding sensation.

Guys are probably no more or less bi as a proportion of populace but the requirement of an erection to suck means they have to either want to suck cock or have theirs sucked.

Could I suck a cock? Yes.

Could I do it well? Yes

Would I do it to please a female partner and fulfill her fantasy? Not while I have a (Virgin) hole in my ass.

Would I do it for half a million quid? Yep

Would I do it if big Del was my cell mate and his gang will kill me if I don't? Yes, but only after they had beaten me to a pulp and we're prepared to sleep with their eyes open.

When I answer yes, I am talking about the act, but I would never enjoy it sexually. It is not me. I am repulsed by the idea of it.

That repulsion would mean I couldn't get a hard on in that situation either. Not judging those who can either. They have a massive ocean to swim in here on fab.

But I am in the shallow end of a small pond and that is the way I am. Will never find the idea of sucking disk remotely interesting.

But a half a million quid...I'd enjoy spending it.

Just saying

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