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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, after nearly three years on my own with three children I finally bag myself a job. So happy to be able to come off income support at last, and just to be getting back into the workforce. As my first day gets ever closer I am finding myself suddenly doubting my ability to do the job, and generally having a bit of a wobble in terms of my confidence levels. I expect lots of people feel like this after a spell of time not in employment but any advice appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves are normal but your best bet is be yourself and take a pen and notepad, write everything down while your learning as you will be so nervous it probably won't sink in at first x

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Remember, they picked you... likely out of a lot of candidates. Smile even when you feel nervous!

I've returned to work this year after 14 years out of work, and its been amazing!

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Nerves are normal! You will be fine once in there, big smile, tell yourself you are awesome and go enjoy being independent once more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice, especially about taking a pen and paper. Its a job thats completely new to me, so its going to be a steep learning curve. Cant wait to get my first day out of the way and then just enjoy my job!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your application and inter_iew must have been good. Many people would have went for the same job and they chose you. Dont be scarred to ask questions. Try and relax and enjoy it. Congratulations x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are there because they wanted you there. Not the 50 or 100 other people who applied.

Be proud. Be excited. xx

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"Well, after nearly three years on my own with three children I finally bag myself a job. So happy to be able to come off income support at last, and just to be getting back into the workforce. As my first day gets ever closer I am finding myself suddenly doubting my ability to do the job, and generally having a bit of a wobble in terms of my confidence levels. I expect lots of people feel like this after a spell of time not in employment but any advice appreciated "

Go and enjoy and feel good about yourself and don't worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, after nearly three years on my own with three children I finally bag myself a job. So happy to be able to come off income support at last, and just to be getting back into the workforce. As my first day gets ever closer I am finding myself suddenly doubting my ability to do the job, and generally having a bit of a wobble in terms of my confidence levels. I expect lots of people feel like this after a spell of time not in employment but any advice appreciated "

Bloody well done, it does take a lot of courage to get back into the job market.Don't worry about nerves you'll be perfect and after a day or two wonder what you were worrying about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have confidence in yourself, the employers saw something they liked and gave you the job. many congratulations on getting thre job abd i hope you enjoy working and well done for coming off benefits and remember to be proud of your achievements

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By *he TrunkMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Best of luck

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Get ready for tiredness to hit. On my return to work after time at home I was amazed how tired I was.

So, get some home cooked meal ready in thr freezer for you. Get a slow cooker and cook a casserole over the day for tea that evening.

Don't give yourself a hsrd time when tired every evening.

Be proud of yourself. Well done

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

good luck, hope the day went well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A long time ago I was off sick for four months and I felt really nervous going back into the office. Hopefully you'll have a proper induction and get introduced to everyone. They picked you, so they must have been impressed with you. Plus some nerves are good as they'll give you adrenalin to get through the first few days of taking in lots of new knowledge. Enjoy , it'll be fun!

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London


"Well, after nearly three years on my own with three children I finally bag myself a job. So happy to be able to come off income support at last, and just to be getting back into the workforce. As my first day gets ever closer I am finding myself suddenly doubting my ability to do the job, and generally having a bit of a wobble in terms of my confidence levels. I expect lots of people feel like this after a spell of time not in employment but any advice appreciated "

Hey what great news. Congratulations.

After being unemployed it normal to have nerves. However, you know you can do the job, YOU now have to believe in yourself more. I have sent you a cyber hug and a kick up the arse for next time doubting your abilities!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your words of encouragement and support. First day tomorrow

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Let us know how it goes. We are all crossing everything for us xx

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Aww you will soon get into the right Zone again! Well Done and enjoy... Lovely being a Mum, but also to be out in the World again is a confidence boost in itself! Time to be YOU again! Good Luck...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right, taking a deep breath, here goes nothing!

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"Right, taking a deep breath, here goes nothing! "

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wondering what I was feeling so nervous about, what a great day!!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Wondering what I was feeling so nervous about, what a great day!! "

that's good to read

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember that during these years when I'm sure you've had some difficult times you have been learning lots of new life skills which will have made you an even greater asset to your new employers. You're not catching up...you're just changing course and I wish you all the luck in the world.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Wondering what I was feeling so nervous about, what a great day!! "

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London


"Wondering what I was feeling so nervous about, what a great day!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondering what I was feeling so nervous about, what a great day!! "

Brilliant !

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