FabSwingers.com forum: Why no male pics on couples profiles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you are swinging with a lady partner or wife........The wife needs to see the man just as much as the man needs to see the lady and then because of no male pics have to ask for a photo......then get sent a distant photo taken in 1973....or a grainy pic.

Wtf is that about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly because I take the pics (and she's hotter lol!). We do have up to date face pics etc but set as private

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Most i've seen have a token pic or two of the male half of the couple, but for the most part it is pics of the lady. I guess the reason is it is the pics of the women that attract most attention to the profile.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

there are 7 of A on ours. I do like to see what the male half looks like and in our experience when a guy is reluctant to show his photo he is also reluctant to take part in swinging. I know this won't always be the case but it has proved true every time we have met couples where the guy won't show himself on their photo gallery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a few but how many different pics of a man can you take. Women have it easy when it comes to pics. They have loads of different outfits and poses. The ones we have show what needs to be seen and we also have a good clear face pic of both of us together.

If they haven't got any of both people we normally just skip the profile when browsing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the woman gets the meet of the couple, remember, pussie sells lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have both of us on ours, there are alot that haven't. its coz the women are hotter tho i think i could be wrong lol

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Mrblue you would have thought that they understand the reasons why its important to have pics of both on.

Maybe thats why many single fems I have met in the past ignore messages or delete them and find the attraction to the woman and often not the man. Yes I know its their profile but nothing worse than couples complaining about not meeting single bi fems but they hinder their own chances as a couple because of their profile.

Selling themselves is important. We all know the shop window technique. If the window only sells part of the whole package then don't be surprised when it doesn't work. In a club the only couples that will have fun are the ones that have both the male and the female there for the lady to get to know

Just my point of view but taken from years on the scene.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We have both of us on ours, there are alot that haven't. its coz the women are hotter tho i think i could be wrong lol"

I'm straight, the woman doesn't look hotter to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mrblue you would have thought that they understand the reasons why its important to have pics of both on.

Just my point of view but taken from years on the scene. "

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

We have pics of Mr s but they are on as private as he only plays occasionally. . And he is way shyer than me and usually taking the pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have both of us on ours, there are alot that haven't. its coz the women are hotter tho i think i could be wrong lol

I'm straight, the woman doesn't look hotter to me."

that would be first in our case lol

him

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We have both of us on ours, there are alot that haven't. its coz the women are hotter tho i think i could be wrong lol

I'm straight, the woman doesn't look hotter to me."

Oh Lord I just re read that I don't mean the lady in your profile doesn't look hot...

Of course I meant that it isn't the female in any profile that will encourage me to take things further...I'll put the spade down now

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We have both of us on ours, there are alot that haven't. its coz the women are hotter tho i think i could be wrong lol

I'm straight, the woman doesn't look hotter to me.

that would be first in our case lol

him "

well you're both very nice but the main attraction for me will always be the man in the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have both of us on ours, there are alot that haven't. its coz the women are hotter tho i think i could be wrong lol

I'm straight, the woman doesn't look hotter to me.

Oh Lord I just re read that I don't mean the lady in your profile doesn't look hot...

Of course I meant that it isn't the female in any profile that will encourage me to take things further...I'll put the spade down now"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never play on meets so no need to see me. There is a face pic of us both in private pics but apart from that it shouldnt matter what I look like nobody gets to play with me. Stu.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because the woman gets the meet of the couple, remember, pussie sells lol

No need for me to say what I was going to

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never make excuses on this issue, We don't have any of the male half on our public pics and we are ever likely to.

We enjoy our swinging lifestyle and what works for us. We don't need to sell ourselves to anyone.

I like posing and taking pictures of myself, he doesn't, so its simply really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

** should read never **

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I never make excuses on this issue, We don't have any of the male half on our public pics and we are ever likely to.

We enjoy our swinging lifestyle and what works for us. We don't need to sell ourselves to anyone.

I like posing and taking pictures of myself, he doesn't, so its simply really.

And that's exactly how everyone should run their profile....in a way that suits them, no explanation, no justification

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"I never make excuses on this issue, We don't have any of the male half on our public pics and we are ever likely to.

We enjoy our swinging lifestyle and what works for us. We don't need to sell ourselves to anyone.

I like posing and taking pictures of myself, he doesn't, so its simply really.

We are the same, I had to fight the case with MrB to get pics including him on ours x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a few, and in 2 years we've never met another couple!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

because we dont have our profile to suit others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you are swinging with a lady partner or wife........The wife needs to see the man just as much as the man needs to see the lady and then because of no male pics have to ask for a photo......then get sent a distant photo taken in 1973....or a grainy pic.

Wtf is that about?"

Its been asked a hundred times and there is no definitive answer. Maybe the reality is the woman is better looking than the guy? But who knows a lot of couples still do it.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It can be irritating. Each to their own with their own profile, though.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"I never make excuses on this issue, We don't have any of the male half on our public pics and we are ever likely to.

We enjoy our swinging lifestyle and what works for us. We don't need to sell ourselves to anyone.

I like posing and taking pictures of myself, he doesn't, so its simply really.

And that's exactly how everyone should run their profile....in a way that suits them, no explanation, no justification

what a lovely attitude

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

We have some of me on ours, but most are of angel, mainly because i am the one that graps the camera when i see something i want captured.......and sadly i'm just not photogenic, being fat n ugly n all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For couples meeting couples....

pics of only the female ..

means only one thing..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because nobody ever fabbed my pics.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

Although we're a couple is really only me that plays Mr s plays very rarely and we have pics in private if anyone wants to see them. But we don't really play with other couples . mostly i play alone with his permission. It's very difficult to find a couple where everyone is attracted to each other. I know a few who have separate profiles as they have very different taste. But as a lovely couple said all should run their profile in the way that suits them and its no one else's business .

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By *parkybunnyCouple
over a year ago

Zurich. NOT London.

Pics are mainly of me, but there are a couple of Mr. From a female perspective, if there are no pics of the guy on the profile, I assume he looks like Shrek and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's not many of me on our profile but that's because I'm not very photogenic lol, plus at the minute our prefered meet is mfm so it doesn't really matter what I look like

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We have loads of him in the friends pics but although he is gorgeous he prefers me on the public pics.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I uploaded a pick of me once and it got fabbed twice

,so know I just take pix of Ali,behind the comfort of my paper bag

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"Because I uploaded a pick of me once and it got fabbed twice

,so know I just take pix of Ali,behind the comfort of my paper bag

Noooooooo!!!! Don't feel like that, I bet you are lovely

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

As I said I think everyone should run their profile exactly as they want there's too much worrying about what other people want. We all have our opinions on this and I like to see clear body pictures of a guy on a profile to me it shows he's involved, interested and realises that any woman in a couple should have the opportunity to see him the same as her partner has the chance to see his partner. However if for any reason a couple don't want to show him that I'd entirely their prerogative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are guilty of that and in the past have used lots of excuses.

I'm shy and not the best looking, I take all the picture and I'm no good and selfies.

However not being the best looking doesn't stop me getting naked on the dance floor at

Xtasia, I could as Mo to take a few pictures and most of the pictures of is together are selfies.

Truth be told we have no valid excuse we have just been too lazy to do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are guilty of that and in the past have used lots of excuses.

I'm shy and not the best looking, I take all the picture and I'm no good and selfies.

However not being the best looking doesn't stop me getting naked on the dance floor at

Xtasia, I could as Mo to take a few pictures and most of the pictures of is together are selfies.

Truth be told we have no valid excuse we have just been too lazy to do it!

*ask Mo

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By *lttattoocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Because we mainly meet single guys, there's 1 or 2 of me but as they are mainly interested in her don't see the point of having loads of my too.

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Added a couple of face pics so if anyone is interested just message us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both have pics on our profile

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